Paying for sex police warning

[Straightsix]

Paying for sex is a crime, especially if you had an elaborate  wedding 🤣

[punt2015]

I love how similar her profile name is to MeetUpsPhoney LOL

Lol its actually "meetupshorny"

[jay121]

£150 for the night?  It’s no wonder she wanted to go after a few hours! Whilst I don’t condone threatening behaviour, it sounds to me like you had a ‘few hours’ of her company yet didn’t give her any money 

Agree with this.

[punt2015]

Agree with this.

Money was agreed after end of the meet . It was an arrangement not booking a professional escort for the night.

[GingerNuts]

Money was agreed after end of the meet . It was an arrangement not booking a professional escort for the night.

That isn't what you said previously about the money.

Guys thanks for your advice. I met her on sugar daddy meet while i was with her in hotel she was continually with her so called bf or pimp we agreed 150 for the night and after few hours she said shes hungry so i took her to takeaway orderd food as soon as she got the food she said she needs to go cos some kind of emergency arise and start asking money i refused and drop off there and come back to the hotel. Afterwards i start getting threatening msgs from her bf that pay me otherwise i am coming to kill you i will stab you etc. So j reported to the police so now here i am

Did you pay her the £150 or any other sum?

[punt2015]

That isn't what you said previously about the money.

Did you pay her the £150 or any other sum?


I didn't pay as its was agreed end of the meet. No money was agreed before arrangement. If i wouldn't pay for completed arrangement then she would have caused more trouble in hotel. Making excuse for food then lying to cancel the arrangement genuine sugar babies dont do that.

[GingerNuts]

I didn't pay as its was agreed end of the meet. No money was agreed before arrangement. If i wouldn't pay for completed arrangement then she would cause more trouble in hotel. Making excuse for food then lying to cancel the arrangement genuine sugar babies dont do that.

Please learn to use the quote function properly. Type your reply after [/quote]

Did you spend any time alone with her at the hotel?
Did any sexual activity take place?
Had you agreed before the meeting no fee was payable or had you agreed a fee was payable and would be agreed at the meeting?

[pa5151]

Nice fake story.

[smiths]

Hi,

I need some advice.  I met a scam girl on sugardaddymeet.com site. She tried to rob me which i didn't let her afterwards her bf sent me some threatening messages. I reported to the police instead of arresting the culprit they warned me that i hv commuhave committed a crime as paying for sex illegal in UK so i should stop going to escorts otherwise they will arrest me next time.

Does anyone has any knowledge if its true

What you were told was wrong, that's a fact, maybe they were trying to scare you, who knows. What the law says is it is NOT illegal to pay a WG for sex unless she is being coerced/forced and/or is underage. You can confirm this on the CPS website which is the bible of laws around prostitution. The one other area it IS illegal is kerbcrawling and picking a WG up that way and in fact even agreeing business with her on foot is illegal as well both for the punter and WG on the street.

[punt2015]

Please learn to use the quote function properly. Type your reply after

Did you spend any time alone with her at the hotel?
Did any sexual activity take place?
Had you agreed before the meeting no fee was payable or had you agreed a fee was payable and would be agreed at the meeting?

I am using my mobile so my keypad mess up sometimes  yes i spent sometimes with her no sex .arrangement was agreed money pay after meet ends

[punt2015]

Nice fake story.

Maybe you the bf of the girl. I never posted fake stories on here. I been a member of this forum for 6 yewrs. A genuine incident happened so i share and ask for advice.

If you think its fake then stay away from this thread

[sparkus]

I am using my mobile so my keypad mess up sometimes  yes i spent sometimes with her no sex .arrangement was agreed money pay after meet ends

Your UKP editorial policy isn't exactly helpful either, if reviews are anything to go on:

i usually dont give reviews for positive experiences so i review only negative. so here we go the girl with no name..

[contentguy]

100% agree. Either the story has been exaggerated or its not the whole one. He has not been "robbed" of other than getting his end away, probably again? Sounds like there is a civil dispute over a debt. As paying for sex is not illegal, there can be a debt, even if the full contracted service was not met. The only crime, if there is one, would be one of malicious communication by the bf/pimp whatever, as it was over the phone. He is probably upset because the police told him how many beans make five and he didn't like it.

Agree that the story seems made up or embellished.

But the civil dispute over the debt isn't that straightforward to enforce, google "immoral contract" to investigate further.

[punt2015]

Agree that the story seems made up or embellished.

