Please help...Senior Upstanding Members only

[ivabollockoff]

The young studs amongst this great forum in the cosmos, which can get an erection at the slightest whiff of a tin of mackerel, need not waste their time reading this thread.

Please, a little background, I am getting on in age and miss the clandestine, secret, dangerous pleasurable world of an encounter of the erotic kind.  I was a lurker of this forum and joined when there was a mention of the delicious Mandy, she of the Studio 95 pleasure dome of the old days.  Spent many a pound of heavenly bliss enjoying Mandy’s assets from her good looks, body, great tits, arse, black stockings, suspenders and high heels and everything else….

Against all rules and expert advice from knowledgeable upstanding members, I failed.  To my great surprise, after relating an encounter that was in a previous post of mine, I was not subjected to receive a whipping within an inch of my life, or banned.  Briefly, I was passing through Swansea after a long journey in the early hours and wanted a shag.  Visiting the parlour in St Helen’s Road, the chosen girl was quite stunning, but, went downhill pretty fast after the transaction.  Her articulate command of English language after laying open legged on the bed consisted of; me no understand, fuck me harder, I want your cock, £10 eggstra, I finish now….I did manage to get some foreplay to get the old boy standing, but, it was like she was trying to mould some year old putty that had gone off – unfortunately I did not get off.

I would like to re-enter this magic world again, but, not any parlour.  Problem is the old boy takes a lot of coaxing these days and despite longer warm up times, it is just not happening.  One Viagra does nothing, two gets a semi-going and three gets about three quarters there, but, blast off is too quick and a headache for three days.

What do you senior upstanding members advise?  I thank you in anticipation of any reply as I may not respond in a prompt manner due to various reasons.

[scutty brown]

I advise a long discussion with your GP and a series of tests to check heart, diabetes, weight, alcohol, smoking, thyroid, testosterone, prostate and a few other things I've forgotten.
You've got a medical problem, so see a medic. Don't ask for half-arsed advice here

[piotrskut]

I advise a long discussion with your GP and a series of tests to check heart, diabetes, weight, alcohol, smoking, thyroid, testosterone, prostate and a few other things I've forgotten.
You've got a medical problem, so see a medic. Don't ask for half-arsed advice here

spot on. also maybe stop wanking?

[crfc]

Just retire..... Or go to one of the many massage girls for a cheap(ish!) thrill
Your record on here is dire over 4 years!!!

[Grumpy Pumpy]

Scutty is right. What do we know? A medical professional will always trump our views. No matter how confidently some may express them.

So, whilst we can give advice on who to see. We certainly can't advise on performance during the punt itself

[Waterhouse]

GPs won't entertain treating a low testosterone count in 50+ males unless it's practically zero or there’s a problem with pituitary and testicular function.  Having said that, it would still be best to have a proper chat with your GP and with a view to get a referral to a specialist once any bloods and tests have given a steer toward where you may need some attention.  There could be many a-reason why the blood isn’t pumping to the right place when you need it to.

One of the best things to help in the fight against ED is exercise and diet, the former not always being easy especially when the years haven’t been kind or are proceeding apace.

Place do voice your concerns to your GP and also take a look at this thread...

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=201025.0

Bear in mind the GP should be your first port of call before thinking about any potential treatments or supplements, BUT exercise and diet is something you can effect immediately, even if the exercise aspect is basic and starter level, i.e. walking regularly every day for half an hour to build up to something more.

[scutty brown]

considering the OPs user name he might be at high risk of low testosterone

[Waterhouse]

considering the OPs user name he might be at high risk of low testosterone

Quite possibly... the NHS minimum line for T levels is ridiculous and should be revised,  but *proper* treatment is complex, very complex - doesn’t involve the usual NHS (or even private) treatment of just throwing TestoGel at it.  It needs to be a more complex approach toward treatment using Testosterone cypionate  properly balanced with HCG and diet and exercise, and regularly monitored to ensure T, free-T, SHBG, prolactin and oestradiol are all balanced correctly, as well as DHT levels which are even more complex.

Not simple, not easy, and not cheap.

Best thing to try first is diet and exercise - no doubt about it, regardless of age... BUT often easier said than done.
 

Edit:

And even then TRT may not be successful if there are other underlying issues and contributory factors.

