Genuine casual sex site?

[Lilpumps]

I wanted to know if anyone knows any good casual sex sites for women that give you a good chance of getting laid.

I also wanted to know any good clubs or pubs where the are cougars about in the south London area.

Much appreciated.

 

[Jk1980]

I wanted to know if anyone knows any good casual sex sites for women that give you a good chance of getting laid.

I also wanted to know any good clubs or pubs where the are cougars about in the south London area.

Much appreciated.

 

Apart from tinder the others will be 500 guys to 1 lady

[Lilpumps]

Apart from tinder the others will be 500 guys to 1 lady

How good is tinder? Any luck

[Scotpunter]

Men and women look at sex differently for the most part. All the hook up sites have a massive amount of men for every woman. Even the less attractive overweight women can get a fuck. Unless your bringing something special to the party they are a waste of time mostly for an easy hassle free hook up.

[lewisjones23]

fabswings is prob the biggest

so many fat ugly dogs though get hundreds of messages a day telling them they are gorgeous

ratio is fucked up and the natural selection balance is out on there

[nigel4498]

Don't waste your time with these sex sites.
Pay to punt and you get to fuck girls who are normally way out of your league.

[Plan R]

There's no way your going to find attractive young women seeking (or needing to seek) casual sex on a website. We all wish it worked that way but it doesn't.

Midle age men just don't get to fuck mid 20s hotties.
If you want to upset the space-time continuum by getting access to beauty like that, then you gotta pay
One way or another.
 

[Blackpool Rock]

There's no way your going to find attractive young women seeking (or needing to seek) casual sex on a website. We all wish it worked that way but it doesn't.

Midle age men just don't get to fuck mid 20s hotties.
If you want to upset the space-time continuum by getting access to beauty like that, then you gotta pay
One way or another.
 

Yeah it's about fantasy vs reality, fortunately for the right fee you can buy the fantasy for an hour or so 

[bigmanbigman]

May be free sex with a total munter or head fuck . Thats about it really

[sparkus]

An ex showed me her POF account in-box - ye gods, what a pit of despair that was.

They'd have to make sex work completely illegal in some kind of Minority Report state way before I'd resort to messaging copious numbers of women at 2am with just "Fancy a fuck?"

(when she messaged one guy back there and then with just "No, fuck off!" he replied straight away with "OK, what about just oral then?")

[The Vicar of Dibley]

fabswings is prob the biggest

so many fat ugly dogs though get hundreds of messages a day telling them they are gorgeous

ratio is fucked up and the natural selection balance is out on there

+1

I joined Fabswingers for a couple of months and as if you are not part of a couple then the chances of meeting anyone are remote.
Also lots seem to be free to join but you have to pay a subscription to reply to messages. New members then get lots of messages from females asking to hook up whose profile is strangely "deactivated" once you have paid a subscription. Plus don't get me started on that Flirts & Winks bollocks. 

[billybobsmith]

An ex showed me her POF account in-box - ye gods, what a pit of despair that was.

They'd have to make sex work completely illegal in some kind of Minority Report state way before I'd resort to messaging copious numbers of women at 2am with just "Fancy a fuck?"

(when she messaged one guy back there and then with just "No, fuck off!" he replied straight away with "OK, what about just oral then?")

If you message them normally, most of the time they just completely ignore you and then months later, most are still there moaning about not being able to find anyone or the usual "All men are bastards" yet they keep going for the same type knowing well what they're like and ignoring those who may be genuinely there for love or whatever.
Might as well cut to the chase if you only want laid and none of the dating crap they all go on about.

[dieseldriver]

I got lucky once only on craigslist. Put a post asking for anal. Got a reply from a not-too-bad-looking 65yo who was not getting it from hubby. Cos hubby couldn't do it!
Met at a well know budget hotel. However, I couldn't fuck her because her pussy was too tight, not having had sex for some considerable time. Even with lube, wouldn't go in. And my cock not so big either......
Tried anal with a condom. Got my knob end in, but had to withdraw as hurting her and bled a little.

Before she went, said due to her professional life, couldn't meet again for a few weeks. During which time she would work on her pussy to open it up more. And guess what? Never happened. Contacted her a few weeks later, only to be told" really busy, April should be OK". So contacted her middle of April. Few days later, an email to say changed her mind...

