Black Escorts don't see Asian Guys?

[jordan2377]

Okay so I've been checking out Adult Work lately. I'm a guy of South Asian descent. If you've noticed most escorts don't write down race specifications so I usually ask.

Absolutely beautiful or stunning White escorts have no problem in seeing me or men of Asian descent, the one's I have messaged any way. And for the couple which did they were very polite in their refusal. But I've messaged at least five black chicks about them seeing Asian lads and all of them just read and then completely blanked the messages, one even deleted the message. So I'm just wondering why seemingly many Black escorts don't want to offer their services to specifically Asian men?

[wristjob]

If they don't say it in their profile why ask them? To be honest I'd say around 1/3 to 1/2 messages gets ignored or deleted anyway - if they have a phone number call them and if not and they delete your messages - timewaster!

[jordan2377]

Because most people don't say whether they feel comfortable with a specific race or not. For example I booked this one girl who didn't want to see Black clients. It's important to ask before hand otherwise some may adamantly refuse that person at the door, which is quite frankly an embarrassing situation.

[sharpshoes78]

Don't ask if she will see Asians.
Just ask if there is a race she won't see

[andrei]

Because most people don't say whether they feel comfortable with a specific race or not. For example I booked this one girl who didn't want to see Black clients. It's important to ask before hand otherwise some may adamantly refuse that person at the door, which is quite frankly an embarrassing situation.

eh?

i have seen profiles where they say they dont see a specific race

so logically if a profile doesnt have that addendum its fair game

[wristjob]

eh?

i have seen profiles where they say they dont see a specific race

so logically if a profile doesnt have that addendum its fair game

Thank you for explaining.

[smiths]

eh?

i have seen profiles where they say they dont see a specific race

so logically if a profile doesnt have that addendum its fair game

Spot on, the onus is on the racist to make clear they exclude a whole race or colour in my view.

However, IF a non white punter wants to ensure the WG wont turn him away at her door he might want to mention his race and/or colour when enquiring of course.

[Sir Lance-a-lot]

I once read the profile of a black escort who wouldn't see black guys.

[wristjob]

I once read the profile of a black escort who wouldn't see black guys.

I think it's because they don't want to bump into people they might know.

[Rochdull lad]

I once read the profile of a black escort who wouldn't see black guys.

I think it's because they don't want to bump into people they might know.

I know Sir Lance-a-lot only referred to one black Escort, so we can't really generalise from that; but wouldn't the, erm, "logic"[?]  of that refusal be the same as a white WG refusing to see me because I'm also white? 

[wristjob]

I know Sir Lance-a-lot only referred to one black Escort, so we can't really generalise from that; but wouldn't the, erm, "logic"[?]  of that refusal be the same as a white WG refusing to see me because I'm also white? 

I know a mixed race escort who won't see black people for that exact reason. I saw a white girl who was married to a black guy who wouldn't see other black guys for that reason. Pretty sure I've Asian girls advertise no Asian guys.

There are a lot less black guys around and as with many ethnic groups they tend to integrate more with their own type (bad semantics there, it's not racist) so much more relative chance to bump into somebody you know or know of. Pretty much the same as not working from your home town IMO.

In 20 years you will probably have loads of EEs who won't see other EEs cos they've settled here, are 2nd generation and know all the other Poles/Romanians for miles around.

[Bangers and Gash]

the onus is on the racist to make clear they exclude a whole race or colour in my view.

It's not racist if a pro$$ie excludes persons from certain backgrounds - it's down to personal choice and what the proz feels comfortable with. If a pro$$ie didn't want to see me because I'm a short, fat, ugly, white guy with a small cock I wouldn't throw a hissy fit and start throwing accusations of racism around, I'd go see someone else. Not difficult is it. 

 

[Anadin]

But I've messaged at least five black chicks about them seeing Asian lads and all of them just read and then completely blanked the messages, one even deleted the message.

How would you know that one had deleted the message and what exactly did you say cause it might just be you that they now don't want to see? I agree with wristjob phone them and ask if you're that worried they'll reject you.

It's not racist if a pro$$ie excludes persons from certain backgrounds - it's down to personal choice and what the proz feels comfortable with.

It's not 'necessarily' racist but you'll never know for sure so probably not fair to accuse them, that being said there's bound to be a someone out there whose gonna come out and just say some incredibly racist stuff on their AW profile. I'm kinda surprised I haven't found one who has yet, that one with all the jock bashing was close though.

