Premature ejaculation: Tips for getting most out of a punt session

[onetimebot]

Hi all,

I am an introvert and porn addict. I do want to enjoy the company of a woman but sadly I realise that I cannot last long.
Any tips for getting most out of punt sessions?

Thanks,

[SamOmar]

Hi all,

I am an introvert and porn addict. I do want to enjoy the company of a woman but sadly I realise that I cannot last long.
Any tips for getting most out of punt sessions?

Thanks,

Have you punted before?

[onetimebot]

Yes! and I had a really embarrassing experience.

[SamOmar]

Yes! and I had a really embarrassing experience.

Nothing to be embarrassed about, you can follow these tips if you don't last long;

Book shorter bookings
Go for multiple rounds 2nd or 3rd will last longer
Book someone who does great roleplay / foreplay
Ask your GP for some medication regarding premature ejaculation
Give up the porn and replace with activities that build your confidence (interact with people in a cooking class / dance class)

But I have to mention you been a member for well over 3 years , you got to contribute more 

[Jonestown]

Any tips for getting most out of punt sessions?

Thanks,

Yes, don't wank and do lots of punts, two or three a day for a week, then wind it down to one a day till you know you can hold your own in any circumstance.

[Romeo Sensini]

Fuck. I genuinely wish I had this problem. 

[Taztaz]

I too finish quite quickly the first time.

I either opt for 15 minute bookings (no point paying for 30 mins if I'm finished in 10)

Or I look for SP's who offer multiple pops. The latter is your best bet in my experience as the first doesn't scratch the itch as well.

[Bikerman]

I have cum early in some punts and gind that a 2nd pop later is good....or have a wank few hours before to take edge off..i visited sofia and got 1 pop at beginning ..quick wipe then titwank at end...might be best to go for wg who  does multiple pops

[Vic69]

I am getting some laser hair removal on my legs (I'm an SP by the way lol), it is bloomin painful around the ankles, so the nurse suggested I buy some Emla cream which acts as a topical anaesthetic.  When it arrived I read the instructions and noted it can be used for premature ejaculation, so might be worth a try.  Obviously you will need to research how it interacts with condoms (you wouldnt want it to weaken them as oils can do).  I got mine online for about £20.

[Vic69]

Also must add, most experienced, good providers will be experienced enough to be able to "slow things down" to prevent early ejaculation, ie loads of foreplay, kissing, massage etc.  I generally ask if a guy cums once or more than once and pace the booking accordingly.

Although saying that I've had a few clients cum in their pants as soon as they have walked through the door, for that i would suggest a pre punt wank!

[Horseman]

I almost always cum quickly at first, thats with SPs or civies. Unless I've been drinking (in which case it takes a while!)

Second time around is much better. For that reason I normally go for 1 hour bookings to allow a little recovery time and then properly go at it for the 2nd pop.

[DDKK18]

Have you tried learning to edge your self so you know when your getting close but not so close you can not stop? If you can learn when your near the limit but not past it then you can know when to change things around to give you a brief break and reset.

Also it might sound hippy but breathing and relaxing makes a huge difference. Focusing on those two can sometimes be all that is needed to last that bit longer.

[oddson1970]

I almost always cum quickly at first, thats with SPs or civies. Unless I've been drinking (in which case it takes a while!)

Second time around is much better. For that reason I normally go for 1 hour bookings to allow a little recovery time and then properly go at it for the 2nd pop.

l am like this too but fortunately l can manage 3 pops in an hr sometimes.Maybe the OP is a one pop guy and the hour long punt may not work for him.

[Horseman]

l am like this too but fortunately l can manage 3 pops in an hr sometimes.Maybe the OP is a one pop guy and the hour long punt may not work for him.

Indeed, we can only suggest whats worked for us and hope he finds something to work for him.

I've once managed 4 pops in 1 hour but that was a unusual combination of things working in my favour

Three once in a while I can manage but generally I'm happy with 2

[JamesKW]

Hi all,

I am an introvert and porn addict. I do want to enjoy the company of a woman but sadly I realise that I cannot last long.
Any tips for getting most out of punt sessions?

Thanks,

If you are a porn addict it is best to practice with a long period of edging whilst watching porn, from one to two hours,and even playing without going for the explosion, rather than a quick pump and dump.I found this helped no end with trying to last the full time at parties.