She did previously say that she loved her hubby. But the thought of a cock in her pussy and arse got the better of her. Guilty feelings? Who knows? Tempted to send an email or mms to her phone of a pic of me wanking off. Saying thinking of you!!!

[fredpunter]

I got lucky once only on craigslist. Put a post asking for anal. Got a reply from a not-too-bad-looking 65yo who was not getting it from hubby. Cos hubby couldn't do it!
Met at a well know budget hotel. However, I couldn't fuck her because her pussy was too tight, not having had sex for some considerable time. Even with lube, wouldn't go in. And my cock not so big either......
Tried anal with a condom. Got my knob end in, but had to withdraw as hurting her and bled a little.

Before she went, said due to her professional life, couldn't meet again for a few weeks. During which time she would work on her pussy to open it up more. And guess what? Never happened. Contacted her a few weeks later, only to be told" really busy, April should be OK". So contacted her middle of April. Few days later, an email to say changed her mind...

She did previously say that she loved her hubby. But the thought of a cock in her pussy and arse got the better of her. Guilty feelings? Who knows? Tempted to send an email or mms to her phone of a pic of me wanking off. Saying thinking of you!!!

 

[sparkus]

I thought I'd need counselling after this week's geriatric massage experience but thankfully I have this account to dislodge that from my brain now.

[sparkus]

If you message them normally, most of the time they just completely ignore you and then months later, most are still there moaning about not being able to find anyone or the usual "All men are bastards" yet they keep going for the same type knowing well what they're like and ignoring those who may be genuinely there for love or whatever.
Might as well cut to the chase if you only want laid and none of the dating crap they all go on about.

She was early-mid 30s then - the lion's share of messages were from early 20s lads saying the either wanted to 'do a MILF' or, even better, they were offering her the opportunity to be laid by a young stud.

[king tarzan]

Don't waste your time with these sex sites.
Pay to punt and you get to fuck girls who are normally way out of your league.

Completely true

My list has hotties that I could ONLY DREAM OF AND WANK OVER
those hotties I paid and got gfe
I can honestly say because of adultworks ukp paying to rent I have had a super marvellous sex life!

[cunnyhunt]

I wanted to know if anyone knows any good casual sex sites for women that give you a good chance of getting laid.

try Mumsnet

[HighlyMotivated]

How good is tinder? Any luck

If you are a decent looking guy Tinder works a treat. If you are not a good looking guy but have adequately low standards it also works a treat.

[roller coaster]

There is no such thing as a free sex site.
You'll pay extra fees on top or if not grab a Granny time.
All the time you'll be wasting for the sake of just putting 60/70 pounds to one side you'll be better getting your money.
At least you know what your getting when you want it and what you want the bird to dress up in.
Or go through all the time wasting meeting up for drinks and still don't get laid.

[billydrummer]

 

try Mumsnet

[sparkus]

try Mumsnet

It has an overlapping readership with this site, by all accounts.

[The Owl]

It has an overlapping readership with this site, by all accounts.

With the posts on Mumsnet about the best ways to hide unnecessary expenditures from the boyfriend/husband you're better off just paying and escort for sex. Looking at my last relationship I could have had hours and hours of sex with escorts instead of paying for someone to sleep beside me whilst showing little interest in sex, when she did foreplay was telling me she wanted a fuck before lying on her back and spreading her legs just like a shit punt with a crap escort who already has your cash.

I have a female mate who's a swinger. She's shocking to look at but gets fucked all the time. If you're not fussy lookswise then Fabswingers might be fun but expect to have to put up with a lot of bitchy abuse to shag just unattractive women unless you've qot a body and personality that would negate the need for you to use any swinging websites.

[mcgee121]

I don't think so for single men seeking women (for gays and couples yes).  On such sites, you could be talking to a bloke for all you know (there are many fake profiles) and there's usually a lot of spam on such sites.  It's best to use something like Tinder but that is a way to get casual sex under the guise of dating.

[scutty brown]

I wanted to know if anyone knows any good casual sex sites for women that give you a good chance of getting laid.

I also wanted to know any good clubs or pubs where the are cougars about in the south London area.

