Why such a hype with anal sex .. what's your opinion ??

[20jay]

Why are the guys now so crazy about anal sex, meanwhile, it is fashionable that in every porn girls gets fucked in their ass. How much is missing until it does not matter whose ass they fuck? Do not get me wrong, everyone should do what he want, but it is not my cuppa tea. I do not know any women who really like that.I had tried that years ago with my then girlfriend, not good, the preparations, enema for emptying, a lot of lubricant, it hurt her, though with the utmost caution, I found it rather "crappy" .

What are your experiences, if service providers read along their opinion would be interesting...

[winkywanky]

It's naughty, it's taboo, it feels different, some girls really get off on it and can cum from it. Some girls even prefer it to vaginal sex. Two holes to play with can mean double pleasure with the use of toys in addition to your cock. Rimming can be a precursor to anal sex.

If all those boxes are ticked, and you likee, you're onto a winner.

[20jay]

I know as I said only women who, if the subject comes to the table, reject and say they had not had good experiences, and are happy that I do not like it as well. Maybe  women only do that to please men, but you said some like it .... interesting

[Happyjose]

I quite like it, especially if she uses a vibrator in her clunge at the same time

I wouldn't partake in any activity that actually hurt anyone, but why should I care if she doesn't actually get off on it? As long as she acts like she does, that's good enough for me

Each to their own, but there's at least one guy on here who pays a WG to kick him in the stones.

Who am I to judge ?

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[wylie anchor]

I'm sure it used to be classed as an 'un-natural sexual act' and was illegal!!   

[20jay]

I quite like it, especially if she uses a vibrator in her clunge at the same time

Each to their own, but there's at least one guy on here who pays a WG to kick him in the stones.

Who am I to judge ?

Happyjose fair enough ..and no it's not about judge people. anyone to his own, no question, I'm just wondering that the anal has become so popular and I do not know any women who like it. Maybe I know only conservative girls.

[20jay]

I'm sure it used to be classed as an 'un-natural sexual act' and was illegal!!   

You think it's something like the forbidden fruit, which makes the appeal. Good point, could be like that.

[winkywanky]

I'm sure it used to be classed as an 'un-natural sexual act' and was illegal!!   

In the Land of the Free (the USA) it's still illegal in some States.

(But of course you can easily buy a gun).

[20jay]

In the Land of the Free (the USA) it's still illegal in some States.

(But of course you can easily buy a gun).

Because you decided to talk about God's country, home of the free, land of the brave.. let me mention that the US citizen are the most brainwashed ( and stupid )  population on the world. 

..and I'll not start talking about their weapon lobbyists 
 

[Fumanchhu]

Why are the guys now so crazy about anal sex, meanwhile, it is fashionable that in every porn girls gets fucked in their ass. How much is missing until it does not matter whose ass they fuck? Do not get me wrong, everyone should do what he want, but it is not my cuppa tea. I do not know any women who really like that.I had tried that years ago with my then girlfriend, not good, the preparations, enema for emptying, a lot of lubricant, it hurt her, though with the utmost caution, I found it rather "crappy" .

What are your experiences, if service providers read along their opinion would be interesting...

I guess it's a prison/ Public school/ care system/ Navy  thing 

They have the experience and liked it and think women must. 

[scutty brown]

Load of crap if you ask me..........and most of the girls I know reckon blokes who request it are a pain in the arse

[Fumanchhu]

Load of crap if you ask me..........and most of the girls I know reckon blokes who request it are a pain in the arse

 

[20jay]

So you both have more experience that women do not like ..if I understand you right ,no ?
If the majority of guys here have the experience that women do not like it, why does the porno industry let it look like it's different ?

[scutty brown]

So you both have more experience that women do not like ..if I understand you right ,no ?
If the majority of guys here have the experience that women do not like it, why does the porno industry let it look like it's different ?

I guess its like most marketing: trying to tout a shit experience as something special

[Billy no mates]

My missus likes it, but when she is in the right mood. I reckon we do it maybe a handful of times per year.

