LLP had it right. Go to TPC. Fuck the seven girls. Then yes it is OK to look at the other 13 guys - it is a sex party. If your dick is the biggest in the room (when they are erect fucking the girls), then good chance you are in the gifted group. if you are less than average, then not so much.
But as everyone else says, whatever. For fucking escorts, it just doesn't matter. They take your money either way.
Back to the OP question. Sure girls flatter me with that sort of statement. I really don't worry about it. I choose to believe it on one level and enjoy the fantasy.