Any one ended up in a relationship with a wg or even casual sex outside of "work

[webpunter]

Sounds ideal 
On balance escorts are good in the sack, they get plenty of practise
So if they actually want to do it, as opposed to being paid, the outlook is good

Me thinks she mentioned her being an escort coz she was interested in you, however wanted to get her vocation in the open to see what reaction
Did you mention that as well as being a tattooist you are an accomplished punter ?
With literary talents to report on the same etc
Or did this somehow get missed off the convo ? 

On the basis that escorts lurve tramp stamps [which i think look tops - when well done] i don't think we will have much chance of guessing who the lucky bird is !

You reading [on here] bout her getting banged senseless might be interesting

Have you knocked punting on the head whilst she is in the picture ? [sorry haven't read all of the thread 'above' - in case this has been covered off]

Only one more thing - you lucky f****r 

The good thing for me is that i met her outside of punting but when we had a convo while i was tattooing her she told me she's an escort. I don't think i could see a prossie that i used to pay to fuck in my mind it would seem like im crossing the line there. But yeah we are just taking things as they come we spend a lot of time together when we are both not working, and i really do enjoy her company as she honestly makes me laugh most of the time with her outlook on the world.

[elnukky]

Where is the line between EAS and a romantic involvement. Does this encourage those with EAS by giving them hope?

[Brazilian Martian]

Sounds ideal 
On balance escorts are good in the sack, they get plenty of practise
So if they actually want to do it, as opposed to being paid, the outlook is good

Me thinks she mentioned her being an escort coz she was interested in you, however wanted to get her vocation in the open to see what reaction
Did you mention that as well as being a tattooist you are an accomplished punter ?
With literary talents to report on the same etc
Or did this somehow get missed off the convo ? 

On the basis that escorts lurve tramp stamps [which i think look tops - when well done] i don't think we will have much chance of guessing who the lucky bird is !

You reading [on here] bout her getting banged senseless might be interesting

Have you knocked punting on the head whilst she is in the picture ? [sorry haven't read all of the thread 'above' - in case this has been covered off]

Only one more thing - you lucky f****r 

I lied and said i dnt punt but later on i told her i do, we have had discussions about punting but we never go into graphic details  about what has happened. I have not punted since January i have started to get more into  deep tissue massages with happy endings now, so thats more me for now.

[Brazilian Martian]

Where is the line between EAS and a romantic involvement. Does this encourage those with EAS by giving them hope?

Another great point, the other day she called me and asked me what size i was as she was buying herself a pair of designer trainer's from Harvey Nichols and wanted to buy me some, i had to tell her not to be stupud and dont spend money on me and if i wanted them i would buy them myself.

This type of behaviour could lead to a man getting EAS or even a prossie getting it.

[sparkus]

Another great point, the other day she called me and asked me what size i was as she was buying herself a pair of designer trainer's from Harvey Nichols and wanted to buy me some, i had to tell her not to be stupud and dont spend money on me and if i wanted them i would buy them myself.

This type of behaviour could lead to a man getting EAS or even a prossie getting it.

Come to think of it, I have had regulars buy me stuff for xmas and birthdays or even just if they went home for a few weeks.  Hate to say it, but on several occasions it went straight into a bin as I'd not be able to explain its acquisition at home (or even want it in the first place)! I think one just did it as I always hinted ahead of birthdays that CIM would be the "ultimate present" though!

[Brazilian Martian]

Come to think of it, I have had regulars buy me stuff for xmas and birthdays or even just if they went home for a few weeks.  Hate to say it, but on several occasions it went straight into a bin as I'd not be able to explain its acquisition at home (or even want it in the first place)! I think one just did it as I always hinted ahead of birthdays that CIM would be the "ultimate present" though!

Lool

[rocky187]

Many moons ago I used to see a Brazilian girl regularly. Fancied the hell out of her and the sex was great. Anyway one time went to see her for a booking and wanted an hour but as it was a brothel they were closing in half hour she offered to finish back at her place, well that lead to 6 months of seeing each other. Would give her lifts after work and then stay over  had a great time with her. She went back to Brazil for the summer and then when she came back the maid told her I was coming regularly to see other girls which actually wasn’t the case but anyway we sort of fizzled out for a while then she left the game and we spent some more time together till I moved for work and she would contact me every now and then but dissapeared one day. Still do wonder about her. Was a great girl. Also never asked me for anything.

[niftyfiftydave]

Many moons ago I used to see a Brazilian girl regularly. Fancied the hell out of her and the sex was great. Anyway one time went to see her for a booking and wanted an hour but as it was a brothel they were closing in half hour she offered to finish back at her place, well that lead to 6 months of seeing each other. Would give her lifts after work and then stay over  had a great time with her. She went back to Brazil for the summer and then when she came back the maid told her I was coming regularly to see other girls which actually wasn’t the case but anyway we sort of fizzled out for a while then she left the game and we spent some more time together till I moved for work and she would contact me every now and then but dissapeared one day. Still do wonder about her. Was a great girl. Also never asked me for anything.

That proves a point i tried to make but probably not getting it across to well, Wg or not they are only human and have a life outside of whoring, well they do if they are not pimped to hell and fucked on the gear.
Probably not marriage  material but like anyone else they will have their type and know who the feel comfortable around and if they want to spend time someone.  If like me there are no ties and no one is being deceived, bit hard to deceive when you have previously paid them for sex lol, wheres the harm?

