Would you be an Escort / WG ?

[davey.edwards1969]

Following on from the 2 threads
"WG get rich" and " What if your girlfriend / wife / daughter wanted to be a WG"

These got me thinking - What if you were a reasonably attractive intelligent girl ? - would you consider a career as an escort or work in a parlour ?

I know it's hard to imagine being in a girl's body and maybe they do have different views on sex and love etc   but all of us on here obvious like having sex with different partners and the majority of us view sex work as just that - an exchange of services for money

Any thoughts folks ?

[alabama1]

Do you have a twin brother in the North West called Bikerman ?

[davey.edwards1969]

Not that I know of !!!! 

[lillythesavage]

I will bite lol, with a 100% yes if were born female with the same interest in sex I have had a a male from a very young age.

[Milfman1112]

School holidays.....

[FiveKnuckles]

you'd have to be motivated by the money to shag some ugly fuckers.   

would I offer myself as a jiggalo?  HELL NO! 

[Happiness]

No. But I don’t judge and treat them as well as I can.

[FLYING BLUE]

Rather than try to imagine myself as a young, slim, attractive female - an impossible task since I am the Polar opposite, I will simply turn the tables and say this:

Would I take money to fellate, rim, French kiss and penetrate a bunch of women 3-4 times my age on a daily basis?

"Hell NO"

[Home Alone]

 

Rather than try to imagine myself as a young, slim, attractive female - an impossible task since I am the Polar opposite, I will simply turn the tables and say this:

Would I take money to fellate, rim, French kiss and penetrate a bunch of women 3-4 times my age on a daily basis?

"Hell NO"

What he said. ^^^ Definitely.

[Atrueyorkie]

Good question, simply no. I personally would hate it.

A few SP’s have recommended I should be and I could make a lot of money. but imagine seeing an attractive girl once in a blue moon and the rest are blue whales and repulsive. I don’t think I could do it even for the money.

I punt for the NSA element and I have the option to refuse and walk. For some not all WG I’m guessing they just suck it up and have some Jabba the hut clients. If I could choose before with a picture maybe but I couldn’t do that life

[alabama1]

Good question, simply no. I personally would hate it.

A few SP’s have recommended I should be and I could make a lot of money. but imagine seeing an attractive girl once in a blue moon and the rest are blue whales and repulsive. I don’t think I could do it even for the money.

I punt for the NSA element and I have the option to refuse and walk. For some not all WG I’m guessing they just suck it up and have some Jabba the hut clients. If I could choose before with a picture maybe but I couldn’t do that life

  Sorry, i have now regained my composure. 

[dubs]

When you read this kind of bollocks*  it makes you realize the shit that the girls have to put up with

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=316590.msg3312264#msg3312264

* don't bother, its too long.

[signy]

No chance. My nerves are bad enough when I have carefully researched a punt, and am reasonably confident that I know what I am getting. The challenge of opening the door with no idea as to who/what is going to be the other side, and then having to make an effort to go through with the booking, would be totally beyond me. Then to have to do it again and again - impossible. Total respect for the women (etc.) who manage to do this job.

[tynetunnel]

3-4 times my age

To be fair FB, there’s nobody alive who’s that old! 

[FLYING BLUE]

To be fair FB, there’s nobody alive who’s that old! 

You swine T.T. 

I meant if I were a 20 year old

[lamboman]

No chance. My nerves are bad enough when I have carefully researched a punt, and am reasonably confident that I know what I am getting. The challenge of opening the door with no idea as to who/what is going to be the other side, and then having to make an effort to go through with the booking, would be totally beyond me. Then to have to do it again and again - impossible. Total respect for the women (etc.) who manage to do this job.

Exactly this I've total respect for those that do it well.

[Atrueyorkie]

Sorry, i have now regained my composure. 

We’re not all fat and Ugly on here, just saying 

[Happiness]

No chance. My nerves are bad enough when I have carefully researched a punt, and am reasonably confident that I know what I am getting. The challenge of opening the door with no idea as to who/what is going to be the other side, and then having to make an effort to go through with the booking, would be totally beyond me. Then to have to do it again and again - impossible. Total respect for the women (etc.) who manage to do this job.

