How would you feel if it was your Sister, Daughter or Niece?

[Jayj]

So given the number of working girls in the UK must run into thousands it’s a given they must be someone’s daughter, sister or niece have you ever stopped to consider how you would honestly feel if you discovered your daughter was a prostitute undertaking lurid sexual acts with hundreds of complete strangers.

Not a particularly edifying thought I guess it’s the other side of reality can’t say it sits well with me but I guess I just don’t think about it or I wouldn’t do it, if I discovered someone close to me doing this I’d be horrified, that’s incredibly hypocritical but the truth.

Anyone else ever consider “what if it was my daughter”

[Malvolio]

I have none of the above - but if I did I'd reflect that what they choose to do for a living is nothing to do with me.

[Fac51]

How about if you found out your Mum was an escort ?!? 

That would seriously bother a high percentage of us Im sure....

[Moby Dick]

How about if you found out your Mum was an escort ?!? 

That would seriously bother a high percentage of us Im sure....

Yeah seriously fucked up shit if you wanna dig up me mum.

[daviemac]

So given the number of working girls in the UK must run into thousands it’s a given they must be someone’s daughter, sister or niece have you ever stopped to consider how you would honestly feel if you discovered your daughter was a prostitute undertaking lurid sexual acts with hundreds of complete strangers.

Not a particularly edifying thought I guess it’s the other side of reality can’t say it sits well with me but I guess I just don’t think about it or I wouldn’t do it, if I discovered someone close to me doing this I’d be horrified, that’s incredibly hypocritical but the truth.

Anyone else ever consider “what if it was my daughter”

You know what The0neAnd0nly said to you on another thread . . . .  he was wrong.

[sparkus]

And how you think your parents would feel about your exploits?

[teddyking]

I would feel that I failed as a parent 😔😔

Gotta teach em when they’re young about pride and respect etc

[JontyR]

To be honest I'd be concerned if any of them was fucking an unsuitable partner. Whether there was cash involved or not is less of an issue.

I'd be concerned if any of them was lead into any kind of work which put them at risk. Whether this is working in the sex industry is less of an issue.

I'd be concerned if someone was manipulating or exploiting them to undertake activities that were damaging to them or acting in a way that was against their will. If these activities was sex work is less of an issue.

I'd be concerned if they were in any kind of debt or in the grips of an addiction to narcotics that lead them to make life decisions they wouldn't otherwise contemplate. What these decisions are is less of an issue.

If they had found a career which they were happy in, that provided the standard of living for herself and her family and was safe I'd be delighted. I'd also be thankful that they could be honest with me.

[sparkus]

Have to admit it would be mega awkward/life changing if you did turn up for a booking and it was your sister, daughter or niece behind the door...

[WorcWarrior]

Have to admit it would be mega awkward/life changing if you did turn up for a booking and it was your sister, daughter or niece behind the door...

Might be good if you got friends & family discount 

[Stevelondon]

I would feel that I failed as a parent 😔😔

Gotta teach em when they’re young about pride and respect etc

Something a tad wrong with that statement.

Yes I’d tend to agree if your offspring turned out to be a mass murderer, rapist, Sunderland supporter etc.
But are you seriously saying all SP’s don’t know the meaning of respect or have no pride in themselves.

If I had a daughter, which I don’t (at least I don’t think I do, possibly, maybe, it was a rumour)
I would in all seriousness, prefer her not to be a sex either. But I’d try and understand why she was choosing to be one rather than think it was a failing on my part.

Over the years I’ve met some really nice SP’s and others who have worked in the trade and adult industry.
I’ve also met quite a few so called highly respected members of society who in reality have been total and utter scum. 

[The0neAnd0nly]

You know what The0neAnd0nly said to you on another thread . . . .  he was wrong.

Nah I was correct... until this one 

Got no inclination to get involved in this one. Think you've jumped the shark OP (IMHO)

[centry]

Given how so many SP's have no clue how to handle comms, I'd offer to show them how to do it.
Easiest part-time money ever.

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[daviemac]

Given how so many SP's have no clue how to handle comms, I'd offer to show them how to do it.
Easiest part-time money ever.

What? you'd show your daughter how to handle comms if she was an escort and you'd want paying for it.   

[centry]

What? you'd show your daughter how to handle comms if she was an escort and you'd want paying for it.   

Yes, that was the punch-line & gist of my joke.
I thought the GIF would have illustrated that?

