Forming a relationship with a WG

[Lou2019]

If your in love with a civvie girl.m and shes a WG, end it.
All are bad for mental wellbeing.

Don’t tar us all with the same brush

[Punting2022]

I'm not your mate.

You say you aren't obsessed yet when she won't see you you book an appointment covertly, a cunts trick BTW, and never stop posting about it on here, no wonder you're down as dangerous.

You seriously need help.

I booked an appointment to catch her out to be honest. She would have disagreed its her etc. So what better way then booking her and seeing who the person is etc.
Any way I've moved on and ready to book these escorts who think I'm dangerous. I'm not, Had many a good time this summer.
Have about 3 review pending ready. Seeing another next week.

[JustaPunter]

I booked an appointment to catch her out to be honest. She would have disagreed its her etc. So what better way then booking her and seeing who the person is etc.
Any way I've moved on and ready to book these escorts who think I'm dangerous. I'm not, Had many a good time this summer.
Have about 3 review pending ready. Seeing another next week.

That’s borderline stalking to be honest.

It’s like somebody trying to see an Escort that sacked them off in a different name and number.

You just don’t do it.

You take the L on the chin and move on.

It’s the Escorts decision who she sees, not the clients

If the Escort decides she wishes to give a client a 2nd chance then its up to the Escort to reach out.

You seem to have crossed a line, it can happen, but you need to leave her alone.

[marc_hotsteppa]

I booked an appointment to catch her out to be honest. She would have disagreed its her etc. So what better way then booking her and seeing who the person is etc.
Any way I've moved on and ready to book these escorts who think I'm dangerous. I'm not, Had many a good time this summer.
Have about 3 review pending ready. Seeing another next week.

Really sad that someone has to stoop to such shocking behaviour like you and not even realise just how bad that actually is. 

That's one step away from her getting a restraining order against you.

You say you are over her but I bet you're still stalking her online. 

 

[stonebow1]

Don’t tar us all with the same brush

But we have to for our own sakes.

I appreciate there might be a few WG's out there who can have a long lasting, healthy and functional relationship with someone they met as a punter.

But for the vast majority it is something which ends in tears.

Unless you have a damn good reason to the best advice is always going to be to steer well clear and not mix business with pleasure.

[big-al93]

But we have to for our own sakes.

I appreciate there might be a few WG's out there who can have a long lasting, healthy and functional relationship with someone they met as a punter.

But for the vast majority it is something which ends in tears.

Unless you have a damn good reason to the best advice is always going to be to steer well clear and not mix business with pleasure.

TBH you are being slightly unfair to Lou given the comment that she was replying to, from a guy who is clearly going through something traumatic that he seems not to be coping well with.

Obviously the general advice is that a relationship between a punter and escort is usually a bad idea, the comment was that all escorts are bad for your mental health, but he was not in a relationship with an escort, he caught feelings for a sugarbaby who went on to mug him off.

There is no reason why an escort cannot have a normal happy relationship even while escorting, although I would imagine that the job would add complications and many guys could not handle it. Just that generally meeting first as client/provider is going to be a harder transition.

[daviemac]

But we have to for our own sakes.

No, you have to for your sake, don't speak for me.

[hermanmunster]

I recently had a fantastic holiday with an expensive agency lady, who is not currently in the UK. No payment involved at all, other than me paying for the hotel. It was like being with a long term girlfriend but with guaranteed fun behind closed doors. She was amazing company and confirmed my belief that she was a gorgeous person inside.
It gave me a real insight into the worries and priorities of WGs.
She freely admitted that the reason she came to London was simply money - she had/has a goal to achieve.  She also said that with her soon coming back to work, that she is "anxious and scared". This from a lady who is always happy and smiling, without any apparent care in the world.
The experience has certainly made me more sensitive to WGs states of mind.

[Jonestown]

She also said that with her soon coming back to work, that she is "anxious and scared". This from a lady who is always happy and smiling, without any apparent care in the world.

