What is one hour ?

[Ali Katt]

I didn't say they should check the time every fifteen minutes but the time still needs to be checked once or twice. That shouldn't be an insult. The time is the time and both of you should be ensuring that the piss isn't taken. She shouldn't be trying to cut it and he shouldn't be attempting to overrun. If a guy gets annoyed at me glancing at the time during the break, I don't give a fuck.

I may be on the submissive side but I don't actually offer role play. If a guy wants a slightly submissive booking, then boundaries are discussed beforehand during comms, things like name-calling, or being restrained, or hand around the neck, et cetera.

Clearly, if men are paying for a chat, a cuddle and a back rub. Do they know a physiotherapist will do it for less? 

[Rochelle]

You're clearly very sore as a girl you were hoping to be a regular gave you the Spanish archer. Like I've said I don't see girls that do back to back or at least not to my knowledge, why would I? If a punter is knocking on the door when you're getting dressed the problem is clearly with her organisation.

In all honesty if I am doing something complicated like tie and tease with humiliation, I want to discuss it beforehand in person. As we know we can all lie on a text message (loads of reviews with "I don't do that darling"), in person I need to get a feel. So, in short if it takes 10 minutes to discuss, it takes 10 minutes as it is for both our safety and no I don't expect it to be taken out of my time. Likewise I'm not going to be timing how an escort spends in the bathroom and expect reimbursement. Does that answer your question or are you still hurting?

If someone wants tie and tease and humiliation on me, all of that is discussed in comms and they know what I will and won't accept. Therefore, I don't really expect a further discussion in person. If they want to unnecessarily discuss it again for ten minutes then they shouldn't expect that time to be added on.

[Ali Katt]

If someone wants tie and tease and humiliation on me, all of that is discussed in comms and they know what I will and won't accept. Therefore, I don't really expect a further discussion in person. If they want to discuss it again, then that will come out of their time.

I know you are subby, but I meant if it was done on me then I want to discuss it in person and I don't find that unreasonable. I'm sure you will know this, but like there's a lot of 18 year old men who call themselves slave masters and really don't have a clue, there's also a lot female dominatrices that own a whip and a strap on and think they are Lindi St Clair; sometimes you need to find out who is real and who isn't and sometimes a few texts isn't enough. Whether you think that's unreasonable is up to you and it's not a ploy to gain time, it's so fucking vital for piece of mind, the same with aftercare.

[Rochelle]

Clearly, if men are paying for a chat, a cuddle and a back rub. Do they know a physiotherapist will do it for less? 

Ha, maybe they don't. Anyway, I don't think we're that far apart really. It's bollocks if she's constantly checking the time, but the odd glance is necessary.

[Rochelle]

Well you have a special kind of charm, I can imagine they line up for a cuddle and a chat. Generally guys pay for time doing what they want to do, and obviously some choose to do some things and others do different things. Most of the time it is the girls scamming the guys for time, and these forums don't react nicely to guys who try and scam time - obviously ok if it's given freely which does happen.

If I have a shower before I go to a meet then get asked to take another one why should that be out of my time? We usually trust the girl has showered before (again something I'm not overly convinced of a lot of the time) and whose time would it come out of if I wanted to be sure so asked her to shower when I got there? If she's not that fussed but wants to savage my cock with wipes whose time does that come out of?

I doubt anybody would take 15 mins showering on a punt and the only way I can see a quick 2-3 mins being a problem is if she packs them in back to back - in which case I'd rather not be there.

Understood, and I wouldn't normally take shower time out unless they're taking the piss. A quick shower should only take a few minutes. If they're in there for ten minutes then that's their problem and their time. I offer a shower, I don't insist on it, just like most guys don't insist on me showering when I turn up for an outcall.

[freeze44]

Many wise men have searched for the answer to this.

