Do some sex workers despise us men?

[Metalgear2018]

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I have come across a few tweets like this from service providers and I was wondering are sex workers satisfied with their clients or their line of work? Obviously I would not ask them directly because I know I would get my head chewed off.

If they are making lots of money and feel empowered why complain ?

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[GingerNuts]

Perhaps no one gave them a Christmas gift.

[aronteo]

The reality is that I think so: some SPs tend to despise clients over time.

Think about it in this way: some are forced by a series of circumstances to become SPs - then it becomes a vicious circle and the risk to remain somehow 'trapped' in a sort of vortex is there and that can happen (especially for those who are not capable of saving money and start a new life). Then after 5 years or so spent being fucked, pounded, cummed  on by thousands of punters (and sometimes even abused), that can lead a SP not to like clients/men very much...

Not saying it is like that for every SP, but certainly it is for some...; yes, they make a lot of money, but it is a tough activity and the risk of becoming jaded over time is very tangible...

[peter purves]

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I have come across a few tweets like this from service providers and I was wondering are sex workers satisfied with their clients or their line of work? Obviously I would not ask them directly because I know I would get my head chewed off.

If they are making lots of money and feel empowered why complain ?

Here is another complaint

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Or are those tweets about men trying to get extended time with this particular WG and not that she hates men per se.

Or have I misread it? 

[Herts_Outcaller]

Probably some do, yes.

The above tweets both have a point though, you shouldn't expect working girls to just engage in lengthy conversation with you outside meetings - they're not your real girlfriend

[hendrix]

No doubt some do. But the examples you've quoted seem to be about boundary pushing dickheads, so that seems fair enough to me

[peter purves]

Probably some do, yes.

The above tweets both have a point though, you shouldn't expect working girls to just engage in lengthy conversation with you outside meetings - they're not your real girlfriend

I read it that these meetings were part of the punt tbh 

[Herts_Outcaller]

Anyone who's worked in any kind of customer service job will take a real liking to some customers, and a real disliking to others, dependent on how polite, easy they are to deal with, and how well they pay!

[Herts_Outcaller]

I read it that these meetings were part of the punt tbh 

the first line is "men in sex workers dms"

dms is direct messages - so messaging them on social media, not in a punt.

I'll message a girl asking her for a meeting (or meating :p), not how her day went

[peter purves]

the first line is "men in sex workers dms"

dms is direct messages - so messaging them on social media, not in a punt.

I'll message a girl asking her for a meeting (or meating :p), not how her day went

Cheers! I was wondering what the dms stood for

[Whipthatbooty]

Indeed I thought the same.

Think the tweet is complaining about men messaging and expecting attention without actually making a booking. Not a complaint about all men or even all clients, more this specific behaviour.

the first line is "men in sex workers dms"

dms is direct messages - so messaging them on social media, not in a punt.

I'll message a girl asking her for a meeting (or meating :p), not how her day went

[HarryZZ]

It's social media, everybody's a bit crazy on social media.

[Fuzzyduck]

Think the tweet is complaining about men messaging and expecting attention without actually making a booking. Not a complaint about all men or even all clients, more this specific behaviour.

Quite. Yet another example of OP posting bollocks.

[winkywanky]

If WGs have an open social media account (which is after all advertising for them) then they should expect guys to message them. If they're actually a little nice to them, they may even choose to make a booking for the WG's very expensive time  .

In that context, (within reason) you take the rough with the smooth and to an extent, humour guys who message you.

Yes, there'll be timewasters and the worst ones should be gently slapped down and ultimately, can be blocked. But what's quite enlightening is the names of some of these girls: Mistress Leora, Mistress Kye - exotic Dungeon Dominatrix and Lady Atia, Domina of the Dead to name just three. They're Doms, so these kind of comments they make to guys will just make sub guys want to book them even more. They know exactly what they're doing.

To me they're just fucked-up ball-busting manhaters, to a sub guy they're goddesses and the only women who make them cum hard.

Go figure...

[Fuzzyduck]

Yes, there'll be timewasters and the worst ones should be gently slapped down and ultimately, can be blocked. But what's quite enlightening is the names of some of these girls: Mistress Leora, Mistress Kye - exotic Dungeon Dominatrix and Lady Atia, Domina of the Dead to name just three. They're Doms, so these kind of comments they make to guys will just make sub guys want to book them even more. They know exactly what they're doing.

An insightful perspective, WW.

[tynetunnel]

An insightful perspective, WW.

Agreed - very insightful and sounds exactly right

[James999]

Most of their issues tend to be with Black or Asian client, hence many decline to see them.

