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Author Topic: What can WG's do to improve their service for you/as a basic starter?  (Read 2412 times)

Offline Simon1977

Reading lots of reviews it seems obvious WG's should have a list of basic things (as we should also) that should be in a meeting. Smiling helps on arrival, perhaps a kiss and a cuddle to start etc. leading byt he hand into the room. Following their list of likes and not refusing services that are listed etc. I think those things for me would make punts a lot better.
Specifically for me it's being passionate on a GFE, kissing my body, using the name i give etc. would just polish off the service a little more.

Offline Stevelondon

I get your drift but we all look for all sorts of things in a punt. Just wanting to be romanced a bit more aint for everybody.
What about those who enjoy a bit of roleplay or domination type meets.

Better service for me is good comms, good timing etc.
Better service is about value for money too..
Yes I want the SP to be as clean and hygenic as I am.
Lots of things cover good or better service.

Online EvilS

Not looking at her phone for the entire duration of the punt. Nothing annoys me more than them checking texts etc

Offline jimbobted

I like a good snog on arrival, usually a sign of a good time on its way. RedKitten (long retired) launched herself on me the moment the flat door was shut, and I reciprocated by pushing her up against the wall and having a good grope and kiss (was a BDSM meet). One or two other reviewers mentioned her doing similar - don't care if it was her routine, it definitely worked!
A bit of chat is sometimes good if it's clear that the girl is confident and not putting off the deed due to nerves.
But mainly, just be on time, clean, well presented and prepared to do the sorts of things advertised and offered before the meeting. Anything else is a bonus.

Offline ik8133

If you book a decent reviewed WG you should be able to communicate what you are looking for, especially at the start of the booking.  This helps them as well, give you the service you want and make you hopefully a happy and returning client.

Offline billybobsmith

If you book a decent reviewed WG you should be able to communicate what you are looking for, especially at the start of the booking.  This helps them as well, give you the service you want and make you hopefully a happy and returning client.

That's what makes a punt mechanical like for me.  I want to go with the flow, and as in the post above, if she goes in for a kiss/ passionate kissing before you've even dealt with the paperwork, it's probably a good sign.
I don't want to be giving her the cash, off she goes to stash it, tells me to undress and lie on the bed, returns 15 mins later after she's very possibly lubed up, and then it's a case of telling her the plan for the day of "BJ, RO, doggy, me on top". 

Kissing from the off, seeming interested, responsive, no fake moaning, no funny smells from down below, applying lube in front of you etc. is what works for me.

Yes there's the odd occasion where I just want a shag and not much else, but mostly I want to feel as if she's not going through the bare minimum of motions just to make me cum ASAP.  Always said, if there's two of us, it's not just about me, and the physical and emotional contact is nice, hopefully for both parties.


Online Direwolf

Everyone's answers going to be different but for me it showing interest

I love it when the WG initiates kissing and makes suggestions for activities and is enthusiastic in general.
When she wants to fuck me rather than just let me fuck her - I dont really care if it's fake lol as long as she can sell the fantasy in the booking I'm happy

Online Colston36

Everyone's answers going to be different but for me it showing interest

I love it when the WG initiates kissing and makes suggestions for activities and is enthusiastic in general.
When she wants to fuck me rather than just let me fuck her - I dont really care if it's fake lol as long as she can sell the fantasy in the booking I'm happy

If they'd just a) note what you want b) deliver it, that would help.

Offline Thepacifist

Offer a drink and have a fresh towel ready.

Offline jimbobted

Everyone's answers going to be different but for me it showing interest

I love it when the WG initiates kissing and makes suggestions for activities and is enthusiastic in general.
When she wants to fuck me rather than just let me fuck her - I dont really care if it's fake lol as long as she can sell the fantasy in the booking I'm happy
Yes, this captures it. Active participation in the act rather than just laying there fake moaning. Enthusiastic comments and suggestions as to what position to try next (even if the comments are bullshit, doesn't matter if she knows how to deliver them). A cheeky glanca and smile as she goes in for OWO etc.
"When she wants to fuck me rather than just let me fuck her" hits the nail on the head IMO.
I hate the ones that are just passive, might as well save a load of cash and whack off to some porn.

Offline Atrueyorkie

Small thing, but offering a bottle of water before or especially after the punt.

Offline shed

Small thing, but offering a bottle of water before or especially after the punt.


They need to be good actresses and provide an "exceptional" service for the stupid money they now charge. Prices are OTT compared to other service industries. Problem is many SP don't give a toss if we enjoy or not. Repeat business is not something they understand or are interested in because of their touring arrangements.
« Last Edit: September 11, 2022, 07:42:01 pm by shed »

Offline alabama1


They need to be good actresses and provide an "exceptional" service for the stupid money they now charge. Prices are OTT compared to other service industries. Problem is many SP don't give a toss if we enjoy or not. Repeat business is not something they understand or are interested in because of their touring arrangements.
This is why UKP is invaluable. If we all make an effort to review these touring girls, we will hopefully ensure that the good ones get repeat business, and the poor ones get found out.