But the civil dispute over the debt isn't that straightforward to enforce, google "immoral contract" to investigate further.

Made up story ? What i am getting out of this if i made it up? Trollers are trollers. As i said i have recordibg of the police officer.  I even mentioned girl's username here . I only here for genuine people who can give me honest advice

[punt2015]

Your UKP editorial policy isn't exactly helpful either, if reviews are anything to go on:

On the same thread read other people comments.  I dont advertise but i do warn people if there is a scam

[GingerNuts]

I am using my mobile so my keypad mess up sometimes  yes i spent sometimes with her no sex .arrangement was agreed money pay after meet ends

The meeting ended, why didn't you pay her at least something?

[contentguy]

Guys thanks for your advice. I met her on sugar daddy meet while i was with her in hotel she was continually with her so called bf or pimp we agreed 150 for the night and after few hours she said shes hungry so i took her to takeaway orderd food as soon as she got the food she said she needs to go cos some kind of emergency arise and start asking money i refused and drop off there and come back to the hotel. Afterwards i start getting threatening msgs from her bf that pay me otherwise i am coming to kill you i will stab you etc. So j reported to the police so now here i am

As TyneTunnel indicated, an overnight for £150, is not very believable.  it may have been what was offered, but I'd have been looking said horse in the mouth and counting the teeth.  Actually, I'd have passed altogether.
 
You then indicate you spent a few hours with her. but didn't pay her as she asked for the money after the take away.

What do you mean that "while i was with her in her hotel she was continually with her so called......" was he with you in the room?

Cant you read ? I said police gave me warning instead of capturing the scammers. I repoted to the police and bloody two police officers rang me to warn that i committed a crime and i can be arrested now as people say its not crime so it means they were bluffing

We can read, though I wish your writing was a little (ok, a lot) more concise.
You've not explained how she tried to rob you, just some blah blah above about her wanting to eat during your multi hour date, so you got her a take-away (you're a real romantic I can tell).

It sounds like a classy date, was it KFC, Donner Kebab or some good old traditional fish and chips?

I heard the recording again and the police officer sounded like he was very pissed off that why i reported to them the incident and basically he just wanted to close the case. He told me at the end that he is going to ring the culprit to tell him off not to threat me again and the case is closed.

My understanding is that giving me false warming by the officer in other words they tried to tell not to report anything in future to them.

There were two police officers above, how did 2 police officers call you, was it a conference call?

Made up story ? What i am getting out of this if i made it up? Trollers are trollers. As i said i have recordibg of the police officer.  I even mentioned girl's username here . I only here for genuine people who can give me honest advice

And now we're back to 1 police officer and the 'recordibg' that you're so pleased with.

I've no idea what happened, having read the thread again.
But an interpretation I'm tending towards is that you spend a few hours with her, didn't pay her and seemed miffed when she wanted some fried chicken.

It's your story, either tell it or don't.

[cotton]

It's your story, either tell it or don't.

Yeh come on punt2015 clear all these discrepancies up , and try to communicate in a clear and intelligible way.  Are you a foreigner (nothing wrong with that) but maybe that could have contributed to your misunderstanding and confusion with the hooker 

[tynetunnel]

I've no idea what happened, having read the thread again.
But an interpretation I'm tending towards is that you spend a few hours with her, didn't pay her and seemed miffed when she wanted some fried chicken.

It's your story, either tell it or don't.

This.

He spent a few hours with her, she wanted feeding quite naturally, and I suspect used this as an opportunity to remove herself from the situation. Perhaps he was weird/boring/creepy/odd or she simply had regrets. Or figured that for a lousy £150 for an overnight she’d lost interest. So the OP doesn’t give her even a partial allowance for time/services and wonders why she’s got annoyed and the ‘boyfriend’ (just a male friend possibly although I had an SB where the bf knew all about it) has been in touch to suggest that payment would have been appropriate

 

[punt2015]

As TyneTunnel indicated, an overnight for £150, is not very believable.  it may have been what was offered, but I'd have been looking said horse in the mouth and counting the teeth.  Actually, I'd have passed altogether.
 
You then indicate you spent a few hours with her. but didn't pay her as she asked for the money after the take away.

What do you mean that "while i was with her in her hotel she was continually with her so called......" was he with you in the room?

We can read, though I wish your writing was a little (ok, a lot) more concise.
You've not explained how she tried to rob you, just some blah blah above about her wanting to eat during your multi hour date, so you got her a take-away (you're a real romantic I can tell).

