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Offline mace-window

A wife that swallows. Now that's a heaven I'd happily go to.  :D

Not something I would know but from your tone Hobbit, it looks like Swallowing don't happen that much with married folks.

Offline Hobbit

Not something I would know but from your tone Hobbit, it looks like Swallowing don't happen that much with married folks.

According to what I've heard from my married friends, not much happens at all after being married. Hence why I am single. :D

Offline vindici

A wife that swallows. Now that's a heaven I'd happily go to.  :D

Is it that rare, almost every civvie I've CIM'd has swallowed?

Offline cotton

Is it that rare, almost every civvie I've CIM'd has swallowed?
Must be cos your so good looking   :D

Offline mace-window

Is it that rare, almost every civvie I've CIM'd has swallowed?

Single sex life is far more different than marriage sex life from hearing about married husband's sex life from gyms. And from what I heard, the wife don't put in the effort to keep the sex life going.
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Offline mace-window

According to what I've heard from my married friends, not much happens at all after being married. Hence why I am single. :D

Likewise from hearing the same from older married guys at the gym complaining about the lack of sex in their marriage life  ;).

Offline Lou2019

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Likewise from hearing the same from older married guys at the gym complaining about the lack of sex in their marriage life  ;).

there’s a joke I heard along the lines of why does a bride smile when walking down the aisle? because she knows she won’t have to suck dick again

Offline Lou2019

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there’s a joke I heard along the lines of why does a bride smile when walking down the aisle? because she knows she won’t have to suck his dick again

Offline mace-window

there’s a joke I heard along the lines of why does a bride smile when walking down the aisle? because she knows she won’t have to suck dick again

 :D :D :D :D.

Looks like I won't be married then if OWO won't be on the plate anymore.

Online finn5555

hence one of the reasons I have on my profile I won’t see smokers  :vomit:

Tricky one to police as not all smokers admit to being smokers  :unknown:

Offline mace-window

Tricky one to police as not all smokers admit to being smokers  :unknown:

Well sometimes you can tell from the smell of their mouth or clothes. But yeah quite hard to notice.

Online finn5555

Well sometimes you can tell from the smell of their mouth or clothes. But yeah quite hard to notice.

My point is Lou, like many others, wouldn't have a clue unless Tom, Dick or Abdul had a quick fag to calm the nerves before going in  :sarcastic:

Offline mace-window

My point is Lou, like many others, wouldn't have a clue unless Tom, Dick or Abdul had a quick fag to calm the nerves before going in  :sarcastic:

Very true. Though I don't know how hard it is to get ride off that smoker's breath.

Offline The Owl

No idea if volume is a problem, you'll have to ask the escorts.

Making sure you're well hydrated before requesting CIM and Swallow will help with any unpleasant flavours that might put escorts off. Same with your diet and also smoking. It's a bit of a ball ache if you like CIM and Swallow but also love smoking, drinking alcohol and fatty or fishy foods. I used to up my intake of fresh fruit and cut down on shit fast food a few days before spunking in my pre-lockwon regs mouth and having her swallow the lot.

Offline nurfe7

Swallowing is something I look for when making a booking, it is not a deal breaker but a preference. I had a regular who genuinely loved swallowing which was great but it is also a turn on when you can tell the girl does not 100% like it but does it anyway (all agreed beforehand)!

Offline Link7

It's prostitution mate. Your concern seems to be you suspect prossies do not enjoy swallowing? Sounds pretty arbitrary to me. Why is kissing, sex, anal or anything else any different? Have you seen all of the people they do all that with...

They perform these acts on total strangers for money. And what matters in reality is just that it is agreed between consenting adults. You may hope they also enjoy it (and obviously, a good prossie can convincingly fake enjoyment if necessary), but that's not the premise on which you book or a serious concern (for any of us - if it was, we wouldn't be paying!).

Some say it's morally dubious, but this is the reality of punting. You may understandably wonder how they do this job without being disgusted, and of course many women would be, but I guess the answer is just that people do lots of things for money. It isn't a big deal to them if they're prepared to offer it to anyone.

Offline RLondon99

Do my employers feel guilty about paying me to work for them? Doubt it.

Offline Hobbit

It's prostitution mate. Your concern seems to be you suspect prossies do not enjoy swallowing? Sounds pretty arbitrary to me. Why is kissing, sex, anal or anything else any different? Have you seen all of the people they do all that with...

They perform these acts on total strangers for money. And what matters in reality is just that it is agreed between consenting adults. You may hope they also enjoy it (and obviously, a good prossie can convincingly fake enjoyment if necessary), but that's not the premise on which you book or a serious concern (for any of us - if it was, we wouldn't be paying!).

