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Offline Simon_9000

The more I speak to WG's, the more I'm told about a punter arranging a meet but not turning up. Seems to be quite common but also seems quite wrong.

I'm sure they'll be UKP members who are dentists, accountants, the sort of people you arrange to see to do work for a fee. If I arranged to see my dentist and didn't show up, I'd be charged for it and I'd accept that. Now I'm not suggesting WG's should start charging for punter no shows but why do some punters treat them differently? Some of you'll say she's just a prossie etc etc but like it or not, it's their livelihood.

My take: you'll not get me doing it. As I've unfortunately had to do in the past, if I have to cancel it'll be with plenty of notice. A no show is discourteous.

Discuss ....


Offline GingerNuts

Considering the site you're posting on perhaps you should be more concerned about WGs messing punters around.

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A lot of "no shows" will be caused by Pro$sies getting their boyfriends / pimps to book other girls / the competition and waste their time  :hi:

But as said above, why would you care unless you're on commission from the girl  :unknown:
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Offline Adoniron

In 15 years punting I have never not shown up and only cancelled about 3 times. I can't count the number of times I've been let down by a WG.


Offline AnthG

When I go to see my GP. In the electronic tannoy system they have to say when to go to the appointment.

They usually have a warning saying, in the last month 324 people did not show up for their appointments. If you cannot make an appointment please phone to cancel so we can give it to someone else...

In terms of the question. In 10 years of punting. I have cancelled once on the day of an arranged booking as I became ill.

On the flipside, I must have had about 30 or so cancellations put onto me on the day.

On more than one occasion I have paid hundreds for a hotel and planned my punt like crazy, and the girl just ghosting me on the day.

I have had so many mothers or children rushed just minutes before my booking was to take place to the emergency rooms of the Royal Victoria Hospital that I am starting to think Newcastle is an accident black spot.

If working girls want punters to treat their bookings seriously. They need to do the same in reverse but they don't.

I remember a topic some years back on here that caused a good number of well respected WGs to all get banned in one massive swooping chop on here as they all admitted their working practice was to deliberately double book punters to make sure at least get a booking from someone on the days they work.

If that is the attitude WGs have, then do you not honestly think punters would treat bookings with the same attutude back.
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The more I speak to WG's, the more I'm told about a punter arranging a meet but not turning up. Seems to be quite common but also seems quite wrong.

I'm sure they'll be UKP members who are dentists, accountants, the sort of people you arrange to see to do work for a fee. If I arranged to see my dentist and didn't show up, I'd be charged for it and I'd accept that. Now I'm not suggesting WG's should start charging for punter no shows but why do some punters treat them differently? Some of you'll say she's just a Sex Worker etc etc but like it or not, it's their livelihood.

My take: you'll not get me doing it. As I've unfortunately had to do in the past, if I have to cancel it'll be with plenty of notice. A no show is discourteous.

Discuss ....

Discuss what??? why you give a fuck?? or the rule that says this isn't an escort support forum.

Offline jesse4585

The more I speak to WG's, the more I'm told about a punter arranging a meet but not turning up.
Indeed.  It might be interesting if some of the SP's on here would say how often it happens.  From what I hear maybe 1 in 5 bookings are no shows or short notice cancels...

I try to avoid for the same reason as you.  Also, by being a good booker I'm not just helping the WG, it's also good for fellow punters.

Every time a WG gets messed about she's slightly more likely to do the same to punters,  or even to join the few who insist on a deposit before taking even an incall booking.


Offline Clattypats

The more I speak to WG's, the more I'm told about a punter arranging a meet but not turning up. Seems to be quite common but also seems quite wrong.

I'm sure they'll be UKP members who are dentists, accountants, the sort of people you arrange to see to do work for a fee. If I arranged to see my dentist and didn't show up, I'd be charged for it and I'd accept that. Now I'm not suggesting WG's should start charging for punter no shows but why do some punters treat them differently? Some of you'll say she's just a Sex Worker etc etc but like it or not, it's their livelihood.

My take: you'll not get me doing it. As I've unfortunately had to do in the past, if I have to cancel it'll be with plenty of notice. A no show is discourteous.

Discuss ....
I'm sure No shows are a Fucker for WGs... From a punter perspective... Radio silence is a Fucker aswell TBH!...