This is such an interesting thread because it has people chatting honestly and openly about something most punters have probably thought about at some point after a very good meet. On balance more seem to have had good experiences, for a short time maybe, until life, leaving the country or just fizzling out got in the way.

If your the jealous type it will fuck with your head, if your married it would be a stupid risk, if you get eas to easily steer well clear lol, if you have lived a life got your head screwed on, don,t want a full on 24 hr relationship and happy in your own company when it goes tits up, So far i can,t see too many downsides. After all if the women involved gets paid to fuck all day and still wants to chat, flirt and fuck you for nothing it just has to be because you do something that turns her on which comes right back to being human after all.

[Brazilian Martian]

Many moons ago I used to see a Brazilian girl regularly. Fancied the hell out of her and the sex was great. Anyway one time went to see her for a booking and wanted an hour but as it was a brothel they were closing in half hour she offered to finish back at her place, well that lead to 6 months of seeing each other. Would give her lifts after work and then stay over  had a great time with her. She went back to Brazil for the summer and then when she came back the maid told her I was coming regularly to see other girls which actually wasn’t the case but anyway we sort of fizzled out for a while then she left the game and we spent some more time together till I moved for work and she would contact me every now and then but dissapeared one day. Still do wonder about her. Was a great girl. Also never asked me for anything.

A brasilian girl not asking for anything and giving you freebies fucking hell you must be lucky, any chance you can give me the winning lottery numbers for Wednesday's must win jackpot

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[webpunter]

Everyone knows that HEs don't count 

Enjoy the edging 

I have not punted since January i have started to get more into  deep tissue massages with happy endings now, so thats more me for now.

[rocky187]

A brasilian girl not asking for anything and giving you freebies fucking hell you must be lucky, any chance you can give me the winning lottery numbers for Wednesday's must win jackpot

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 : genuinely this girl was great she came from somewhere in the south Of Brazil and hated the city girls, use to day they just about what they can get. Dont know about that but I do k or my love for Brazilians had a dtart from there!! Although ofcourse in the parlour she was “Indian” 

[DOUGLAS56]

That proves a point i tried to make but probably not getting it across to well, Wg or not they are only human and have a life outside of whoring, well they do if they are not pimped to hell and fucked on the gear.
Probably not marriage  material but like anyone else they will have their type and know who the feel comfortable around and if they want to spend time someone.  If like me there are no ties and no one is being deceived, bit hard to deceive when you have previously paid them for sex lol, wheres the harm?

This is such an interesting thread because it has people chatting honestly and openly about something most punters have probably thought about at some point after a very good meet. On balance more seem to have had good experiences, for a short time maybe, until life, leaving the country or just fizzling out got in the way.

If your the jealous type it will fuck with your head, if your married it would be a stupid risk, if you get eas to easily steer well clear lol, if you have lived a life got your head screwed on, don,t want a full on 24 hr relationship and happy in your own company when it goes tits up, So far i can,t see too many downsides. After all if the women involved gets paid to fuck all day and still wants to chat, flirt and fuck you for nothing it just has to be because you do something that turns her on which comes right back to being human after all.

Bang on

[rubric]

It certainly does happen.  I met a WG a number of years back when I was younger and better looking.  We had a 1hour booking that turned into 4 hours of hanging out and going for dinner.  Eventually turned into a 6-month relationship that ended when she moved back to Poland.

Same think - also when I was younger (not sure about better looking), on a couple of occasions an appointment with an EE girl turned into a convo on art and culture, ended with us going out to see something, followed by dinner and so on with an on again off again aspect, in one case 4 months, the other case a couple, both times things ended when they went back to their home country.

At the time if I had a good time with a girl I'd say something like "I had a really wonderful time today *pause* what's the best way of seeing you again", as most girls would prefer dealing direct rather than via the agency, just once a Spanish lass took it to mean I wanted to see her socially, sadly she was leaving the country in a week - but we did go out once (lots of foreplay and no sex), did get to shag her on the day she was leaving before giving her and her cousin a lift to the airport though 

[Lp1975]

Happened once to me a few years back - no right or wrong answer to these things... It was good / great for a while, but like any relationship, you need to be ready to accept the good and the bad.

Two things stood out for me though.

You need to read through comments here and on the other review site about the girl. It’s not for the faint hearted if you want to take it remotely seriously... obviously no one should believe everything on sites, but still it’s not easy to read about her doing whatever she is doing to some random bloke you don’t know. You can rationalise and / or accept it, but it’s easier said than done.

And the second thing I learnt - I would use an analogy. For the girls - even if you find a sensible one with the head screwed on properly, it is a job. And what she does professionally might bear no resemblance to what she does at home. just because your “partner” is a master chef in a 3 Michelin starred restaurant, don’t expect her to cook you some posh 10 course menu whenever you want it.

[niftyfiftydave]

Happened once to me a few years back - no right or wrong answer to these things... It was good / great for a while, but like any relationship, you need to be ready to accept the good and the bad.

Two things stood out for me though.

You need to read through comments here and on the other review site about the girl. It’s not for the faint hearted if you want to take it remotely seriously... obviously no one should believe everything on sites, but still it’s not easy to read about her doing whatever she is doing to some random bloke you don’t know. You can rationalise and / or accept it, but it’s easier said than done.

And the second thing I learnt - I would use an analogy. For the girls - even if you find a sensible one with the head screwed on properly, it is a job. And what she does professionally might bear no resemblance to what she does at home. just because your “partner” is a master chef in a 3 Michelin starred restaurant, don’t expect her to cook you some posh 10 course menu whenever you want it.