 

[notcalledchris]

Get your health checked out with some proper medical advice.  But don't despair.  There are plenty of ED drugs and dosages and you may just need to find one that suits you better.  With some experimentation (under medical supervision of course) no reason you won't get back to shagging.

Only other thought is maybe shags "in the early hours" are not the best timing in terms of tiredness.   Why not try a daytime shag instead.

[manintheroom]

You have had good advice,only your doctor has the broad knowledge to help you.It could even be conflicting medication or some sort of guilt thing. Hope it improves.

[ivabollockoff]

Many thanks contributors for your informative replies, such knowledge on the complexities on the medical side of matters.

A couple of years ago I had consultation with my GP, a hospital visit some tests and all was well, prescribing to blue pill.  It was my unwise decision to increase dosage as performance started to dwindle.  I will consult again.

Regarding my lack of contributions to this forum, it is bit like playing rugby, or racing motorcycles; injuries and age catches up very quickly and one becomes a spectator, apart from the odd pensioners’ testimonial match, but, that is long gone.  Therefore, one maintains the interest of the love of great past-times by watching, reading magazines like Classic Racer. I won’t give my age, but, those activities were in the early 60’s.  Hence, reading this forum posts rekindles memories, good or bad of past punting days and the joys to be had.  I am happy to see it continue with members and I enjoy reading them.

I must apologise for incorrectly naming my favourite punt in my original post, please read Sandy, not Mandy.  It was around those glorious days that I stopped.

If the Chief of Staff, or Senior Moderator thinks that due to my lack of contributions, for obvious resons, is not worthy of my membership, please give me the nod and I will bow out and say goodbye to all.  But I will miss some bloody good reads that brings a smile to my face.

Thank you all.

[Corus Boy]

If you're looking for a drug route, you should go through a bona fide medical route.

If you want to stay drug free, the oute I chose.

After a period of time, it is my belief and experience, it can be made worse because it gets in your mind.

I was very lucky as when it occured with me at 62ish I happened to be out of punting as I had landed a Thai girlfriend.  TBH she solved my problem and the success story when I resumed to punting when the TGF returned to Thailand.

I was lucky I guess but with the TGF I think she knew my body better than I did.

We would be in bed and the playing would commence.  Often quite quickly she would declare, in language that only a Thai lady can say without making you feel bad, "I don't think he wants to play tonight! "

The we would have a laugh about it and I'd be feeling relaxed as we continued to please her in other ways.  Often during this pressure off period I'd feel a stiffy growing or sometimes nothing but I'd be happy that she was happy.

Overall I felt less pressurised to peform and things became easier and more successful performances were regular.

When with an SP, especially a younger Brit or any EE, their answer to my problem generally seemed to be to tug at it quicker and harder, which did nothing, except hurt.

I'd suggest try a well recommended Thai SP and invest in a longer appointment.

Explain that the issues you have and take it slow and encourage her to lead, while you lie back and enjoy.

[wonky]

if only the GP would prescribe me a thai girlfriend   it's about the time the NHS did them..


Excellent advice from the welshboard again . makes me proud (when not invaded by ER thrill seekers!)

[Waterhouse]

if only the GP would prescribe me a thai girlfriend   it's about the time the NHS did them..


Excellent advice from the welshboard again . makes me proud (when not invaded by ER thrill seekers!)

Actually I've only ever been to Wales twice... drove to Denbigh to repair a clients computer when I was 21, and a works do at Celtic Manor when I was 40.  Other than that I've been a Surrey/south London boy all my life.

Still, so long as the advice is valid and sound, it matters little where it comes from.

[ivabollockoff]

Thank you Corus Boy for sharing your experience and thoughts they are quite thought provoking.

Taking my age into consideration and my dismal performance is not up to the young studs on here that can play an X-Box game, shag three times at the same time without losing a point – yes, I am envious!   - I can manage a J Arthur with a bit of patience in the right circumstance.  I have managed a good outcome on occasions with an ex-partner – no condom.  I started to lose the plot with the use of condoms; I hate using of them, but to me, essential with SP’s and the odd fling for safety.  I think it is all in the mind, the thought of losing the plot as the damn thing goes on, irrespective of trying to think positive of a pleasurable time, the haunt of failure creeping into the mind is more powerful and can’t be shifted no matter how many blue treats are swallowed, it just goes flat on me at the time most needed.

Maybe a J Arthur with a massage is the way to go then?