It sounds like a classy date, was it KFC, Donner Kebab or some good old traditional fish and chips?

There were two police officers above, how did 2 police officers call you, was it a conference call?

And now we're back to 1 police officer and the 'recordibg' that you're so pleased with.

I've no idea what happened, having read the thread again.
But an interpretation I'm tending towards is that you spend a few hours with her, didn't pay her and seemed miffed when she wanted some fried chicken.

It's your story, either tell it or don't.

Listen pal maybe i am rubbish in explaining. Now one by one . £150 for the unbelievable? I was on seeking secret arrangements and sugar daddy meet site. I had arrangements for even £100 for the night. The sugar babies want a reliable person who can meet regularly and help them money wise too.

Now two police officers story.  When i rang first time i yold the story what has happened, they said they lodhed the case and someone will call you. After one day one police officer rang me and asked for what exactly has happened so i told him the exact what happened cos i was getting life threats as i have the texts from the person, he said someobe will come and see me he also said that its a crime paying for sex.

After that no one turned up but i got phone call from second police officer he said he will ring the culprit to stop threatening me but another hand he said he can interview me for committing crime paying for sex and after that he is closing the case.

I have all proves some people just jump to the conclusion very quickly

After one day no one turned up but got phone call he was

[punt2015]

This.

He spent a few hours with her, she wanted feeding quite naturally, and I suspect used this as an opportunity to remove herself from the situation. Perhaps he was weird/boring/creepy/odd or she simply had regrets. Or figured that for a lousy £150 for an overnight she’d lost interest. So the OP doesn’t give her even a partial allowance for time/services and wonders why she’s got annoyed and the ‘boyfriend’ (just a male friend possibly although I had an SB where the bf knew all about it) has been in touch to suggest that payment would have been appropriate

 

Losing interest? she was with her bf over the phone texting  even when i picked her up and we went to hotel. By the way after picking food we supposed to come back hotel not end the arrangement.  So it was my right not to pay as she left the arrangement

[punt2015]

The meeting ended, why didn't you pay her at least something?

I would pay her something but she wanted exact amount

[punt2015]

And yes i am foreigner sorry English is not my first language but i tried my best to clarify as clearly as i could

[contentguy]

This.

He spent a few hours with her, she wanted feeding quite naturally, and I suspect used this as an opportunity to remove herself from the situation. Perhaps he was weird/boring/creepy/odd or she simply had regrets. Or figured that for a lousy £150 for an overnight she’d lost interest. So the OP doesn’t give her even a partial allowance for time/services and wonders why she’s got annoyed and the ‘boyfriend’ (just a male friend possibly although I had an SB where the bf knew all about it) has been in touch to suggest that payment would have been appropriate

 

You probably right, but it would be useful if the OP told the story.  It's his story, and despite multiple claims of "proofs" he doesn't seem to know what he's complaining about.

I don't do "Sugarbabe" meets, but giving a punting similarity where we pay (typically a much larger fee) at the beginning and often get time cut short.  I'd have probably paid her and cut my losses.  Especially if the site has feedback mechanisms.

Do you happen to know what takeaway delicacy he took her to?

Guy 

[punt2015]

You probably right, but it would be useful if the OP told the story.  It's his story, and despite multiple claims of "proofs" he doesn't seem to know what he's complaining about.

I don't do "Sugarbabe" meets, but giving a punting similarity where we pay (typically a much larger fee) at the beginning and often get time cut short.  I'd have probably paid her and cut my losses.  Especially if the site has feedback mechanisms.

Do you happen to know what takeaway delicacy he took her to?

Guy 

I am complaining about police as they said paying for sex is illegal.  Which i got answer from some helpful guys on here as i was concerned if i get caught paying for sex i maybe prosecuted.

[daviemac]

Listen pal maybe i am rubbish in explaining. Now one by one . £150 for the unbelievable? I was on seeking secret arrangements and sugar daddy meet site. I had arrangements for even £100 for the night. The sugar babies want a reliable person who can meet regularly and help them money wise too.

Now two police officers story.  When i rang first time i yold the story what has happened, they said they lodhed the case and someone will call you. After one day one police officer rang me and asked for what exactly has happened so i told him the exact what happened cos i was getting life threats as i have the texts from the person, he said someobe will come and see me he also said that its a crime paying for sex.