Fuck that she could bring it home ready cooked lol, Funny you should mention food, the girl in question says she loves cooking and offered to cook next time i visited, said her mum told her to dress well and feed a man lol. Still not managed to make a booking and heaven knows when she gets time to cook with a full time job and her extra activities a few nights a week but hopefully i may find out.  I can,t be doing with jealousy hence the last gf getting marching orders and very much got my eyes open and sharing is caring lol, is that not why we share our thoughts on these Wg,s. Though i have to say some seem to think they are not human at all or use the information given but give nothing back, My second punt with the polish one she mentioned somebody had told her i had reviewed here and that is why he booked. Not seen a review appear, unless he is another making notes and reviewing 4/6 weeks later when they have often moved, left the country, become jaded or simply filled their boots and given up the game, That is one thing i find quite illogical here, like not reviewing if they have moved on, are they not collated and whats wrong with helping fellow punters in another part of the country? Buggered if i want notes on punts lying around anywhere. The most honest reviews i think are asap when clear in the mind, good bad or ugly.

[jedisithwarrior]

Interesting thread, I enjoy the company of a WG but as soon as the sesh is over, It's back to the wank bank for me

[ttr]

I use to visit a well known massage place near mill hill on the Watford way, Ended up as a 15 year relationship of helping her out with paper work and bits and pieces in exchange for sex when ever I called her up for it.
I even picked her brother up from the airport, she paid the fuel plus extra cash, got to know her son quite well (early 20's), I still keep in touch about once a year now, but have not been able to see her for about 3 years since she became grandma. Also had on other girl 10 years my junior that use to hang out with me every now and then. Guess it helped I drove a limo for a living at the time. But she left the country to live in Dubai, still a FB friend tho.
I guess it can happen and does if you meet the right ones and the right times, and you are seeking the same. I was hoping for it  to start with another Romanian girl I see regular, but Nahhh, she aint having none of it.

[GMontag]

About 6 years ago went twice to see this WG in SE London who had an amazing ass. Punt was good but she came across as very businesslike and a bit thick. Not a problem though. Then saw an ad for another WG in same location and though no face pics body looked just my type.
Arranged a booking and turns out to be same flat as the other WG I'd seen. Went ahead and had a great punt. Lady was far prettier with amazing curves. To top it off we just seemed to connect and talked for ages finding out we had a lot in common. Gap of about 2 months I went to see her again. She was pleased to see me asking why I had taken too long to come back. Another even better session this time. After that we kept in touch by text which was really basic conversations, nothing flirty. She then needed some help on something and I offered to come over. She was really pleased and offered to reward me with half price punt for the hour.
Went over and ended up spending over 3 hours sorting out her issue and seemingly ages in bed.
All these times didnt meet the other WG though it was clear they shared the flat. I also didnt mention I had been there before.
She then went abroad and then the flirts started, initiated by her. Kept telling me how she enjoyed spending time with me and would love to see me when she got back. Ended up arranging to spend a night with her. She came back and as set up went over one weekend and actually spent 2 nights. She cooked, we watched movies and had great sex as always. No payment from me. We really got on well. This time I saw the other WG and eventually told her I had seen her friend. It didn't faze her at all. Instead we subsequently became closer, with her telling me about her plans to stop the game and do a degree. Told me a lot of shocking things about her friend as well. Gave a lot of insight on how much money prossies can potentially earn as well.
She did stop and went to Uni and we continued chatting with the issue being distance and work. I sort of cooled off but she made effort to keep in touch. After a period of 1 year we rekindled and I began making more effort to spend time with her by visiting. The sex was always great and she was a real hardworking woman with definite plans and from all indications had stopped working as a prossie even taking up a civvie job to support herself in school.
At no point did she ever ask me for anything but on her birthday wpuld get her presents and on holidays go over and we would do things together.
I must admit I really liked her but could never commit to letting it become a ful relationship and deep down it was just about the sex for me.
Eventually, to my regret, I just stopped communicating due to a number of issues, work pressures and all. We still remain FB and Linkedin friends and she now has a great job and seems to be making something of her life. She did message me recently asking why I cut off communication but just didnt reply. Her friend kept on working till recently and many times would be tempted to book her as she has a great ass. Didn't give in though. She's apparently not working now though.

[niftyfiftydave]

