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Offline Sexmadsteve1


Relatively new to punting - for some reason I get really nervous - does anyone else?

I wouldn't say im a nervous person, more outgoing if anything - however I scour the web, find a punt and then get pretty nervous at the point which usually makes me cum pretty quickly which isn't like me again as I can go for ages with a civvy !! quite often I do let the man juice build up for a good few days which could be part of the problem, so I always make sure 2 pops are on offer

is the nervousness part of the buzz I don't know !!

Offline django0700

I used to feel nervous too initially, but slowly learnt to relax and now just feel a surge in adrenaline pre punt and dopamine post punt.... :D

Offline pewpewpew

I still get nervous now but I've learned to accept that it's part of the game

Offline Gustav Klimt

I think for me the nerves are part of the buzz. It's not an unpleasant thing, more the excitement of what's going to happen. Even when I see a regular who I've been seeing on & off for 3 years I still get the nerves kicking in as I set off to the punt.

Offline tynetunnel

I’m a lot less nervous than I was, but yes I still get nervous! I doubt that will change. It’s supposed to be good for us, a little anxiety.

Offline bigmc

I was very nervous when I first started, to the point I couldn't get rock hard.
My confidence grew the more girls I saw and was fine eventually.
Nerves turned into nervous excitement (helped by the little blue pills  :thumbsup: )

Offline Kool Keef

I used to get nervous before a punt, sometimes to the point of struggling to get wood in some punts, a pre match pint helped me take the edge off sometimes.(never used a blue pill)
The worst thing in my experience was over thinking the punt beforehand & putting too much pressure on myself to definetly enjoy the punt so I wasn't left feeling  I'd wasted my money.

With experience I've learnt to control the nerves & to definetly not over think,  most times now I'm pretty relaxed, if a shit punt happens it happens, on to the next one.

Offline HappyHarryIV

I started off by visiting brothels. I would be really nervous and to get over that once i had punted i would give myself about 10 mins and then go for the next punt with a different lady. The second punt was always way better. After a while though you lose a lot of that nervousness once you are in the door and see what you are about to have fun with

Offline Ben1983

First couple of punts, I was nervous.
I think that was just because of wondering into the “unknown”

I still get nervous, but it’s more excitement that I feel.

Offline Plan R

I think for me the nerves are part of the buzz. It's not an unpleasant thing, more the excitement of what's going to happen. Even when I see a regular who I've been seeing on & off for 3 years I still get the nerves kicking in as I set off to the punt.

+1 every word.
Enjoy it OP, 'surf' the wave of anxiety, eventually you can come to look forward to it.
 :thumbsup:

Offline JAYZ

I believe that the positive reframing approach is a better way to deal with nerves. Just think of the excitement to come so to speak.

Offline king tarzan

Not now.. used to many years back..
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Offline welshpunter17

The nerves on the run up to the punt are one of my favourite bits! Keep the punts far enough between them to make sure it happens every time

Offline 7714337

Think it’s normal. My opportunity to punt is rare and so the build up is almost too huge.

Offline scutty brown

Nerves about meeting a girl? No.
Nerves about having to face down a pimp if things turn to shit, yes.

Offline mradventures

yeah nerves can be hard, theres a saying if your not nervous you dont care, which is pretty true

id advise having a couple of plans, or just "im going to go enjoy being with this woman(s)" mindset, so if no hard on, just cuddle and kiss or something, so your not panicing about not getting hard, and still enjoying yourself.
a hug tends to really lower nerves too.

and you dont need to impress her or be a porn star worthy performance, just be a nice version of yourself.
 

Offline mradventures

Nerves about meeting a girl? No.
Nerves about having to face down a pimp if things turn to shit, yes.

i get nerves about if she has a smelly cooch or is crazy in a bad way or something.

Offline Drayki

Think it’s part of the game.. to be nervous  :lol: especially when you don’t know what your going into

We’ve all been there, but after a while that will diminish  ;)

Offline TheMurloc

Nervous about a punt going to shit?....check
Nervous about getting robbed/beat up?....check
Nervous about seeing girl that should be drop dead gorgeous and having her open the door and look like your gran?....check
Nervous about getting spotted by someone I know?....check
Nervous excitement about having a fantastic session with a hot girl?....check

If you'e not nervous for one or all of the reasons above you're a better man than me.

Offline JonasG

The nerves soon go away. I was shit scared the 1st time I did it lol.

Now it's as normal as going for a haircut!

Offline bigboy96

The first time I went  for a punt I was very nervous, didn't help by having to wait in   a bedroom for my turn while I could hear the bed squeaking in the next room, then hearing someone else arrive and was put in another room. When it was my turn the maid took me in and I saw the attractive girl and nerves went a little, still nervous about someone else waiting for their turn and hearing the bed squeaking as I banged away!  After a few visits it soon passed and I thought no more of other punters there. 

Offline fatboy

The nerves soon go away. I was shit scared the 1st time I did it lol.

Now it's as normal as going for a haircut!

Or the dentist,although he can be more expensive.
The hygienist is on a par with a reasonable WG although her oral is not quite what I have i mind  :sarcastic:

Offline piotrskut

still get anxious before a punt and my anxiety caused me to stop fucking for a long time, i just went for fbsm massages with hr. the kiev trip helped a lot with the nerves but here i'm thinking a milf would be less intimidating.
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Offline MrMatrix

I still get nervous now but I've learned to accept that it's part of the game
I get quite anxious and Ive been doing this for sometime now. Once I'm undressed and kissing, the nerves have gone. With a regular dont have quite the same anxiety as I'm looking forward to seeing a friendly face, even though I know its only the money she's interested in. :hi:

Offline cotton

I do get nervous about things but meeting hookers isnt one of them , i actually get more nervous meeting civies , one of the attractions with hookers for me is the zero associated anziety levels , i mean they are there cos your paying them , if you wanted you could make them wear a dunces cap and sit in the corner with their thumb up their ass , whats to be worried about.

Offline JonasG

I do get nervous about things but meeting hookers isnt one of them , i actually get more nervous meeting civies , one of the attractions with hookers for me is the zero associated anziety levels , i mean they are there cos your paying them , if you wanted you could make them wear a dunces cap and sit in the corner with their thumb up their ass , whats to be worried about.

Yeah exactly.

Offline Smartstav

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Offline RobinBrod

Wasn't it Don Bradman who said that the day you stop feeling nervous before going out to bat is the day you should give up. Same applies to us I reckon.

Offline king tarzan

Wasn't it Don Bradman who said that the day you stop feeling nervous before going out to bat is the day you should give up. Same applies to us I reckon.

Micheal Holding... Shoaib Akhtar... Dennis Lillee .. Malcolm Marshall... The foursome high pacers .. I'm sure even he would be nervous!!
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Offline Home Alone

And getting back, more or less, on-topic, yes many of us were very nervous before, during and after our first punt.

One thing you may not have thought of, OP - I'm coming up to 15 years of punting and this thought only occured to me last year - is the sheer variety of services you can enjoy when you're punting. It's only when you look around as a punter that you realise that all manner of things can be yours; in return for cash, of course! There'll be MFF Sessions; seeing porn-stars; doing roleplays, doing anal, etc., etc. Whatever your 'little brain' fancies, it can have!

Enjoy!!  :yahoo:

Offline MrMatrix

i get nerves about if she has a smelly cooch or is crazy in a bad way or something.
So you do punt then. How about a review please :hi:

Offline antsz

Me too, when I first started out (still very new to this)!I got that nervous it made me feel ill! But I just get butterflies now, I suppose re visiting/making a regular hook up with a WG would make you feel more comfortable