[The Owl]

I had a much younger friend who shocked me when she followed my old Twitter account with her webcam account, including a video of her wanking with a dildo. Eventually she moved on to escorting. She wasn't the most street wise woman and I was a bit worried about her safety, abusive relationships formed a lot of her past. I can't remember how but I did somehow manage to give her the link to SAAFE without blowing my cover as a punter. She's more like a daughter in some ways than a mate so it was a bit weird for me, but it was her life.

[WorcWarrior]

The wife has a young friend that cams, after showing me I now long for the day I find her on adultwork!!

[paper7]

Shows the state of the country where women/girls feel they HAVE to do it in order to survive, i.e., their wages are too low or they can't find a job.

Or to put it another way, the fact that foodbanks exist, and are used by people that have a job, does not reflect well on the Government who's job it is to look after their citizens not kill them,

[RogerBoner]

Lockdown will soon be over for us 

[spiralnotebook]

Lockdown will soon be over for us 

HaHaHa 

[daviemac]

Yes, that was the punch-line & gist of my joke.
I thought the GIF would have illustrated that?

The GIF illustrated to me that you would be over the moon to pimp your daughter out, Each to their own but I don't want to pimp anyone out, least of all my daughter.

[Jayj]

Nah I was correct... until this one 

Got no inclination to get involved in this one. Think you've jumped the shark OP (IMHO)

  See if I can come up with a better one for you tomorrow 

[daviemac]

See if I can come up with a better one for you tomorrow 

Be careful starting loads of pointless threads, people will start to think you are a troll.

[catweazle]

Be careful starting loads of pointless threads, people will start to think you are a troll.

I already do,...........

[daviemac]

I already do,...........

You are far from alone. 

[Payyourwaymate]

So given the number of working girls in the UK must run into thousands it’s a given they must be someone’s daughter, sister or niece have you ever stopped to consider how you would honestly feel if you discovered your daughter was a prostitute undertaking lurid sexual acts with hundreds of complete strangers.

Not a particularly edifying thought I guess it’s the other side of reality can’t say it sits well with me but I guess I just don’t think about it or I wouldn’t do it, if I discovered someone close to me doing this I’d be horrified, that’s incredibly hypocritical but the truth.

Anyone else ever consider “what if it was my daughter”

I would be ashamed. The stigma attached is too much. If I was a father and my daughter did it, I would feel I failed somewhere that I could not provide enough that she chose the financial incentive of selling her body for money to random men with all the social shunning that brings and that she could not use her brain to think of a better way to make money instead that pays just as well or more than selling pussy or ask me for help before resorting to that. If it was a niece I would not be that bothered but would have questions as to what motivated her to do it, not a direct blood relative so I cannot have much of a say about it. If it was a sister I would feel the same way as if I was a father. I have no problems seeing WGs though, not my business, I am not related to them so it's not my burden to carry. Is that selfish? Yes. Do I care? No.

You make weird threads by the way. 

[sparkus]

What? you'd show your daughter how to handle comms if she was an escort and you'd want paying for it.   

The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

[hendrix]

I'd worry about the risk, but that would apply if they chose to be a cop or military (in active times particularly) otherwise I couldn't care less how they make a living if they're happy.

[Hobbit]

I'd worry about the risk, but that would apply if they chose to be a cop or military (in active times particularly) otherwise I couldn't care less how they make a living if they're happy.

Happiness is very fleeting in any profession. That's the difference between being a kid and being an adult. Many of us learn as we get older that money isn't wealth and happiness isn't pleasure. If I had a daughter and she became an escort I would expect and hope that the way I would have brought her up would help her to learn what real happiness is and that money is not everything.

[Half Century]

There are lots of jobs in the world that we might not want a family member to do, but we're still glad that someone is doing them.

[myothernameis]

There was one occasion for me, when i thought, thats my niece on AW, but was only an escort who was the double of my niece.   One thing told me, it was my niece, was the escort had a tattoo, which my niece dosnt have any

[norwichfunseeker]

Have to admit it would be mega awkward/life changing if you did turn up for a booking and it was your sister, daughter or niece behind the door...

Sounds normal for Norfolk!

(Just to be clear that's a joke  - That is something I certainly would not partake in!)

[Colston36]

Shows the state of the country where women/girls feel they HAVE to do it in order to survive, i.e., their wages are too low or they can't find a job.

Or to put it another way, the fact that foodbanks exist, and are used by people that have a job, does not reflect well on the Government who's job it is to look after their citizens not kill them,

It may be the boring nature of the job. Back in 1965 I started living with a girl who had been on the game, and when I asked why she started, she just said being a secretary was boring and badly paid. Nothing much has changed.

[HonestJoe]

Would depend if thry offered a friends and family discount or not.