Offline KatieEdinburgh

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I’m surprised no one has linked the punters guide to escorting wiki which has a lot of pointers already.
It’s very odd as my perspective as a SP, I can understand that these are things that would perhaps make *most* clients happy, but definitely not all clients ever… some points are pretty useful for sure though

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Offline Topgun1

Small thing, but offering a bottle of water before or especially after the punt.

I’m sure most of the new gen of punters will now want sparkling water. :D

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Offline Thephoenix

Have a nice long finger and know what to do with it.  :wacko:
Never quite got the GFI angle.
She's never going to be your girlfriend....why pretend? :unknown:

Offline chadpitt

I’m surprised no one has linked the punters guide to escorting wiki which has a lot of pointers already.
It’s very odd as my perspective as a SP, I can understand that these are things that would perhaps make *most* clients happy, but definitely not all clients ever… some points are pretty useful for sure though

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I disagree with the music point on that guide . I understand why they play music but it is distracting nonetheless. Also kills any GFE vibes

Offline mr.bluesky

Giving you the full alloted time that you pay for would be a good start,  none of this book an hour and your out the room 40 minutes later, giving you 100% attention by not answering the phone or texting every 5 minutes would do for starters

Offline Atrueyorkie

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I disagree with the music point on that guide . I understand why they play music but it is distracting nonetheless. Also kills any GFE vibes

+1

Offline usroads

Giving me a £20 discount voucher for next time

Offline Hobbit

Proper DFK. And none of this open mouth, rigid tongue or lip kissing stuff.

Offline Topgun1

Keeping it simple: a sense of humour and playfulness.
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Offline hendrix

If they'd just a) note what you want b) deliver it, that would help.

This does it for me. I know exactly what I want and make sure to spell it out. The really good ones then deliver it as if it was completely spontaneous  :lol:

Online Moby Dick

A “help yourself bowl of boiled sweets” - humbugs, glacier mints, chocolate limes, sherbert lemons, that sort of thing.
I miss that from my parlour visits many moons ago. I don’t know if I developed an addiction to liquorice toffees first or the smell of pussy. Didn’t everyone tell the receptionist “I only come in for the sweets” or was that just me?

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The only Indy SP I recall who had a bowl of sweets on the bedside table was SK, not that I needed a sweet tooth to go back and see her numerous times, but it subconsciously probably helped.
« Last Edit: September 12, 2022, 01:45:09 pm by Moby Dick »

Offline theaccountant

I always think, the mark of a good WG is one that offers you a drink/glass of water on arrival. It's disarming and sort off make s you feel welcome in the room.

Offline willie loman

I always think, the mark of a good WG is one that offers you a drink/glass of water on arrival. It's disarming and sort off make s you feel welcome in the room.

a malayan girl once offered me a glass of irn bru, that made me laugh, i agree with all the comments, am amazed that girls who sell sex, sometimes dont seem to have a trick in their locker, scrotum tickling scrotum licking , that sort of stuff,


Offline Steely Dan

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I disagree with the music point on that guide . I understand why they play music but it is distracting nonetheless. Also kills any GFE vibes
I would think music would be a useful option.  If they have it, pretty easy to turn it off.  If they don't have it, and you want it, not so much.

What I really hate is commercial radio.
« Last Edit: September 12, 2022, 08:21:46 pm by Steely Dan »

Offline Steely Dan

I’m surprised no one has linked the punters guide to escorting wiki which has a lot of pointers already.
It’s very odd as my perspective as a SP, I can understand that these are things that would perhaps make *most* clients happy, but definitely not all clients ever… some points are pretty useful for sure though

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Thanks for linking, Katie.  No one agrees everything on this list, but this is a fair summary of the consensus from many posts over the last 8 years or so.  It could use an update - we will see if this thread adds new broadly agreed suggestions.
« Last Edit: September 12, 2022, 08:22:48 pm by Steely Dan »

Offline pantywetter

DFK is all I ask for.

With a lot of data, every punt with good DFK has been a strong green.  Every punt without it is a strong red.

Offline workinallweek


 simple really
be on time
do what they say they do   
wear what you ask for 
and dont short time you
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Offline Ali Katt

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I always think, the mark of a good WG is one that offers you a drink/glass of water on arrival. It's disarming and sort off make s you feel welcome in the room.
Many years ago didn't some saddo say he asks for a cup of tea because it takes longer to make and he might get an extra five minutes.  :mad:

Offline Payyourwaymate

A lot of SPs can't stand punters and think you paying to fuck is already enough. As long as they get paid, many do not care, not all but we all see it.

Men will still keep going regardless and then moan after the fact that they received shit service regardless of reviews warning previously or not... so they don't need to change unless they plan to do it long term and want repeat clients. In my personal opinion, I'm sure most don't envision doing the job long term, they just end up being long term SPs due to whatever circumstances they are in, so some may improve services and see it as a business to make sure they earn, some may not bother. It's very nuanced to fake GFE and deliver good sexual services with someone you are not attracted to I guess; as much as we want to see it the same way as going to Mcds or the local shop lol.
« Last Edit: September 14, 2022, 11:45:25 am by Payyourwaymate »

Offline ZeroCount

Many years ago didn't some saddo say he asks for a cup of tea because it takes longer to make and he might get an extra five minutes.  :mad:

More likely to have the opposite effect with most girls.