Some say it's morally dubious, but this is the reality of punting. You may understandably wonder how they do this job without being disgusted, and of course many women would be, but I guess the answer is just that people do lots of things for money. It isn't a big deal to them if they're prepared to offer it to anyone.

I fully understand that there may be aspects of their job they may not like but for me swallowing is different to CIM, DFK or Anal. I guess partly because they are taking something of yours inside them and digesting it. I guess I would feel the same about pissing in a girls mouth and watching her swallowing that. There's nothing arbitrary about it.

Offline Midori

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Hi Midori. This is off topic but as your AW account is deactivated I was wondering if your still going to continue escorting after the lockdown or you have retired from escort?

I am advertising as soon as I have had my second jab plus the 10 days for it to take effect. I have had my first jab already because I was in a shielding category. However, I am not intending to work as much as before and because I have had some very kind clients prebook in advance my availability will be very very limited until probably October time because I will be fulfilling outstanding bookings and those that have been rearranged first. To be honest, I don't use my AW as much as I use Twitter and just my phone number now for work, so I deactivate it unless I am actively looking for new clients.

Offline advent2016

There is something about a girl swallowing cum that really excites me and usually when finishing I always ask if they can swallow.

To cut a long story short, I guess what I'm asking is:

Should I feel guilty about it? It could be that perhaps a vast majority of women enjoy it or maybe not?

Does anyone else here enjoy having a girl swallow or do you find it distasteful?

I really, really enjoy a snowball/cumkiss/cumswap finish where both parties swallow some of the cum. Nirvana is in a 3 way for me. I'm not sure when I started liking this but was probably about 20 years ago with a Spanish GF.

It's mentioned in 10 or so of my reviews.

Offline JimmySW

Yes, a Throatpie is an amazing feeling but is very difficult to find. There aren't many girls that do it.

It really is a very different experience: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=262869.0

Offline jonloops

Throatpie is ideal.
Pierre Woodman's throatpie videos are truly astonishing, the dude loses his marbles.

Offline mace-window

I am advertising as soon as I have had my second jab plus the 10 days for it to take effect. I have had my first jab already because I was in a shielding category. However, I am not intending to work as much as before and because I have had some very kind clients prebook in advance my availability will be very very limited until probably October time because I will be fulfilling outstanding bookings and those that have been rearranged first. To be honest, I don't use my AW as much as I use Twitter and just my phone number now for work, so I deactivate it unless I am actively looking for new clients.

Thanks for replaying Midori. Was asking as I do want to book a meeting with you in the future after the lockdown and just saw you account deactivated recently. Anyways I hope you get better and all the best in the future.

Offline Ticklish Dave

My first post after joining the forum recently so be gentle with me.

I have no preference regarding  swallowing but what really irritates me is an SP who offers CIM but dashes off to the bathroom whilst I'm effectively in mid-orgasm to get rid of the contents. As someone further up the thread mentioned an oral clean-up is the best outcome for me as that way I get the maximum pleasure from the BJ.  SP's who fall into the category I described above I don't book with again

Offline advent2016

When I get vanilla CIM I like the provider to show me my handiwork in her mouth. I usually agree this at the outset.

Offline iq129

My first post after joining the forum recently so be gentle with me.

I have no preference regarding  swallowing but what really irritates me is an SP who offers CIM but dashes off to the bathroom whilst I'm effectively in mid-orgasm to get rid of the contents. As someone further up the thread mentioned an oral clean-up is the best outcome for me as that way I get the maximum pleasure from the BJ.  SP's who fall into the category I described above I don't book with again

Welcome to the forum. This is very strange. Despite your first post, your post count is zero. Perhaps the moderator can look into this. I have attached a screenshot.

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Offline Lou2019

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Tricky one to police as not all smokers admit to being smokers  :unknown:

Most don’t realise how vile it smells and that it gets everywhere. I went to give one guy oral and I could smell it on his cock, I gagged and not for the right reason, hence why I say no to seeing them.

Offline Hobbit

Most don’t realise how vile it smells and that it gets everywhere. I went to give one guy oral and I could smell it on his cock, I gagged and not for the right reason, hence why I say no to seeing them.

Cigarette smoke does linger on clothes and the body but I don't understand how it would get to his cock?  :unknown:

Offline B4bcock

Welcome to the forum. This is very strange. Despite your first post, your post count is zero. Perhaps the moderator can look into this. I have attached a screenshot.

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I think you'll find that only posts in regional threads are currently counted in your post tally and not those in threads in the general forum.

Offline Lou2019

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Cigarette smoke does linger on clothes and the body but I don't understand how it would get to his cock?  :unknown:

fuck knows but he stank  :vomit:

Offline vindici

Cigarette smoke does linger on clothes and the body but I don't understand how it would get to his cock?  :unknown:

  • Hold cigarette with fingers
  • Go for a slash after and hold cock with fingers

It's not rocket science.