Perhaps you could come up with a solution to both... :wacko: :dash:


Offline AnthG

Every time a WG gets messed about she's slightly more likely to do the same to punters,  or even to join the few who insist on a deposit before taking even an incall booking.

So rephrasing your statement, every time a punter gets messed about, he is slightly more likely to do the same to WGs?

Would that be ok........???
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Offline Clattypats


Every time a WG gets messed about she's slightly more likely to do the same to punters
Rubbish :rolleyes: If she is a good reliable WG it should have no bearing on how she treats other punters...

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Indeed.  It might be interesting if some of the SP's on here would say how often it happens.  From what I hear maybe 1 in 5 bookings are no shows or short notice cancels...

I try to avoid for the same reason as you.  Also, by being a good booker I'm not just helping the WG, it's also good for fellow punters.

Every time a WG gets messed about she's slightly more likely to do the same to punters,  or even to join the few who insist on a deposit before taking even an incall booking.

That's another thing this site isn't about. It is not a chat platform between SP's and punters. There are other sites dedicated to that.

For those who haven't bothered to read them, the rules are at the bottom of every page, these being the relevant ones.

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This Forum puts the interests of Punters first through the sharing of Reviews. The Forum does not endorse or promote any service provider or any other site. This site is totally independent. No favoritism, no special treatment, no vested interests and no pandering to service providers. Members are expected to post Reviews although there is no formal quota (see rule 27). General chat relating to Punting is allowed on the appropriate Board.

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This site allows service providers to be members, but there is zero-tolerance for touting, flirting, attention-seeking and negative attitude towards punters. Service providers must respect the ethos of the site. This site is not a chat platform between clients and service providers, nor is it a support site for service providers. All service providers / non-punters must reveal their working identities - no 'anonymous WGs'.

Offline winkywanky

The more I speak to WG's, the more I'm told about a punter arranging a meet but not turning up. Seems to be quite common but also seems quite wrong.

I'm sure they'll be UKP members who are dentists, accountants, the sort of people you arrange to see to do work for a fee. If I arranged to see my dentist and didn't show up, I'd be charged for it and I'd accept that. Now I'm not suggesting WG's should start charging for punter no shows but why do some punters treat them differently? Some of you'll say she's just a Sex Worker etc etc but like it or not, it's their livelihood.

My take: you'll not get me doing it. As I've unfortunately had to do in the past, if I have to cancel it'll be with plenty of notice. A no show is discourteous.

Discuss ....


The thing is, you see your dentist because you have toothache or it's your annual check-up.

You see a WG because you're feeling horny. Occasionally you might book in advance and come the day, you're just not feeling it. Or perhaps a same day booking and some guilt trips in, or any other number of feelings which would ruin the punt.

So a punt is very different from a 'normal' appointment, doing 'normal' stuff. I think most WGs realise this, and many state in their profiles that if you change your mind, just let them know.

Yes, you should always give as much notice as you can when cancelling a punt. In exactly the same way that WGs should always honour your booking and not flick you for a regular or for a longer booking. It's just the right thing to do.

In reality of course, we're dealing with the (often) clandestine and seedy world of paid sex where tax often isn't paid by the WG, the punter is cheating on his OH (various reasons, some understandable), the WG is coerced, the WG is a conniving crook, the punter gets conned over the services he's been promised, the list goes on. So doing the right thing isn't always adhered to.

All we can do as individuals is do the right thing as we see fit.

Offline jesse4585

So rephrasing your statement, every time a punter gets messed about, he is slightly more likely to do the same to WGs?
In many cases.  I guess there will be a few that don't care in the first place.

And some punters will have such a strong sense of reliability, a few let downs from a WG will have no effect. For an occasional punter, the vast majority of their business appointments are likely to be with civvy professionals.  That's not going to be the case for a full time WG.

Would that be ok........???
No in my book, didn't mean to imply it's ok when the WG does it either.

Offline finn5555

This whole thread is better off elsewhere its a load of bollocks  :hi: :hi:

Offline Moby Dick

WG say they have no shows,
Or Cancellations at short notice.
I reckon it happens a lot, but they tell you they haven’t been busy because they want you to feel special and let you know they value your reliable custom, whilst not really letting on they are going like a train all day earning £1000s.
Good days, bad days :unknown:
Don’t know, don’t really care, so why do you?

