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Offline horny_mark999

Hi all just wondering how many people on here who are married have a partner in a relationship that still punt

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Offline haystacks79

Single, and have been for a long time now.

abdul

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Single but going to be mingle soon or one day.

Sienna_Bronze

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Most punters I see are married/with a partner, only 2 of my regulars are single.

abdul

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Most punters I see are married/with a partner, only 2 of my regulars are single.

 many ladies when I meet ask me how many kids I've. :(

James999

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many ladies when I meet ask me how many kids I've.

Do you drive a minicab ?

vorian

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Single and  very happy that way. On speaking to prossies the figure I have come up with is 70% of punters in a relationship.  Of course that is a total guess with no evidence possible. I will say I am guessing that more single punters will be active on UKP at the weekend than the average during other times.

Offline Rock123

Single.

However if I was in a relationship I would give up punting for the duration of that relationship.

Offline jammiedodger1

back with the ex-wife and 2 kids at the min not stopped or even slowed my punting  :drinks:

Offline Taggart

Hi all just wondering how many people on here who are married have a partner in a relationship that still punt


Is there any relevance to the question?  It's easy to say 'yes' then get castigated as a serial shagger, when not knowing the full facts of why guys punt.

pierrot

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Widow.
But I was married when I started.

jcdmj12

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In a relationship, also have kids. Partner goes through multi-month periods where she's too tired and stressed out to have sex, doesn't really want to talk about it, and I got sick of having screaming arguments about it.  Tried the whole making sure I was doing more housework, cleaning etc, to no avail. She's one of these people who is incapable of relaxing unfortunately. 

Decide to give it a rest and just look elsewhere for sexual fulfilment when it's not on offer at home, and everything is working much better.   :thumbsup:

Am rapidly coming to the conclusion that a fulfilling sex life and raising a family don't mix very well, so happy enough to keep them separate for now. 

According to the mumsnet crowd, my children would be better if I left them and spent my time fighting with my partner instead of working together with her to raise them, because wanting an active sex life, and not wanting to harrass my wife for it all the time makes me a terrible person. 

I'm ok with that, though, because terrible people get threesomes with hot women instead of sitting at home by themselves in miserable celibacy.   
« Last Edit: March 16, 2014, 02:18:27 pm by jcdmj12 »

Offline thetinman007

Why did Abdul use his real picture?

vorian

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Why did Abdul use his real picture?

Guess he is not concerned about privacy as he has his own extensive AW profile with lots of face pictures on it which anyone can see.

Offline KentAde

Married, no kids and no sexlife.....   :( hence relief coming from WG's..  ;)

domino131

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Single, wouldn't be doing it otherwise.  I don't actually like having to lie or be deceptive in a relationship, so I wouldn't like to cheat on a partner.  I have done so (not massively proud of it, but won't deny I had a good time) but it was during a bad relationship which I knew I didn't want to be in long term - oh and it wasn't a punt it was just a one-night stand.

Basically started doing it because I got out of being stuck in a long, terrible relationship with someone I hadn't been attracted to for a long time.  Really wanted to be free of any kind of attachment after that so am not interested in a relationship at the moment, but also wanted to make up for lost time by having sex with some people that I actually find attractive.  It's also kind of developed into a 'bucket-list' type thing of having some experience with all the different types of girls I would like to try having sex with, before settling into a relationship (if I ever do that).

I get lots of time to myself, get to have sex when I feel like it, and probably spend about as much on it as I would have done on a girlfriend during a relationship, so at the moment it works for me.
« Last Edit: March 16, 2014, 03:15:21 pm by domino131 »

Matty24579

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I did have a girlfriend but i am single now.She was very hard work l was with her for a year and a half l missed all my punting and she was pretty rubbish at sex i.e blow jobs and intercourse was a joke.l went behind her back and decided to punt but we broke up at the end of May last year over her taking over my life i told her i had enough of her and left her so l am happily single. :D

SirFrank

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Happily married. Wife with a healthy attitude to sex and a sublime BJ technique but simply has a v low sex drive. Generally great when it happens but to infrequent (we sometimes go months with no sex). I have no wish to have an affair and I don't want any complications. I just want sex regularly. It sounds like some fellas here have it bad.

 Mumsnet is full of cunts. The sole purpose of girl power seems to be one way traffic. Being in a relationship is a two way st. I wouldn't say my wife is to blame for my punting as such but there's an element of mutual responsibility for a healthy sex life

Sienna_Bronze

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Happily married. Wife with a healthy attitude to sex and a sublime BJ technique but simply has a v low sex drive. Generally great when it happens but to infrequent (we sometimes go months with no sex). I have no wish to have an affair and I don't want any complications. I just want sex regularly. It sounds like some fellas here have it bad.

