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unspecifiedldn

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Hey,

you turn up at the location and the wg is just about to open the door. Your heart is pounding a million mile an hour. and you're praying for her to be hot or as portrayed on adultwork... it's usually 50:50.

What do you say if she isn't as advertised or just plain ugly?

Also, not being able to say no and just leave is the reason I can't do soho walkups. you have to say 'no' a good few times before you find a nice looking one...

Please share your strategies, what you say, etc...

Many thanks!


Offline king tarzan

ok thanks anyway/nah its alright and just walk../ If i am genuinely interested in her to see £20 kiss test failure or refusal then i walk.


simpletto .......

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Offline Cupid Stuntz

Don't have to explain yourself at all. If the WG isn't the one in the pics, is but is 20 years older or if she back tracks on services offered then you walk. Just don't hand over any dosh until you've seen and or questioned her. I had one Lady burst into tears and say she'd get in trouble if I went. Felt sorry for her but would have felt more sorry for meself if I'd coughed up for a bad punt. Your money and your choice!

Offline NigelF

Please share your strategies, what you say, etc...

"Ah sorry, left my wallet in the car".

I don't actually say that anymore I usually just tell them straight up that they're pictures are total BS but if you don't want to risk any aggro (unlikely but always possible) then the "left your wallet in car excuse" always works well.

Offline theoldmaggot

Hey,

you turn up at the location and the wg is just about to open the door. Your heart is pounding a million mile an hour. and you're praying for her to be hot or as portrayed on adultwork... it's usually 50:50.

What do you say if she isn't as advertised or just plain ugly?

Also, not being able to say no and just leave is the reason I can't do soho walkups. you have to say 'no' a good few times before you find a nice looking one...

Please share your strategies, what you say, etc...

Many thanks!

Well if you was expecting a size 8 bird but instead a 30 tonner opened the door, what would you do?

Just walk...anything else is being polite




TOM

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So long as you hold on to your money you hold all the aces. Therefore, if you don't like what you see - just walk. Simple as that. No real need for explanation as she would probably know why anyway. I suppose if you want to be ultra polite you could just say "sorry, I've changed my mind" or something like that. Bottom line is though if she's trying to rip you off she will know why you have walked anyway.

Offline wristjob

One experience that really helped me was when I booked this girl who was clearly TGTBT so I went there with the expectation and mindset I was going to walk. 30 mins travel thinking what you are going to say when some old hag opens the door really gets your head round any issues. In the end she was super cute and it was almost hard not to walk.

You are talking about a whole surreal situation though. you wouldn't meet a random stranger in the street and expect to give her some money and shag her. It would be embarrassing to say the least but somehow you adapt so why be embarrassed in any way about saying not the girl/services you were expecting.

Offline S.X. MacHine

I met an escort who'd lied shamelessly about her height, weight and, maybe, her age too. She was quite repulsive.
I just said 'you're not what I'm looking for', which was true, and left.

Online RAJEC

In my earlier punting years, if I didn’t like the look of what I saw I used to try the ‘upgrade’ trick:

I.e. id ask how much extra it was for anal.

Cue was always the increased cost which I would inevitably have to go and get more money for.

Stopped using it when it backfired once: she asked me how much I had on me, so I lied and said £40, which she agreed to do it for  :scare:

Haven’t used it since  :lol:

Nowawadys I go as per all the advice - just be honest and say she’s not what you expected or we’re looking for and most likely it will be a smooth exit.

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

Now just to recap, how much was it extra for Bareback up the Arse?.

How much?!!, sorry don't think i have enough, must nip back to the cash machine.

Oh! dear, could have sworn blind the advert said that!, sorry if you can't do that then I must go back and recheck the phone number !

Good day Madam..


Offline Cupid Stuntz

Here is a recent incident when 'walking' didn't turn out so nice and easy......

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=230427.msg0;boardseen#new

Offline Plan R

Look as if you're well impressed and ask for directions to the nearest cash-point...

Offline webpunter

i've thought about taking the high ground & telling em what the score is
Not worth it
The upside is minimal & is exceeded by the potential downside
Lingo difficulties help ease the situation
Money is an easy one to come up with whilst desperately trying to mentally balance up shall i shan't i, and options B, C , D & E

"Ah sorry, left my wallet in the car".