[smiths]

It's not racist if a pro$$ie excludes persons from certain backgrounds - it's down to personal choice and what the proz feels comfortable with. If a pro$$ie didn't want to see me because I'm a short, fat, ugly, white guy with a small cock I wouldn't throw a hissy fit and start throwing accusations of racism around, I'd go see someone else. Not difficult is it.

I disagree its not racist to exclude a whole race and/or colour because thats not treating people as the individuals they are which i see as racist thinking.

A WG can of course choose to refuse any punter she wishes to for any reason she wishes, its not regulated of course so there isnt any comeback. And i see the WG as having free choice as essential.

The hypocrisy with this is i dont see WGs saying no Whites allowed despite the fact White punters have been reported as dangerous on punting forums over the years. Comes down to the WG knowing she can exclude an ethnic minority without it affecting her business but knowing if she excuded ALL White punters it would affect her business.

[hendrix]

I know a mixed race escort who won't see black people for that exact reason. I saw a white girl who was married to a black guy who wouldn't see other black guys for that reason. Pretty sure I've Asian girls advertise no Asian guys.

There are a lot less black guys around and as with many ethnic groups they tend to integrate more with their own type (bad semantics there, it's not racist) so much more relative chance to bump into somebody you know or know of. Pretty much the same as not working from your home town IMO.

In 20 years you will probably have loads of EEs who won't see other EEs cos they've settled here, are 2nd generation and know all the other Poles/Romanians for miles around.

Yep, pretty sure I've already seen some EE profiles in my local area stating that they won't see any EE guys.

[honeypot]

Okay so I've been checking out Adult Work lately. I'm a guy of South Asian descent. If you've noticed most escorts don't write down race specifications so I usually ask.

Absolutely beautiful or stunning White escorts have no problem in seeing me or men of Asian descent, the one's I have messaged any way. And for the couple which did they were very polite in their refusal. But I've messaged at least five black chicks about them seeing Asian lads and all of them just read and then completely blanked the messages, one even deleted the message. So I'm just wondering why seemingly many Black escorts don't want to offer their services to specifically Asian men?

I don't know where your area is,  but in most asian areas there is loads of black escorts based and touring regularly I.e    heathrow, hayes, southall, Hounslow, east london, Wembley,  Birmingham,  luton, Leicester,  derby. If those black girls didn't see asians then im sure they must be broke..those areas are mostly asian communities.....

[updownandaround]

I've seen a few profiles on AW where the girls don't want to see black guys. One girl I used to see a lot in London said she doesn't see black guys because her "boyfriend" is black. An Indian girl I saw on a regular basis complained that Asian chaps were often very cheap and haggled a lot. I guess they have their personal preferences or prejudices or whatever.

[jordan2377]

Yeah I found it a little peculiar that is all, that it seems to be only specifically Black escorts who don't want to offer their services to Asians compared to other races. But oh well, just one of those things.

[updownandaround]

In my travels around the world I have discovered that Whites do not hold the monopoly on prejudice.

[taplow]

When going to see an escort the first thing I ever ask is, "is the girl a committed anti-racist?"  I have to know this otherwise I know I'll never get the horn.

[updownandaround]

When going to see an escort the first thing I ever ask is, "is the girl a committed anti-racist?"  I have to know this otherwise I know I'll never get the horn.

Personally, I would never go and see a black hooker, I just don't fancy the look enough (and attitude) even though I do like exotic girls.

[taplow]

Personally, I would never go and see a black hooker, I just don't fancy the look enough (and attitude) even though I do like exotic girls.

I don't fancy them either. I'm just worried that my work might find out that I'm seeing the wrong colour prostitutes.

[updownandaround]

I don't fancy them either. I'm just worried that my work might find out that I'm seeing the wrong colour prostitutes.

Do work for Benetton, problem solved!

[Dani]

I don't fancy them either. I'm just worried that my work might find out that I'm seeing the wrong colour prostitutes.

When going to see an escort the first thing I ever ask is, "is the girl a committed anti-racist?"  I have to know this otherwise I know I'll never get the horn.

I assume both these statements are sarcastic and not an honest view as neither make any sense what so ever.
1. You cannot know someone elses views and
2. what the fuck has work got to do with it.