Although these timewasters probably make it harder for genuine punters to meet new WGs we have never met before especially if like me they are not one for leaving fluffy AW feedback.

Also, if working girls had less cancellations, had a stream of reliable punters without no shows then I would “hope” their prices would be sensible since there is less “wastage”, sitting around doing nothing, but this doesn’t happen. They make money whilst the “sun is shining”. Who wouldn’t.

And also with no shows the WG may think why no one coming to see me, and then consider short notice, last minute cheeky offers rather than sitting around. It’s just about making as much money in the shortest time possible.

In my opinion they charge so much or more because of the no show element.
If only they all had waiting rooms like dentists, solicitors or accountants :sarcastic:
They could charge less and earn more at a parlour due to the walk-in “next please” conveyor system.
But they would need to work harder, set regular hours and give the pimp a bigger cut.


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This whole thread is better off elsewhere its a load of bollocks  :hi: :hi:

If only there was a forum specifically designed to accommodate chit chat between escorts and punters where both sides were free to post their views on subjects like this.  Oh wait a minute . . . . . . . . .   

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When I go to see my GP.

Your GP will have had at least 7 years training and will have achieved qualifications, will be insured, highly regulated and highly taxed  :hi:

A pro$sie on the other hand has no training, skills or qjalifications, avoids tax and all accountability, and just needs the ability to lay still for five minutes  :music:

Offline AnthG

Your GP will have had at least 7 years training and will have achieved qualifications, will be insured, highly regulated and highly taxed  :hi:

A pro$sie on the other hand has no training, skills or qjalifications, avoids tax and all accountability, and just needs the ability to lay still for five minutes  :music:

I honest to god just burst out laughing when I read that part. Cheered me right up that has.
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Offline Doc Holliday

Your GP will have had at least 7 years training and will have achieved qualifications, will be insured, highly regulated and highly taxed  :hi:

A pro$sie on the other hand has no training, skills or qjalifications, avoids tax and all accountability, and just needs the ability to lay still for five minutes  :music:

 :D Very true .... apart from the fact I occasionally take longer than five minutes?

Offline Moby Dick

Your GP will have had at least 7 years training and will have achieved qualifications, will be insured, highly regulated and highly taxed  :hi:

A pro$sie on the other hand has no training, skills or qjalifications, avoids tax and all accountability, and just needs the ability to lay still for five minutes  :music:

I know which one I prefer to have fingering my backside :sarcastic:

Offline jesse4585

So from a quick google it looks like GP's  suffer about 10-20% no shows, with a few having as many as 3 out of 10.  This is despite many Doctor's surgeries having had posters & tannoy messages up these past few years saying how much no shows cost the health service.

So I guess if only about 20% of punters are no showing it's not that bad.  Perhaps if its really an increasing problem, we'll one day be allowed to have a sticky on here saying something like  'Don't be a no show - help WG's keep down prices'    :D

Offline finn5555

If only there was a forum specifically designed to accommodate chit chat between escorts and punters where both sides were free to post their views on subjects like this.  Oh wait a minute . . . . . . . . .

You been on there lately  :dash:

Offline Davey Dykes

Seeing a Prostitute is a fucking sight easier than seeing a Doctor.

I was asked for my GP's name only to be told he was retired / dismissed over a decade ago last time I called.

Wasn't that much of a shock TBH, he was known as a shagger and got with one of his patients and had a child with her latterly. Wonder if he's on here now. The dirty bugger.

Offline AnthG

'Don't be a no show - help WG's keep down prices'    :D

I don't think they factor their prices based on the amount of no shows they get.
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Offline jesse4585

I don't think they factor their prices based on the amount of no shows they get.

You're probably right with most,  but I suspect some do, and it has to effect prices for agencies, esp in places like London where rents for in call premises are high.
We both seem to agree no shows can encourage some of the less scrupulous WGs to double book, so how about

Less 'no shows', less punters being double booked!

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You been on there lately  :dash:

Yeah, it's hilarious, ideal for this type of thing though.   :hi:

Offline winkywanky

I know which one I prefer to have fingering my backside :sarcastic:



...oh, I dunno?

