Well Sillypig, where do I start, first of all your question should have been in the West Midlands section, start with the box at the top right of each page if you put in there "how to do a link " it will make all our lives a little easier .
If you look on the profile page for the girl Right at the bottom it will give you her personal ID including the number e.g. 2033529 for Cattaleya put this number in the top box, and all the information on this particular girl comes up. It's up to you if you still want to risk it, best of luck. Joe