Bumping into WG/SP while out...out

[HILTS37]

This is the second time this has happened to me while out...!
Anyone else have this experience..?
And how'd it pan out..?

[Mkhelen]

Best to not say anything and carry on with your night

Dont speak to her her friends family and bf probably don't know she's a SW and you could out her

If the shoe was on the other foot

If you were with you out on a night out would you want a WG saying hi to you and your family and friends

Discretion is paramount to both parties

[Jamesbattersea]

Yeah, i live in Lincoln and it's small compared to most citys.
I've been walking down the road with my wife and recognised someone i knew not sure but how in the split second i said hi as we walked by i realised how, my wife asked who's she i replied a customer from work.
I was walking another time with her and i met a regular girl she pretended she didn't kniw me but i'd alresdy mad eye contact and my wife noticed me looking at this younger attractive woman so i shouted hello to her introduced her by her real name to my wife as a customer we then exchanged conversation about the weather and the state of the economy, said good bye and off we all went.
I think it's easier to style it out with a small believable lie than have an uncomfy eyes across at each other trying to pretend you haven't seen. Women notice that shit more i think.

[sensualencounter]

Yeah, i live in Lincoln and it's small compared to most citys.
I've been walking down the road with my wife and recognised someone i knew not sure but how in the split second i said hi as we walked by i realised how, my wife asked who's she i replied a customer from work.
I was walking another time with her and i met a regular girl she pretended she didn't kniw me but i'd alresdy mad eye contact and my wife noticed me looking at this younger attractive woman so i shouted hello to her introduced her by her real name to my wife as a customer we then exchanged conversation about the weather and the state of the economy, said good bye and off we all went.
I think it's easier to style it out with a small believable lie than have an uncomfy eyes across at each other trying to pretend you haven't seen. Women notice that shit more i think.

You sound like a complete liability 

Just shut the fuck up and don’t say a word!! Putting that poor escort on the spot like that is way out of order and incredibly risky. What if she’d flipped out, not been able to act along or any other adverse reaction? What a stupid thing to do.

[NickyBobby]

I saw Lacey Taste coming up the escalator at the Victoria Centre once. I respected her privacy and left her alone

[Dynasty89]

Yeah, i live in Lincoln and it's small compared to most citys.
I've been walking down the road with my wife and recognised someone i knew not sure but how in the split second i said hi as we walked by i realised how, my wife asked who's she i replied a customer from work.
I was walking another time with her and i met a regular girl she pretended she didn't kniw me but i'd alresdy mad eye contact and my wife noticed me looking at this younger attractive woman so i shouted hello to her introduced her by her real name to my wife as a customer we then exchanged conversation about the weather and the state of the economy, said good bye and off we all went.
I think it's easier to style it out with a small believable lie than have an uncomfy eyes across at each other trying to pretend you haven't seen. Women notice that shit more i think.

I went to university in lincoln, the place is so so small. Was very common to bump into other students you'd see from nights out. I can only imagine that punting there you'd most definitely run a high risk of seeing WGs out and about

[Hotdogboy88]

Seen a few out and about. Couple no recognition from them. 1 a smile and a nod. Two had a quick chat with one was with a bloke and strangely enough said hope you to see you again soon, while he was out of earshot   

I’d say there’s no right or wrong way. just deal with in a way that suits you best. 

[Hotdogboy88]

Yeah, i live in Lincoln and it's small compared to most citys.
I've been walking down the road with my wife and recognised someone i knew not sure but how in the split second i said hi as we walked by i realised how, my wife asked who's she i replied a customer from work.
I was walking another time with her and i met a regular girl she pretended she didn't kniw me but i'd alresdy mad eye contact and my wife noticed me looking at this younger attractive woman so i shouted hello to her introduced her by her real name to my wife as a customer we then exchanged conversation about the weather and the state of the economy, said good bye and off we all went.
I think it's easier to style it out with a small believable lie than have an uncomfy eyes across at each other trying to pretend you haven't seen. Women notice that shit more i think.

