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Offline Bikerman

So when contemplating a punt do you go for FS or a good erotic massage?
I prefer massage nowadays as i dont tend to last long or i go soft in condom
If i went for FS i would probalby play and explore  alot..
I have been told mt tongue and fingers are very good
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Offline donnybob

So when contemplating a punt do you go for FS or a good erotic massage?
I prefer massage nowadays as i dont tend to last long or i go soft in condom
If i went for FS i would probalby play and explore  alot..
I have been told mt tongue and fingers are very good

For me its always massage with HE, FS with an SP doesn't interest me.

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Offline SpaceRaiderDave


I prefer massage nowadays as i dont tend to last long

I like massage for the opposite reason. i do last long and it's almost impossible to find an escort who will fuck non stop in a 60 minute session.
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Offline Thephoenix

You'll find that there are many members on here who prefer sensual massage and HE because of advancing years, performance issues and condom aversion.
There's been many discussions in the past, and the NW region has a lengthy discussion section purely about massage.
There was a good debate in 2019 in the general section entitled.... Massage H/E reviews.
It's easy to find in the search facility
« Last Edit: January 03, 2021, 09:02:56 am by Thephoenix »

Offline Corus Boy

How about a bit of both?

I see a Thai lady who only does massage and HG, it is a very enjoyable hour, just being pampered and not expected to do anything except relax and enjoy.

I aslo see full service ladies and make a bit of an effort and that is also good fun.

Unless your personal circumstances or morals dictate otherwise why not enjoy both?

Offline Captainhowdy666

Have to have FS or I’d think I may have missed out on something.

Offline Yoda316

So when contemplating a punt do you go for FS or a good erotic massage?
I prefer massage nowadays as i dont tend to last long or i go soft in condom
If i went for FS i would probalby play and explore  alot..
I have been told mt tongue and fingers are very good

50/50 with me. Like a 10 min massage. Then oral and then fs
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Online Stevelondon

I like massage for the opposite reason. i do last long and it's almost impossible to find an escort who will fuck non stop in a 60 minute session.

This would make quite an interesting topic really.
What is the average time a punter spends actually fucking in an hours booking.
I have no idea if I am your average guy or not. Or if there even is an average guy  :unknown:

I feel for SpaceRaiderDave as I agree with him. I can’t think of any WG I have been with who would want to fuck non stop.

The other question is would I want to be one of those long lasting guys. Must be fucking exhausting (excuse the pun)

Back on topic.
I enjoy a mix of sensual massage, relax and let someone else do the work........ then maybe next punt is FS etc.

Offline shagmore

I like massage for the opposite reason. i do last long and it's almost impossible to find an escort who will fuck non stop in a 60 minute session.

Try a duo, then you can fuck them as much as you like,

Offline Rockhead

This would make quite an interesting topic really.
What is the average time a punter spends actually fucking in an hours booking.
I have no idea if I am your average guy or not.

Jesus...dread to think. For me...minutes at best. Not sure if I envy SpaceRaiderDave or not. Is that sort of endurance an ability or a curse? Apart from anything else I just wouldn’t have the stamina.

I have a question for those of you who enjoy erotic or nuru massage. During such sessions are you allowed to touch the provider or is it strictly hands off? I don’t mean anything penetrative, just caressing, touching breasts etc (I’m kinda obsessed with boobs!). One of favourite girls does nuru and I’m keen to experience it when restrictions ease.

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Offline SpaceRaiderDave


I feel for SpaceRaiderDave as I agree with him. I can’t think of any WG I have been with who would want to fuck non stop.

The other question is would I want to be one of those long lasting guys. Must be fucking exhausting (excuse the pun)


It's not all about jackhammer pumping so not exhausting. Escorts are looking to get the guy over the line so I use Seekin Arrangement to find girls for long fucking sessions. I'm not criticising escorts as they rightly see their job as giving orgasms and the techniques they employ reflect this. The SA girls are more interested in mutual fun so also want longer sessions if they are having a good time.
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Offline Gustav Klimt


I have a question for those of you who enjoy erotic or nuru massage. During such sessions are you allowed to touch the provider or is it strictly hands off? I don’t mean anything penetrative, just caressing, touching breasts etc (I’m kinda obsessed with boobs!).