Much appreciated.

 

I can think of two places........the Young Farmers Club and the Young Conservatives
Of course you could be age restricted

[bigmanbigman]

Craigslist has been rubbish offers from blokes to suck your dick thats all

[crfc]

Not a sex site BUT the Open University apparently!!!

I know two guys who have been on their 2 week summer sessions and both have said the amount of hook ups is amazing... Almost made me want to take a second degree, unfortunately OU don't have a list of fellow course members so a leap in the dark 

[charming_red]

Online dating sites can be brutal if you don't go in there knowing most are broken women expecting Brad Pitt at the other end. Women are inundated with messages whereas blokes will be lucky to get a few one-liner replies. I imagine in many cases that the girls on these sites don't actually want anything serious but enjoy the attention that sites like these give them and boosts their self esteem and they can play a role online that they may not be confident doing in real life. Of course theres a few hidden away on there looking for hook ups too but finding them is hard work, and if you do, then consider yourself very, very lucky.

[Stiltskin]

I have a female mate who's a swinger. She's shocking to look at but gets fucked all the time.

I know a lady that's on one of these sites, not sure which one but she was getting laid all the time. She's a monster of a women and had been single / celibate for years. All the male attention really went to her head. I didn't have the heart to tell her

[sparkus]

Taste is quite relative (no, not like that!) really.  For a pump and dump I probably take what I can get and enjoy certain aspects more than a woman I have to sit opposite and introduce friends/family to.

I've banged a few older colleagues who have been slightly mystified why I've been so coy about going 'public' about it (though at the same time unleashed some quality knockers/been between some shapely thighs).

[Blackpool Rock]

Taste is quite relative (no, not like that!) really.  For a pump and dump I probably take what I can get and enjoy certain aspects more than a woman I have to sit opposite and introduce friends/family to.

Sound a bit like the girls I punt plastered with tatts and piercings; wild coloured hair etc and dressed as slutty as the come but I aint taking them home to meet my Mum 

[scutty brown]

Sound a bit like the girls I punt plastered with tatts and piercings; wild coloured hair etc and dressed as slutty as the come but I aint taking them home to meet my Mum 

Yep, he punts in Blackpool

[Dav618id]

I wanted to know if anyone knows any good casual sex sites for women that give you a good chance of getting laid.

I also wanted to know any good clubs or pubs where the are cougars about in the south London area.

Much appreciated.

 

You could try shagcity the girls make the first move, you can always put a nearby town as your location, cost is 1.50 a message.  and not for example south west. You will also need an e-mail address that only you can see

[martini2429]

You could try shagcity the girls make the first move, you can always put a nearby town as your location, cost is 1.50 a message.  and not for example south west. You will also need an e-mail address that only you can see

I wouldn't bother with shagcity, I was on there and never met anyone, spent a lot of money though, when they say "lets meet now" what they mean is  "I am going to waste your time and make you spend credit after credit thinking you are getting into my knickers"

If there is anyone on here who has met anyone from this site then I salute you and ask how much did it cost you ion credits

 

[Type_O_Negative]

Online dating sites can be brutal if you don't go in there knowing most are broken women expecting Brad Pitt at the other end. Women are inundated with messages whereas blokes will be lucky to get a few one-liner replies. I imagine in many cases that the girls on these sites don't actually want anything serious but enjoy the attention that sites like these give them and boosts their self esteem and they can play a role online that they may not be confident doing in real life. Of course theres a few hidden away on there looking for hook ups too but finding them is hard work, and if you do, then consider yourself very, very lucky.

Spot on! I worked with these girls, all on tinder or the other dating sites. Fuck me their expectations are from different planet and they think all men would run after them and work 8 days in a week just to pay their bills. The sad thing is they think they are Angelina Jolies and don't want to accept the reality they are chavvy single mums bordering with white trash.

[cumreal]

Most of those sites arent great, you're better off just paying for it as it would take less effort than messaging women on those sites and hoping to get a reply. 