 Mumsnet is full of cunts. The sole purpose of girl power seems to be one way traffic. Being in a relationship is a two way st. I wouldn't say my wife is to blame for my punting as such but there's an element of mutual responsibility for a healthy sex life

I agree with that. I was in a bad relationship with my ex. We got to the stage where we slept separately, watched tv in different rooms and barely spoke. We just fell into the trap of the mundane 'family life'. He left me for someone else. And in the final months of our relationship I didn't have sex with him and after a while he never tried. I'm not to blame for his cheating but I can fully understand his reasons.

I think most women don't have that drive for sex as much as men do. I could quite easily never have sex again when in a relationship, it get's boring with the same person after a while.

willbred

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Offline smiths

Hi all just wondering how many people on here who are married have a partner in a relationship that still punt

I have punted since i was 19, i am now 49 whether in a relationship or not and will be continuing to do so for as long as i can manage to punt.

jcdmj12

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Happily married. Wife with a healthy attitude to sex and a sublime BJ technique but simply has a v low sex drive. Generally great when it happens but to infrequent (we sometimes go months with no sex). I have no wish to have an affair and I don't want any complications. I just want sex regularly. It sounds like some fellas here have it bad.

 Mumsnet is full of cunts. The sole purpose of girl power seems to be one way traffic. Being in a relationship is a two way st. I wouldn't say my wife is to blame for my punting as such but there's an element of mutual responsibility for a healthy sex life

Yeah,  pretty much the same.  When it happens, it's great, and the rest of relationship is fine.  TBH my motivation has gone too for now, because much as I enjoy sex with my wife, I enjoy my extra-curricular sex life more.  A lot of WGs are simply better at it, because they get a hell of a lot more practice.

616

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Single.

However if I was in a relationship I would give up punting for the duration of that relationship.

Ditto.

som2083

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Married with 2 kids. But, my wife very low sex drive.

We always need to argue about this, or please her to have sex with me.

Eventually, I found a solution. PUNTING!!!

 :diablo:

Now, I still love her. But, I need sex as well. I usually play very safe. I never dare to try oral without condom.

Even, I have sex with condom. I try to avoid uncover shaft, scrotum or testicles touched the women private part.

Toshiba

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Im attatched , never punted since august but im soon gonna have a punt

Im shit scared of catching a std, ive had 2 scares both turned out to be nothing but its held me back, im not bothered what anyone thinks of me for cheating, i know its wrong but if i didnt instigate sex i guess it would be once every 2-3 months if im lucky, at first we were shagging every other night , some pretty hardcore sex too but after a few years its now about once a month and usually cos i want it.....covered oral just doesnt do it for me but i feel shit scared of not doing it

I love the safety of my life but sexually we are growing apart

Offline horny_mark999

Just wanted to know that im not alone iv got partner of 11 years and 2 kids I do love my partner to bits but after 2 kids she seams to have slowed down on give me it :-(

The President

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Married with a relationship that has improved in the past year, before that it had been several years without sex. Now its once maybe twice a month with some effort and is very vanilla which tbh has slowed my punting but I still look and will/would given the urge. I do have kids and OH always has an excuse - tired, cold etc - if she was a little more exciting and we did it 2 or 3times a week I would still look but unlikely to punt very often tbh

I am getting more fussy with paying £100/hr and tbh again with little good providers atm means I am only punting a few times a year atm "/

jcdmj12

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Im attatched , never punted since august but im soon gonna have a punt

Im shit scared of catching a std, ive had 2 scares both turned out to be nothing but its held me back, im not bothered what anyone thinks of me for cheating, i know its wrong but if i didnt instigate sex i guess it would be once every 2-3 months if im lucky, at first we were shagging every other night , some pretty hardcore sex too but after a few years its now about once a month and usually cos i want it.....covered oral just doesnt do it for me but i feel shit scared of not doing it

I love the safety of my life but sexually we are growing apart

My view is that if your spouse doesn't bother to provide for you sexually, it's fine to go elsewhere.

som2083

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Im attatched , never punted since august but im soon gonna have a punt

Im shit scared of catching a std, ive had 2 scares both turned out to be nothing but its held me back, im not bothered what anyone thinks of me for cheating, i know its wrong but if i didnt instigate sex i guess it would be once every 2-3 months if im lucky, at first we were shagging every other night , some pretty hardcore sex too but after a few years its now about once a month and usually cos i want it.....covered oral just doesnt do it for me but i feel shit scared of not doing it

I love the safety of my life but sexually we are growing apart

As long as try oral with condom and when you have sex try to avoid the uncover shaft, scrotum or testicles touched the women private part.

You should be safe from STDs

rogerc23

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Married with kids,usual story of having a higher sex drive than the mrs so started punting a couple of years ago.
I dont think iwould bother with punting if i was single,there is so much available fanny about in london,i just dont have the alibi's to be out nailing civilian girls every night!

Offline hockogrockle

Happily married, but wife's sex drive has completely gone down the plughole. Shame really; she still has a nice figure for her age.