I always let my hands wander when I have a massage. Start by letting my hand gently rub her leg & if nothing is said I slide my hand up her thighs to her bottom & crotch. This is usually more fun in the warmer weather when she is wearing a summer dress. Then I can get my hand inside her panties. In the colder weather they often wear jeans or leggings, so not so much access. Still can be nice caressing a pert bottom through skin tight leggings.

Offline daviemac

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Jesus...dread to think. For me...minutes at best. Not sure if I envy SpaceRaiderDave or not. Is that sort of endurance an ability or a curse? Apart from anything else I just wouldn’t have the stamina.

I have a question for those of you who enjoy erotic or nuru massage. During such sessions are you allowed to touch the provider or is it strictly hands off? I don’t mean anything penetrative, just caressing, touching breasts etc (I’m kinda obsessed with boobs!). One of favourite girls does nuru and I’m keen to experience it when restrictions ease.
According to a survey on Healthline, PIV sex that lasts less than 2 mins is too short, 10 to 30 mins is too long and the ideal is 7 to 13 minutes.

On your other question it will depend on the provider, there's no 'one size fits all'. Same as with escorts, you need to find one that provides the service you are looking for. check reviews and se what's available at any given place.

Offline the_exile

Have to have FS or I’d think I may have missed out on something.

Know what you mean, I've got to find out what it feels like to get inside a new girl!

Offline mattmugwump

Know what you mean, I've got to find out what it feels like to get inside a new girl!

I've flip-flopped between the two for a couple of years - started after getting a few massages which was fine, then it wasn't enough and I'd rather get the whole deal, then recently back to when I'm thinking that the sensuality of the massage combined with a HE is more worthwhile...

That said I'll probably have a few HE massages once things calm down and revert to FS again!

Offline SpaceRaiderDave


On your other question it will depend on the provider, there's no 'one size fits all'. Same as with escorts, you need to find one that provides the service you are looking for. check reviews and se what's available at any given place.

100% agree about checking reviews, much more reliable than questioning but if you do decide to ask the provider in advance be careful. Because the girl won't have seen you before they will be cautious about volunteering too much detail unseen so keep enquiries general as forensic questioning can spook them. In the room if you are respectful boundaries can be extended .
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Offline TimeBandit

You'll find that there are many members on here who prefer sensual massage and HE because of advancing years, performance issues and condom aversion.
There's been many discussions in the past, and the NW region has a lengthy discussion section purely about massage.
There was a good debate in 2019 in the general section entitled.... Massage H/E reviews.
It's easy to find in the search facility

+1   Me amongs them
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Offline Corus Boy

This would make quite an interesting topic really.
What is the average time a punter spends actually fucking in an hours booking.
I have no idea if I am your average guy or not. Or if there even is an average guy  :unknown:

I feel for SpaceRaiderDave as I agree with him. I can’t think of any WG I have been with who would want to fuck non stop.

The other question is would I want to be one of those long lasting guys. Must be fucking exhausting (excuse the pun)

Back on topic.
I enjoy a mix of sensual massage, relax and let someone else do the work........ then maybe next punt is FS etc.

There's a book about that;

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Offline Watts.E.Dunn

Just beat me to it Corus boy!, I've  got a  copy of that given to me by the owner of a London escort agency some years ago now:)

Offline Englishhorn

Know what you mean, I've got to find out what it feels like to get inside a new girl!

Same for me. Always feel I’ve slightly missed out after a massage however good the HE

Offline Home Alone

Know what you mean, I've got to find out what it feels like to get inside a new girl!

It's got to be FS for me. And not just with a new girl; an old Favourite's as good!

When I first started punting - in Massage Parlours - I used to view the 'massage' that a session began with as a bit of time wasting.

Offline snaitram99

It's got to be FS for me. And not just with a new girl; an old Favourite's as good!

When I first started punting - in Massage Parlours - I used to view the 'massage' that a session began with as a bit of time wasting.

Most girls in massage parlours have no clue about massage but sometimes I would ask to massage them, could be quite a good way to start. :rolleyes:

Found a couple of girls who did have massage skills and enjoyed relaxing into a punt through this. Led to the FBSM providers. Mainly prefer Thai or Chinese now with B2B.