She says, it doesn’t really feel particularly different (other than it being a different hole). For her it’s about being ‘used’ and treated like a slut/whore. So it’s more a mental stimulus for her. She says it does ‘hurt’, but in a way that she enjoys, like spanking or pinching her nipples.

For me it does feel tighter, naturally, but I prefer fanny.

[Fumanchhu]

My missus likes it, but when she is in the right mood. I reckon we do it maybe a handful of times per year.

She says, it doesn’t really feel particularly different (other than it being a different hole). For her it’s about being ‘used’ and treated like a slut/whore. So it’s more a mental stimulus for her. She says it does ‘hurt’, but in a way that she enjoys, like spanking or pinching her nipples.

For me it does feel tighter, naturally, but I prefer fanny.

would you take her fucking your arse with a strapon ?

[20jay]

I guess its like most marketing: trying to tout a ----> shit experience <----as something special

    ...you nailed it mate

[Billy no mates]

would you take her fucking your arse with a strapon ?

God, no 

[20jay]

My missus likes it, but when she is in the right mood. I reckon we do it maybe a handful of times per year.

She says, it doesn’t really feel particularly different (other than it being a different hole). For her it’s about being ‘used’ and treated like a slut/whore. So it’s more a mental stimulus for her. She says it does ‘hurt’, but in a way that she enjoys, like spanking or pinching her nipples.

For me it does feel tighter, naturally, but I prefer fanny.

So more, let's do something crazy .... from time to time.

Yeah okay that sounds understandable .. so not the "normal case"

[winkywanky]

If the majority of guys here have the experience that women do not like it, why does the porno industry let it look like it's different ?

Do you seriously think the Porn industry is a true representation of what most real people experience in their sex lives?

And do you seriously think the Porn industry caters to the average female as much as the average male?

[bdyno]

would you take her fucking your arse with a strapon ?

Yes. I do this regularly.

And my current girlfriend and several before her all prefer anal.

In my experience, women who genuinely don't like it are the minority. There are some who refuse to try, but most enjoy it and a few who prefer it - although admittedly it takes a bit of getting used to. You also need to build up to a full sized cock (or strap on) otherwise the chances of not enjoying it are increased.

I'm also a firm believer that all guys should give pegging a fair try - otherwise you don't know the pleasure you're missing out on. An orgasm from having your arse fucked is way more intense than your standard orgasm.

I never have a punt without giving or receiving anal, and 90% of the time both happen.

[20jay]

Okay what about the trend of shaved fannies, in the 80 'you could count the shaved women on one hand, today it's the other way around. BJ was not in the 80' the normal program, or eat her pussy.

The porn industry, of course, influences the practices in the bedrooms of average citizens

[20jay]

Yes. I do this regularly.

And my current girlfriend and several before her all prefer anal.


I never have a punt without giving or receiving anal, and 90% of the time both happen.

dyno, interesting that is the complete opposite of my world of experience.

For trying, I have already said, we had everything prepared ( Enema earlier ), cock was stiff after BJ, rubber over, lubricant ... very careful. It was not pleasant she said

[bdyno]

dyno, interesting that is the complete opposite of my world of experience.

For trying, I have already said, we had everything prepared ( Enema earlier ), cock was stiff after BJ, rubber over, lubricant ... very careful. It was not pleasant she said

I wasn't that in to pegging the first few times either. But having a finger in there whilst getting a bj was always good. Then two. Then a butt plug. Then a small strap on. Now I can go straight to an average sized strap on with minimal build (still plenty of lube obviously).

I mean of course it's possible to genuinely not like it, but that definitely puts you in the minority.

And depth matters too - I know I can only take about 6" before I hit my limit.

Also, give me a shaved pussy every time - I remember the days of full pubes and hated going down on someone back then!

[winkywanky]

Okay what about the trend of shaved fannies, in the 80 'you could count the shaved women on one hand, today it's the other way around. BJ was not in the 80' the normal program, or eat her pussy.

The porn industry, of course, influences the practices in the bedrooms of average citizens

I'd agree with that.