About 6 years ago went twice to see this WG in SE London who had an amazing ass. Punt was good but she came across as very businesslike and a bit thick. Not a problem though. Then saw an ad for another WG in same location and though no face pics body looked just my type.
Arranged a booking and turns out to be same flat as the other WG I'd seen. Went ahead and had a great punt. Lady was far prettier with amazing curves. To top it off we just seemed to connect and talked for ages finding out we had a lot in common. Gap of about 2 months I went to see her again. She was pleased to see me asking why I had taken too long to come back. Another even better session this time. After that we kept in touch by text which was really basic conversations, nothing flirty. She then needed some help on something and I offered to come over. She was really pleased and offered to reward me with half price punt for the hour.
Went over and ended up spending over 3 hours sorting out her issue and seemingly ages in bed.
All these times didnt meet the other WG though it was clear they shared the flat. I also didnt mention I had been there before.
She then went abroad and then the flirts started, initiated by her. Kept telling me how she enjoyed spending time with me and would love to see me when she got back. Ended up arranging to spend a night with her. She came back and as set up went over one weekend and actually spent 2 nights. She cooked, we watched movies and had great sex as always. No payment from me. We really got on well. This time I saw the other WG and eventually told her I had seen her friend. It didn't faze her at all. Instead we subsequently became closer, with her telling me about her plans to stop the game and do a degree. Told me a lot of shocking things about her friend as well. Gave a lot of insight on how much money prossies can potentially earn as well.
She did stop and went to Uni and we continued chatting with the issue being distance and work. I sort of cooled off but she made effort to keep in touch. After a period of 1 year we rekindled and I began making more effort to spend time with her by visiting. The sex was always great and she was a real hardworking woman with definite plans and from all indications had stopped working as a prossie even taking up a civvie job to support herself in school.
At no point did she ever ask me for anything but on her birthday wpuld get her presents and on holidays go over and we would do things together.
I must admit I really liked her but could never commit to letting it become a ful relationship and deep down it was just about the sex for me.
Eventually, to my regret, I just stopped communicating due to a number of issues, work pressures and all. We still remain FB and Linkedin friends and she now has a great job and seems to be making something of her life. She did message me recently asking why I cut off communication but just didnt reply. Her friend kept on working till recently and many times would be tempted to book her as she has a great ass. Didn't give in though. She's apparently not working now though.

6 years on and she gave up the game years ago off her own back, made something of her life and you got along well, you stopped contact and she still wants to know. Are you not just a bit curious about giving it another go?

You could go out Friday and meet " the one" and find out years later her past is far worse, or never find out at all.You may never meet the one and like my mate settle for one that shows an interest, he leads a dogs life now.. Is it just how you met that plays on your mind ? It would seem you were very compatible in bed and out and it sounds like she did what she had to do to improve her life and got out as soon as she could, that is a big brave decision to make that worked for her and helped her educate herself without any help or seeking a sugar daddy.

I think that girl deserves a big pat on the back and deserves everything good that comes her way, and after reading that she is missing out on one good thing that came her way. How many women from poor backgrounds get a poor education, doss on the dole, work dead end jobs or get up the duff to get a council flat then doss on the dole.

Take her out and see if the spark is still there, nothing ventured nothing gained as so many have said, she is obviously still very much on your mind.

[GMontag]

6 years on and she gave up the game years ago off her own back, made something of her life and you got along well, you stopped contact and she still wants to know. Are you not just a bit curious about giving it another go?

You could go out Friday and meet " the one" and find out years later her past is far worse, or never find out at all.You may never meet the one and like my mate settle for one that shows an interest, he leads a dogs life now.. Is it just how you met that plays on your mind ? It would seem you were very compatible in bed and out and it sounds like she did what she had to do to improve her life and got out as soon as she could, that is a big brave decision to make that worked for her and helped her educate herself without any help or seeking a sugar daddy.

I think that girl deserves a big pat on the back and deserves everything good that comes her way, and after reading that she is missing out on one good thing that came her way. How many women from poor backgrounds get a poor education, doss on the dole, work dead end jobs or get up the duff to get a council flat then doss on the dole.

Take her out and see if the spark is still there, nothing ventured nothing gained as so many have said, she is obviously still very much on your mind.

You are right, I have come across far worse in civvy ladies. Unfortunately she left the UK as well for work so no hope there. It wasn't even how we met that made me cool off. If anything my own proclivity for punting makes me a bad egg. I wasn't ready to settle down, still not I guess. I certainly wish her the best though and know she will make some guy very happy.

[niftyfiftydave]

You are right, I have come across far worse in civvy ladies. Unfortunately she left the UK as well for work so no hope there. It wasn't even how we met that made me cool off. If anything my own proclivity for punting makes me a bad egg. I wasn't ready to settle down, still not I guess. I certainly wish her the best though and know she will make some guy very happy.

Stay in touch things could change for both of you, different for me, twice married and not looking to do it again Like you i have bad habits lol, had my first punt at 15 and never really stopped, so a more casual thing will suit me, tried another civvie relationship and i just don,t want the hassles that come with it, very comfortable in my own and friends company so no worries when it goes tits up, if it ever gets started lol, but it is looking that way. Nothing wrong spending time with a women you get on with whatever they do for a living. Just give the crackheads a wide berth, god knows why anyone does not walk at the first signs of addiction is beyond me, read a review where he waited naked for ten minutes while she dosed her self up, Really?

[SirCharles]

Happened once to me a few years back - no right or wrong answer to these things... It was good / great for a while, but like any relationship, you need to be ready to accept the good and the bad.

Two things stood out for me though.

You need to read through comments here and on the other review site about the girl. It’s not for the faint hearted if you want to take it remotely seriously... obviously no one should believe everything on sites, but still it’s not easy to read about her doing whatever she is doing to some random bloke you don’t know. You can rationalise and / or accept it, but it’s easier said than done.

And the second thing I learnt - I would use an analogy. For the girls - even if you find a sensible one with the head screwed on properly, it is a job. And what she does professionally might bear no resemblance to what she does at home. just because your “partner” is a master chef in a 3 Michelin starred restaurant, don’t expect her to cook you some posh 10 course menu whenever you want it.