Haha brilliant. Love it. You are a legend. 

[myothernameis]

I have seen a few escorts who stay locally to myself, and in general, we give each other a wee nod. 

[myothernameis]

Yeah, i live in Lincoln and it's small compared to most citys.

If it's so small, and your always going to bump into someone, family, escorts, work mates.  How is it when it comes to gossip, so small town, and if everyone knows someone, is there gossip, " you know there an escort working nearby"

[Jamesbattersea]

If it's so small, and your always going to bump into someone, family, escorts, work mates.  How is it when it comes to gossip, so small town, and if everyone knows someone, is there gossip, " you know there an escort working nearby"

I don't think people in general know about our little under
 world. I'm not sure they realise just how many working girls there are out there. I don't even think Lincoln people ard thag street wise they are far more likley to be gossiping about someone they know having an affair with the neighbough than them been a punter.

[Jamesbattersea]

You sound like a complete liability 

Just shut the fuck up and don’t say a word!! Putting that poor escort on the spot like that is way out of order and incredibly risky. What if she’d flipped out, not been able to act along or any other adverse reaction? What a stupid thing to do.

Na, like i say i think women notice things like when you make eye concact as if you know someone then that person act a bit sheepish. And the chance of that regular girl outing herself to my wife was zero. I'm not sure all girls i know i would trust like that, but her yes. She also lived at that time very close to us so the chance of seeing her was high.

[Stongwee53]

Dont go out  . Ive seen a few out and about in my time chances are there about as likely as you are in wanting to discuss the fact youve paid to shag or have them wank you off a few times. Remember walking round b&m one time and there was one i recognised and honestly she probably recognised me. We kept bumping into each other on nearly every isle but we was both with our families so why would either of us even think of bringing anything up

[scouting]

In the cooling-down period at the end of a punt, whilst making chit-chat, an SP told me a punter had recently shouted "Hi xxxx" across Morrison's car park. She was really pissed off with him. It was her working name, she said he didn't know if hubby and kids were around.

I think Helen's reply #1 is best counsel.

[papak]

I didn't see them at the time, but I got a text from an SP I see regularly that she'd been at my work and seen me there. Was a bit uncomfortable, I think she was trying to be flirty. No issues were caused though.

[Young_biker]

Northampton isn't big but not small either, so have crossed paths and bumped into people I have punted with on the street/nights out etc. Usually just a passing smile is all I can muster if they are on there own. But generally wouldn't even dream of engaging in convo and would sort of expect the same unless I was on my own. Discretion is a two way street.

[Marvlus69]

Had an SP come into my work everyday, my wife worked in the cafe there too, she never said anything, rarely even got a hello.
Still won’t go back and see her just in case.
We both don’t work there anymore. Was tense at times though 

[ZeroCount]

I've often been a bit blasé about punting right on my doorstep, I've even punted just around the corner from my home on a couple of occasions, yet I've never once seen a WG I knew while out and about. Quite surprising really.

I'd hope if I did, I'd manage to just casually walk by. Though I imagine I'd at least do a bit of a double-take while my brain processed who she was!

[midspunter]

Yep, saw an escort I know well walking across the floor of a department store with her partner while I was waiting for mine to try on a dress. The escort didn't see me, so I didn't say anything, but the amusing thing was, another bloke nearby clocked the escort - who was looking noticeably hot - watched her walk away for a good 20 seconds, and then got a bollocking from *his* partner for doing so.

[NottsNylonLuvr]

Seen Paige Wilson walking around ASDA in Long Eaton once.
Looked miserable as fuck.

[EclipseBlue]

Seen Paige Wilson walking around ASDA in Long Eaton once.
Looked miserable as fuck.

Well, she was in Asda, in Long Eaton, not much to smile about there... 

[NottsNylonLuvr]

Well, she was in Asda, in Long Eaton, not much to smile about there... 

