Personally, I think blokes who pay another woman to inflict pain and torture on them are soft in the head.
It's bad enough being married and getting pain anf grief, but to pay a WG is madness. Like golf courses, a total waste of money.
Yes, why expect guys to pay for it?
In a desperate attempt to save money, I've started checking out the "adult dating" scene again. And I'm finding that the only women who actually initiate contact with me are the dominatrixes. I tell them that I'm not into pain, but some bondage play would be fun: however, I'm not prepared to pay cash for it. Whereupon they lose interest immediately.
I can see why some women would get off on that: but why expect the guys to pay, even when advertising on sites that supposedly let like-minded people engage in sexual activities for free?
And their fees are steep: I was quoted £150 for the first hour and £100 per hour thereafter, with a recommended 2-3 hour session. £250-£350 with no actual sex on offer? Not for me.
There is probably a huge untapped market for the sexually-jaded who might want to pay for something unusual, but at a more affordable price. If it had been £40 for the first hour and £20 per hour thereafter, I would have paid that. There doesn't seem to be a "semi-pro" scene, where the woman does it mostly for fun but also makes a little money out of it: they're just too greedy.