Offline LastManCumings

Happily married. Wife has a very low sex drive and finds sex more of a compulsion.
Punting keeps it simple - you pay without the drama and complications

Offline horny_mark999

My mrs ass already told me I could have a fuck buddy and just have relationship with her but dont know if she pulling my leg when we first met we were like rabbits wish I could go back to that time with her

abdul

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Do you drive a minicab ?

Sir, Just out of curiosity what did u actually mean or indicate by minicab driver? By the way I've been in minicab since 2001 :hi:

som2083

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My mrs ass already told me I could have a fuck buddy and just have relationship with her but dont know if she pulling my leg when we first met we were like rabbits wish I could go back to that time with her

Same here I wish I could go back to the time with my wife that we were like rabbits

Offline CBPaul

Same here I wish I could go back to the time with my wife that we were like rabbits

Seems pretty common after years of marriage. I took a punting sabbatical when I was first in a relationship / married to Mrs CBP but started again after sex dwindled to birthdays and Christmas.

Aspen

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I think most women don't have that drive for sex as much as men do. I could quite easily never have sex again when in a relationship, it get's boring with the same person after a while.

That seems to be the attitude of most women. Funny how they start complaining when their OH goes elsewhere.

Aspen

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My view is that if your spouse doesn't bother to provide for you sexually, it's fine to go elsewhere.

What's the point of staying with them? If they won't have sex with you they don't give a toss about you. It amazes me how many men just don't get that.

Aspen

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Most punters I see are married/with a partner, only 2 of my regulars are single.

From what I see of this thread, most punters are single and that's what I would expect.

Offline lean3591

Married, wife non existent sex drive for some years.  Started punting at 57.  Not a frequent punter but20 different girls, 23 punts in 3 years.  Includes 2 girl experience.  Ages 22 to 57, enjoy more mature ladies best.

Offline chris_jp2

Separated, not yet divorced. In another long term relationship. Sex, when on offer, is fantastic. But nine times out of ten once she has had an orgasm she loses interest. And the one time she retains interest is far too infrequent. I don't punt often, money and time constraints mainly, but when I do I don't feel guilty.

Offline Denhamhoop

Single never punted when i was in relationships as i am a crap liar and would get caught.Have tried many different things i never did with partners and found i have a taste for certain kinks that few partners would cater for but WG's will if you pay them

Offline CBPaul

What's the point of staying with them? If they won't have sex with you they don't give a toss about you. It amazes me how many men just don't get that.

They won't service you sexually so they don't give a toss about you ? Rubbish.

There is a lot more to a long term relationship or marriage than the going at it like rabbits phase from the early days.

Offline CBPaul

Don't seem to have an edit button.

Meant to add.....

I've had relationships, in my younger days, based on lust and sex. Otherwise we've had sod all in common and those relationships didn't last that long - great in bed (and many other places) but boring as fuck and irritating at most other times. Once we'd gone through the sexual manual that was it.

On the other hand Mrs CBP and I care for each immensely, it's just after years marriage things get less frequent in the bedroom. She's pretty vanilla these days and I have an urge to shag the sort of girls I was shagging in my early 20's - and as many as possible.  I can't entirely blame insufficient action with Mrs CBP for my desire to punt - I'd be pushing it to go 50:50.

Jay-Jay

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Separated for ten years now but punted throughout my married life of nearly 15 years. Ex is a stunner and we had a good sex life I'm just into variety I suppose. Have a much clearer conscience since the separation though I would stress that wasn't caused by her finding out,we simply drifted apart.No interest in another relationship,I realise I'm to selfish for that.

Jay

GeeWiz

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Happily single.  Relationships after a few months do my head in.  Too much hassle.

My best friend only ever has a BJ on his birthday and his wife has to drink a bottle of wine first.  Madness.

Incidentally, many of my married mates have told me they'd love to have my life.  I find married guys are always the most debauched on tours/stag dos too. 

Aspen

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They won't service you sexually so they don't give a toss about you ? Rubbish.

There is a lot more to a long term relationship or marriage than the going at it like rabbits phase from the early days.

There's a big difference between intermittent sex and NO sex at all.

I put up with the latter for a long time, and so have many of my friends. But it's a waste of time and your life putting up with it.

Going at it like rabbits was NOT what I was talking about, and if you think that it was you need a good few more candles on your cake before you are qualified to comment.
 

Offline smiths

From what I see of this thread, most punters are single and that's what I would expect.

There isnt much in it so far on this thread. There are certainly many punters who have partners that punt as i have seen from reading many other threads about it over the years. Most punters i know personally or meet at parties and chat to tell me they have a partner but arent getting regular sex so decided to punt instead of having an affair, so say they both punt and have affairs.

HepSteph

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I am very happily married to a very sexy woman for five years. People often ask me how on earth did I manage to pull a girl like that (I am not good looking or that fit). But she has a very low sex drive. I have gone months without sex. I need sex. I have a very high sex drive.

So I watch porn a lot and jerk off. But it is not enough so I punt. It keeps me happy and stops me from pestering my wife for sex every day.