I don't actually say that anymore I usually just tell them straight up that they're pictures are total BS but if you don't want to risk any aggro (unlikely but always possible) then the "left your wallet in car excuse" always works well.

unspecifiedldn

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All of this is pure gold, thank you kind sirs!!!

Offline SN5

You still need to give it a second to analyse if you'd do her or not. I've walked a good few times with the "you're not the girl in the photos" statement, and never any agro.

But a couple of times I've let my dick make the decision. She may not be hot like the girl in the photos, but that ass looks good, or those tits look like fun.

It's a balance between the reason you're there in the first place, and paying for what was advertised.

Offline king tarzan

Just remember your not obliged to use if you don't like the looks or services or prices for extras

Simpletto...👍👍👍
« Last Edit: November 20, 2018, 09:48:07 am by king tarzan »
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Offline Dorsetpunter

Only said no twice. First time I explained she wasn’t for me, didn’t fancy her at all. She was very polite back and I just left.

Second time didn’t go so well, clearly B&S but got threatened to pay £20 or else...

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=222111.0

Offline king tarzan

Only said no twice. First time I explained she wasn’t for me, didn’t fancy her at all. She was very polite back and I just left.

Second time didn’t go so well, clearly B&S but got threatened to pay £20 or else...

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=222111.0

I have been sworn at, screamed at whilst leaving...
I don't care..just carry on walking.
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Offline Jimmyredcab

In the nineties I used to visit the many brothels in my area, my normal excuse was "I left my wallet in the car", of course you can only really do that once. Sadly all those brothels have closed down.  :(

Offline BP96

I have been sworn at, screamed at whilst leaving...
I don't care..just carry on walking.

I have been sworn at too but it's my money and better that than wasting it on a crap punt with someone I don't fancy.

As someone mentioned, mindset as you're walking to the door should be that you might need to leave and have an excuse ready.

Offline RedKettle

This is one of those subjects where blokes on here generally seem macho and say that it is easy to walk etc etc.  Just to help the more timid members I will confess that I find it very difficult. I have gone through with two awful punts with complete munters because I was not brave enough to walk. One was an outcall to an hotel and it is particularly difficult when they are at your door.

However what people say is right, we should walk if we do not want to pay our hard earned cash for what is in front of us. I have done so once, when both girl and flat looked degusting, and other than a few abusive texts there were no repercussions.

Since being a member on here I have not had a situation I wanted to walk from (well other than 10 minutes into the punt which is a whole other level of courage) but I am sure that with the advice of members ringing in my ears I would be braver now.

Offline winkywanky

Yes, the whole scenario becomes much more difficult if the WG is on 'your territory' - be that your house, or a hotel.

Sadly not all WGs would go quietly.

Offline Drake90

I tried to just get on with it once and to her credit she realised how awkward I felt and stopped it. We had a chat agreed a partial refund and both went on our ways. Suspect I was lucky with that!

Offline Stiltskin

I used to frequent the walkups. If I didn't like what I saw I'd just say how much and whatever the girl said I'd always be £20 short. I also got a few cheap shags when they dropped their price by £20.

Another thing I used to do. If the girl was skinny I'd saying I'm looking for a fatty. If the girl was young I'd say I'm looking for someone older. Far less painful than telling the truth.

Offline Jimmyredcab

This is one of those subjects where blokes on here generally seem macho and say that it is easy to walk etc etc.  Just to help the more timid members I will confess that I find it very difficult. I have gone through with two awful punts with complete munters because I was not brave enough to walk. One was an outcall to an hotel and it is particularly difficult when they are at your door.


Even worse when they are at the door of your house and you live in a quiet cul-de-sac --------------- I have had to "suffer" a couple of dogs in the past.    :thumbsdown:

Offline winkywanky

Even worse when they are at the door of your house and you live in a quiet cul-de-sac --------------- I have had to "suffer" a couple of dogs in the past.    :thumbsdown:


I thought they only bit postmen, not cabbies?  :D

Offline Skeleton

I've used the 'really sorry, but you look like my sister/cousin/niece, it's a bit weird for me' line.