[MilleMiglia]

Online dating sites can be brutal if you don't go in there knowing most are broken women expecting Brad Pitt at the other end. Women are inundated with messages whereas blokes will be lucky to get a few one-liner replies. I imagine in many cases that the girls on these sites don't actually want anything serious but enjoy the attention that sites like these give them and boosts their self esteem and they can play a role online that they may not be confident doing in real life. Of course theres a few hidden away on there looking for hook ups too but finding them is hard work, and if you do, then consider yourself very, very lucky.

My experiences precisely, but does anyone believe me?

[dieseldriver]

My experiences precisely, but does anyone believe me?

I believe you. Got lucky with one from craigslist, but she got guilty feelings and called it off. Once met a very nice Indian woman from Ashley Madison. Usual chat, check each other out. Said will arrange a meet when hubby out of the way. Never happened.
Wasted money on Illicitencounters. Lots of ladies showing interest, but never a meet. Some on IE wouldn't even talk on phone or via email. All correspondence done via the site.

Perhaps have to be an alpha male to get a shag???

[sparkus]

By christ that Fabswingers is grim, grim, grim. Hard pressed to see anyone on there who would be preferable to a wank.

A lot of profiles on there seem to be touting parties at Eureka in Kent, which seems to have a bad write up on here?

[jtalbain1]

I remember years ago, I met a girl who was fairly local to me on a website called Faceparty. 12:30am we start chatting, 1am I'm in a remote village about 10 minutes drive away from me. 1:10am, we're fucking in a layby. 2nd time we met, she tells me she's on her period. I jokingly say "I guess I'll need to fuck your arse instead then". 5 seconds of thinking, followed by an "okay" and the best anal I've ever had. Kept her around for a couple of weeks as a casual fuck buddy, then I get home from work one day and see her in my living room chatting with my mother and visiting grandmother. Stupid 19 year old me freaked out, and got rid of her asap.

.......... I wish I had married that girl..........

TLDR - Faceparty, if it still exists.

[inxs950]

By christ that Fabswingers is grim, grim, grim. Hard pressed to see anyone on there who would be preferable to a wank.

A lot of profiles on there seem to be touting parties at Eureka in Kent, which seems to have a bad write up on here?

I joined fabswingers months ago.

Im a decent looking guy but shit me its fucking brutal. Full of utter mingers. I met one for a "social" and fuck me we looked like the odd couple. Needless to say I faked a phone call and left.
Very very few decent women on Fab and they get 100 messages a day so you have to really drop lucky.

[dieseldriver]

Anyone tried Uniform Dating? Having a full Scottish pipe & drum band uniform i.e. spats, hose, kilt, sporran, doublet, plaid, dirk, glengarry, bonnet, get many complimentary remarks on parades. Also a military type uniform of a bugle & drum band. So there's a couple to go with.   

Few times had the ladies asking for photos to be taken with them. Unfortunately on each occasion no pen and paper to write my email addy on, asking to send me the photo. Something gonna have to sort!

[Cunning Punt]

If you message them normally, most of the time they just completely ignore you and then months later, most are still there moaning about not being able to find anyone or the usual "All men are bastards" yet they keep going for the same type knowing well what they're like and ignoring those who may be genuinely there for love or whatever.
Might as well cut to the chase if you only want laid and none of the dating crap they all go on about.

Excellently put.

Blokes who aren't very good looking have to be extremely lucky to find someone on websites, whether it be hook-ups or dating.
 
Many women portray men as being shallow but, in reality, it's not only inaccurate for most blokes, it's hypocritical because the reverse is more likely to be true. The trouble is that some of them are looking for Brad Pitt lookalikes but don't admit it because they've convinced themselves that they just want someone with a "nice personality".

Save yourself time, effort and disappointment - and have a punt.

[sparkus]

Craigslist has been rubbish offers from blokes to suck your dick thats all

I did chat with woman in neighbourhood who sent me naked pics of her hairy bush etc. We arranged to meet, for cash, then that day she said her service would just be basic touching and intimate stroking. She wanted 100 for HJ and I told her to walk. Pity as she had quite a bod and seemed more civvie than usual WG.

[sparkus]

I joined fabswingers months ago.

Im a decent looking guy but shit me its fucking brutal. Full of utter mingers. I met one for a "social" and fuck me we looked like the odd couple. Needless to say I faked a phone call and left.
Very very few decent women on Fab and they get 100 messages a day so you have to really drop lucky.

