Seeking advise for a Thai visit end of Jan

[kt96]

Hi all i would appreciate any recommendations, i plan to visit Thailand end of Jan for 10-14 days (if i can get away from work)
would like to find a WG preferably mid 20s who might be available for a longer period of time (up to possibly most of the visit) and show me around and have some fun.
No idea how to start the search and what would be a going rate for longer times..
any advise again is welcome and appreciated

[southcoastpunter]

a good starting point is to read the many threads (15 on the first page of a laptop written this year) on Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket. They have a LOT of info in them.

One of the things you will read is that most guys don't recommend you book a girl for your whole trip - but if you read up and still want to, there are some forums to do this (google it) or create a profile on ThaiFriendly and state what you are wanting there. But make sure you read up here first before doing it!!

[LordGrantham]

I agree with what SCP has said, a holiday GF for the entire time you are there would be expensive (5-6k a day) and a waste when there are endless opportunities for company.
There’s an unwritten rule that you shouldn’t stay with a girl for more than 3 days otherwise you will be taken for a ride.
My suggestion is create a ThaiFriendly profile, put in the headline that you want a guide for a few days (you’d only need one in Bangkok) then make your way to Phuket or Pattaya and play the field.

[Marmalade]

I'd just hang around Patpong and try to find one that seems into you and can speak a reasonable level of English. Let her compete for your attention.

[southcoastpunter]

i have only been to Thailand 3 times (all this year) and didn't go to Patpong as i was told it was not what it used to be (since covid) and in fact is now pretty poor compared to other areas.

How up to date is your info Marmalade? perhaps i should give it a go when i return in february or march!

[Marmalade]

i have only been to Thailand 3 times (all this year) and didn't go to Patpong as i was told it was not what it used to be (since covid) and in fact is now pretty poor compared to other areas.

How up to date is your info Marmalade? perhaps i should give it a go when i return in february or march!

I've not been this year certainly. The general attitude though works I think, whether patpong or other drinking places or wherever the SPs are hanging out. You could make an 'arrangement' but it's so much better to find one that clicks, stay at her place or take her on a short trip.

But as for the 'showing me around' thing mentioned by the OP, I don't honestly think that's a good idea. Better any decent guide book and go and see the sights, pretty easy. Most of them have zero interest in that and they can look an embarrassment walking round the Grand Wat or places. But take her down the coast to Hua Hin or somewhere with a beach to make her happy and she'll be better company. I know I'm generalising most Thai SPs are pretty generalisable. What do you think yourself southcoast?

[Marmalade]

The other thing is 14 days is probably not long enough to do 'off-piste' stuff like get someone for several days. You don't go to a sweetie shop and pre-order one type of sweet for a week unless you've tried them all and just want to be kinky. Just be a regular punter for his first trip, go in and bang as many as he can. That would be my suggestion.

[allross]

I did this and it worked for me as I am not really into the bar scene in Pattaya as I don't drink. I really enjoyed sight seeing in Thailand and travelled around the country so worked for me to have someone who spoke the language and good company. Thee is lots of advice on here and certainly other members will recommend against it and just go with flow when you get there, but it does depend on what you want from your holiday.

I was introduced to my companion by a regular massage lady I saw- most have sisters/cousins/friends who they will hook you up with for this. The advantage of this is you can make contact in advance of going and make sure you get along and she is right for you. I chatted with mine for a couple of months on Facebook before I went. I would do it again.

[Steely Dan]

One companion for more than 3-4 days is not needed.  If you are really taken with her, you can extend.  But if you are really taken with her it is a bad idea to extend, heh heh.

Booking a 3-4 day companion based on chatting in advance on social media is fine for some, but would not work for me.  I need to meet her face to face, and have sex with her.  We are all different.  For me it would be to have a few candidates on TF, and meet them before booking LT.  If none seem right, find some local talent through the many methods mentioned here over the last 6 months across many threads.

[Marmalade]

What Steely said.
Also, once away from their familiar routine and circle many SPs have been known to have a personality change. Or maybe it just becomes more obvious that they never had one in the first place.

[southcoastpunter]

What do you think yourself southcoast?

i tend to agree with you. although as allross said, it does depend on what the Op wants from his time there.

Op - You don't have to drink to enjoy a bar or go-go scene and , there be mindful that there is a huge difference between spending a day or so with someone and spending 10 days or so. I haven't done it with a Escort but i have 6 times with 4 different SB (from Seeking) -  i don't think it would have worked if i hadn't known them well. luckily it was great, but it has the potential to be a nightmare.

I also had a tour guide/Escort in Patong for a couple of days (and the night!!) and that was good - she knew the area really well and took me to some "off the beaten track" places as i asked. But if female company / sex is your priority then a full time companion will be more of a burden than a help - as they will want you to spend your money on them and not other women.

[ronthebrummie]

Just get out there, spend a few days finding your bearings, you'll never be short of company its everywhere. Don't believe all you read here find it out for yourself IMHO

[southcoastpunter]

Don't believe all you read here find it out for yourself IMHO

what excatly does that mean? - i think the information given by guys in the threads i have read (all of them this year) is pretty good and accurate. of course guys have different takes/views on things and difference preferences and experiences etc but the info is pretty good to take a balanced overview and tailor it to your own personal preference.

your words suggest (maybe you didn't mean it quite like that) that you think some contributors are either bullshitting or plain wrong.

[ronthebrummie]

Every person has their own ideas, one man’s meat is another man’s poison, personally I can’t stand Soi 6 think it’s overpriced and overrated but some guys go on about it as if it’s the holy grail.
My point is yes, read and take notes for ideas, but get your arse out there and find out what suits you.

[LordGrantham]

Every person has their own ideas, one man’s meat is another man’s poison, personally I can’t stand Soi 6 think it’s overpriced and overrated but some guys go on about it as if it’s the holy grail.
My point is yes, read and take notes for ideas, but get your arse out there and find out what suits you.

I agree, I read some reviews on here that I know are bullshit, it’s just like being in the pub.
In my posts I offer only my experience and perspective, before spending a substantial amount of money and time on either a WG or an overseas trip I encourage people to read as much as possible but you won’t know until that little spinner is sitting on your cock.

[Azucar D Artagnan]

Go to Sukhumvit in BBK ..... at evening/night go to Cafe Thermae where all the indies freelancers hang out and make their  bookings . You can negotiate what ever you want there . No Katoyes hiding in amongst the whores either 

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[southcoastpunter]

I agree, I read some reviews on here that I know are bullshit, it’s just like being in the pub.
In my posts I offer only my experience and perspective,

what Ronthebrummie wrote in answer to my question makes sense and is imo somewhat different to his original wording. again i take issue with the word "bullshit" - you have used that again which to me means "untrue and made up stuff" - so have the balls to say what and who on these threads has made up stuff as opposed to having a different experience or view to you.

You say "In my posts I offer only my experience and perspective" - again, a reading of that suggests others are not doing the same (but from their perspective) so be specific if you claim others are "bullshitting". who and over what?

(fwiw, i don't think you are referring to me as "In my posts I offer only my experience and perspective", but saying contributors are bullshitting is some claim and others should know whose experience and comment you are saying is "untrue/made up"

[allross]

Some different perspectives and I echo the thought that it depends what you want from the holiday. The lady I spent time with is not a regular SP and has a regular job and hence needed the introduction. It worked for me as I enjoyed her company. But there is some good advice on here.

[Fatman]

Go to Sukhumvit in BBK ..... at evening/night go to Cafe Thermae where all the indies freelancers hang out and make their  bookings . You can negotiate what ever you want there . No Katoyes hiding in amongst the whores either 

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Has anyone got a ruff idea as to cost for the girls in the Cafe Thermae? Understand there will be a high to low scale but a approx idea would be really helpful… it looks great.
Well happy new year to you all, getting my plans in place for my Thai hunting trip 

[LordGrantham]

Thermae girls can be quite picky, they prefer Asian money so might inflate what they say to you. My understanding is that 3k ST is standard. They don’t hang around either, I sat outside the S15 hotel next door watching the couples come in and 30 mins later the girls would be back at Thermae.
There are lots of freelancers hanging around the area, they are cheaper (1-2k) and some come with a surprise 😏

[LordGrantham]

what Ronthebrummie wrote in answer to my question makes sense and is imo somewhat different to his original wording. again i take issue with the word "bullshit" - you have used that again which to me means "untrue and made up stuff" - so have the balls to say what and who on these threads has made up stuff as opposed to having a different experience or view to you.

You say "In my posts I offer only my experience and perspective" - again, a reading of that suggests others are not doing the same (but from their perspective) so be specific if you claim others are "bullshitting". who and over what?

(fwiw, i don't think you are referring to me as "In my posts I offer only my experience and perspective", but saying contributors are bullshitting is some claim and others should know whose experience and comment you are saying is "untrue/made up"

You’ve completely got the wrong end of the stick matey, I agree with everything you’ve said on this and other threads on the Thailand.
My bullshit comment was relating to reviews on this site I’ve read on some girls I have seen myself that I find incredulous.
My apologies for my wording, no offence was intended at all.

[Azucar D Artagnan]

Has anyone got a ruff idea as to cost for the girls in the Cafe Thermae? Understand there will be a high to low scale but a approx idea would be really helpful… it looks great.
Well happy new year to you all, getting my plans in place for my Thai hunting trip 

Lord Grantham answers this question obviously depends on short time or long time , your attractiveness , how skint and desperate they are , their attractiveness and their combined experience in the game and negotiating kills . Search for vids on Youtube as several do R and R with Freelancers about prices 

[METEOR]

Thermae girls can be quite picky, they prefer Asian money so might inflate what they say to you. My understanding is that 3k ST is standard. They don’t hang around either, I sat outside the S15 hotel next door watching the couples come in and 30 mins later the girls would be back at Thermae.
There are lots of freelancers hanging around the area, they are cheaper (1-2k) and some come with a surprise 😏

That's why they call the Asian guys 333 🤣

[Fatman]

Many thanks for the information… yes the 333 😂😂😂

[southcoastpunter]

You’ve completely got the wrong end of the stick matey, I agree with everything you’ve said on this and other threads on the Thailand.
My bullshit comment was relating to reviews on this site I’ve read on some girls I have seen myself that I find incredulous.
My apologies for my wording, no offence was intended at all.

ah, ok - my apologies too for reading it wrong.

btw, imo its ok to disagree with one another - although i tend to agree with you about some  of the punting reviews.

[ronthebrummie]

If the original OP is out and about in Thailand end of January, and it is his first time, I arrive BKK 2nd Feb for 6 weeks don't mind meeting up and having a beer. I've been going over 20 years now and thing of moving over there full time.

I'll be in the Pattaya area, might have trip up North for a few days having a nosey.

Anyone else out, PM me

[billybob69]

There is a company that operates in Bangkok that offers 'tour guides and maybe more' type of thing, but for the life of me I can't remember what it is called. Otherwise you might want to try looking on Smooci or TF.

It depends what you mean by 'show me around and have some fun'.
Thai's have a different idea of what is 'fun' or 'adventure' to that of a Westerner. For many an un-westernised harden Thai hooker going sight-seeing, hiking, tourist stuff might not be fun, particularly so if it means being in the sun and / or exerting effort. They are more likely to enjoy things that involve eating, shopping and sleeping. And being around other Thai's such as drinking and dancing.

[funguy_blr]

Hi all i would appreciate any recommendations, i plan to visit Thailand end of Jan for 10-14 days (if i can get away from work)
would like to find a WG preferably mid 20s who might be available for a longer period of time (up to possibly most of the visit) and show me around and have some fun.
No idea how to start the search and what would be a going rate for longer times..
any advise again is welcome and appreciated

can suggest a few I have used, PM me

[randompunter1234]

There is a lot of current information on how to find a holiday companion in thailand (other than the most obvious places.

However as most have pointed out, its a big ask committing to one girl  for almost 2 weeks even before a meet. Most likely it would not work, unless you are splashing a big amount of cash

I'd give an example from my recent trip.

I was travelling with my friend, who managed to find a regular girl on TF and planned to spend 3 days in bkk. They were talking on/ off for about a week to ten days before the trip. They seemed to click and she seemed perfect. She even checked into the AIrBnb before us. SHe flew from Chiang Mai on her own expense.
However, after seeing her in person, a dinner later, he wanted her out of the door

Once you land, too many girls looking for your attention and cash

[ronthebrummie]

Once you land, too many girls looking for your attention and cash
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Exactly

[Azucar D Artagnan]

But as for the 'showing me around' thing mentioned by the OP, I don't honestly think that's a good idea. Better any decent guide book and go and see the sights, pretty easy. Most of them have zero interest in that and they can look an embarrassment walking round the Grand Wat or places. But take her down the coast to Hua Hin or somewhere with a beach to make her happy and she'll be better company. I know I'm generalising most Thai SPs are pretty generalisable. What do you think yourself southcoast?

So true dat 
Only a middle class Thai who has been to Uni and possibly US College would be interested in that , Good luck finding one of them on the game . On Youtube a short sweaty bespeckaled Paddy has a channel walking around Suhkumvit night markets interviewing just this type of early 30 year old . Some of who are 10/10  ..... Very interesting 

[LordGrantham]

So true dat 
Only a middle class Thai who has been to Uni and possibly US College would be interested in that , Good luck finding one of them on the game . On Youtube a short sweaty bespeckaled Paddy has a channel walking around Suhkumvit night markets interviewing just this type of early 30 year old . Some of who are 10/10  ..... Very interesting 

His attempts at speaking Thai make me shudder 😆

[Dav618id]

If your still interested try this

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A bonus here is that two of them drive.

Or go on this friendly fine a girl that can drive.

[kuck]

...On Youtube a short sweaty bespeckaled Paddy has a channel walking around Suhkumvit night markets interviewing just this type of early 30 year old ....

Sounds interesting. Do you have a link?

[LordGrantham]

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[kuck]

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[Stickitin]

Just leads to embarrassing situations like lots of near silent dinners where you’ve both run out of things to talk about, any time I’ve been with girls 2+ days this always happens and I just want rid of them. Fuck em and fling em….

[Azucar D Artagnan]

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Nice find  That's the murderer of the Thai language    He's forgotten Thai is tone based language . To be fair he does interview the occasional stunner     also he bumps into Chinese doing marketing schemes on the streets or live auctions . Very interesting  One of these men has a great Thai helper 

[LordGrantham]

My favourite part of this vid is his ‘camerawoman’ giving directions and forgetting it’s a mirrored door. 😂



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[clivethomas]

I've not been this year certainly. The general attitude though works I think, whether patpong or other drinking places or wherever the SPs are hanging out. You could make an 'arrangement' but it's so much better to find one that clicks, stay at her place or take her on a short trip.

But as for the 'showing me around' thing mentioned by the OP, I don't honestly think that's a good idea. Better any decent guide book and go and see the sights, pretty easy. Most of them have zero interest in that and they can look an embarrassment walking round the Grand Wat or places. But take her down the coast to Hua Hin or somewhere with a beach to make her happy and she'll be better company. I know I'm generalising most Thai SPs are pretty generalisable. What do you think yourself southcoast?

Lazy, uneducated, impulsive harmful behaviour that borders on the insane, no interests or hobbies.  Usually the 7 deadly sins rolled into one.  Wait a few days and the mask falls off, they are usually a very good first few days though and they know their job in the bedroom department!

OP, look up the 3 day rule.  You either end up having a shit time because she is a moron or she is too good to be true and things start to take a different path.

When you get on the ground you will be blown away by the choices on offer.  You might meet some girl and she blows your mind, great service, funny, friendly, quirky, sweet almost and be taken away.  That's what a lot of them are like though, so doin't get hung up on one. 

If you do take a girl multiple days then remember you are the boss and once you have had enough you can send her on her way with her baht without feeling bad about it. It's always strictly business no matter how much she may suggest otherwise.

[LordGrantham]

⬆️ what he said. They see you as a walking ATM, nothing more.

[Azucar D Artagnan]

⬆️ what he said. They see you as a walking ATM, nothing more.

Of course and they have to ! Only Farangs with no knowledge of Thai socio culture would think otherwise . The cuttie sucking the western cock dry every night has to provide for the parents back in the rice village or cover her Mother's debts in the local market as well as possibly a toddler being raised by the Grand Parents  who was fathered by a Thai immature and reckless boy who is well off the scene . The choice of boyfriend/customer is made purely on his ability to pay short term or long term . Him looking like Brad Pitt is not in the decision factoring neither is how well he licks pussy or what restaurant he takes her to   A recent interesting vid. on Bar Girls discussed how their attitudes to customers have changed since the new laws guaranteeing them a retainer by the bar owner and the supply of peasant fire farmers daughters slowing down  . Resulting in them not offering sex during the hours spent with their bar fine payer and having Thai boyfriends and not looking for a Western Husband unless it's a cash stream to play with  If you want a tour guide and companion then the poorly educated , entitled , trixy daughter of a peasant rice farmer guiding you around a City she knows next to nothing about and to which you are completely ignorant of and can't speak the language let alone read the street signs sounds like a recipe for disaster . Silk purses and Sows ears spring to mind 
Bangkok Pat would be a better choice but i doubt whether he will be offering B.Js 

[clivethomas]

Of course and they have to ! Only Farangs with no knowledge of Thai socio culture would think otherwise . The cuttie sucking the western cock dry every night has to provide for the parents back in the rice village or cover her Mother's debts in the local market as well as possibly a toddler being raised by the Grand Parents  who was fathered by a Thai immature and reckless boy who is well off the scene . The choice of boyfriend/customer is made purely on his ability to pay short term or long term . Him looking like Brad Pitt is not in the decision factoring neither is how well he licks pussy or what restaurant he takes her to   A recent interesting vid. on Bar Girls discussed how their attitudes to customers have changed since the new laws guaranteeing them a retainer by the bar owner and the supply of peasant fire farmers daughters slowing down  . Resulting in them not offering sex during the hours spent with their bar fine payer and having Thai boyfriends and not looking for a Western Husband unless it's a cash stream to play with  If you want a tour guide and companion then the poorly educated , entitled , trixy daughter of a peasant rice farmer guiding you around a City she knows next to nothing about and to which you are completely ignorant of and can't speak the language let alone read the street signs sounds like a recipe for disaster . Silk purses and Sows ears spring to mind 
Bangkok Pat would be a better choice but i doubt whether he will be offering B.Js 

You don't really need a tour guide anyway, it's so easy to get around and most of the places worth visiting are hardly a secret. You're right, the girls know nothing and most of them want to do nothing anyway.   Then if you hang around BKK on your own vs with your Isaan whore you will notice a difference in the way you are treated, so the tour guide may be more of a hindrance.  The sex industry is reviled by regular folk and people think you are a mug for hanging around with them.

The girls are good fun and all that and good at what they do but putting up with them is very hard work so it's always better to smash as many as you can. As you always pay after the deed in Thailand they are eager to please to ensure they get their money, once they know you're going to pay them regardless after a few days the effort will dwindle. They are a victim of their upbringing to some extent but it attracts a certain type, they are wasters from families of wasters.  The scorpion and the frog story is well used to describe them, they will always fuck you over in the end, they just can't help it.

[Watp]

Excellent thread here from the contributors an a must read for any thailand newbie 

[billybob69]

A recent interesting vid. on Bar Girls discussed how their attitudes to customers have changed since the new laws guaranteeing them a retainer by the bar owner

I didn't know that the law had changed (or even that there was a law). Have you got a link to the video?

@clivethomas generally excellent advice there, but I would question whether a farang with limited experience in Thailand would be able to sense that they are being treated differently by Hi-So / Middle-class Thai's because of the type of women that they are with. Thai socio culture is very subtle at the best of times. I would suspect that a Thai person would have to seriously 'lose face' before a newbie Farang would realise that something was up.

I've not heard the scorpion and the frog story before, but it is a good analogy. It seems that their motto is 'take advantage today, the opportunity might arise tomorrow'. They have little concept of long-term planning.

[Azucar D Artagnan]

   Then if you hang around BKK on your own vs with your Isaan whore you will notice a difference in the way you are treated, so the tour guide may be more of a hindrance.  The sex industry is reviled by regular folk and people think you are a mug for hanging around with them.

Had meant to make that comment as well . Walking down a Soi with a 22 yr old in stiletoes and mini skirt + boob job and tattoos showing does you few favours . Best kept to the bedroom not showing off to Thai people who know exactly what's going on and despise you for it and hold you in contempt .

[kt96]

i appreciate all the messages, few of you suggested to PM you , but i am not an op so i cannot do that unfortunately, i had to revise my plans and currently planning to go there early march only, unless i can get away from work earlier..
whomever offered to PM them would appreciate if they would send me a message so i can reply
thanks to all

[southcoastpunter]

Ky69 - a friendly suggestion , read the rules mate. Asking for a pm can get you banned!!

[LordGrantham]

Had meant to make that comment as well . Walking down a Soi with a 22 yr old in stiletoes and mini skirt + boob job and tattoos showing does you few favours . Best kept to the bedroom not showing off to Thai people who know exactly what's going on and despise you for it and hold you in contempt .

I absolutely loved it, getting the nod from other farang sitting in the bars as you paraded with some young hottie that wouldn’t normally give you the time of day, I felt like a king (however temporary ).

[kt96]

Ky69 - a friendly suggestion , read the rules mate. Asking for a pm can get you banned!!

ohh i do apologize please spear me