[mills_and_bhuna]

It never fails to amaze me how so many contributors to a forum discussing how good the lady they've paid a significant part of their disposable income is as a prostitute, are so quick to judge the moral and ethical standards of said ladies even when they've made an informed decision without outside coercion.
Some of these replies wouldn't look out of place on Mumsnet.

[centry]

The GIF illustrated to me that you would be over the moon to pimp your daughter out, Each to their own but I don't want to pimp anyone out, least of all my daughter.

Yes clearly.
I was very much extremely sincere in my response to this very-very serious ' what if ' thread.
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[Blackpool Rock]

It never fails to amaze me how so many contributors to a forum discussing how good the lady they've paid a significant part of their disposable income is as a prostitute, are so quick to judge the moral and ethical standards of said ladies even when they've made an informed decision without outside coercion.
Some of these replies wouldn't look out of place on Mumsnet.

Yes while I can understand why most people would prefer their family wasn't whoring a lot of these responses are assuming that the woman hasn't made an informed choice and is only doing it through desperation etc, whereas there are some women who like sex and have realised they can make a shed load of cash from prostitution by working for 10 years; investing then retire

Given that the general public looks down on punters in the same / similar way that it looks down on prossies the question could also be how would your wife / GF / Mum / daughter etc feel if they found out you fucked whores 

[Blackpool Rock]

Yes, that was the punch-line & gist of my joke.
I thought the GIF would have illustrated that?

I've read it back numerous times but can't find any sort of punch line or remotely any joke in the post, what am I missing, any chance you can explain 

[centry]

I've read it back numerous times but can't find any sort of punch line or remotely any joke in the post, what am I missing, any chance you can explain 

I see.
Congrats.

[Blackpool Rock]

I see.
Congrats.

That makes no sense either, congrats to you too 

[centry]

That makes no sense either, congrats to you too 

Well it's one thing to say you found it 'un-funny', but if you've really read it multiple times and still haven't found a clue on the dark humour employed then that's pretty much all I can say.
Kind of says more about you than I to be honest.

Congratulations. 

[threechilliman]

It never fails to amaze me how so many contributors to a forum discussing how good the lady they've paid a significant part of their disposable income is as a prostitute, are so quick to judge the moral and ethical standards of said ladies even when they've made an informed decision without outside coercion.
Some of these replies wouldn't look out of place on Mumsnet.

You've saved me typing similar.......

[shagmore]

After a punt i was talking to a WG who said she is not from round the area, because she knew of a girl who had her Uncle phone up ( the problems of these WGs not having a face picture, all this would be avoided if that was the case  ) , she recognised his voice and and promptly black listed his number

[daviemac]

Yes clearly.
I was very much extremely sincere in my response to this very-very serious ' what if ' thread.

Well it's one thing to say you found it 'un-funny', but if you've really read it multiple times and still haven't found a clue on the dark humour employed then that's pretty much all I can say.
Kind of says more about you than I to be honest.

Congratulations. 

No humour that I can see in a post saying you would pimp your daughter out, the sad thing is people actually do it. The only thing you are doing is making yourself look like yet another undesirable.

[centry]

No humour that I can see in a post saying you would pimp your daughter out, the sad thing is people actually do it. The only thing you are doing is making yourself look like yet another undesirable.

I see.

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[JontyR]

I see.

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[Watts.E.Dunn]

Have to admit it would be mega awkward/life changing if you did turn up for a booking and it was your sister, daughter or niece behind the door...

Well daughter has a few very tasty mates now "what if" one of they was the girl behind that door wearing only some scant undies?

What would you do?.

Shit yourself ?, run for it, or fuck her semi sensless?.

Answers on a postcard so every one  inc the postman can have a larff;!..

[centry]

I see.
➊ I made a dark-humoured joke
➋ I get questioned towards the sincerity of so called joke
➌ I reinforce that it's a joke
➍ Still gets treated as if it's not a joke but a serious comment
➎ I assure that it is a joke yet again
➏ "We don't believe you"

  Indeed, how will I ever get up from this hole.
I suppose all I can do is wave the white flag at this point, 

Also I suppose this isn't considered a joke either.

Might be good if you got friends & family discount 

I suppose he's just gagging to rail members of his family, including his daughter.

And here I thought the English invented satire & sarcasm.

[Buttons]

More to the point, how would you feel if your niece or daughter got a bunch of negative reviews on here and bought shame on your good punting name? 

[centry]

More to the point, how would you feel if your niece or daughter got a bunch of negative reviews on here and bought shame on your good punting name? 

Careful now, they won't know it's a joke-question, some might get triggered.