[winkywanky]

I mean of course it's possible to genuinely not like it [anal], but that definitely puts you in the minority.

So to make sure you gathered a statistically significant result on that hypothesis, you stood on your local High St. for an afternoon and randomly selected a cross-section of over-18s to ask, did you?

 

[workinallweek]

  I have known a few girls that do love it  , i remember being balls deep in a girls arse while thumbing her clit her orgasm was so intense i thought someone had plugger her into the mains ...


i know a couple that like a finger when fully aroused  or just about to cum

ive known a few that hate it  but sometimes want to try it ,

we are talking woman so anything is possible 

[winkywanky]

Quite right, despite Wimmin's Lib and all the rest of it, the majority of women like to be led astray from time to time, with something they would never in a million years suggest themselves.

That way they get to call you a dirty perverted fucker for even suggesting it if they decide they don't like it.

[20jay]

@bdyno ...Okay, good to hear a different experience. I have not had a permanent girlfriend for a long time, because I do not like that clinging .. only one nights or shorter acquaintances. I've been cured since my divorce years ago.

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EDIT oh crap, what i really wanted to say is, if you maybe approach on your anal experiance over a longer time frame ,with your wife or long time gf, how you write, that may be a hot experience for you as a couple.

But with short-term girlfriends that will be difficult.

[Colston36]

God, no 

I've tried that a few times but it's never done a thing for me. I think my prostate must have fucked off on holiday or something  ...

[Moby Dick]

I don’t mind a WG tongue or finger up my arse so I imagine it is the same for them.
I know some that encourage me to finger or rim their arse, they even do it themselves, fingering I mean, not met one that can rim herself yet  but never say never
Are they doing it to please me or themselves 

I like to fuck their clunge in doggy with my thumb up their arse.
You can feel their clenching on my cock and thumb and it don’t cost me any more.

Laid on their back legs back, feet by their ears is good as you duck her arse, whilst both taking turns to rub her clit. Looks good so don’t mind the extra cost when the mood takes me.

Also DP when there is a few of us to fill her holes simultaneously, looks good, and they genuinely seem to enjoy taking 2 or 3 cocks at the same time. They always thank me afterwards

[20jay]

As it stands, as always, the result is in the middle, would be interesting to hear a service provider

[bdyno]

So to make sure you gathered a statistically significant result on that hypothesis, you stood on your local High St. for an afternoon and randomly selected a cross-section of over-18s to ask, did you?
 

Not exactly!  But over the years I reckon I've slept with close to 200 people, only around 50ish of them were paid for and only half a dozen were TS, so I'm going by a reasonably cross section of mostly everyday women.

It stands to reason though that the majority like it.  The way I see it, most women do in my experience, I assume all gay men do, and plenty of straight guys like pegging judging by conversations I've had with the escorts I see regularly.  That's why most WGs own a strap on or two.

@bdyno ...Okay, good to hear a different experience. I have not had a permanent girlfriend for a long time, because I do not like that clinging .. only one nights or shorter acquaintances. I've been cured since my divorce years ago.

EDIT oh crap, what i really wanted to say is, if you maybe approach on your anal experiance over a longer time frame ,with your wife or long time gf, how you write, that may be a hot experience for you as a couple.

But with short-term girlfriends that will be difficult.

I think it depends more on the girl's attitude to sex generally than the length of time you're with her.  My ex wife was very prudish, took me a good couple of years to get her to try it, then another couple before she actually started asking for it.  My most recent girlfriend who I was with for about 4 years we'd talked about it on our first date and we did anal before vaginal sex.

As for short term girlfriends, much like with escorts if you know you're only there for the night you can just ask straight out if they're up for it - what's the worst that could happen?  She says no so you don't do it.  If anything she'll be glad you checked her limits before you started.

[20jay]

@bdyno  Thanks for your answers, as I said, completely different than my experience. It gave me another view of the subject.

[Moby Dick]

Okay what about the trend of shaved fannies, in the 80 'you could count the shaved women on one hand, today it's the other way around. BJ was not in the 80' the normal program, or eat her pussy.