I set up profiles on the usual free dating sites and, slyly, made it clear what there for.  Not actively contacted any women at all but in several months two did get in touch and the convo got dirty quickly and such pics were sent. 
Neither looked girlfriend material but I went along with it: the first one (leathery skin and big belly in reality) I made my excuses and left (though had two drinks to not hurt her feelings too much), I think she knew the score there. 
The second had a massive conk and acne which wasn't apparent in her strategically taken pics sent (she said her last date just walked out there and then!). She got drunk very quickly and my reward for making sure she got home OK was a (very good) BJ on the sofa, so in all two evenings lost but only that in terms of cost.  But I reckoned a decent BJ from a minger wasn't worth the hassle and deleted the profile.  She then texted that we could then spend the second date at hers in bed and while I did quite fancy doing her up her nice arse, I could sense she'd be a lot of hassle. 
Even if I became single again, I'm not sure I'd use these sites as no tolerable/decent women do and they're full of blokes who do spend hours contacting all and sundry.

[Jeff_withpetersen]

These threads pop up from time to time and I always respond the same way:

1) I met several women as a single guy who is average looking, on Fabswingers. So it is possible. None of them were anywhere near as hot as the average WG though.

2) In my opinion it's way better to drop £120 an hour on a WG as not only are they hotter but you don't get the baggage after - if their child is ill or their car has broken down, it's fuck all to do with you, you've paid, you've gone.

3) The seekingarrangements thread on this site seems to be the most popular on here by far so maybe that does work?

[JV547845]

For quite a lot of women, it's a big negative if you're unemployed  (luckily some great ones don't care what you do and they're fantastic people).  Many relationships and even marriages fail because the man loses their job or changes career.  the statistics are really quite tragic - what about `in sickness and in health, for better for worse'?  Horrible shallow people.

Basically fuck it, enough with the bull shit.  If you want good sex, at least WGs are honest that they're interested in you for your money. 

I'm quite happy to be generous with my money, but I'd rather give it to an honest prostitute than spend it on some princess who expects she's entitled to it because it says we're in a relationship on her facebook page, and even than to spend anymore time in the company of two faced dishonest people like that.  Not al women are like that.  But when they're thinking about a relationship being long term, and kids are always in the back of their mind (subconsciously), it's a factor. 

If you want a relationship, just admit that you also want a relationship an sex is part of it.  Good luck dating.

[Roth]

I got lucky once only on craigslist. Put a post asking for anal. Got a reply from a not-too-bad-looking 65yo who was not getting it from hubby. Cos hubby couldn't do it!
Met at a well know budget hotel. However, I couldn't fuck her because her pussy was too tight, not having had sex for some considerable time. Even with lube, wouldn't go in. And my cock not so big either......
Tried anal with a condom. Got my knob end in, but had to withdraw as hurting her and bled a little.

Before she went, said due to her professional life, couldn't meet again for a few weeks. During which time she would work on her pussy to open it up more. And guess what? Never happened. Contacted her a few weeks later, only to be told" really busy, April should be OK". So contacted her middle of April. Few days later, an email to say changed her mind...

She did previously say that she loved her hubby. But the thought of a cock in her pussy and arse got the better of her. Guilty feelings? Who knows? Tempted to send an email or mms to her phone of a pic of me wanking off. Saying thinking of you!!!

Jeez!   You need a medal for that!

[Taggart]

Men and women look at sex differently for the most part. All the hook up sites have a massive amount of men for every woman. Even the less attractive overweight women can get a fuck. Unless your bringing something special to the party they are a waste of time mostly for an easy hassle free hook up.

You are spot on, and most on here wouldnt waste theri time. 

Some 50 yrs ago at grammar school, a sweet 16 y/o delivered a wonderful put down to a 6th former who thought he was God's gift, lifting her skirt and annoucing "if you've got one of these, you'll always be able to get one of those", pointing to the guy's dick area.  He never bothered her again.

[Home Alone]

Not a sex site BUT the Open University apparently!!!

As an OU student about 10 years before I began punting, the lack of success I had with female fellow-students at Summer schools  probably explains better than anything else why I became a punter!