as someone else already said, thai's can be alarmingly open when assessing your body... i stopped using thai masseurs after a second one spent more time commenting on my size and how i should exercise more, eat better, blah blah, than doing the job she was paid for. such a wood softener! i really didn't need to hear about her hubby down stairs also having once been the same size and how she'd sorted him out, did i want him to come up and tell me? no i bloody well didn't!