[king tarzan]

Most of their issues tend to be with Black or Asian client, hence many decline to see them.

Asian clientele makes a large % of there income..
Personally I've hardly had any issues..
Obviously can't account for others.

[James999]

Asian clientele makes a large % of there income..

Obviously not if they decline to see them 

[king tarzan]

Obviously not if they decline to see them 

Dependent on your location... London vast %...
Cut the brown man out huge drop in earning potential..
Simpletto

[20jay]

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I have come across a few tweets like this from service providers and I was wondering are sex workers satisfied with their clients or their line of work? Obviously I would not ask them directly because I know I would get my head chewed off.

If they are making lots of money and feel empowered why complain ?

Here is another complaint

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The classic case, these guys do not seek sex but a girlfriend, a partner, the ladies exploit that, they sell them illusions and milk the idiot

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Yes i think some do and some don't. I was told a while ago by a girl who ran a very upmarkert agency that soime of her girls married their clients but these were a Thousand + a night girls!

Some agency owner in Gernamy used to tell of girls that were no longer avaibale as they were in relationships with clients and sometimes had married them!.

[James999]

Dependent on your location... London vast %...
Cut the brown man out huge drop in earning potential..

So does not offering bareback, but it's about a risk balance, and most decent girls get sufficient custom without running the risks 

[20jay]

Yes i think some do and some don't. I was told a while ago by a girl who ran a very upmarkert agency that soime of her girls married their clients but these were a Thousand + a night girls!

Some agency owner in Gernamy used to tell of girls that were no longer avaibale as they were in relationships with clients and sometimes had married them!.

Pretty woman becomes true for some, but it should be an absolute minority. If such a marriage holds I dare to doubt when the first intoxication is gone and hubby realizes his "dream wife" was shagged by thousands..

[signy]

I think that a lot of people who work in a service industry (as I do), which is what we are discussing, come to despise (many of) their customers. You meet enough people, you realise what a large proportion of the population consists of idiots and arseholes who look down on anyone serving them. (Sorry, end of bitter and twisted rant).

[20jay]

I think that a lot of people who work in a service industry (as I do), which is what we are discussing, come to despise (many of) their customers. You meet enough people, you realise what a large proportion of the population consists of idiots and arseholes who look down on anyone serving them. (Sorry, end of bitter and twisted rant).

That will be so ... and that will remain so as long as there are dependencies, especially to money

[BoroPool]

Yes definitely. One girl I seen regularly said she hated us and the job but the money was worth it. Then she'd click into escort mode and gave a really good service. Really put me off as i just seen the 'act' and fakeness after that

[webpunter]

Not hard to figure

Fit burd hooks up with wealthy geezer after checking him out & checking out the bank balance

The geezer is like a moth to a flame *

Live the life of luxury & probably enjoy it - better than getting nailed by however many blokes each week

Fire out a kid or two to sink the hooks in & might want kid(s) at some point anyways

Geezer will be leopards & spots - a return to hookering will be pretty much a dead cert

Geezer fucks up & burd has him over a barrel & a big pay-day looms

I was told a while ago by a girl who ran a very upmarkert agency that soime of her girls married their clients but these were a Thousand + a night girls!

* like a moth to a flame - eventually getting burnt

[webpunter]

Bless
You better go get some counselling to help you get over the traumatic experience 

Yes definitely. One girl I seen regularly said she hated us and the job but the money was worth it. Then she'd click into escort mode and gave a really good service. Really put me off as i just seen the 'act' and fakeness after that

[20jay]

Yes definitely. One girl I seen regularly said she hated us and the job but the money was worth it. Then she'd click into escort mode and gave a really good service. Really put me off as i just seen the 'act' and fakeness after that

She sells sex as a commodity packed in a little illusion. I don't care

She is a pro...

[Lilywhite]

I don't think SP despise SSs.

I think the job can take a mental toll on people who (please correct me if you feel I'm wrong- this is my own experience) by and large have some type of mental health issue.

When you become mentally tired it can be difficult to have sex, especially in a 'fun way'. I'm sure a lot of us here have been in relationships that have soured due to health issues and I expect mental health is a very high reason that sex stops in long term relationships.

When you are feeling mentally down, you need to step away from work in the sex industry. You cannot keep on providing 100% service to X amount of people a week.

Forcing yourself to work will breed self hatred, but it's easy to blame other people if you are not mindful and self reflecting.

[20jay]

I don't think SP despise SSs.

I think the job can take a mental toll on people who (please correct me if you feel I'm wrong- this is my own experience) by and large have some type of mental health issue.