Offline Buttplug

A bit of both for me. Don't make prior arrangements just call in when passing most times . Started  going to Thai massage places just over 18 months or so . Only had one which didn't offer extras. A lot of FS places just have young foreign girls who want you to come and go.

Offline mr.bluesky

At my age I prefer a relaxing sensual massage with happy ending. If I'm feeling particularly horny then I will go for a full service.

Offline fastcar669

For me Massage. Seems to do it for me

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I suspect there is an age gradient here.  At age 40 I was two pops FS, 50 starting to need a little help, tried FBSM now and then but really busting for a shag, by age 60 90% FBSM, preferring the connecton and pace and build but still having as good a time.

Offline SpaceRaiderDave

I suspect there is an age gradient here.  At age 40 I was two pops FS, 50 starting to need a little help, tried FBSM now and then but really busting for a shag, by age 60 90% FBSM, preferring the connecton and pace and build but still having as good a time.

I agree and think massage will become even more popular this year for the older punters who are concerned about the virus. Having a massage and HE isn't 100% safe but if masks are worn the risks are going to be lower than a typical FS punt.
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Offline billybigbollocks888

So when contemplating a punt do you go for FS or a good erotic massage?
I prefer massage nowadays as i dont tend to last long or i go soft in condom
If i went for FS i would probalby play and explore  alot..
I have been told mt tongue and fingers are very good

Depends on the mood for me, I’d quite like to find someone who offers a bit of both in the same chilled out relaxed setting as a massage. Iv to try a nuru or B2B but some penetration included would be ideal at the end

Online Slow grinder

Just before the start of last years first 'Lockdown' that at 68 yrs old my performance issues were making 'FS' visits a waste of my time and money ( the money bit speaks for itself but the time part was/is more important as I am a 'Carer' for my wife, so time away is at a Premium),made worse by the fact that over the previous 12 mths 4 regulars (all British) had retired ... Missykink, BBWDemure, Pop up glory hole, Blowjob Princess, and that there were/are very few equal replacements in the Coventry area...so I had to resort to the usually unsatisfactory (for me) experiences of Rom Wg's. Then I found the likes of Li, RainBow Nature and even had a couple of weird sessions with Miss P Midlands (External Link/Members Only), only weird because I weirdly enjoyed them.. so FS or Erotic, the Erotic it has to be.... NB I'll post a review about Miss P.
« Last Edit: January 07, 2021, 10:29:08 am by Slow grinder »

Offline CrimsonD

Interesting one this. Overall I have had much better experiences at decent erotic massage places. I had an amazing experience at a place in Sydney called Bodyrotic External Link/Members Only not the cheapest but out of this world. Amazing looking girl, fantastic service in a luxury environment. There is also a good place in Zurich External Link/Members Only which is similar but still not in the same league.

Those 2 places above are lightyears ahead of what I have experienced in the UK. Maybe there are places/SP's just as good in the UK and I have not found them yet.

Most of my FS experiences have been disappointing in comparison. Most of my punts have been in parlous, I have not tried AW yet so that's on the list of things to do once lockdown is over.

Offline bright0nbreezy

A mixture of both for me.  I find that fbsm provides a more explosive finish, as I am completely relaxed and not trying to 'perform'.  But I do love owo and ro, so need a fs meet for that.  My best ever punting was with a lady that only offered fbsm, but after a few meets we had clicked so well that we ended up fucking at no extra cost.  That's the stuff dreams are made of, but rarely found.

Offline GmxJim

I think it must be an age thing. I really do prefer FBSM and B2B, the experience last a lot longer these days. I do still enjoy a FS provider but want an hour booking with lots of massage and build up. My days of a P&D seem to be long gone.

Offline Hobbit

I had an erotic massage recently and it was amazing. Laying back and just enjoying the pleasure was tantalizing and utterly selfish in a good way. I got her to keep me on edge for 50 minutes before I couldn't take no more.  So a massage is better in some aspects.  :hi:
« Last Edit: January 07, 2021, 01:55:35 pm by Hobbit »

Offline SpaceRaiderDave

I got her to keep me on edge for 50 minutes before I couldn't take no more.  So a massage is better in some aspects.  :hi:

That's my favourite type of massage. Some of the Chinese girls only massage or wanking you and are not very good at edging but a good fbsm provider whol is skillful at edging can provide a more enjoyable experience than FS.
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Online notcalledchris

Know what you mean, I've got to find out what it feels like to get inside a new girl!