"Your time's up love - no, the tea making was part of your half hour."

Most expensive cuppa ever, even worse value than Costa!  :D

Offline mr.bluesky

A “help yourself bowl of boiled sweets” - humbugs, glacier mints, chocolate limes, sherbert lemons, that sort of thing.
I miss that from my parlour visits many moons ago. I don’t know if I developed an addiction to liquorice toffees first or the smell of pussy. Didn’t everyone tell the receptionist “I only come in for the sweets” or was that just me?

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The only Indy SP I recall who had a bowl of sweets on the bedside table was SK, not that I needed a sweet tooth to go back and see her numerous times, but it subconsciously probably helped.

I believe Lola Bell in Birmingham offers you a chocolate before getting down to the nitty gritty

Offline jimbobted

Zoe Chambers in Colchester use to make you a tea or coffee to go at the end of the punt, think I got a KitKat too. Nice touch, but then she was charging £250/hr several years ago!

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Offline shed

I believe Lola Bell in Birmingham offers you a chocolate before getting down to the nitty gritty


If you don't eat it she will more than likely chop your nuts off at the first opportunity. Seriously  :(

Offline signy

I believe Lola Bell in Birmingham offers you a chocolate before getting down to the nitty gritty

I have been offered chocolates by a few SPs before leaving; even encouraged to take a number for the journey. They seem to be given the chocolates by clients, and are then desperate to get rid of them (probaly both the chocolates and the clients).

Offline Vice Admiral

I believe Lola Bell in Birmingham offers you a chocolate before getting down to the nitty gritty

A few weeks ago, having caught myself saying "nitty-gritty", I thought I would look up the origin of this rather strange word.

The result was, to say the least, surprising:
'Nitty gritty' emerged as a corruption of 'nigritique'. The French colonists called the African slaves and creoles 'la population nigritique'. So to get down to the 'nitty gritty', as the English speakers pronounced it, was to mix with the people downtown.

So you would indeed expect to be offered chocolate if you got down to the nitty-gritty. 

Offline Steely Dan

A few weeks ago, having caught myself saying "nitty-gritty", I thought I would look up the origin of this rather strange word.

The result was, to say the least, surprising:
'Nitty gritty' emerged as a corruption of 'nigritique'. The French colonists called the African slaves and creoles 'la population nigritique'. So to get down to the 'nitty gritty', as the English speakers pronounced it, was to mix with the people downtown.

So you would indeed expect to be offered chocolate if you got down to the nitty-gritty.
You are right to be surprised.  Because it is not true.  This was made up in 2002 by the Evening standard.  This has been repeated many times in the last 20 years.  Woke hunters want it to be true. Does not make it true.  Actual scholars say
'Where it does come from isn't known. It is one of the many phrases that use rhyming reduplication, for example, namby-pamby, willy-nilly etc. It is most likely that the rhyme was formed as a simple extension of the existing US adjective 'gritty', meaning determined or plucky.'
« Last Edit: September 14, 2022, 09:04:21 pm by Steely Dan »

Offline Vice Admiral

You are right to be surprised.  Because it is not true.  This was made up in 2002 by the Evening standard.  This has been repeated many times in the last 20 years.  Woke hunters want it to be true. Does not make it true.  Actual scholars say
'Where it does come from isn't known. It is one of the many phrases that use rhyming reduplication, for example, namby-pamby, willy-nilly etc. It is most likely that the rhyme was formed as a simple extension of the existing US adjective 'gritty', meaning determined or plucky.'

There are a lot of urban myths around the origins of words and phrases, and I try to avoid being trapped by them – but in this case I do indeed seem to have been.

Google has a lot of hits on the slave theory, as you imply; but they appear to be anachronistic.

This is as lucid a summary of the probable truth of the matter as I came across during a second round of searching a few minutes ago:
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Offline Home Alone

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What I really hate is commercial radio.

Me, too. I'm convinced that some of them only use it for keeping time on hour-long bookings.

Offline jimbobted

Me, too. I'm convinced that some of them only use it for keeping time on hour-long bookings.
I usually ask for music to be turned off (if it's some genre I can't stand) or turned down very low. I want to her the sounds of sex, not some crooner in the background.

Online Moby Dick

Me, too. I'm convinced that some of them only use it for keeping time on hour-long bookings.
Without doubt, it’s like painting by numbers.
They have a set play list and they know that by a particular song they need to doing such and such up to the point they say “fancy a shower before you leave”.

Well rehearsed: suck, shag, spunk n shower by songs.

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

I usually ask for music to be turned off (if it's some genre I can't stand) or turned down very low. I want to her the sounds of sex, not some crooner in the background.

Remember seeing a very fine Japanese girl at Chelsea Cloisters many years ago now, had a CD of Woodblock and Windchimes and lovely background audio it was, so muich so i asked her where did she get it from?. Seemed it was only around in Japan!

She then said take ths one, have it as a gift, i'll get another, still got it:)