After that no one turned up but i got phone call from second police officer he said he will ring the culprit to stop threatening me but another hand he said he can interview me for committing crime paying for sex and after that he is closing the case.

I have all proves some people just jump to the conclusion very quickly

After one day no one turned up but got phone call he was

What did the police say when you phoned and asked to speak to an inspector.   

[punt2015]

What did the police say when you phoned and asked to speak to an inspector.   

When phoned the police i asked them i want to file a complaint against the person for givimg me threats so they put me through to relevant authority

[Punterperson1971]

When phoned the police i asked them i want to file a complaint against the person for givimg me threats so they put me through to relevant authority

And…..??

[punt2015]

And…..??

Then they took my details and asked me what has happened i have told them what has happened afterwards they said crime bureau officer will contact me and the rest i have already told in the previous post

[daviemac]

Then they took my details and asked me what has happened i have told them what has happened afterwards they said crime bureau officer will contact me and the rest i have already told in the previous post

I meant about the police telling you had broken the law.

[ravi.okk]

I know but police says its a crime which is not but don't know why they warned me

Maybe they investigated and discovered that you were seeing someone underaged or forced/coerced, or trafficked. Other than that their is no reason to warn you. Stick to the regular stuff and should not have any problem.

[punt2015]

I meant about the police telling you had broken the law.

I was surprised with their response basically they told me off telling and lied about paying for sex is illegal. I can provide the recording if moderators need it

[daviemac]

I was surprised with their response basically they told me off telling and lied about paying for sex is illegal. I can provide the recording if moderators need it

It's nothing to do with us, you need to phone the police, ask to speak to an inspector because you were told by a constable you were breaking the law and that is not the case.

[punt2015]

I have already filed the complaint someone going to contact me so looking forward what they say about this

[daviemac]

Maybe they investigated and discovered that you were seeing someone underaged or forced/coerced, or trafficked. Other than that their is no reason to warn you. Stick to the regular stuff and should not have any problem.

You've been a member 2 years and your first post is to accuse a member of seeing someone underage.   

Had they found they were underage he would've been arrested and at least cautioned, not told paying for sex is illegal.

[punt2015]

Maybe they investigated and discovered that you were seeing someone underaged or forced/coerced, or trafficked. Other than that their is no reason to warn you. Stick to the regular stuff and should not have any problem.

She was not underage pal . I filed the complaint against the person who theeaten me.

[myothernameis]

Then they took my details and asked me what has happened i have told them what has happened afterwards they said crime bureau officer will contact me and the rest i have already told in the previous post

OP, have you considered the ramifications of all of this, especially if this goes to court.   Now Im not an expert in criminal law, and what could be brought up in court, especially if the accused pleads not guilty

I think it likely you will be asked, for what reason, did you contact the girl, which I suppose might lead to other questions.  Now what I would be concerned about would be, what does the press think, and if its a local newspaper, it could be a juicy story for them

[punt2015]

OP, have you considered the ramifications of all of this, especially if this goes to court.   Now Im not an expert in criminal law, and what could be brought up in court, especially if the accused pleads not guilty

I think it likely you will be asked, for what reason, did you contact the girl, which I suppose might lead to other questions.  Now what I would be concerned about would be, what does the press think, and if its a local newspaper, it could be a juicy story for them

Thats why i was here for advice cos its a sensitive matter from my side i was thinking what i am doing is legal but filing a complaint again a person who was threatening me and response i got from officers was surprising.

Now will see what they say as i asked them to give me clarification it f i have committed crime paying for sex

[contentguy]

OP, have you considered the ramifications of all of this, especially if this goes to court.   Now Im not an expert in criminal law, and what could be brought up in court, especially if the accused pleads not guilty

I think it likely you will be asked, for what reason, did you contact the girl, which I suppose might lead to other questions.  Now what I would be concerned about would be, what does the press think, and if its a local newspaper, it could be a juicy story for them

I'd add to that:
- You referred to her pimp above, did you mention that to the police, is she being controlled for gain?
- You mentioned she didn't want to be there, and wanted to leave after a few hours but you wouldn't pay her. (because she didn't stay all night).
- Could the continual texting with her "pimp"/bf indicate she didn't want to be there and was not there of her own free will.

You call it OP.   
You're sharing a little bit of a bigger story and not following advice such as asking to speak with an inspector.

[DeanoDeano]

Whereabouts in the UK did this take place?

£150 for an overnight arrangement is very very cheap. I’d echo the previous comments that I’m not surprised she’d had enough and wanted to leave.