 

[Snagbadjer]

I saw one in Tesco car park in Gainsborough. It was raining and she was hurrying to the store with her hood up. I did a double take but did not stare. She blanked me lol.

The more awkward one for me was when I was waiting outside a door at the address I'd booked a punt with when a young lass from work just happened to walk past and then stop to say hello. my ingrained English politeness wouldn't let me ignore her so I automatically began to exchange pleasantries. Then, right on cue, the SP opened the door in a silk dressing gown and invited me in. I told the lass at work I was visiting a friend but if she spreads it around I don't GAF tbh.

[Lou2019]

You sound like a complete liability 

Just shut the fuck up and don’t say a word!! Putting that poor escort on the spot like that is way out of order and incredibly risky. What if she’d flipped out, not been able to act along or any other adverse reaction? What a stupid thing to do.

100% what a fucking idiotic thing to do

[badsin]

I seen a Derby escort regularly a while back, as we took our dog's to the same park.
Same park, became nodding acquaintances with a chap few year's older than me, who also used that park to exercise his dog.
Shortly after that a startied using SA. I had a thing with a SB who I saw regularly for a year or so. After a while it became apparent she was was the daughter of the  chap mentioned above.

[Nottsguy69]

Yeah, i live in Lincoln and it's small compared to most citys.
I've been walking down the road with my wife and recognised someone i knew not sure but how in the split second i said hi as we walked by i realised how, my wife asked who's she i replied a customer from work.
I was walking another time with her and i met a regular girl she pretended she didn't kniw me but i'd alresdy mad eye contact and my wife noticed me looking at this younger attractive woman so i shouted hello to her introduced her by her real name to my wife as a customer we then exchanged conversation about the weather and the state of the economy, said good bye and off we all went.
I think it's easier to style it out with a small believable lie than have an uncomfy eyes across at each other trying to pretend you haven't seen. Women notice that shit more i think.

Why the feck would you do that . Absolute mentalist

[allroadboy]

Once spent some time in a shoe department whilst my wife was trying shoes on. An escort who I'd seen a couple of times sat opposite us trying shoes on the whole time we were there. We both blanked each other the whole time, afterwards I sent her a message saying thank you !

[mr.bluesky]

Once spent some time in a shoe department whilst my wife was trying shoes on. An escort who I'd seen a couple of times sat opposite us trying shoes on the whole time we were there. We both blanked each other the whole time, afterwards I sent her a message saying thank you !

Was she buying black stilettos ? (the escort not your wife)   

[Stoking]

I've bumped into two.

Saw MistressLaBelle on a night out, I'm known to partake in BDSM activates on occasion. Never seen her in person, but pretty sure she clocked that I had noticed her and likely knew why. The more she drank, the louder she got and eventually noticed an older couple who already knew she had got into the domination game. Heard pretty much everything she got up to with people, which put me off a little.

I also bumped into alt_charlotte on a night out, looked quite good in person.

[Jamesbattersea]

100% what a fucking idiotic thing to do

Well as she's still my regular 4 years later and she wasn't bothered at all, infact at the time she told me she was bothered about me getting in trouble with my wife, each situation is different each set of people are diffetent i would have reacted differently if it was someone i didn't know and get on with so well, and if she didn't live so close to us.

[Hotdogboy88]

Well as she's still my regular 4 years later and she wasn't bothered at all, infact at the time she told me she was bothered about me getting in trouble with my wife, each situation is different each set of people are diffetent i would have reacted differently if it was someone i didn't know and get on with so well, and if she didn't live so close to us.

Fair play mate. You know your wife and the escort well and made your decision, the fact people are making judgements when they don’t know the involved parties is pretty pathetic in my book.

[JD1]

I can think of 4 times I’ve seen different SPs outside of bookings, on all occasions I just paid zero attention to them as if I had never seen them before. Seems like the obvious and respectful thing to do.

[NickyBobby]

Fair play mate. You know your wife and the escort well and made your decision, the fact people are making judgements when they don’t know the involved parties is pretty pathetic in my book.