Did she say what specifically she was anxious & concerned about in relationship to the subject of this thread ?

[hermanmunster]

Did she say what specifically she was anxious & concerned about in relationship to the subject of this thread ?

Apologies, the anxious and scared comment was just relating to getting back to work (rather than specifically relating to the title of this thread) and meeting more unknown people, she didnt say any more than that.

[Jonestown]

Apologies, the anxious and scared comment was just relating to getting back to work (rather than specifically relating to the title of this thread) and meeting more unknown people, she didnt say any more than that.

Yes, that's quite understandable.

[Stevelondon]

I’ve had long term relationships with a few SP’s over the years. Sometimes the connection between punter and SP getting blurred when business meets actual friendship. If that makes sense.

I am still good friends with three women. Two still working in the business and the other now happily married to one of her old clients.
Make of that what you will.

Like I say. The blurring in these cases became absolute clarity. They know who I am in real life and I know everything about them.
Does this concern me in any way ?

I worry more about Google knowing when my passport runs out and what toppings I prefer on my pizza to be honest 😂

[Doc Holliday]

I worry more about Google knowing when my passport runs out and what toppings I prefer on my pizza to be honest 😂

Having just checked Dominos database you are right to be worried, given your bizarre choice of toppings.

[Punterperson1971]

Having just checked Dominos database you are right to be worried, given your bizarre choice of toppings.

Has to be pineapple

[Jonesy69]

Are you still paying her. If so its not a relationship. She is using you cause she knows it 100 garauntee of funds.
Also she could be fucking a uncle of yours any family member. How do you feel about that. A randy family member may book her and fuck her. Friends may be fucking her. Her bodycount is high.

Someone here may have shagged her

One thing to consider is if a accident happens with a punter, ie small condom tear, can you be sure any future kid is yours.
Its risky, not recomended really,

If she not charging then good luck. Ideally she gives up, be better for your mental health

Fucking this ☝🏼 to be fair 😅😅

[Stevelondon]

Having just checked Dominos database you are right to be worried, given your bizarre choice of toppings.

Now come on. As Davie will tell you. Nowt the matter with peas pudding and leek on a margarita 😂

[syfodas]

I remember many years ago around 2003 as a young man in the days prior to independents and aw, I used to visit a brothel where there was a different girl everyday. There was one girl Chantelle  who I remember asking if she enjoyed seeing punters and she replied “I do when they are like you.” She offered to give me her number but I was a bit taken aback and timid so declined.
When I used to phone enquiring who was working the maid remembered me and before telling me anything about who was working would just say when Chantelle would be back. But I only ever saw her that one and only time, sometimes think what might have been, she looked like the gym instructor in Police Academy Leslie Easterbrook aka Debbie Callahan





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[halley_berry717]

The story happened to my close friend who lives and punts in Russia.

He saw a WG, booked her for a second time, but she didn't take the money. From then, she started inviting him over and that's how the relationship started. He isn't able to provide for her financially, hence they agreed that she will not exit the industry and he has no problems with it whatsoever.

In the social setting, they don't talk about her line of work etc., but with close friends they're open, and she tells about her punting experience. Great relationship, both parties are happy, and while talking to him privately, he said it's more about emotional connection and vibe with her. So i reckon to each their own, communication and personal boundaries.

[JustaPunter]

The story happened to my close friend who lives and punts in Russia.

He saw a WG, booked her for a second time, but she didn't take the money. From then, she started inviting him over and that's how the relationship started. He isn't able to provide for her financially, hence they agreed that she will not exit the industry and he has no problems with it whatsoever.

In the social setting, they don't talk about her line of work etc., but with close friends they're open, and she tells about her punting experience. Great relationship, both parties are happy, and while talking to him privately, he said it's more about emotional connection and vibe with her. So i reckon to each their own, communication and personal boundaries.

Cool story bro