I had two stories, one 1.5 yrs long with...who also took me to meet her parents abroad, just to say...the other one for a few months: great sex, all very passionate but...BPD (borderline personality disorder) squared!. And, at the end, you get completely fooled by the crazyness...bottom line is that it has been the best sex ever, full bareback, full nights of passion and crazy sex, with the first, having crazy sex anytime everywhere, but also a proper boom and bust in both stories! Shall i regret?!? Not at all, but do not recommend to everyone
The funny is that you enter in their world, their prossi friends whose they tell/gossip you everything about them but never display to you (yes, they were very jelous and told you at the same time their job it's just a job..and you learn a lot of insight, some of them even discussed here (of course never disclosed)
Cheers!

[DipsyDoodle]

The funny is that you enter in their world, their prossi friends whose they tell/gossip you everything about them but never display to you (yes, they were very jelous and told you at the same time their job it's just a job..and you learn a lot of insight, some of them even discussed here (of course never disclosed)
Cheers!

Totally agree with that.  I was told about some of the members on this site. 

[SirCharles]

Totally agree with that.  I was told about some of the members on this site.

The worse, instead, is when you read their review over here...at the beginning it was a real shock but after a while you do not bother or try not to 

[azrael]

It was kind of surreal now looking back. On meeting her for the first time, she was unusually
"keen" on me. We swapped numbers as she mentioned about wanting to meet agency clients
1-2-1 by-passing the agency itself (my guess to avoid paying agency commission).

Then things started to spiral out of control, started to exchange flirty type text messages then
escalated to a full-on dating relationship, ie evening meals, cinema screenings, overnight
sessions at hotels, and crazily on my part even introducing her to my close circle of friends
during a social outing.

Throughout this "dating phase" never paid for sex, just the costs of entertaining her as mentioned
above and on quite a few occasions split costs or she even paid for overnight hotel accommodation.
Bizarre I thought when my mind was NOT fixated on the "free casual sex" and it was bloody good.

Circa Feb/Mar 2003, she was going away on a trip to Europe, promising to contact me again on
her return to London. She started to talk about becoming engaged with view to marriage with
me on her return. However, here was the sting. She asked if I could loan her some money,
she didn't ask for a gift. Due to my own STUPIDITY & GULLIBILITY in believing the story
of her coming back and relationship becoming more serious, I gifted her £1,500
but in essence even LOANING money out was crazy never mind gifting this amount,

Surprise, surprise later when she returned from her Euro vacation, she ignored my calls to
see her again, she had zero intention of ever becoming engaged/married to me. Her only
regret (her own words to me) was that she could not fleece out more money from me
when I did manage to speak with her.

Moral of the story: NEVER confuse punting with dating

What a bitch, look at it this way that £1.5k you loaned her paid for all the freebies you got. Lesson learnt, your all the wiser for it now

[Ronshoelove]

Hot Bianca, used to operate out of a flat near liverpool Street station. She doesn’t punt anymore ... largely due to what happened with us!

We started seeing each other, I probably spent around 5-6k on her over 6months. Sex was great. She moved back to romania

[Brazilian Martian]

Hot Bianca, used to operate out of a flat near liverpool Street station. She doesn’t punt anymore ... largely due to what happened with us!

We started seeing each other, I probably spent around 5-6k on her over 6months. Sex was great. She moved back to romania

 

[DipsyDoodle]

The worse, instead, is when you read their review over here...at the beginning it was a real shock but after a while you do not bother or try not to 

Yep, recognise that too.  With the first one, we would talk about the reviews.  Probably half of the reviews had activities and performance levels that never occurred.  Hearing the other side of the review made you realise that it is all about the money and the lifestyle that it allows them to have.  You would also hear about the guys that clearly had EAS.

One of the things that we did is to call her work location the office so they we could separate things.  Whilst I visited her at the office, we never did anything there and always waited until we were at her place or mine.  Helped keep the separation between work and real life.  And we rarely talked about her work unless she had a booking with a complete tosser where she needed to get things off her chest.

As somebody already said, a relationship with a prossie isn't for the faint of heart nor something I would recommend.  I have no regrets and didn't expect to be in one again, but life is too short and as long as I'm having fun, I just go with things.

[king tarzan]

Be nice friendly within payment time and there premises
Beyond that A BIG TIME NO THANKS...

there contact number is for SEXUAL USAGE ONLY

not for social or relationship interaction...

No need for me to put my mind through anguish and distress..


Anyways each to there own....

[GMontag]

Be nice friendly within payment time and there premises
Beyond that A BIG TIME NO THANKS...

there contact number is for SEXUAL USAGE ONLY

not for social or relationship interaction...

No need for me to put my mind through anguish and distress..


Anyways each to there own....

Probably FAR BETTER for the ladys, WG and Civvy alike.
Spares THEM the anguish and stress...

[Lp1975]

Yep, recognise that too.  With the first one, we would talk about the reviews.  Probably half of the reviews had activities and performance levels that never occurred.  Hearing the other side of the review made you realise that it is all about the money and the lifestyle that it allows them to have.  You would also hear about the guys that clearly had EAS.

One of the things that we did is to call her work location the office so they we could separate things.  Whilst I visited her at the office, we never did anything there and always waited until we were at her place or mine.  Helped keep the separation between work and real life.  And we rarely talked about her work unless she had a booking with a complete tosser where she needed to get things off her chest.

As somebody already said, a relationship with a prossie isn't for the faint of heart nor something I would recommend.  I have no regrets and didn't expect to be in one again, but life is too short and as long as I'm having fun, I just go with things.

Totally agreed, especially the last paragraph... life is too short to worry about every little thing. Go with the flow if it feels right...