[Jayjay1]

Edging and exercising your kegal muscle and go for a jog to get fitness up.

[olddognewtricks49]

I have same problem, even at 70,see regular girl and tried viagra, she can get me there twice in an hour and in a memorable occasion 3times,although 3rd was dry orgasm, but very pleasant

[MrT222]

To add to what's been said already, maybe try doing lighter things first like massages with a HE or OWO before seeing escorts. Unless you're extremely sensitive, you're unlikely to cum during the massage. You'll save quite a bit of money as well.

I've also found controlling which position you start off in very helpful and you can get into a good rhythm.

It's worth saying that this shouldn't be a big deal to any decent SP and they should know how to handle it well.

Also I like to remember what Dave Chappelle said... "I don't believe in premature ejaculation... If I cum, it was right on time," 

[Jonestown]

I have same problem, even at 70,see regular girl and tried viagra, she can get me there twice in an hour and in a memorable occasion 3times,although 3rd was dry orgasm, but very pleasant

If you can cum three times in an hour at 70 years old you should be given a medal of some sort, what a hero !

[Stevelondon]

Also must add, most experienced, good providers will be experienced enough to be able to "slow things down" to prevent early ejaculation, ie loads of foreplay, kissing, massage etc.  I generally ask if a guy cums once or more than once and pace the booking accordingly.

Although saying that I've had a few clients cum in their pants as soon as they have walked through the door, for that i would suggest a pre punt wank!

Oh you are such a show off 

[JontyR]

To echo some of the points already made, if you think you can go twice then don't restrict the first cum, enjoy it for what it is!! If you spend all your time worrying about it happening chances are it will still happen and then you will be upset when it does.

Also I'd be frank and upfront with the lady in question, I reckon SPs like punters that have something they can help with, it means they have the chance of repeat business if they deal with it well.

[Stevelondon]

Yea I think the suggestion of maybe trying massages to begin with. Build up your resistance so to speak.

I'm a bit of a roleplay guy mostly and enjoy the build up. Penetrative sex is no big deal for me nowadays as I have got older so if i cum quick at the end its not going to bother me.

Lets face it. Its not as if we are trying to impress them with our staying prowess is it.
Although I suspect some punters do. 

[Henchmanlet95]

I'm the opposite lol, I find it very hard to cum just from sex alone and have to put in a ton of work yet with wanking I can easily bust within 3-5 mins.

I'd say 95% of my punts I end up having to wank myself off to finish, Can pretty much last aslong as I want during shagging and not cum.

Then again I obviously wear a condom and am circumcised so I guess thats a contributing factor plus the fact I've desensitized myself with all the porn I've watched.

[The0neAnd0nly]

Hi all,

I am an introvert and porn addict. I do want to enjoy the company of a woman but sadly I realise that I cannot last long.
Any tips for getting most out of punt sessions?

Thanks,

Enjoy your time and just as your about to cum think of blue waffle. Works every time for me 👍

[Vic69]

Oh you are such a show off 

Lol he had to go back to work with sticky stiff pants, I did offer to wash them!

[Purple_Bariquade]

I'm the opposite lol, I find it very hard to cum just from sex alone and have to put in a ton of work yet with wanking I can easily bust within 3-5 mins.

I'd say 95% of my punts I end up having to wank myself off to finish, Can pretty much last aslong as I want during shagging and not cum.

Then again I obviously wear a condom and am circumcised so I guess thats a contributing factor plus the fact I've desensitized myself with all the porn I've watched.

Porn addiction can be an actual problem, and if you've been using your hand you can desensitise your dick pretty severely to the point where anything other than a hand won't be enough to make you cum. I can get my first pop easily enough if not a bit fast but the second and third is nearly impossible

[Kelgon85]

If I'm in a really horny mood, I'm not lasting long. For me personally, though, certain positions do the trick. I last pretty long in doggy, so I usually start in that and stay there for a while. Maybe a couple of variations here and there.

Also, and I appreciate not everyone can, but as I said if I'm horny enough I'm usually able to run one out really quickly in the shower just before the punt. The times I've done it have always helped massively.

[ravenelli]

Try Priligy.You can buy it online from Dr Fox.You can't mix it with Vosges though.

[ravenelli]

Sorry should read can't mix with Viagra.