Yes they are brave. To not respect them isn't right. That's enough of me posting now in this thread.

[PunterNumber69]

No, because:

1. It's hard work
2. Too many time wasters
3. Too much BS in general
4. People would be reviewing my every move on a site called UKP
5. Oh... and I'm ugly

[southcoastpunter]

We’re not all fat and Ugly on here, just saying 

True. I am not fat!!

If i was a 20 year old female hottie, i would def be making my body earn some decent money. whether that would be via Escorting or the other options that are open to young ladies now (only fans, SA etc etc) not sure. Probably not straight Esorting to be honest so def respect to those that are!

[Stevelondon]

True. I am not fat!!

If i was a 20 year old female hottie, i would def be making my body earn some decent money. whether that would be via Escorting or the other options that are open to young ladies now (only fans, SA etc etc) not sure. Probably not straight Esorting to be honest so def respect to those that are!

I think the above and the post by Signy have got it right....as far as I am concerned anyway.
Mind you. If I had the face and body of a 20 year old girl (The one in my head right now)......I would be too busy playing with myself to let anyone else near me.
 

[MrT222]

Agree with what's been said already. I couldn't do it so fair play to those that do. Deserve every penny they earn.

Remember reading an article by a male giggolo, forced into it by his gambling debts. Said it was pretty tough going most of the time, banging women 'who looked like Dawn French with a moustache' but every now and then he would get a hot one and be absolutely delighted

[puntingpumping1920]

Said it was pretty tough going most of the time, banging women 'who looked like Dawn French with a moustache'

 
I've paid for worse

[signy]

On second thoughts, sign me up for extreme dom. No touching, and I can think of plenty of men who I would be happy to thrash for an hour or so.

[willie loman]

you know its an easier job than you think, otherwise no one would be doing it, but its not nearly as well paid as you think, otherwise everyone would be doing it.

[alabama1]

you know its an easier job than you think, otherwise no one would be doing it, but its not nearly as well paid as you think, otherwise everyone would be doing it.

What an idiotic statement to make, even by your standards 

[lamboman]

you know its an easier job than you think, otherwise no one would be doing it, but its not nearly as well paid as you think, otherwise everyone would be doing it.

Everybody?
Seems a bit unlikely.

[MrT222]

I've paid for worse

Sounds like we've found your calling 

[jimbobted]

True. I am not fat!!

If i was a 20 year old female hottie, i would def be making my body earn some decent money. whether that would be via Escorting or the other options that are open to young ladies now (only fans, SA etc etc) not sure. Probably not straight Esorting to be honest so def respect to those that are!

The girl I saw last week said she'd started on Only Fans but it was too much work and she wanted to do something real instead of strip and masturbate for a camera and stare at a screen. So she started escorting.
Bloody good escort too from my target session last week. Have a longer booking next week to sample her more fully  .

[jimbobted]

Agree with what's been said already. I couldn't do it so fair play to those that do. Deserve every penny they earn.

Remember reading an article by a male giggolo, forced into it by his gambling debts. Said it was pretty tough going most of the time, banging women 'who looked like Dawn French with a moustache' but every now and then he would get a hot one and be absolutely delighted

I don't know how gigolos do it. I mean a girl can shove some lube up her snatch, shut her eyes and let the ugly bastard get on with it. But how the fuck do you get an erection when faced with the eponymous bored old housewife?

[MrT222]

IIRC he used to imagine he was banging famous actresses like Jessica Alba but yeah I'd imagine that could be pretty tough. Not sure if you could just pop a blue pill each time instead.

[jimbobted]

The blue pill doesn't do anything if you're not sexually aroused in the first place.

[dubs]

you know its an easier job than you think, otherwise no one would be doing it, but its not nearly as well paid as you think, otherwise everyone would be doing it.

It may be an easy job, but it’s a difficult job to do well.