Funny to read your comment about “the office” - in my particular experience, she did not have a separate location, and we ended up calling in the private room vs the room for the general public.

You do need to have a good sense of humour to make it function. In any “normal” relationship, couples bitch about work to each other. But it’s a bit different when the bitching involves her complaining someone was too big, too small, and most likely, too delusional about his performance...!

[Lp1975]

And I should add to above.

The real head fuck was when I got to know the characters with EAS, and when you saybye to her “have a nice day at work”, knowing that she is going to go meet effectively her stalker...

Ironically for her, the people with mild and manageable EAS tend to be her best clients, which likely means that she would make a special effort to be good to them.

Bloody hell - it’s a head fuck just thinking about it - no wonder it didn’t last!

[Rick2468]

I had an outcall with a girl from Essex around my house. No review as she wasn't on Adultwork for long. I booked an hour but she was at my house for 2.5 hours although just 1 hour of that was fun. We watched MTV for a while afterwards and it turned out we had been to a lot of the same gigs. I never thought I'd be her type as she was a bit "street" but she really seemed to enjoy the punt and she said I was amazing at licking pussy and kept complimenting how nice my house was. She told me her real name and where she worked. She also showed me some photos of her on Facebook so I could see her real name although the surname had some crazy spelling so I would never be able to find it again. The following Friday she called me around 10.30 in the evening. She'd been drinking and asked me how I was and when was I going to book her again. I said I wasn't sure.

About a month later she text me "by accident" and I told her it was the wrong number and she asked me how I was and if I wanted to go for a drink and if I could send her a photo. I liked her but thought she was just touting for work so never arranged a drink. I don't know if she was genuine or just looking for work but I often think about what might have been! Also the day after I saw the escort I found out my ex was dating the guy who I had always suspected of her cheating on me with and I was really upset and didn't really have the energy to think about another relationship. I only recently found out they are now engaged and that pisssed me off even though we split about 5 years ago.

I walk past the escort's place of work (a shop) from time to time and I always look in to see if she is in there but I've never seen her. Also I don't have her number any more. She let me take a photo of her sucking me off and I still have it saved and look at it from time to time!  Ah well.

[niftyfiftydave]

Well last week i finally found time to make that booking, no review lol, and asked the lets go to dinner question and did not get the knock back, sort of thought i would not from the regular texts and chats or probably would not have asked. but you never know. Spent most of the weekend together but she was not keen on going to her place. Reasons given made senses and she said is as good to be away from the place.
No idea where it,s going but i am going to have fun finding out, i am not the jealous clingy type and like my own space, so it suits me just meeting up when schedules allow  and as since i am supposed to be semi retired but busier than i have ever been it won,t be to often but being single and no hang ups i really cannot see the problem spending time with someone you get on well with , first sign of asking for money or any addiction the big switch off will come but no signs so far.

[DipsyDoodle]

No idea where it,s going but i am going to have fun finding out, i am not the jealous clingy type and like my own space, so it suits me just meeting up when schedules allow  and as since i am supposed to be semi retired but busier than i have ever been it won,t be to often but being single and no hang ups i really cannot see the problem spending time with someone you get on well with , first sign of asking for money or any addiction the big switch off will come but no signs so far.

Just like in normal life, there are good people and bad people.  You'll be able to suss things out quickly.  In both my cases, there was no asking for money or any addictions.  People just saw a happy couple.  During holidays abroad, people asked us how long have two been married?, which always made us laugh.  I know several active AW escorts where we are just friends.  I've showed them pictures from both relationships, like holiday snaps or evenings out.  In both cases, it was good to get their feedback because they said That is genuine.  Look at her smiling and how happy she is.  I know when someone is faking, and that is not fake.  They then asked me all kinds of questions to confirm what they pictures showed.  It was a good sanity check to have other escorts validate things from their perspective, as let's be honest, they are brilliant at playing mind games with us blokes.

But like you, I never went in thinking I fancy dating a prossie and maybe she is right.  I've had some fantastic bookings and quite a few that went well over the scheduled booking time, like hours over time.  I even had one outcall where it was our third meeting and she showed up with her overnight bag telling me I thought I would just spend the night if that is OK with you.  But those bookings were just sex and I never fancied seeing them outside of a booking. 

But twice now, things have just clicked.  Take things slow, give her space, and focus on having fun.  Don't lower your guard too much until you are certain she can be trusted.  Another AW WG that knows of my situation because we are just friends once told me don't put her in a position where she has to choose.  It was good advice.  So in both cases, we agreed a schedule in advance that allowed her the freedom to manage her work whilst at the same time allowed for time together.  It made our time together predictable, more enjoyable, and gave us both something to look forward to outside of work.

Best of luck.

[rhub9]

Many, many, years ago I fell for a working girl. I paid off her debts like a mug, and she quit "sex work" and got a real job. We both agreed we wanted to be "exclusive".

She was probably one of the most beautiful women I've ever had sex with, and was smart, funny - I introduced her to me mum! ("we met online"...!)

We lived together and dated quite happily for 12 months... and then I discovered she's gone back to sex work ("just a couple of times, with an old client - they money was too good to pass up!")

Broke my heart really, so kicked her out and lived like a monk for about 6 months after that.

Since then, I have had a few "FWB" type relationships. The girls have typically been great in bed, but absolutely bonkers. Not dating material, even if they weren't hookers!

