Hi azurian,
No problems with the q's although I do slightly feel as if I might be breaking Jidapha's confidence in sharing info, but hopefully I'm helping her get more business and representing her fairly. I'm not exactly experienced myself at this, just finding out by trial and error that I prefer the professional services of a Jidapha or a Mai than visiting my local chinese health center or having a full on punt. Different strokes for different blokes!
Yes, its her private house, parking is quite easy on the street or on side roads and she seems to be a one woman business although I do see that she can offer a 4 hands massage so must have others that she can call on. I don't think you need to worry too much about being discreet unless you live in the area (which I don't) as its clear that her work is professional massage and beauty treatments, but the property is detached and on a corner so not highly overlooked.
I've tended to book by email, Jidapha has then texted a reminder on the day as she told me she has some no-shows. Twice I phoned later on the day as each time my business in the area finished early and I wanted to check if she could see me earlier, which on both occasions she could. Her husband responded to my first email and answered a couple of newbie questions I had and confirmed the appointment. I think he has been in the house each time (someone was in the kitchen) but I did not see him and at no time did I feel uncomfortable with the situation. Jidapha has a treatment room on the ground floor. Maybe the one downside is that she does not have a shower room available.
I haven't specifically asked her for a lingham, just booked a prostate massage, but from what I have read of a lingham massage it is part of her prostate massage routine. It's not at all seedy in any way, Jidapha remains clothed, I would not expect or try to touch her, and when face up she will cover your eyes with a cloth, so it's very focused on the sensations you feel and not what you see or touch. I've felt more relaxed with each visit and writing about it has got me in the mood for another. Must go make an appointment!
Hope this helps - go for it!