Ok just trying to get this into perspective, if you have an unregistered punting phone which all of you guys should have, no really you should, how would they have all your information? I as an SP have had numerous scaremongering messages over the years, threatening to out me to my
parents, husband and children some of which I don't have anyway lol
Definitely scaremongering tactic that may work on those that stupidly use their real phones. 'Real life' numbers get attached to f-b, inst, etc and can get you into a bad situation if the guy isn't bluffing. The older guys that are not tech savvy could get screwed.
Ensure your number does not return any results to your private life. Make sure you created a fresh G or A account that doesn't synch to your other online accounts. Don't drop your guard and leak any info.
Also
DO NOT log onto g00gl in the same browser as your real account. All these browser hang onto login info and god knows if it tries to cross-synch. Use moz, chrome, edge for separate things on your PC (and use ingocnito)
Sim top ups: Buy vouchers from shops. If you have to pay online debit, use a service like revolut that issues a 'disposable virtual card' that gets destroyed after each use.
BTW the Romanian lady who you are so pleasantly referring to as 'The whore' probably doesn't exist or if she does is likely to be trafficked, I'd be feeling some sympathy for her at the very least
You're right. She's probably a victim of the group.