One young African lady used to text me late almost every Friday night, asking if I could come 'round and give her a seeing too. Usually I was happy to oblige! No payment requested, she just seemed to develop a routine of getting a bit drink, and then texting me for a booty call. Was great for my ego! The sex was pretty vanilla, but she was pretty and it was free, so I wasn't complaining. This went on for a good few months before dwindling out...

Most memorable was Laura. She was I think Bulgarian but her English was quite fluent. She did sex work as a side gig, had an office job most of the time - did outcalls only. Booked her a couple of times, and we clicked quite well. I was in my mid 30s, she was mid 20s I would guess. Long, dark hair, pale skin, intense brown eyes and a gym fit spinner body. Very naughty smile!

A few months after the last time I'd seen Laura, I got a garbled text off her on my punting phone. My phone was on as I'd been trying to organise an outcall for the evening with someone else, but I'd basically been stood up. This was about 11pm on a Saturday, and I was about to give up and go to bed, but I gave Laura a call to see if it was just a "butt text" or if she was in trouble (saviour on a white horse that I am). Anyway, conversation went something like:

Me: Hi, you alright love?
Her: Oh! I'm fine.
Me: Ok, just wanted to check after that text...
Her: What are you doing at the moment?
Me: Uhh, I was about to get into bed actually... why?
Her: Can I come and join you?
Me: Uh, sure?

Anyway, I figured "score, at least I have an outcall now". Laura came over, we ended up chatting and drinking wine (well, pretty much all of my booze...!)

Conscious of the time, I said I was enjoying our chat, but that we should move to the bedroom. Laura exclaimed "Oh, this isn't on the meter honey"...

Anyway, we fucked and fell asleep. Then woke up in the morning and fucked again. Had breakfast. Then fucked again. Then ordered in lunch. Had more sex. etc.

The more I fucked her, the more she wanted. Highlight was doing reverse cowgirl anal. (During my previous PAID FOR bookings, she'd always said she didn't do anal!)

She finally left Monday morning, refused any payment (although she'd pretty much eaten and drunk me out of house and home, so...!)

I can honestly say it was one of the most marathon/draining sessions I've ever had (apart from my first gf anyway).

I don't believe she works anymore, and the number I have for her goes to voicemail.

I think if I had one wish before I died, it would be to have another "butt text" from Laura... even though it would probably kill me now.  :-)

[Joepeeps]

This thread is turning into Dear Deidre. 

[webpunter]

That's NIK's forte although the demise of OffT has thankfully put the kaibosh on these 
Just jestin

This thread is turning into Dear Deidre. 

[Laney08]

This thread is turning into Dear Deidre. 

It's certainly an education isn't it

Life's short. That said, a lot of it seems like plain old loneliness or the need for an SO (for both sides, men and women) but fairplay for finding meaningful connection with anyone in this day and age 

There's another thread on here about being married to a civvie whilst keeping the punting side of life quiet. Got to be said, seems like way less of a headfuck having something meaningful with a WG. At least with a WG there's some acceptance of punter ways and a punters acceptance of the hoe-life.

[niftyfiftydave]

It's certainly an education isn't it

Life's short. That said, a lot of it seems like plain old loneliness or the need for an SO (for both sides, men and women) but fairplay for finding meaningful connection with anyone in this day and age 

There's another thread on here about being married to a civvie whilst keeping the punting side of life quiet. Got to be said, seems like way less of a headfuck having something meaningful with a WG. At least with a WG there's some acceptance of punter ways and a punters acceptance of the hoe-life.

Lol. no dear dear dierdrie from me, or paying any debts, when you drive a 15 year old car and your home needs loads of work there is no signs of available money. I am sure loneliness does come into the equation but after reading other peoples thoughts on balance most seem to think nothing ventured nothing gained and keep your head screwed on. Thought about it for a while and this thread helped make the decision, If nothing else i had a great fun weekend in good company.

Your right to, quite obvious i like a dabble, can,t hide that being how we met in the first place and i won,t stop. Kiddie in a sweet shop and all that, no ties, a little extra cash at times, you all know how it is, but nothing wrong with having fun times with a fun women after all working girl or not they are still human beings. Well some are lol.

I like the idea of only being able to meet when time allows, not having the demands and needs of a full on relationship, and no one worrying or hassling if i get home late, wanting a new kitchen, complaining if i make a mess at home and constantly cleaning, wanting a new car to impress the neighbours, all the usual stuff. Here is how it is take it or leave it suits me.

[professorlove]

One of the better threads on here I think. Puts the human side back into this hobby. I’d like to join in with a valuable comment but not yet been in a similar situation.

[king tarzan]

Lol. no dear dear dierdrie from me, or paying any debts, when you drive a 15 year old car and your home needs loads of work there is no signs of available money. I am sure loneliness does come into the equation but after reading other peoples thoughts on balance most seem to think nothing ventured nothing gained and keep your head screwed on. Thought about it for a while and this thread helped make the decision, If nothing else i had a great fun weekend in good company.

Your right to, quite obvious i like a dabble, can,t hide that being how we met in the first place and i won,t stop. Kiddie in a sweet shop and all that, no ties, a little extra cash at times, you all know how it is, but nothing wrong with having fun times with a fun women after all working girl or not they are still human beings. Well some are lol.

I like the idea of only being able to meet when time allows, not having the demands and needs of a full on relationship, and no one worrying or hassling if i get home late, wanting a new kitchen, complaining if i make a mess at home and constantly cleaning, wanting a new car to impress the neighbours, all the usual stuff. Here is how it is take it or leave it suits me.

