Local board and some reasearch, they don't allways offer extras first off maybe in the 2nd or 3rd visit but all in very pleasurable for us older 'uns:)
There are many who are satisfied by a quick 15 min p&d, but that has never been my thing - if I want to come as quickly and cheaply as possible, I can diy to some porn. My ideal punt is one where the girl keeps me aroused for as long as possible before I climax. If she has done her job properly, there is no way I am going to be able to come a second time.
A proper erotic massage is an excellent build-up, and the Thais and Hungarians seem to be particularly adept. I must admit that my first couple of massage experiences were disappointing, until I found someone who really knew what they were doing, and that was an eye-opener. Unfortunately there are far too many who don't seem to have the first clue. My pet hate are those who seem to think just rubbing their tits to and fro over your back is somehow erotic. For those who have never experienced a truly erotic massage, keep searching because when you do experience it you will be addicted.
I do prefer FS to completion, however it can be quite hard to find someone who offers both truly erotic massage and FS. A HJ to completion does leave me feeling as though I am missing out, as others have said.