[jay121]

Now will see what they say as i asked them to give me clarification it f i have committed crime paying for sex

you said you had no sex with her and we already  know  you did not pay anything     but they should be able to clarify  the legality had you done both those things ; had sex and paid for it

[punt2015]

I request all the people including new readers please stick to original matter. Matter i brought up here that i got threating msgs from a person where he threatening me to stab and kill me. I have reported to the police. The response from the police was surprising so i posted on here for advice. I have clarified whole situation enough in previous posts and genuine people understood and gave me good advice rest is now with south yorkshire police.

[jay121]

Hi,

I need some advice.  I met a scam girl on sugardaddymeet.com site. She tried to rob me which i didn't let her afterwards her bf sent me some threatening messages. I reported to the police instead of arresting the culprit they warned me that i hv commuhave committed a crime as paying for sex illegal in UK so i should stop going to escorts otherwise they will arrest me next time.

Does anyone has any knowledge if its true

This is what you originally said  and i am in no way condoning any threats made to you. How is her asking you for payment for an arrangement you made and after having spent a few hours with her aswell as taking her for a takeaway an attempt by her to rob you?

Regarding the legality of what you asked that has been answered and  hopefully the police will give you clarification aswell

[scutty brown]

OP, have you considered the ramifications of all of this, especially if this goes to court.   Now Im not an expert in criminal law, and what could be brought up in court, especially if the accused pleads not guilty

I think it likely you will be asked, for what reason, did you contact the girl, which I suppose might lead to other questions.  Now what I would be concerned about would be, what does the press think, and if its a local newspaper, it could be a juicy story for them

As it's sex-related he's probably entitled to legal anonymity
Unless he's charged for something

[Thecunninglinguist]

Section 8 Theft Act 1968 - Definition of Robbery

Robbery.
(1)A person is guilty of robbery if he steals, and immediately before or at the time of doing so, and in order to do so, he uses force on any person or puts or seeks to put any person in fear of being then and there subjected to force.

Where is the "Robbery" This is the legal definition used by police and courts. Please explain where you think the OP was subject to a robbery?
There were (empty) treats made by an unknown male, which were unlikely to have been carried out as the male as the person offering the threats had no idea where/who the OP was. Probably on a burner phone. The OP acted like a bit of a dickhead. The police have much better things to do than wipe the arses of idiots.

[punt2015]

Section 8 Theft Act 1968 - Definition of Robbery

Robbery.
(1)A person is guilty of robbery if he steals, and immediately before or at the time of doing so, and in order to do so, he uses force on any person or puts or seeks to put any person in fear of being then and there subjected to force.

Where is the "Robbery" This is the legal definition used by police and courts. Please explain where you think the OP was subject to a robbery?
There were (empty) treats made by an unknown male, which were unlikely to have been carried out as the male as the person offering the threats had no idea where/who the OP was. Probably on a burner phone. The OP acted like a bit of a dickhead. The police have much better things to do than wipe the arses of idiots.

Excuse me go back and check my previous posts English is not my first language ok so maybe i have used wrong word for that

[punt2015]

Section 8 Theft Act 1968 - Definition of Robbery

Robbery.
(1)A person is guilty of robbery if he steals, and immediately before or at the time of doing so, and in order to do so, he uses force on any person or puts or seeks to put any person in fear of being then and there subjected to force.

Where is the "Robbery" This is the legal definition used by police and courts. Please explain where you think the OP was subject to a robbery?
There were (empty) treats made by an unknown male, which were unlikely to have been carried out as the male as the person offering the threats had no idea where/who the OP was. Probably on a burner phone. The OP acted like a bit of a dickhead. The police have much better things to do than wipe the arses of idiots.

Stop using foul language you must be a dickhead who does not know what this thread about. Giving someone threarts is a non serious act?

[tynetunnel]

Stop using foul language

Dickhead is now “foul” language? Good grief, you need a thicker skin pal 

[myothernameis]

Section 8 Theft Act 1968 - Definition of Robbery

Excuse me go back and check my previous posts English is not my first language ok so maybe i have used wrong word for that

Think what Thecunninglinguist is saying, you haven't been robbed, but its the more you have been threatened by the pimp/bf

[myothernameis]

Dickhead is now “foul” language? Good grief, you need a thicker skin pal 

I now just wonder how long the op will last here, and is his story slowly unwinding, now Im not saying, what happened to him, isn't real