This is why I love pay as you go mango..
30 to 60 minutes per mango.
Instant physical connection..👅👅👅👅👅👅
Different delicious varieties..

Snog good bye and move on to the next one a week or so later and so forth..

No need for annoyance... The fresh green pastures of being single and free..
Yummy yum yum yaba daba doo !!😀😀😀😀😀😀

[BogBog1]

This is fantastic thread. So many great stories... and isn't it interesting that however obvious it might be to avoid EAS (or similar) with a WG, there are so many of us who've had EAS-type experiences, or proper relationships, with WGs? And not all the stories end in doom and gloom.

My two-penny's worth - I've never 'dated' a WG off the clock. But, I know many people think that Seeking Arrangement is essentially escorting under another guise. And if that's true (I don't think it is, but I can totally see why it might seem that way), then I suppose it's happened twice to me: both times, a girl I've met through Seeking Arrangement has started as a 'pay per meet' thing, but after a handful of meets has become money-free - in other words, more like a normal relationship. I have an OH so it's tough to juggle, and both SA things came to an end - once because of geography, once because it was clear she wanted a genuinely normal relationship and didn't like the fact I was attached.

I don't know if could ever date a WG. I think the post further up this thread was bang on - you'd be sitting there watching TV thinking "I wonder how many guys have spunked all over her face today?" I'm not sure I could get rid of those thoughts, and I think that would inevitably encroach on a 'normal' relationship.

[Brazilian Martian]

Probably FAR BETTER for the ladys, WG and Civvy alike.
Spares THEM the anguish and stress...

 

[Brazilian Martian]

This thread is turning into Dear Deidre. 

Then you have the option not to read it 

[webpunter]

+1

Then you have the option not to read it 

With the time saved JP might just get out & do some actual punting
Rather than posting
Then indulge us & pop his UKP review cherry

[PilotMan]

+1

With the time saved JP might just get out & do some actual punting
Rather than posting
Then indulge us & pop his UKP review cherry

+2 

[SirCharles]

Be nice friendly within payment time and there premises
Beyond that A BIG TIME NO THANKS...

there contact number is for SEXUAL USAGE ONLY

not for social or relationship interaction...

No need for me to put my mind through anguish and distress..


Anyways each to there own....

But i had the best sex ever!..difficult to find such when paying...do not forget that, by experience, a good half of WG do this job also because they like it! They have usually a HIGHER sex drivev than any civies 

[DipsyDoodle]

Life's short. That said, a lot of it seems like plain old loneliness or the need for an SO (for both sides, men and women) but fairplay for finding meaningful connection with anyone in this day and age

There is a bit of that.  Put yourself in a WG's shoes for a minute.  She has to tell lies all the time.  She has to lie during bookings telling customers you're really good or wow, you are handsome.  She has to lie to her family about how she makes a living and is able to afford her lifestyle.  Most of them lie to all but their closest friends about what they really do.  And almost all of them have to lie in civie type situations where they might meet another man.  I'm sure they can get lonely at times.  [note: I'm not feeling sorry for them as they choose their occupation]

Then she meets a guy through a booking and during conversation becomes attracted enough to want to meet outside of work.  The guy already knows that she is an escort so she is able to drop her guard a bit and focus on having fun and just being herself without worrying about letting something slip out that she fucks guys for a living.  Many of them aren't looking for something serious.  They too want to have fun and something to look forward to outside of work.

Focus on the fun bit rather than emotional attachment and you would be surprised at how many WG's really enjoy being with someone where they can just be themselves without any fear of discovery.

[webpunter]

You Sir have hit the nail on the head
I had an hour booking turn into four when the burd said she didn't have another punter until much later
And that she'd prefer to have some nice company [i was chuffed to fuck] & didn't want to be on her own
And 'would i like to stay for a while ?'   
No extra ££
Do bears shit in the woods ? 
She opened up & said she found her job quite lonely
Not a relationship 'thing' but i'm pretty sure i could have pushed things along that way if i had wanted to, over time
And more paid visits etc
I didn't
It doesn't happen very often that things 'click'
I've had a couple of times where things move into a grey area rather than being black or white
If it suits then enjoy the ride
Just be mindful that at some point the wheels will come off.  When not If 
No different to civvy stuff, just that the finale period might be a bit more dramatic
Even if you burn a bit of cash along the way it should be lots of fun [as DD mentions] & fuck loads cheaper than getting divorced
And much better shagging 

There is a bit of that.  Put yourself in a WG's shoes for a minute.  She has to tell lies all the time.  She has to lie during bookings telling customers you're really good or wow, you are handsome.  She has to lie to her family about how she makes a living and is able to afford her lifestyle.  Most of them lie to all but their closest friends about what they really do.  And almost all of them have to lie in civie type situations where they might meet another man.  I'm sure they can get lonely at times.  [note: I'm not feeling sorry for them as they choose their occupation]

Then she meets a guy through a booking and during conversation becomes attracted enough to want to meet outside of work.  The guy already knows that she is an escort so she is able to drop her guard a bit and focus on having fun and just being herself without worrying about letting something slip out that she fucks guys for a living.  Many of them aren't looking for something serious.  They too want to have fun and something to look forward to outside of work.

Focus on the fun bit rather than emotional attachment and you would be surprised at how many WG's really enjoy being with someone where they can just be themselves without any fear of discovery.