I had a prostate exam at my local GP surgery last year, fully expecting a male doctor to be doing the honours. Well he'd gone sick and the new and quite young female GP from Yorkshire (somehow it seems relevant) was standing in for him.

It's the only prostate exam I've ever enjoyed, and you know what, she was really gentle too  :cool:.

Offline Moby Dick



...oh, I dunno?

I had a prostate exam at my local GP surgery last year, fully expecting a male doctor to be doing the honours. Well he'd gone sick and the new and quite young female GP from Yorkshire (somehow it seems relevant) was standing in for him.

It's the only prostate exam I've ever enjoyed, and you know what, she was really gentle too  :cool:.

Amazing what you can get with private Medical insurance.
If she did that on the NHS then appointment attendance figures would be 100%

Offline winkywanky

Who said anything about Private? It was on the NHS  :cool:.

I said to her, excuse me, do you mind moving your finger? She said 'of course', and then wriggled it around really nicely  :D.

Offline Moby Dick

Who said anything about Private? It was on the NHS  :cool:.

I said to her, excuse me, do you mind moving your finger? She said 'of course', and then wriggled it around really nicely  :D.
Just assumed. :unknown:
Did you get her name?
Don’t want to get bait n switched, end up with a fat old Dr with a beard and poor English rummaging around in there.

Offline lewisjones23

Your GP will have had at least 7 years training and will have achieved qualifications, will be insured, highly regulated and highly taxed  :hi:

A pro$sie on the other hand has no training, skills or qjalifications, avoids tax and all accountability, and just needs the ability to lay still for five minutes  :music:

they struggle with that as well

Offline mr.bluesky



...oh, I dunno?

I had a prostate exam at my local GP surgery last year, fully expecting a male doctor to be doing the honours. Well he'd gone sick and the new and quite young female GP from Yorkshire (somehow it seems relevant) was standing in for him.

It's the only prostate exam I've ever enjoyed, and you know what, she was really gentle too  :cool:.

I just hope she didn't have long fingernails and warmed her hands

Offline winkywanky

Just assumed. :unknown:
Did you get her name?
Don’t want to get bait n switched, end up with a fat old Dr with a beard and poor English rummaging around in there.


Well the fat old Dr with the beard and poor English is what I was expecting, so a win-win all round  ;).

And no, I'm not telling you her name  :P. I was a little worried she might be from the James Herriot school of medicine, but thankfully she didn't go in up to her elbow.

Offline winkywanky

I just hope she didn't have long fingernails and warmed her hands


The blue nitrile gloves and KY Jelly did it for me  :D.


Offline Bogof60

discuss

Who the fuck are you.
Some sort of secondary school teacher.
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Offline The Bandit 5342

A girl of my acquaintance experiences this time and time again - and don't forget, these girls don't do this for fun - it's their living , and a booking lost is income that they cannot replace because the time, once unused, cannot be replaced.

And - yes-- it happened earlier tonight!

Offline GingerNuts

A girl of my acquaintance experiences this time and time again - and don't forget, these girls don't do this for fun - it's their living , and a booking lost is income that they cannot replace because the time, once unused, cannot be replaced.

And - yes-- it happened earlier tonight!

Link to said girl?

No doubt she has never double booked, cancelled at short notice or ghosted a meeting.

Offline smiths

The more I speak to WG's, the more I'm told about a punter arranging a meet but not turning up. Seems to be quite common but also seems quite wrong.

I'm sure they'll be UKP members who are dentists, accountants, the sort of people you arrange to see to do work for a fee. If I arranged to see my dentist and didn't show up, I'd be charged for it and I'd accept that. Now I'm not suggesting WG's should start charging for punter no shows but why do some punters treat them differently? Some of you'll say she's just a Sex Worker etc etc but like it or not, it's their livelihood.

My take: you'll not get me doing it. As I've unfortunately had to do in the past, if I have to cancel it'll be with plenty of notice. A no show is discourteous.

Discuss ....

I never don't turn up to a booked punt with honest WGs but I sometimes get dead comms off WGs even though I only confirmed I was on my way an hour before.