[Vic69]

Thankyou to everyone that has recognised that this is a hard job, it actually is, it is physically and mentally demanding, and sometimes after I've worked I am physically drained (and I'm not high volume at all), constantly having your wits about you, watching what the punter is doing, ensuring no unsafe practices are being attempted, the constant screening, the timewasters, the not knowing who you could be answering the door to, making sure you are providing a good service etc.  You have to have a certain mentality to do this job.  I came into this later in life, I really enjoy being an escort and I can honestly say this has been the job I have enjoyed the most, if you go into it with the right attitude and are in a good place in your life, it can be personally and financially rewarding (I know this isnt the case for a lot of SP's though).

To reverse the question, if I was a bloke would I be a punter? Hell yes I would lol

[oddson1970]

To anyone who says its an easy job, have a look on SAAFE and see what obstacles an SP has to overcome in order to make a living.As vic69 says, it can be rewarding if you have the required  mindset and can deal with all the negative shit that accompanies the job.Personally, l could never do it and l have the utmost respect for those that do.

[m4rmite]

OP. you've got an arsehole - rent it out and let us know how you get on.


I was told that when i once said to a colleague I'd be a hooker if i was female

[Strawberry]

Thankyou to everyone that has recognised that this is a hard job, it actually is, it is physically and mentally demanding, and sometimes after I've worked I am physically drained (and I'm not high volume at all), constantly having your wits about you, watching what the punter is doing, ensuring no unsafe practices are being attempted, the constant screening, the timewasters, the not knowing who you could be answering the door to, making sure you are providing a good service etc.  You have to have a certain mentality to do this job.  I came into this later in life, I really enjoy being an escort and I can honestly say this has been the job I have enjoyed the most, if you go into it with the right attitude and are in a good place in your life, it can be personally and financially rewarding (I know this isnt the case for a lot of SP's though).

To reverse the question, if I was a bloke would I be a punter? Hell yes I would lol

I would like to echo this, sometimes seems as if there's something at every booking in a row. I sometimes have to laugh at the things I have dealt with and solved thinking of the potential CV entries. Sometimes I almost cry I have some tales, but the rewards (and the people) as you say can be great.

[Arch]

If I were a hot young thing and consider making money in the sex trade, I will probably explore the sugar daddy route.

I will be dealing with a regular / regulars who I know a bit more, and am comfortable with, with less chances of unpleasant surprises.

[MissWolf]

Thankyou to everyone that has recognised that this is a hard job, it actually is, it is physically and mentally demanding, and sometimes after I've worked I am physically drained (and I'm not high volume at all), constantly having your wits about you, watching what the punter is doing, ensuring no unsafe practices are being attempted, the constant screening, the timewasters, the not knowing who you could be answering the door to, making sure you are providing a good service etc.  You have to have a certain mentality to do this job.  I came into this later in life, I really enjoy being an escort and I can honestly say this has been the job I have enjoyed the most, if you go into it with the right attitude and are in a good place in your life, it can be personally and financially rewarding (I know this isnt the case for a lot of SP's though).

To reverse the question, if I was a bloke would I be a punter? Hell yes I would lol

I endorse this 100% well said, I too came to this later in life and I love it and I too would be a punter if it was reversed 

[alabama1]

I endorse this 100% well said, I too came to this later in life and I love it and I too would be a punter if it was reversed 

Would you ever send a wg a deposit though ?

[jkrieg]

Depends.

If I was in the position I am at the moment financially. Then not a chance.

If I was a 20 year old hot blonde struggling to pay the rent... Then you can be sure I'd be taking chocking down some man meat!

[MissWolf]

Would you ever send a wg a deposit though ?

Not without a lot of research on a site like this, I can understand why some girls choose to ask for them and that is their choice and their business and if it works for them then all good. I work low volume by choice and in a less intense location so I don't feel they would work for me and I've never asked for one, I still get the no shows and time wasters though especially on tour

[Vic69]

Not without a lot of research on a site like this, I can understand why some girls choose to ask for them and that is their choice and their business and if it works for them then all good. I work low volume by choice and in a less intense location so I don't feel they would work for me and I've never asked for one, I still get the no shows and time wasters though especially on tour

Same here! I do ask for deposits occasionally for the following reasons:  No AW feedback, a flag on CE for being a timewaster (will decline booking for anyone with more than 1 flag), new client that wants a peak booking time.  I only ask for £10 deposit and I do also add that I am established and well reviewed SP so I'm not going to run off with the £10, plus it's my reputation at stake, so not in my interest to scam anyone.