When you become mentally tired it can be difficult to have sex, especially in a 'fun way'. I'm sure a lot of us here have been in relationships that have soured due to health issues and I expect mental health is a very high reason that sex stops in long term relationships.

When you are feeling mentally down, you need to step away from work in the sex industry. You cannot keep on providing 100% service to X amount of people a week.

Forcing yourself to work will breed self hatred, but it's easy to blame other people if you are not mindful and self reflecting.

Does not the waiter hate the guest who complains about the temperature of the wine?
Anyone who works with "customers" does not get their hand off their forehead , because of the behavior, questions, complaints of the customers .. no?

Hookers sell their bodies .. that's a difference. Lads imagine you have to fuck women who are absolutely not your taste. Ladies can use lube...but for you even the blue pill would not work

[Doc Holliday]

I don't think SP despise SSs.

I disagree, it's common amongst SPs. It should only matter to punters if it affects the punt .... which of course it can.

But for the SP, especially in the 'burnout' scenario you describe, it can become all consuming.

[Lilywhite]

But for the SP, especially in the 'burnout' scenario you describe, it can become all consuming.

For me, this is the only time I can truly say I was fed up with meeting people. But it probably wasn't just clients- it was all consuming.

I feel like with more solidarity with SPs online and with more men willing to pay for nothing/content/dinner dates, it can breed complacency- making some forget the bread and butter who actually pay the bills, not just the fancy meals.

[20jay]

I feel like with more solidarity with SPs online and with more men willing to pay for nothing/content/dinner dates,

Is the employer of the SS willing to pay for nothing..?

[BoroPool]

Bless
You better go get some counselling to help you get over the traumatic experience

 

[Lilywhite]

Is the employer of the SS willing to pay for nothing..?

I'm not sure what you mean?

I am talking about people who send amazon gift cards to their fave girl for nothing and the like.

[20jay]

I'm not sure what you mean?

I am talking about people who send amazon gift cards to their fave girl for nothing and the like.

A gesture of friendship ... so far so good. But this is a complete misjudgment of the situation, as we heard,  punters are rather despised or hated. And you rather feel solidarity ... really?

so why give gifts away for nothing in front of this background.. punters get also nothing for nothing . EDIT .. can you see my point of view ?

[Lilywhite]

A gesture of friendship ... so far so good. But this is a complete misjudgment of the situation, as we heard,  punters are rather despised or hated. And you rather feel solidarity ... really?

so why give gifts away for nothing in front of this background.. punters get also nothing for nothing .

Honestly, I'm still not following what you mean to be honest.

[James999]

so why give gifts away for nothing in front of this background..

Are you pissed? 

[20jay]

Honestly, I'm still not following what you mean to be honest.

My point

We heard punter are despised or hated by the SP

You say : "I feel like with more solidarity with SPs online and with more men willing to pay for nothing/content/dinner dates..--.."

I say ,why should men pay for nothing or give gifts away , in front of this background, because they have also to earn their money, and their employer does not pay for nothing ..

[20jay]

Are you pissed? 

I see your point James ... 

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[Lilywhite]

My point

We heard punter are despised or hated by the SP

You say : "I feel like with more solidarity with SPs online and with more men willing to pay for nothing/content/dinner dates..--.."

I say ,why should men pay for nothing or give gifts away , in front of this background, because they have also to earn their money, and their employer does not pay for nothing ..

I am not saying they should, I am saying men do. So maybe some SPs expect a lot with no effort, then when they have to exert, it makes them unhappy.

[20jay]

I am not saying they should, I am saying men do. So maybe some SPs except a lot with no effort, then when they have to exert, it makes them unhappy.

Okay .. It was nothing against you or who ever

And of course, people can thank for kicks and give away whatever they want. What I wrote is just my opinion that one do not have to share.

[Lilywhite]

Okay .. It was nothing against you or who ever

And of course, people can thank for kicks and give away whatever they want. What I wrote is just my opinion that one do not have to share.

Again, I still don't really know what you mean but ok. 

[James999]

I see your point James ... 

Shame others can't say the same about you 

[jeanphillipe]

 

..... i just wanted to get in on the 'hats off' action.

[20jay]

Shame others can't say the same about you 

And that wonders you, of course she thinks it's nice if her colleagues get presents from punters, although they despise them , if you were a punter instead of a troll you would be despised as well. 

[James999]

And that wonders you, of course she thinks it's nice if her colleagues get presents from punters,

Are you retarded? (or the PC version "special needs")

[20jay]

Are you retarded? (or the PC version "special needs")

Great reasoning, for your IQ ...and your point is ? BTW.. I'm done on this stage