Offline val33

I used to love CIM/swallow, until an ex-FWB persuaded me to try snowballing. The taste of my own cum making me gag means I rarely partake now, as I feel sorry for the girl having to taste it! Now I only do CIM with someone who's evidently really into it, and has no qualms.

Offline mace-window

fuck knows but he stank  :vomit:

Maybe he smokes a couple of packs naked :D. But yeah smoking tends to stick on clothes and some parts of your body (namely fingers). Though around your genitals is a new one for me. And on top of that, I never tasted/smelt cigarettes smell around a woman's pussy nor tasted any cigarette taste from her pussy juices.

Offline pa5151

According to what I've heard from my married friends, not much happens at all after being married. Hence why I am single. :D

The best sex you have is before getting married or at point of breakup, where there is some urgency at play. Or when you pay someone   :hi:

And that's why I'm still single.

Offline iq129

A wife that swallows. Now that's a heaven I'd happily go to.  :D
That is several steps ahead. Let the wife first provide sex.

Online finn5555

Most don’t realise how vile it smells and that it gets everywhere. I went to give one guy oral and I could smell it on his cock, I gagged and not for the right reason, hence why I say no to seeing them.

My point is if they claim to be non smokers but smoke and cover their traces you may not know until it’s to late and you have a mouth full of spunk  :D assuming smoking makes spunk taste bad 🤷🏻

Offline Malvolio

I fully understand that there may be aspects of their job they may not like but for me swallowing is different to CIM, DFK or Anal. I guess partly because they are taking something of yours inside them and digesting it. I guess I would feel the same about pissing in a girls mouth and watching her swallowing that. There's nothing arbitrary about it.

If swallow is something you've asked the WG to do and she's agreed to do it, I don't see why you would then feel guilt.  This applies to anything the WG agrees to do regardless of how distasteful you might regard it - after all she is being paid to carry out sex acts with you.

Offline Link7

I fully understand that there may be aspects of their job they may not like but for me swallowing is different to CIM, DFK or Anal. I guess partly because they are taking something of yours inside them and digesting it. I guess I would feel the same about pissing in a girls mouth and watching her swallowing that. There's nothing arbitrary about it.

Yeah, it's nasty. What sort of woman would do that with a random bloke off the street...

Answer: a prostitute.

Your issue seems to be that you think this particular act is more disgusting than others, and therefore there is some greater "sin" attached to it (as opposed to asking a girl to rim you, or sticking your tongue down her throat or slamming her arsehole). My (and others') point is just that it's all disgusting and that's a prostitute's job. Swapping juices with a stranger is the name of the game. And making moral distinctions between sexual acts bought is arbitrary. There is no rational reason why you should feel bad about having your load swallowed, if you don't feel bad about any of the other intimate acts you may pay to have done. Why should you perceive yourself as any "better" if she spits, or you splash it over her face instead? CIM (even with spit), your DNA stays in her mouth all day btw.

Do you feel guilty about this with non-prostitutes ( :sarcastic: didn't want to say "normal" women). If not, your issue is probably more to do with paying than anything else

Offline WorcWarrior

There’s an English girl I’ve seen who apologized to me for not swallowing, said she used to do it but now can’t because it started making her ill.

Jen??

She said that to me too!

Offline Hobbit

Yeah, it's nasty. What sort of woman would do that with a random bloke off the street...

Answer: a prostitute.

Your issue seems to be that you think this particular act is more disgusting than others, and therefore there is some greater "sin" attached to it (as opposed to asking a girl to rim you, or sticking your tongue down her throat or slamming her arsehole). My (and others') point is just that it's all disgusting and that's a prostitute's job. Swapping juices with a stranger is the name of the game. And making moral distinctions between sexual acts bought is arbitrary. There is no rational reason why you should feel bad about having your load swallowed, if you don't feel bad about any of the other intimate acts you may pay to have done. Why should you perceive yourself as any "better" if she spits, or you splash it over her face instead? CIM (even with spit), your DNA stays in her mouth all day btw.

Do you feel guilty about this with non-prostitutes ( :sarcastic: didn't want to say "normal" women). If not, your issue is probably more to do with paying than anything else

I have the same issue with any woman regardless if they are a prostitute or not. I will probably get over it in time. I can understand why you think it is arbitrary but I really believe everything has a reason whether it is conscious and subconscious.

Offline Thephoenix

I'd never insist on the WG swallowing, but if it's offered I think it adds a sort of primal feeling to the climax.

Shooting your cum into a woman's mouth with her eagerly accepting your load and happily swallowing your seed is one of life's special experiences.

I know... I'm such an old romantic.