Obviously only works if they are same ethnicity as you :D

Offline RedKettle

Even worse when they are at the door of your house and you live in a quiet cul-de-sac --------------- I have had to "suffer" a couple of dogs in the past.    :thumbsdown:

One was so bad i had to close my eyes and think about the wife.... :D :D

Offline webpunter

 :lol:

One was so bad i had to close my eyes and think about the wife.... :D :D

Why not try one off HP's HL, which having seen a picture it becomes difficult for this to be unseen  :lol:

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Offline Bonker

'sorry but you look too much like my wife' is good for any ethnicity.

'sorry but you look too much like my dog' worth a try.

I usually don't say anything, just turn around and walk. Saafe is full of prossies complaining about excuses so they know the score.

Marcusnash187

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So long as you hold on to your money you hold all the aces. Therefore, if you don't like what you see - just walk. Simple as that. No real need for explanation as she would probably know why anyway. I suppose if you want to be ultra polite you could just say "sorry, I've changed my mind" or something like that. Bottom line is though if she's trying to rip you off she will know why you have walked anyway.

+1 Excellent analysis

Offline jackdaw

One was so bad i had to close my eyes and think about the wife.... :D :D

Lol.

I’ve had a ponder about best tactic on hotel based punts...because I agree with you that is one of most difficult situations if bait and switch appears.

In some hotels..where lifts, etc are room key protected...no real alternative but to meet just outside or in reception anyhow. So there maybe best just to make default to meet outside rather than reception.

Where coming up to room is possible...things get difficult. I have pondered whether I’m a good enough actor to just pretend I’m somebody else, and not expecting WG. “Who are you? I was told retail manager I’m expecting was a man.”

But yes, really difficult.

« Last Edit: November 21, 2018, 07:20:11 am by jackdaw »

Online Mkhelen

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I personally prefer honest & upfront

I don't fancy you ?
Your not what I expected?
Your not my cuppa tea ?

Got to go work has called I got to go (address collector)

Forgot my wallet just shows you had no intention of booking an appointment you just wanted to window shop.

How are working girls supposed to change if you can't give honest feedback

Have text evidence of the services you definitely want then say you the girl Just to be clear this is what I want before handing the money over

Have a screenshot of the girl profile with service list so you can refer back to it when access is denied

Have it clear and concise

Offline NigelF

How are working girls supposed to change if you can't give honest feedback

That's a very naive comment. Nonetheless, that is exactly why I tell them very directly and in person. However, all WGs who have inaccurate pictures and/or don't deliver the services they promise obviously know that's the case, therefore, at the very least they will strongly suspect that must have been a factor. Nonetheless, I like to make sure it's crystal clear for them.

Still, 99% of them won't care or at least won't care enough to change (because they didn't care about being so misleading in the first place).

Even if everyone who walks did tell them why, they will have enough punters who won't walk so it just doesn't matter (even though they obviously won't come back either but there's plenty more where they came from).

At any rate, as others have suggested, a punter should look after himself first and foremost as the WG is not his concern. If you do tell them up front then there is definitely a risk of experiencing something nasty, even if it's just the girl getting angry (which is the only thing I've experienced - except once where she called her pimp, who himself shouted down the phone "I'm gonna do his fuckin' head in").

There are a number of bad things that could potentially happen which aren't worth risking such as a shouting match, violence, her very nearby pimp getting involved, her chasing and shouting at you (even down the street), her or someone working with her following you to your car etc.
Obviously they're all rare but they have all happened as well and not worth the risk (I just like a bit of risk sometimes but it's not advisable).

One also shouldn't give a shit about the WG thinking they're just an "address collector" or whatever. At worst you might get a warning on SAAFE or something but the kinds of girls who would do that are also not the kinds of girls who would have really misleading pictures etc (at least not usually).

Nonetheless, I do think the best balance is to use the "left my wallet in the car" excuse (or something similar) AND, once you're safely away, text them the real reason you left. This is the best of both worlds IMO. I just like to do it in person because it's more "personal" and that's how I like to do a lot of things (despite what my post count suggests  :D).

« Last Edit: November 21, 2018, 08:02:43 pm by NigelF »