[PunterNumber69]

Would you ever send a wg a deposit though ?

Yes, if they are a well known as a reliable SP with a good reputation. I can handle losing £10 or £20 if I have to cancel at short notice, but generally I don't as I like to look forward to bookings.

[cotton]

Id say being a giggolo and a female hooker are very different as other people have pointed out.
I just feel that as a young woman with a dispassionate attitude to sex , a great body and presuming you arnt going to university to be a lawyer or in line to get a decent paying job then just for the money , lots of money being a hooker would be an attractive option.  But i think the reality is that alot of chiks try it and most seem to disappear in the blink of an eye so while it may seem like a blast in theory the reality may put you off it very quickly or if your tough enough and enjoy it then it might work long term.
I think a big element would be having a sympathetic/empathetic attitude to the guys who come and visit you , wether they be stupid cocky young guys or tubby middle aged old guys , they all come to you for their own reason s with their own stories , it would be no good going in with a bad attitude.

[alabama1]

Same here! I do ask for deposits occasionally for the following reasons:  No AW feedback, a flag on CE for being a timewaster (will decline booking for anyone with more than 1 flag), new client that wants a peak booking time. I only ask for £10 deposit and I do also add that I am established and well reviewed SP so I'm not going to run off with the £10, plus it's my reputation at stake, so not in my interest to scam anyone.

£10 ? Do you think that is enough to ensure someone has the incentive to turn up ?. And more importantly for you, enough to reimburse you if they don't.? If i were a wg (can't believe i have just typed that  ) and i insisted on a deposit, i would probably go for 50% of the booking fee. Not that it's gonna happen anytime soon. 

[Vic69]

Yeah I get what you mean, but I think any amount will show some form of commitment from the punter, it really does stop the TWers in their tracks, I wouldnt want to ask for more as I know it would put a lot of people off even though I am well reviewed

[A Decent Fist]

Slight modification to the original question.... and some of you guys will no doubt be 

However, I have sometimes thought that if my 19-year-old male self (tall, very skinny, smooth and totally un-macho) was around now instead of in 1975 he might like to give TV escorting a go.

I went to TV clubs dressed a couple of times before Covid and although I was more interested in the other cross-dressers I let a few polite guys have their way with me too.

If I could get £150 an hour for that I'd try it out – but there wouldn't be a lot of demand for the hairy, paunchy, grandfather I eventually became.

[PunterNumber69]

£10 ? Do you think that is enough to ensure someone has the incentive to turn up ?. And more importantly for you, enough to reimburse you if they don't.? If i were a wg (can't believe i have just typed that  ) and i insisted on a deposit, i would probably go for 50% of the booking fee. Not that it's gonna happen anytime soon. 

I wouldn't pay 50% as a deposit as shit does happen sometimes and your plans need to change.

£10 or £20 shows a commitment and if you don't show then the SP has gotten something out of it. It's mostly to deter timewasters.  Your average timewaster doesn't want to lose £10 or £20 especially if they get off on wasting many SPs time at the same time. I remember once posting a cash deposit to an SP two weeks before. It all went well on the day. Sending £10 or £20 anonymously is easy to do without creating a paper trail for those with watching partners.

[alabama1]

I wouldn't pay 50% as a deposit as shit does happen sometimes and your plans need to change.

£10 or £20 shows a commitment and if you don't show then the SP has gotten something out of it. It's mostly to deter timewasters.  Your average timewaster doesn't want to lose £10 or £20 especially if they get off on wasting many SPs time at the same time. I remember once posting a cash deposit to an SP two weeks before. It all went well on the day. Sending £10 or £20 anonymously is easy to do without creating a paper trail for those with watching partners.

Sending cash through the post ? :I would say you were at more risk of the cash being stolen in transit, rather than from the wg. And if it did get lost in transit, you would forever have suspected the wg of stealing it.