This is a post ideal for a WG site in my view, BUT it certainly does genuine punters no favours when other punters don't turn up after booking, especially those who don't inform the WG. :thumbsdown: :thumbsdown: :thumbsdown: I find the tone of your post preachy and so its clear I view that as a bad thing on UKP.
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A girl of my acquaintance experiences this time and time again - and don't forget, these girls don't do this for fun - it's their living , and a booking lost is income that they cannot replace because the time, once unused, cannot be replaced.

And - yes-- it happened earlier tonight!

Are you some kind of pimp? What is your connection to this escort. This is totally the wrong site for you to be posting fluffy white knight crap like this.    :thumbsdown:

Offline Happyjose

Are you some kind of pimp? What is your connection to this escort. This is totally the wrong site for you to be posting fluffy white knight crap like this.    :thumbsdown:

He’s got history for it

Many of his posts are representing the interests of a WG he has a ‘special friendship’ with

Why he thinks those posts are suited to this forum is the mystery

He may even have ‘reviewed’ her  :rolleyes:
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Offline HarryZZ

A lot of negativity but poor service from punters allows SPs to justify giving poor service in return.

If you go out for a pint with your mate every Thursday and you're both always there or let each other know if you're not then you wouldn't dream of not turning up, if he turns up some times and not others you wouldn't be particularly bothered if you missed the odd time yourself.

Offline Clattypats

A lot of negativity but poor service from punters allows SPs to justify giving poor service in return.

If you go out for a pint with your mate every Thursday and you're both always there or let each other know if you're not then you wouldn't dream of not turning up, if he turns up some times and not others you wouldn't be particularly bothered if you missed the odd time yourself.
Hardly a great comparison... I mean you're not exactly paying your mate X amount to go out for a beer with you, well I wouldn't imagine you were anyway...  :sarcastic:

Offline Turtle1

Pure guess but I’d say the number of wg’s messing good honest punters is far worse. Double booking, overcharging, BS’ing. Or simply not answering. The list goes on.

Yes I accept not all girls are like that but the 99% of punters screwed over compared to 1% of genuine WG’s dealing with no shows.

Next time ask the girls if they’ve ever double booked punters or short times them. They’ll say no regardless.

Offline AnthG

A girl of my acquaintance experiences this time and time again - and don't forget, these girls don't do this for fun - it's their living , and a booking lost is income that they cannot replace because the time, once unused, cannot be replaced.

And - yes-- it happened earlier tonight!

A one-hour booking with an escort is the same as what about 95% of people earn in a 8.5hr days of hard graft.

A one-hour escort booking costs what many people on regular level wages earn in 2 x 8.5hr days hard graft.

Do not give me this sob story.....Next you will be trying to argue Premiership Footballers have it bad.
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Offline ulstersubbie

Pure guess but I’d say the number of wg’s messing good honest punters is far worse. Double booking, overcharging, BS’ing. Or simply not answering. The list goes on.



Not answering being my biggest issue with some of them, both phone and e-mail contact. I do wonder how some of them actually make a living with that attitude.

Offline cal2

Pure guess but I’d say the number of wg’s messing good honest punters is far worse. Double booking, overcharging, BS’ing. Or simply not answering. The list goes on.

Yes I accept not all girls are like that but the 99% of punters screwed over compared to 1% of genuine WG’s dealing with no shows.

Next time ask the girls if they’ve ever double booked punters or short times them. They’ll say no regardless.

Couldnt agree more! OP is preaching to wrong croud here, Im sure if hes ever had the pleasure of travelling long distances for agreed bookings just to get radio silence or getting BS excuses he wouldnt be posting such fluff. One of the most frustrating things these girls do

Offline Billy no mates

In 15 years punting I have never not shown up and only cancelled about 3 times. I can't count the number of times I've been let down by a WG.

This is me, maybe 25 years instead of 15 tho.

I think the least amount of notice I gave was 8hrs (to a very well known girl from Bristol), but usually it’s at least 24hrs if I have to cancel, which is rare. However like this post, I cannot begin to remember the amount of times I have been waiting either in my car or at a hotel with no actual contact from the girl.

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This is me, maybe 25 years instead of 15 tho.

I think the least amount of notice I gave was 8hrs (to a very well known girl from Bristol), but usually it’s at least 24hrs if I have to cancel, which is rare. However like this post, I cannot begin to remember the amount of times I have been waiting either in my car or at a hotel with no actual contact from the girl.
Number of times...