One outlier doesn’t mean that good advice for the majority of people.

We give off unconcscious tells in body language when communicating, women are good at spotting this and it wouldn’t surprise me to think James’s wife probably suspects there’s something going on between him and his “customer”

[redveee]

I saw a SP out in Bristol with a punter in tow buying her things, at the time I didn't know she was a SP but the friend I was out with recognised her from AW. I sent her a message on AW and she said she was with a punter and she had to buy a pair of leggings, which caught my eye, to remain decent under her short skirt. A few weeks later our diaries aligned and I got to spend some time with her which was local to me but not too local.

[sensualencounter]

Fair play mate. You know your wife and the escort well and made your decision, the fact people are making judgements when they don’t know the involved parties is pretty pathetic in my book.

Are you really saying you think it’s a good idea to acknowledge escorts in public? And for them to acknowledge you?  But also he actively sought the contact and then made up a bullshit story, putting the escort on the spot. What if the wife asked something about the business / customer scenario he made up?

That poor escort really had to think on her toes, completely unfair to put that pressure on her.

Of course we don’t know the full extent of the punter / client relationship and they may be very close and know intimate details about eachother. But to advocate this behaviour as the right way to deal with things and to give him legendary status is pathetic.

[Lou2019]

Are you really saying you think it’s a good idea to acknowledge escorts in public? And for them to acknowledge you?  But also he actively sought the contact and then made up a bullshit story, putting the escort on the spot. What if the wife asked something about the business / customer scenario he made up?

That poor escort really had to think on her toes, completely unfair to put that pressure on her.

Of course we don’t know the full extent of the punter / client relationship and they may be very close and know intimate details about eachother. But to advocate this behaviour as the right way to deal with things and to give him legendary status is pathetic.

OP clearly doesn’t understand the meaning of discretion.

[sensualencounter]

OP clearly doesn’t understand the meaning of discretion.

To be fair, it wasn’t OP but Jamesbattersea but yes. It’s fucking crazy. And as for hotdog and his promoting him to legendary, that pathetic.

[Lou2019]

To be fair, it wasn’t OP but Jamesbattersea but yes. It’s fucking crazy. And as for hotdog and his promoting him to legendary, that pathetic.

Shit sorry OP!

[daviemac]

Fair play mate. You know your wife and the escort well and made your decision, the fact people are making judgements when they don’t know the involved parties is pretty pathetic in my book.

It's generally accepted that in the interests of discretion if a punters sees an escort in public he ignores her and likewise if an escort sees a punter she ignores him.

BTW if you don't like what people post put them on ignore.

BTW Jamesbattersea is totally out of order for making eye contact, as others have said he's a liability. Discretion at all times.

[hunkybc]

Say nothing...you my friend are walking on thin ice.

[daviemac]

Say nothing...you my friend are walking on thin ice.

Who are you talking to? without a link to say differently you are replying to the post above yours.   

[HILTS37]

Interesting replies...everyone to there own it seems..
I dont think we look for that kind of interaction with our other lives....but makes you wonder what the WG/SP think eh...Great content 👌

[Jamesbattersea]

Are you really saying you think it’s a good idea to acknowledge escorts in public? And for them to acknowledge you?  But also he actively sought the contact and then made up a bullshit story, putting the escort on the spot. What if the wife asked something about the business / customer scenario he made up?

That poor escort really had to think on her toes, completely unfair to put that pressure on her.

Of course we don’t know the full extent of the punter / client relationship and they may be very close and know intimate details about eachother. But to advocate this behaviour as the right way to deal with things and to give him legendary status is pathetic.

Wow!! do i have ledgendary status? i didn"t realise!! You can take it back if you want cos i don't want it!!! Your being a bit melodramatic dude aren't you.!!!
I simply told the story which is what i thought this thread was for.

That approach may not work for other people and i'm not "advocating it"!!! ideed it wouldn't always work for me in different situations but it worked for me at that time because of that situation sometimes you have to think on your feet.