The porn industry, of course, influences the practices in the bedrooms of average citizens

 

I started having sex in the 80’s (with other people, no longer by myself) and as a teenager BJ and RO with girls the same age as me was very common. Easier to get a BJ  then having full sex, but also standard part of foreplay leading upto sex.
Porn was available on VHS, and the bush was dominant.
Anal was not something I tried until some years later.

[bdyno]

@bdyno  Thanks for your answers, as I said, completely different than my experience. It gave me another view of the subject.

[bdyno]

@bdyno  Thanks for your answers, as I said, completely different than my experience. It gave me another view of the subject.

I started having sex in the 80’s (with other people, no longer by myself) and as a teenager BJ and RO with girls the same age as me was very common. Easier to get a BJ  then having full sex, but also standard part of foreplay leading upto sex.
Porn was available on VHS, and the bush was dominant.
Anal was not something I tried until some years later.

Exactly the same as my story!  Had many a blow job during my school lunch hour....

[Moby Dick]

Exactly the same as my story!  Had many a blow job during my school lunch hour....

We must have had the same teacher

[bdyno]

We must have had the same teacher

Thats one of the few things I never managed!

[threechilliman]

Not fussed about anal these days.

[20jay]

Hahahaha my porn was available on Betamax and in the 70' the bush was present of course but girls did not wear a bra and the pants were tight, camel toe, and nipples visible ... I already had "sex" with 13 and full sex ( okay the regular program ) with 14 we played with girls instead of games on phones 

A great time, today people are prouder than in the 70 '....

[jimbobted]

I'm not that fussed about anal, I prefer fucking a pussy. Was actually offered anal (she professed to really enjoy it) unsolicited on my last punt and turned it down. Told her I find it a "bit too tight" (I'm not the long but girlfriends have told me I have girth) and she giggled and nodded.
Mrs jimbobted likes an arse fucking every now and then but I'm ambivalent.

[scutty brown]

..............Mrs jimbobted likes an arse fucking every now and then but I'm ambivalent.

So you're not keen on her fucking you up the arse then...........

[20jay]

I'm not that fussed about anal, I prefer fucking a pussy. Was actually offered anal (she professed to really enjoy it) unsolicited on my last punt and turned it down. Told her I find it a "bit too tight" (I'm not the long but girlfriends have told me I have girth) and she giggled and nodded.
Mrs jimbobted likes an arse fucking every now and then but I'm ambivalent.

I would have refused as well ... 

[TheMurloc]

For me it was the mystery and taboo that attracted me to want to fuck a girls ass never wanted to do that with a guy or be on the receiving end and having popped my anal cherry recently (review to come soon) it opens up a whole new agenda of pleasuring a lady just wish I could stick a cock up her arse and tongue her at the same time guess that’ll have to be left for a duo booking

[ShadowProclamation]

I think the easy availability of hardcore internet porn post 2000, has made many punters curious to try anal. Including me. This demand has created a supply, through escorts catering for broader tastes, including anal sex. The arse is also a fetish (and one of mine). Therefore, anal sex is clearly going to be the ultimate way of fulfilling it.

[mradventures]

i like the visuals of it
feeling wise i probably prefer pussy, but that can vary with the girl i think

[Rochelle]

I know as I said only women who, if the subject comes to the table, reject and say they had not had good experiences, and are happy that I do not like it as well. Maybe  women only do that to please men, but you said some like it .... interesting

Really? Obviously there will be some that like it. Common sense...

[Drayki]

Depending what’s on offer on the day, a lot of sp’s who offer it in the normal rates I’ll have a go... but most of them who want silly money as extra I won’t bother

At the end of the day it’s just another hole... sometimes a shitty one 

[20jay]

Really? Obviously there will be some that like it. Common sense...

I may have expressed myself unhappily, perhaps it does not sound so funny when you read it in connection with the conversation .

You like it then? Is not it annoying and cumbersome that you have to make an enema and flush in advance. ?