Agreed.  Whilst massage, HE, OWO might sometimes be more fun.  I don't feel like I've properly"done" a girl until I've penetrated her.

Offline Strokemeplease

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a good fbsm provider who is skillful at edging can provide a more enjoyable experience than FS
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I agree. That's one reason why I say right at the start that I want a happy ending, then she can devote the whole session to giving pleasure.
And if she has wanked me but I haven't penetrated her then I don't feel guilty.







Offline ValleyMan73

I enjoy both but I'd say my preference is good erotic FBSM.

As someone who struggles with condoms as I've gotten older, the FBSM choice has been less pressure and more enjoyable.

A recent review I posted though for a FS service was very enjoyable, with lots of DFK, OWO, RO and fingering.

Offline yorkshirepunter3333

good massage with a little bum play

Offline roger9

I agree with the majority here.

When I was in my 40's it was always FS for me, but now I am in my late 50's I prefer to be spoilt and have a long body to body massage followed by an edging HJ and OWO to finish.

Simply Lovely  :wacko:

Offline nwluvit

As a younger man (30's 40's) would have been FS 90% of the time.
Now in my 60's I'm probably 90% erotic massage. Very occasionally it leads to full sex and I have to say that is way more satisfying than just the sex on its own

Offline Bush

I tend to switch between the two options but when going for FBSM it needs to be FBSM plus.

A massage is just so relaxing but does tend to heighten my urge to a level that does not happen with FS. Perhaps it’s the extended foreplay and tease that precedes shooting your load. The massage has to be accompanied by access to all areas and RO......I have no problem finding goos masseurs who offer that. But that service is not to be confused with FS just minus penetration.......the service provider has to be good in the massage department.

Don’t get me wrong I also enjoy the FS version but increasingly I like to be finished of with a hand job or oral when I can just relax and feel the moment build.
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Offline KermitK2


Interesting topic.

I've had a few FBSM over recent years (none in 2020 unfortunately) and really enjoy the slow build up and occasional tantalising access you get to the masseur. On one occasion i had a 2 hour session with my favourite lady (which was Serena from Inspirational Massage who seems to be no longer around) and she was amazing at taking her time and building it up and making it more and more erotic.

A lot of the time the sessions did leave me wanting to try the dark side of FS and so that's my plan for 2021 when we're allowed out! Given my love of FBSM i think a combination of FBSM+FS has to be the best option. The holy grail to find someone who can do both well?... I will start the search.

Offline hellohi21

Tried massage and HE once and I found it boring and uncomfortable tbh. Felt like I was hanging around for the proper action.

Sweet spot is a 30 minute FS meet with OWO, RO included.

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Offline Laudanum

Never had a massage of any type. Must try it one day, but it's hard to know which ones offer extras.


Offline Thephoenix

Never had a massage of any type. Must try it one day, but it's hard to know which ones offer extras.

There's probably reviews in your area which should help with that info. :thumbsup:

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

Never had a massage of any type. Must try it one day, but it's hard to know which ones offer extras.

Local board and some reasearch, they don't allways offer extras first off maybe in the 2nd or 3rd visit but all in very pleasurable for us older 'uns:)

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Local board and some reasearch, they don't allways offer extras first off maybe in the 2nd or 3rd visit but all in very pleasurable for us older 'uns:)
There are many who are satisfied by a quick 15 min p&d, but that has never been my thing - if I want to come as quickly and cheaply as possible, I can diy to some porn.  My ideal punt is one where the girl keeps me aroused for as long as possible before I climax. If she has done her job properly, there is no way I am going to be able to come a second time.

A proper erotic massage is an excellent build-up, and the Thais and Hungarians seem to be particularly adept.  I must admit that my first couple of massage experiences were disappointing, until I found someone who really knew what they were doing, and that was an eye-opener.  Unfortunately there are far too many who don't seem to have the first clue.  My pet hate are those who seem to think just rubbing their tits to and fro over your back is somehow erotic.  For those who have never experienced a truly erotic massage, keep searching because when you do experience it you will be addicted.

I do prefer FS to completion, however it can be quite hard to find someone who offers both truly erotic massage and FS.  A HJ to completion does leave me feeling as though I am missing out, as others have said.