[hunkybc]

Who are you talking to? without a link to say differently you are replying to the post above yours.   

Sorry dude, I was referring to the Original Poster. Thin ice as in it's risky business acknowledging a working girl out in public with your other half

[daviemac]

Sorry dude, I was referring to the Original Poster. Thin ice as in it's risky business acknowledging a working girl out in public with your other half

The unfortunate thing is he doesn't seem to think there's anything wrong in doing it. No matter how well a punter thinks he knows an SP, or an SP thinks she knows a punter for that matter, neither side can be sure of the other's situation, acknowledging in public is outing plain and simple.

[Jamesbattersea]

The unfortunate thing is he doesn't seem to think there's anything wrong in doing it. No matter how well a punter thinks he knows an SP, or an SP thinks she knows a punter for that matter, neither side can be sure of the other's situation, acknowledging in public is outing plain and simple.

OMG!! It's not about advocating, it's not about being wrong or right, it's not about being big or clever, i definatly don't want to be a ledgend!, it's not about any of that and it's definatly not about outing !!! How did you get outing from anything i've written.?
The OP asked for stories about what happned simple!!

This thread was what happened

[daviemac]

OMG!! It's not about advocating, it's not about being wrong or right, it's not about being big or clever, i definatly don't want to be a ledgend!, it's not about any of that and it's definatly not about outing !!! How did you get outing from anything i've written.?
The OP asked for stories about what happned simple!!

This thread was what happened

Like I said the scary thing for escorts is you don't understand the implications of making contact with an escort whilst out and about, there is always the possibility of them having to explain who you are to any friends or family they are with and a great deal of them escort covertly.

There's even been two SPs post on this thread telling you how wrong it is, look up the word discretion because that's one of the most important things in this game.

[l1mpd1ck]

I've seen a few SPs while out shopping.  Never done anything other than blanked on another.

Once went to see a senior director of the company I worked for in London and his temporary secretary was an Aussie girl I'd had an AW RB overnight with the week before - again no acknowledgment from either of us.

It's just good manners.

[akauya]

Yeah, i live in Lincoln and it's small compared to most citys.
I've been walking down the road with my wife and recognised someone i knew not sure but how in the split second i said hi as we walked by i realised how, my wife asked who's she i replied a customer from work.
I was walking another time with her and i met a regular girl she pretended she didn't kniw me but i'd alresdy mad eye contact and my wife noticed me looking at this younger attractive woman so i shouted hello to her introduced her by her real name to my wife as a customer we then exchanged conversation about the weather and the state of the economy, said good bye and off we all went.
I think it's easier to style it out with a small believable lie than have an uncomfy eyes across at each other trying to pretend you haven't seen. Women notice that shit more i think.

Sorry but this is just bat shit crazy. By your own admission the WG already ignored you in the interests of discretion (for you and for her) and yet you decide to call her and introduce her to your wife. Could it be, maybe, you were just unconsciously massaging your own ego by being "able" to make up a story on the fly and give yourself a pat on the back 'look how I fooled my wife'? 

Not sure if this helps but, for what is worth, some of my married mates and I do when out with our other halves, we keep our eyes firmly ahead and don't look at other women. We do so much deceiving anyway we at least afford our wives that little bit of courtesy. Like you said, some women notice things and some wives know deep in their hearts they are married to dirty, cheating, lying scumbags (like yours truly), no need to rub it in their faces. 

[Jamesbattersea]

To be fare to you i missed out of the original post that we'd made eye contact wih each other and she looked sheepish then tried to pretend we hadn't made eye contact. I did say this in another bit though. Knowing the girl as well as i do and her knowing me as well as she does.
In that situation what's worst?? Re asure everyone there's nothing to worry about or leave two women feeling weird. I know what dudI don't need my ego massaging, i pay that SP to do the massaging.!!
Oh and by the way she has no freinds or family here in Lincoln that's why she works here!!