I do hope it is just me being tired and not seeing the amusement in these statements

[valdishere]

Well all I can say is it not a case of choice,

This forum is full of punters posting who say they wont see WG's who don't perform DFK, OWO or CIM or Anal etc etc also they want as a must to be 'young' and shapely figure with big breasts......!

So WG's can determine probably through their experience if any particular type of guy is not to her liking to perform her services.

I once saw a WG who never saw Indian or Pakistanis as she claimed most generally always wanted to haggle on price and often texted just before meet time trying to negotiate knowing she didn't have another booking she could substitute. Thus she told me she just got fed up with it all and decided not to see them any more. I don't think she was racist as she saw my mate who was Ugandan and I know she had what she called her Chinaman day on Mondays.

Re OP maybe the black woman you wanted to see had some specific reason or experience.

And no I don't think they need to clearly advertise that No Blacks, Whites, Asians Or other type as that may give an incorrect racist image, although I have seen some do..

Plenty of WG's do say no over 50's etc but could equally say she would not see any punter less than 8in!

As other have said WG's can elicit for a call if the guy is someone they wish to allow a booking.

[updownandaround]

I assume both these statements are sarcastic and not an honest view as neither make any sense what so ever.
1. You cannot know someone elses views and
2. what the fuck has work got to do with it.

I do hope it is just me being tired and not seeing the amusement in these statements

Can you leave your work problems in the bedroom please?

[vorian]

I assume both these statements are sarcastic and not an honest view as neither make any sense what so ever.
1. You cannot know someone elses views and
2. what the fuck has work got to do with it.

I do hope it is just me being tired and not seeing the amusement in these statements

If you read his other comments on different threads Dani, its just his style of posting. 

[a10]

I've always assumed that when WGs post the no black/asian/oriental thing it's basically three things:

1. They don't find them (as a group, generally speaking) attractive so it's harder to "work" with them. I don't find Thai girls attractive - it happens, get over it.

2. It's a way of trimming the customer base down without significantly damaging the earning potential. To say "no white guys" would be financial suicide.

3. They're racist. I've seen a WG a couple of times who openly says to me (as a white middle aged man) that she doesn't like minorities, full stop. She's an EDL, daily mail kinda girl 

The whole "due to bad experiences" is a saafe-inspired piece of window dressing the pro$$ie thinks will justify the statement without leading to awkward questions from punters.

I also gotta ask: if you fall into the 'barred' category, why the fuck would you be interested in seeing said girl? There's plenty more skanks in the aw!

[Anadin]

Personally, I would never go and see a black hooker, I just don't fancy the look enough (and attitude) even though I do like exotic girls.

What attitude?

[Nhsi]

I once read the profile of a black escort who wouldn't see black guys.

AlluringSophie or something in Enfield? Said she'd only see professional white gentleman? Saw her in a house off of carterhatch lane Enfield. Only time I've ever fucked a black girl. Could tell she hated me but for some reason as I fucked her she actually got wet. I don't think she actually enjoyed it as it was clear she didn't want me there, but someone did once tell me black girls get the wettest! So who knows.

[Nhsi]

I've always assumed that when WGs post the no black/asian/oriental thing it's basically three things:

1. They don't find them (as a group, generally speaking) attractive so it's harder to "work" with them. I don't find Thai girls attractive - it happens, get over it.

2. It's a way of trimming the customer base down without significantly damaging the earning potential. To say "no white guys" would be financial suicide.

3. They're racist. I've seen a WG a couple of times who openly says to me (as a white middle aged man) that she doesn't like minorities, full stop. She's an EDL, daily mail kinda girl 

The whole "due to bad experiences" is a saafe-inspired piece of window dressing the pro$$ie thinks will justify the statement without leading to awkward questions from punters.

I also gotta ask: if you fall into the 'barred' category, why the fuck would you be interested in seeing said girl? There's plenty more skanks in the aw!

A lot of wg's I've seen say most of the people they see are Indians! Weirdly enough.

[Nhsi]

I once read the profile of a black escort who wouldn't see black guys.

This is her, no?! Dunno if her name was alluringsophie before or if I got confused

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[Sir Lance-a-lot]

This is her, no?! Dunno if her name was alluringsophie before or if I got confused

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Hmm, nice.  But no, not her.  Someone in the Bristol/Bath area whose name I forget:  I deleted her from my hotlist when she moved elsewhere.  So that's at least two British black girls doing this.

[cockneybstrd]

I have a personal taste for black and mixed race girls. And in London I would say around at least a quarter of them say No Black Guys.