It is a holy grail of punting as nobody has agreed the answer, nor ever will .. but the quest will likely go on   

Makes sense as in lots of ways time is different to different people on what you want/expect. Some are by nature clock watchers and others not. If I book an hour then will go with the flow and sometimes glad to be out early. I would find it an added stress to be wanting every minute filled with sex.

For me you should get an hours time if wanted and most of that should be taken up with the services agreed upon. It really does spoil things if feel like being rushed out and the revolving door is spinning away so a reasonable break between punters is good and again takes out any distractions from a good service.

[Home Alone]

Broadly speaking - unless she's obviously taking the mickey, of course! - it has to be the girl who's the timekeeper.

A couple of months ago, XXX-ANGELA & I were involved in some '69' when the radio which served twin purposes: muffling our sound in her thin-walled flat; and acting as a time keeper, started broadcasting an hourly news bulletin, which meant that my hour was up.

However, she seemed so fully engaged in her part of our 69 position at the time, it would have seemed rude to have slapped her on the arse and said something like, "Right, love; that'll be my hour up, then! "

So I kept away for the best part of another 10 minutes until she stopped!

[Winker121]

If the session started 10 minutes late because I was late then the session would be 50 minutes. If the session was delayed because the WG was busy with previous punter, then I would still expect full hour. Simples.

Exactly what I would say.

[catweazle]

I am reminded of a film (can't  remember  which one) where  a psychiatrist was explaining his terms to a new patient:

"My fee is $750 per professional  hour. A professional  hour is 45 standard  minutes "

Methinks many  WGs  work  the  same!

[RedKettle]

I am reminded of a film (can't  remember  which one) where  a psychiatrist was explaining his terms to a new patient:

"My fee is $750 per professional  hour. A professional  hour is 45 standard  minutes "

Methinks many  WGs  work  the  same!

As do the lawyers I use!!

[wonko88]

So.....if I'm paying for an hour of her time does that include the time she spends getting ready (showing, dressing, make up, etc.) before I get there?

Obviously not.

So I'm not paying simply for an hour of her time, but for something else.

Probably for time spent actually with her, however that's used, chatting, coffee etc. would presumably be within that hour, at her discretion. But showering (unless accompanied), time alone, strictly speaking shouldn't be.

All within the reality that there is only a certain amount of time between bookings.

It's a complicated thing, so probably best to keep it simple.

Turn up on time, leave within time unless given clear indications otherwise.

[Ali Katt]

Ha, maybe they don't. Anyway, I don't think we're that far apart really. It's bollocks if she's constantly checking the time, but the odd glance is necessary.

True that, personally for £100 I will take the risk, £130 is just too much; like I've said I will pay that for tried and tested especially if I have some good comms. I didn't realise the second woman I posted has had some bad comments on here, I missed that, will take her off the HL.

[wristjob]

I didn't say they should check the time every fifteen minutes but the time still needs to be checked once or twice. That shouldn't be an insult. The time is the time and both of you should be ensuring that the piss isn't taken. She shouldn't be trying to cut it and he shouldn't be attempting to overrun. If a guy gets annoyed at me glancing at the time during the break, I don't give a fuck.

I can't really argue with that. Most people have some idea of time and it's not unreasonable to check when you think time is approaching, ie say 45-50 mins on an hour booking. Some of the better girls I've seen have a clock in the room and I think that makes it fair for both sides.

I had a strange one at the weekend. I guess 20 mins in to a 30 min booking I asked about time cos I do that and she literally disappeared from underneath me and ran out the room to check. It was bizarre. I felt i had approx 10 mins left, I expected her to just really confirm that and didn't expect it to be measured to the second - which it wasn't when she came back in to be fair. It just seemed bizarre.

Understood, and I wouldn't normally take shower time out unless they're taking the piss. A quick shower should only take a few minutes. If they're in there for ten minutes then that's their problem and their time. I offer a shower, I don't insist on it, just like most guys don't insist on me showering when I turn up for an outcall.

Same page there too.