Do you find WG's to be needy?

[Whorehunter]

Ok had a strange experience considering I'm new here maybe you guys can help me clarify .

So I book with a girl go sit chat start with some oral which is ok then she stops turns to me and asks if she's doing well ? 

I'm like sure great. And then about 5 mins later again. Move on to shagging and then again asks if she's good?? Very bizarre experience constantly needing validation I understand asking if I'm enjoying etc but it was more about he telling her she was good like a major lack of self confidence.

Has anyone else had a similar experience ?

[BillGoldberg]

Only similar incident I can think of was about a decade and a half ago in the halcyon days of VFM superb Thai girls in the East London/Essex border hinterlands.

My regular was off due to transport issues, Mae, young back then, sexy, sultry voice, jet black silky long hair, incredible oral skills, and I was stupidly horny so just took a blind punt with an EE girl as substitute in the flat.

What a mistake

Afterward the girl asked me, "you normally see Mae right ?"

"Yes", I replied

"Why is she good, what does she do, why do so many guys ask to see her ?"

Her English wasn't that great and at the time I found it too hard to explain in a way that she could understand.

"Comparing her to you is like comparing a patient, considerate, watchful, master artist to a rough, clumsy newbie with the hands and finesse of a drunken bricklayer"

I didn't say that, but that's exactly what the difference in service felt like

I grunted something along the lines of, "too difficult to explain" and then left

[PeachyAssFan]

May depend on the experience of the WG. If new, she might lack confidence, if experienced and they think you a newbie, they might think why hasn’t he blown his load yet.

[lewisjones23]

needy of a hefty cash donation - yes

needy in other ways - who knows, i dont listen to them whittering on

[rubric]

Has anyone else had a similar experience ?

Yeah, reasonably often. I don't think this is a WG thing only, most girls suffer from some kind self esteem issue and if they think you may be sympathetic will talk about it.

With civvy girls its usually around weight and looks, WGs its likely to be that or sex.

[Brokenshed]

The experienced whores don't ask for validation.
The young ones? It depends on their looks, the new girl, with Tue girl next door look wants reassurance, the smoking hots ones don't give a fuck.
Nearly. Every one has disputed it, if in the heat of the fuck I've said "you're beautiful" , theyall say no, but try a bit harder.
Apart from the hot ones, that don't try hard enough

[NigelF]

Yeah, reasonably often. I don't think this is a WG thing only, most girls suffer from some kind self esteem issue and if they think you may be sympathetic will talk about it.

With civvy girls its usually around weight and looks, WGs its likely to be that or sex.

+1

They are looking for sympathy/validation but at the same time it's never enough so I do feel sorry for them.

It surprises me that so many escorts would be like that given that they usually get so much smoke blown up their arse but a lot of the time their insecurity is very deep rooted.

On the flip side, I can be fairly quiet during sex or particularly when receiving a blowjob so some girls may feel the need to verbally ask if I'm enjoying it.

[charming_red]

Its strange but they could have had a bad experience, got negative vibes or lack of repeat custom with previous clients and thus are apprehensive about their technique.

[Autopunter]

The thing that's funny about WGs is for all their vast knowledge of the male of the species (the lies, the weird sex kinks, the vagina tunnel vision etc etc) they are still just women at the end of the day. Just as punters are still only guys, for all the variety and depth of our experiences thanks to the sex industry. SPs will have moments when they are stone cold professionals, but there are plenty of posts here on UKP where they freak out about inconsequential stuff, just like punters do sometimes. I mean, we even have fluffies who want affection when they pay for sex lol.

[BlueRock]

WGs are women so like all women they are needy attention seekers. Or do I just have a jaded opinion of women!

[Plan R]

WGs are women so like all women they are needy attention seekers. Or do I just have a jaded opinion of women!

+1 
Woman = Attention junkie

[Acerimmer]

I had one girl who kept texting me after a punt wanting to know when I’d be back as she needed the money, she said she had never had such great sex and wanted to see me more. I started off polite but it got to the point of telling her to fuck off, she even asked if she could borrow money off me Now and pay it back with future punts, cheeky cow. I did feel sorry for her, she was really nice but I have never been so glad of a punting phone and punting  way out of my area. I just binned the sim card in the end. No doubt she managed to bag her self a fluffy.

[Gordon Bennett]

Doesn't it depend on the circumstances? If punter is very quiet and generally staring into space the lady is likely to enquire if she's doing okay and is everything alright.... you could argue it's a good thing to do. Probably would be better to phrase it as "is that nice hun/babe/big boy" though.

[shagmore]

Everyone is needy at time, wives, gfs, wgs, it just dampened on how needy and how often that should be the question

[rubric]

+1

It surprises me that so many escorts would be like that given that they usually get so much smoke blown up their arse but a lot of the time their insecurity is very deep rooted.

Thing is - they know that its smoke, so it doesn't have effect.  Like every marginally pretty woman ever has heard a 100 guys who said they had nice eyes, so they automatically discount that, whereas anything vaguely non-complimentary is taken to heart.

Even very hot girls are not immune to this - yes they often don't try hard in the sack, but that's largely because it hasn't occurred to them (most guys treat them with kid gloves)