However I'm glad it's not me who has to to do the swallowing every day.
I've tasted my own and admit to one or two others, and it's not a practice I'd care to do regularly, however an experienced WG will probably realise what value a good owo and swallow adds to the punt.


Offline Hobbit

I'd never insist on the WG swallowing, but if it's offered I think it adds a sort of primal feeling to the climax.

Shooting your cum into a woman's mouth with her eagerly accepting your load and happily swallowing your seed is one of life's special experiences.

I know... I'm such an old romantic.

However I'm glad it's not me who has to to do the swallowing every day.
I've tasted my own and admit to one or two others, and it's not a practice I'd care to do regularly, however an experienced WG will probably realise what value a good owo and swallow adds to the punt.

Okay, so here's a philosophical question:

Is asking for a girl to swallow the same as insisting? If I ask then you may argue that I have subconsciously planted the seed and she may feel pressured into saying yes but on the other hand if I don't ask then I may never get because as mentioned before 9/10 women don't voluntarily swallow. :hi:

Offline Thephoenix

Okay, so here's a philosophical question:

Is asking for a girl to swallow the same as insisting? If I ask then you may argue that I have subconsciously     **planted the seed**  and she may feel pressured into saying yes but on the other hand if I don't ask then I may never get because as mentioned before 9/10 women don't voluntarily swallow. :hi:

Perhaps its best if you don't 'plant your seed' in the first place 🙄

To be honest, I wouldn't even ask, for the reasons you stated.

If owo is available and offered, I'll gladly accept the offer. What the lady does with the outcome should be up to her discretion.

I'm not sure about the 9/10 of women don't voluntary swallow comment. Is that just your own personal experience?
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Offline Hobbit

Perhaps its best if you don't 'plant your seed' in the first place 🙄

To be honest, I wouldn't even ask, for the reasons you stated.

If owo is available and offered, I'll gladly accept the offer. What the lady does with the outcome should be up to her discretion.

I'm not sure about the 9/10 of women don't voluntary swallow comment. Is that just your own personal experience?

Well, I'm sure that if I don't ask for it then I will probably not get it at all. In my opinion, if cum tasted like Coca-Cola or piña colada then the majority of girls would happily swallow subject to safety but unfortunately it doesn't.

One thing about Punting I have learnt over the years is that you have to live with the consequences and I guess with this topic the same applies. So I will keep asking and try not to feel guilty about it. :hi:

Offline Thebigd

Swallow has never been something that makes or breaks for me. If the lady in question is happy to go ahead then I wouldn't feel guilty, but swallow isn't a deal breaker for me.

I'm a really heavy cummer, and being more of a facial man myself I still warn the SP of the fact beforehand as I've had some very interesting reactions.


Offline Malvolio

Well, I'm sure that if I don't ask for it then I will probably not get it at all. In my opinion, if cum tasted like Coca-Cola or piña colada then the majority of girls would happily swallow subject to safety but unfortunately it doesn't.

One thing about Punting I have learnt over the years is that you have to live with the consequences and I guess with this topic the same applies. So I will keep asking and try not to feel guilty about it. :hi:

Do you have guilt about any of your other punting activities, or is it just restricted to swallowing?  I'm assuming here that you're only asking for this service from WGs who advertise it.

Offline The Owl

Is it that rare, almost every civvie I've CIM'd has swallowed?

Not in my civvie life. All of my girlfriends have swallowed when I've cum in their mouths. The main problem is when they stop giving head and think foreplay is lieing on their backs and spreading their legs. Perhaps this is what Romanians think is a GFE.

Offline Bornslippy

Shame I have no idea what your AW profiles are or where you are located. I really love a swallow finish and really not bothered about CIM if the lady then rushes off to deposit the....deposit

Offline Redpunter

Most don’t realise how vile it smells and that it gets everywhere. I went to give one guy oral and I could smell it on his cock, I gagged and not for the right reason, hence why I say no to seeing them.

As an older guy who never smoked in his life because my father was a heavy smoker and at a young age I was sickened by the smell of smoke everywhere, clothes, hands, house, car etc to name a few.
I honestly think smokers don't realise how repugnant the smell is to non smokers and I can see how you as a SP would literally be gagging at the thought of it. I also think they are very selfish in their attitude to non smokers dislike of the habit/smell.

Online badsin

What an interesting thread, amazed I'd missed it previously.
I really like CIM, and swallow, however it isn't a deal breaker, although there's something really arousing about a girl relishing gulping your jiz down.
Personal favourite was the first SA arrangement I had. We'd see each other twice a week for months. We got into a bit of a routine that after sex, oral etc we'd move to a 69 position to complete, I'd be eating her out, whilst she deepthroated me to completion and would take the lot, with a thorough tongue clean up afterwards. Lovely. Might pop her a text.....  :hi: