Overweight punters

[HeavyRepeater25]

Bit of an odd question but I gained maybe 20kg over past few yrs from when I was borderline optimal fitness/6 pack. I'm not obese by any standard but very conscious I don't have the most appealing body these days. As my preference is generally for slim size 4-8 women, do you think it's something escorts are conscious of? Ie are they more inclined to fake it with a fat guy than an in shape one?

[alabama1]

I have had enough conversations with working girls to know that they don,t care what a punter looks like, as long as they are clean and pleasant. They would rather see an overweight ugly clean guy, rather than a good looking smelly one.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

I have had enough conversations with working girls to know that they don,t care what a punter looks like, as long as they are clean and pleasant. They would rather see an overweight ugly clean guy, rather than a good looking smelly one.

And the Fat they love is the width of his wallet!...

[MissWolf]

Bit of an odd question but I gained maybe 20kg over past few yrs from when I was borderline optimal fitness/6 pack. I'm not obese by any standard but very conscious I don't have the most appealing body these days. As my preference is generally for slim size 4-8 women, do you think it's something escorts are conscious of? Ie are they more inclined to fake it with a fat guy than an in shape one?

I'm not your type at all but I am an SP and from my personal perspective I can tell you that no weight isn't an issue for me in general.

If you are so big I have to hold your body fat back to find the old boy it's going to be harder but not impossible.
If you are just a few pounds over your ideal weight then all is good, I actually find a bit more of a cuddle bod much more attractive than a ripped bod, some of the best sex in bookings I've had has been with guys 20lb over ideal and with a bit of a beer belly.

I mean I'm not exactly thin before anyone decides to point that out 

[Thephoenix]

Bit of an odd question ...... I don't have the most appealing body these days.    (WHO DOES?)

 As my preference is generally for slim size 4-8 women, do you think it's something escorts are conscious of?........(PROBABLY!)

Are they more inclined to fake it with a fat guy than an in shape one?

What do you think?
Maybe too much of a general question for punters. Probably best answered by one of our SP members.
I don't know about the WG faking it, but as a punter would you prefer to shag an 'in shape' lady or a fat one?

[alabama1]

What do you think?
Maybe too much of a general question for punters. Probably best answered by one of our SP members.
I don't know about the WG faking it, but as a punter would you prefer to shag an 'in shape' lady or a fat one?

Give me a miserable "fitty" any day over a friendly "fatty". 

[Thephoenix]

Give me a miserable "fitty" any day over a friendly "fatty". 

What about a friendly curvy?.....now your talking.

[alabama1]

What about a friendly curvy?.....now your talking.

Friendly fitty and i have hit the jackpot 

[HeavyRepeater25]

I'm not your type at all but I am an SP and from my personal perspective I can tell you that no weight isn't an issue for me in general.

If you are so big I have to hold your body fat back to find the old boy it's going to be harder but not impossible.
If you are just a few pounds over your ideal weight then all is good, I actually find a bit more of a cuddle bod much more attractive than a ripped bod, some of the best sex in bookings I've had has been with guys 20lb over ideal and with a bit of a beer belly.

I mean I'm not exactly thin before anyone decides to point that out 

Yes I should have specified overweight but immaculately clean. I only ask as in the world outside of punting my appeal has dropped way off with the additional weight.

[Payyourwaymate]

Bit of an odd question but I gained maybe 20kg over past few yrs from when I was borderline optimal fitness/6 pack. I'm not obese by any standard but very conscious I don't have the most appealing body these days. As my preference is generally for slim size 4-8 women, do you think it's something escorts are conscious of? Ie are they more inclined to fake it with a fat guy than an in shape one?

I think you should be more concerned about losing weight for your health. Not what a WG thinks.

[signy]

I think you should be more concerned about losing weight for your health. Not what a WG thinks.

Spot on. Depending on your body size and type 20kg could be a lot of excess weight (it would require me to put on 30% of my present body mass, but for a big well-built man, not so much of a problem). However, the real worry is the vicious circle of being overweight, so not being confident or wanting to exercise, comfort eating instead and then becoming really obese. Deal with it while you can.

I have read a few AW profiles where they mention overweight men, but these are more about cleanliness than the weight per se.

[MissWolf]

Yes I should have specified overweight but immaculately clean. I only ask as in the world outside of punting my appeal has dropped way off with the additional weight.

Personally I think this has more to do with your confidence in yourself and the effect the weight gain has had on that.

Take a bit of time to examine why you have gained weight, what's changed in what you are doing and eating etc

But I agree with what the guys are saying, as long as you are clean, on time, pay the fee and have fun then we are all good to go 

[oddson1970]

l am in my mid 50's and l carry a bit of excess weight due to the following reasons....l no longer do manual labour for a living, l gave up cigarrettes 8 years ago and l suffer from an underactive thyroid.Over the last few years l have gained an additional 3/3 and a half stones.Its been difficult trying to shift the excess due to exercise not being a serious option due to physical limitations.l have never had any negative comments or strange looks from an SP and it doesn't affect my mindset at all.Being slightly over 6 feet in height , l can maybe carry it a bit better than some.Attitude ,respect and cleanliness count for a lot more in this hobby as the response from SP's indicate.

[Lou2019]

I'm not your type at all but I am an SP and from my personal perspective I can tell you that no weight isn't an issue for me in general.

If you are so big I have to hold your body fat back to find the old boy it's going to be harder but not impossible.
If you are just a few pounds over your ideal weight then all is good, I actually find a bit more of a cuddle bod much more attractive than a ripped bod, some of the best sex in bookings I've had has been with guys 20lb over ideal and with a bit of a beer belly.

I mean I'm not exactly thin before anyone decides to point that out 

+1

[HeavyRepeater25]

Spot on. Depending on your body size and type 20kg could be a lot of excess weight (it would require me to put on 30% of my present body mass, but for a big well-built man, not so much of a problem). However, the real worry is the vicious circle of being overweight, so not being confident or wanting to exercise, comfort eating instead and then becoming really obese. Deal with it while you can.

I have read a few AW profiles where they mention overweight men, but these are more about cleanliness than the weight per se.

Oh don't get me wrong I exercise like am absolute bohemoth, but I also eat like one 😂. Primarily due to circumstance throwing my diet out of sync. Lockdown hasn't helped 🙄

[hunkybc]

I don't think the SPs care to be honest. It's money for them. Yes they are likely to fake it I think. Maybe they like the larger guy and get off on it!

P.s I also eat like there is no tomorrow and I fully blame lockdown. Roll on my 2nd jab so I can get back to the gym!

[Thephoenix]

Personally I think this has more to do with your confidence in yourself and the effect the weight gain has had on that.

Take a bit of time to examine why you have gained weight, what's changed in what you are doing and eating etc

But I agree with what the guys are saying, as long as you are clean, on time, pay the fee and have fun then we are all good to go 

I'm sure you are Miss W.

But the question was.....Are you more inclined to fake it with a fattie than with an 'inshape' guy.

I understand if you wish to claim the 5th amendment.

[Belgarion]

Bit of an odd question but I gained maybe 20kg over past few yrs from when I was borderline optimal fitness/6 pack. I'm not obese by any standard but very conscious I don't have the most appealing body these days. As my preference is generally for slim size 4-8 women, do you think it's something escorts are conscious of? Ie are they more inclined to fake it with a fat guy than an in shape one?

Turn up clean and with the right amount of cash and they will provide services.

Your looks in the grand scheme of things are irrelevant

[Stevelondon]

I'm sure you are Miss W.

But the question was.....Are you more inclined to fake it with a fattie than with an 'inshape' guy.

I understand if you wish to claim the 5th amendment.

Surely faking it is part of a good SP’s work ethic 

As for overweight punters.
Agree with clean and hygienic being most important.
Obviously if someone is so morbidly obese they have difficulties performing...... then it’s a different argument.

I’ve seen massage ads stating the table can not withstand a certain weight.

Glad to say I’m still at my optimum fighting weight.
If only I was 6ft fuckin 8 inches

[MissWolf]

I'm sure you are Miss W.

But the question was.....Are you more inclined to fake it with a fattie than with an 'inshape' guy.

I understand if you wish to claim the 5th amendment.

I'm not inclined to fake it with anyone regardless of what they look like or how much they pay me, I'm shit at roleplay and acting.

An orgasm for me is a bonus, the gift for me is giving pleasure and most of the time with that mindset I also get pleasure.

[MissWolf]

Surely faking it is part of a good SP’s work ethic 

As for overweight punters.
Agree with clean and hygienic being most important.
Obviously if someone is so morbidly obese they have difficulties performing...... then it’s a different argument.

I’ve seen massage ads stating the table can not withstand a certain weight.

Glad to say I’m still at my optimum fighting weight.
If only I was 6ft fuckin 8 inches

Where the fuck is that 5th amendment 

No seriously I can't fake orgasms I'm  really terrible at it, I always think I sound like a really low budget B rate porn actress and then I start giggling   honestly thats not good for business

[joe diddley]

With most WGs they're only interested in whether your wallet has a six pack.

[Jeffe]

I had a wg once tell me they try and find something attractive in each punter to help the meet, so the punter might be a hairy fat guy but they have kind eyes so they focus on that…..also us hairy fat guys are great to cuddle with after 

[Stevelondon]

Where the fuck is that 5th amendment 

No seriously I can't fake orgasms I'm  really terrible at it, I always think I sound like a really low budget B rate porn actress and then I start giggling   honestly thats not good for business

Oh I don’t know.
Next time I fancy a bit of small penis humiliation I’ll be in touch 

[Hanna Lorde (Service Provider)]

Not being the smallest of ladies, I actually like a bit of excess weight on a punter.  Makes me feel much more comfortable not breathing in for the whole meet 

[Horseman]

Not being the smallest of ladies, I actually like a bit of excess weight on a punter.  Makes me feel much more comfortable not breathing in for the whole meet 

You shouldn't be so worried- many guys like larger ladies. Don't fall for the media crap that says you have to be thin to be hot.

What is and isn't attractive is totally dependant on personal preference.

[Hanna Lorde (Service Provider)]

You shouldn't be so worried- many guys like larger ladies. Don't fall for the media crap that says you have to be thin to be hot.

What is and isn't attractive is totally dependant on personal preference.

I don’t worry, it’s up to the punter to read my profile and take note of my size (Size 12 is not that large)  I’m happy with my size but like most people, you’re never 100% happy.  I think best thing is for punters to leave their hang ups at the door and just have fun.  You’re paying for a good time, not to be judged on your size

[Horseman]

I don’t worry, it’s up to the punter to read my profile and take note of my size (Size 12 is not that large)  I’m happy with my size but like most people, you’re never 100% happy.  I think best thing is for punters to leave their hang ups at the door and just have fun.  You’re paying for a good time, not to be judged on your size

A sad truth that many of us aren't 100% with ourselves.

I mean you call yourself larger....Size 12 (IMO) is not even close to large.

[Stevelondon]

Absolutely...... size 12.
Positively svelte.


Come on now........ admit it. You lot had to go and google what svelte meant. 

[tynetunnel]

Absolutely...... size 12.
Positively svelte.


Come on now........ admit it. You lot had to go and google what svelte meant. 

Err nope, but then I am suave and sophisticated 

[Colston36]

A sad truth that many of us aren't 100% with ourselves.

I mean you call yourself larger....Size 12 (IMO) is not even close to large.

I think the lady said not the smallest; by most standards 12 is close to perfect.

[Horseman]

I think the lady said not the smallest; by most standards 12 is close to perfect.

She did indeed. In my defence that's generally said to mean they think they're a bit over weight.

Honestly I just got muddled up!

And I agree 12 is pretty close to perfection IMO.

[alabama1]

I think the lady said not the smallest; by most standards 12 is close to perfect.

Your standards, not most. 

[Payyourwaymate]

She did indeed. In my defence that's generally said to mean they think they're a bit over weight.

Honestly I just got muddled up!

And I agree 12 is pretty close to perfection IMO.

I know everyone is trying to be nice to the WG provider with her size, but 12 is not a perfect size. There is no perfect size, it's all subjective. Furthermore it depends on how she is built, there are some size 12s that look great and some that look awful. No one knows what she looks like.... she could look like a pile of laundry for all we know but members are doing Mr nice guy. LOL really?

[Horseman]

I know everyone is trying to be nice to the WG provider with her size, but 12 is not a perfect size. There is no perfect size, it's all subjective. Furthermore it depends on how she is built, there are some size 12s that look great and some that look awful. No one knows what she looks like.... she could look like a pile of laundry for all we know but members are doing Mr nice guy. LOL really?

Yes which is why I added the IMO. I'm allowed a personal preference.

You'll also note that earlier I made it pretty clear that its all down to personal preference.

And it's not about being nice or fluffy to a SP. It's about being nice to a person. Fuck does it matter if she's a WG?

[alabama1]

I have seen media of her. She has an attractive face in my opinion, but she could do with losing a few stone, for health reasons first and foremost.

[Hanna Lorde (Service Provider)]

I have seen media of her. She has an attractive face in my opinion, but she could do with losing a few stone, for health reasons first and foremost.

I tried that when I was 19.  Looked weird as hell and I resembled a lollipop (my head was way too big) I have no health problems and probably a hell of a lot fitter than many on here but thanks for the half
hearted compliment 

[Briddy]

I have seen media of her. She has an attractive face in my opinion, but she could do with losing a few stone, for health reasons first and foremost.

I assume your in extremely good shape then to pass comments that someone needs to lose weight

[Katie492]

I have seen media of her. She has an attractive face in my opinion, but she could do with losing a few stone, for health reasons first and foremost.

Are you joking     whether or not she would need to loose a few stone for you to find her attractive is your opinion. It's a fact that she doesn't need to loose any weight as far as her health goes. What a ridiculous thing to say.

[Katie492]

Bit of an odd question but I gained maybe 20kg over past few yrs from when I was borderline optimal fitness/6 pack. I'm not obese by any standard but very conscious I don't have the most appealing body these days. As my preference is generally for slim size 4-8 women, do you think it's something escorts are conscious of? Ie are they more inclined to fake it with a fat guy than an in shape one?

Based on personal experience, I dont care much about weight. Being clean is important and more than anything, being respectful and nice. I find that the more comfortable I feel with a client, the more natural everything feels and so the less likely anyone would be to fake anything.

I don't think this is something you need to worry about and you probably feel bigger than you look if you're used to being super in shape. If its bothering you then work on it but don't worry about it bothering anyone else.

[MissWolf]

Based on personal experience, I dont care much about weight. Being clean is important and more than anything, being respectful and nice. I find that the more comfortable I feel with a client, the more natural everything feels and so the less likely anyone would be to fake anything.

I don't think this is something you need to worry about and you probably feel bigger than you look if you're used to being super in shape. If its bothering you then work on it but don't worry about it bothering anyone else.

This

[Fac51]

Are you joking     whether or not she would need to loose a few stone for you to find her attractive is your opinion. It's a fact that she doesn't need to loose any weight as far as her health goes. What a ridiculous thing to say.

+ 1. He thinks he himself is perfection, judging by other comments he has made in other discussions / reviews on here 

[Katie492]

+ 1. He thinks he himself is perfection, judging by other comments he has made in other discussions / reviews on here 

Madness  I guess some people struggle to find the line between opinion and fact! 

[Payyourwaymate]

Yes which is why I added the IMO. I'm allowed a personal preference.

You'll also note that earlier I made it pretty clear that its all down to personal preference.

And it's not about being nice or fluffy to a SP. It's about being nice to a person. Fuck does it matter if she's a WG?

Why are you swearing? I did not swear? Are you getting protective now and ready to do battle hmmm?

[houseboot]

Why are you swearing? I did not swear? Are you getting protective now and ready to do battle hmmm?

A rather silly post 

[Bristolguy]

I was absolutely huge many years ago 23 stone plus and always used parlours as was very self conscious and thought wouldn’t see them again.
I used different ones but always had a shower before or in there and the service was always ok most ladies are more concerned about hygiene ie you’re stinking and that goes for all sizes so if you’re a large bloke just be clean and you will have no issues just enjoy yourself and if you get out of breath easily ask her to go on top.

[sparkus]

I was once on a train home late and there actually wasn't many in the carriage, I could overhear what was clearly a fellow punter a couple of rows in front dialling up random prossies to ask their availability and location.  When the train pulled into his station he stood up to get off and probably realised I'd heard but didn't seem bothered at all.  The bloke had to be at least 20 stone and he was pretty short as well, flab was spilling over his belt in two distinct heavy flaps.  My mind raced at the possibilities of his actual punt given the apparent physical difficulty.

Never mentioned the story on here in case he is a member but fuck it it was years ago and he'd not remember some random commuter.

[cotton]

l am in my mid 50's and l carry a bit of excess weight due to the following reasons....l no longer do manual labour for a living, l gave up cigarrettes 8 years ago and l suffer from an underactive thyroid.Over the last few years l have gained an additional 3/3 and a half stones.Its been difficult trying to shift the excess due to exercise not being a serious option due to physical limitations.l have never had any negative comments or strange looks from an SP and it doesn't affect my mindset at all.Being slightly over 6 feet in height , l can maybe carry it a bit better than some.Attitude ,respect and cleanliness count for a lot more in this hobby as the response from SP's indicate.

Im over 6ft and have put on about 3 1/2 stones recently aswell , for me the big affect is that punting during summer can be very debilitating, like even to the extent of not feeling horny all the time , winter is much better , i mean because of the heat factor when your packin a few extra stone 

[Strawberry]

Bit of an odd question but I gained maybe 20kg over past few yrs from when I was borderline optimal fitness/6 pack. I'm not obese by any standard but very conscious I don't have the most appealing body these days. As my preference is generally for slim size 4-8 women, do you think it's something escorts are conscious of? Ie are they more inclined to fake it with a fat guy than an in shape one?

This isn't an odd question quite a few people are sensitive about body changes, body shape, age, plenty of factors. The only concerns I have are attitude and respect which works both ways.

Two skinnies can be clangy, a lighter person isn't always able to hold their own body weight. For larger bodied punters (or anyone having sex) being flexible with imagination helps with positions. For example some women might squat on top of the man if he's got lot of tummy.

[Payyourwaymate]

A rather silly post 

Not really. OP came on and stated he has put on 20KGs and had concerns of his appearance, although he should be more concerned about the health risks associated with putting on more weight. There was not much concern from other members regarding the potential health consequences for OP. A WG member comes and puts her perspective on how she feels about her size and lo and behold members are rushing to appease her, whether it was intentional from her or not is not my issue. I question what the other members are doing, not the WG member and the member I directly quoted suddenly claims it's called being a nice person and starts to swear about what does her being a WG have to do with it when I said nothing of her WG status as a job. Where was his concern for OP since he is such a nice person? Does he even know what she looked like before him and other members are acting like sycophants and then when I question such behaviour he takes an aggresive defensive stance?

Does that clarify my previous post for you as to why I said what I said?

Use your brain before calling out my posts  .