Ok I see then you should put yourselves in our/my shoes.
We girls get so many weird requests and sometimes it gets too much.
There are many people who work jobs which involve dealing with a high number of idiots and timewasters. Very few of them would act/say something like you did to a customer/client. The applies to both employees (who would expect to be fired if they did such a thing) and the self-employed who wouldn't dream of presenting themselves like that.
However a better comparison is simply the fact that the vast majority of escorts don't react like you either. Heck, I'm sure quite a few do think like you (somewhat closed minded and unaware of how common such "fetishes" are) but they don't reply in the way you did (usually they don't bother to reply at all, which is still rude but nowhere near as much as you were).
Clients asking if I can strangle them,shit on them,some of the weirdest things I have ever heard in my entire life.
This man is clearly a tw who in their right mind asks a person to dress up as an alien??? Seriously is that a thing??
And I understand there are some bad girls out there who provide crap services,treat clients like shit etc.. But am not one of them and I do agree when a person has treated you badly to leave a negative to warn others.
But I have never met this man and I only replied back because I thought how disrespectful to presume something I clearly don't provide.
That was my argument and nothing else
Not all men on aw are weird but the weirdest requests have come from that site.
The man clearly isn't a timewaster. He has 6 reviews on here and probably even more positive feedback on AW (I did say feedback is rubbish but I don't dispute that almost all of it is for meets that genuinely took place).
Surely he didn't presume anything about what you provide - hence why he asked you. Of course it depends how he phrased it and I'm certainly not disputing that fact that he should have read your profile before asking. I do mostly agree that, generally speaking, it's somewhat unreasonable to expect an escort to dress up (especially with make up) like an alien unless they say they do such a thing/have an outfit or you're booking a long session (so she can buy the necessary stuff). That of course assumes he wanted you to dress up and didn't just want you to pretend/act. Although I do think that expecting any "acting" is also a bit naive because even some girls who'd be willing to give it go probably wouldn't do a good job, so asking someone who doesn't even have role play on their likes list isn't a great idea. But basically, I'm just saying that all he did was ask and you over-reacted massively (thus revealing multiple undesirable traits in an escort).
Giving you maximum benefit of the doubt, you've confused his absent mindedness (not reading your profile) with disrespect.