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Offline reddevil93

Hi guys

I am 21 and this week I am visiting External Link/Members Only
I always wanted to wait with loosing my virginity until I meet the right person (someone who will love me) and all that cheap bull**it. However I am 21 now and after experiencing how cruel girls can be these days (took me a year to get over one particular bit***) I am not longer interested in relationships and love as I simply don't believe in it anymore.

Having said all that, I am still a virgin and I feel like I want to get it off my chest and see what's it like to have sex. I'm a student and a part time worker and I don't have time to date people, go out and get drunk, flirt etc. When I get a spare 5 minutes I prefer to go to the gym and that's about it. I also cannot imagine spending my hard earned money on buying drinks for some random girls (never been my cup of tea).

I have spent last 10 hours reading posts on this forum regarding loosing my virginity to a prossie etc and I know that many of you think that this isn't a good idea. However as I have mentioned before I don't have time to do it any other way.

My main aim is to use my paid sessions as a tutorial kind of thing, I want to become good in bed and gain experience so I can then hit on girls at Uni and feel confident approaching them (and of course fucking them). I wouldn't say that I'm shy but I'm kind of sceptical when it comes to girls after going through a serious heartbreak.

In terms of what I expect from my first experience.... I definitely want to get into kissing straight away and then just some classic protected penetration. Of course I know about the health related risks associated with this game and I fully accept them.


Any advice you can give me before my first meeting (that perhaps I haven't seen already) would be appreciated.

Thanks

Offline SmackmaBitchUp

Advice....
Popping your cherry is only sentimental if your doing it with the person you love or wanna be with...
Smash the Granny out of her and trust me you'll become a Proffessional on this site! :thumbsup:

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polite, pay as soon as you arrive, clean, well groomed, fuck brains out, leave

Offline threechilliman

Happy birthday mate! :drinks:

Don't know where abouts in the country you are, but if you let us know, I'm sure one or two from the relevant area will give sound advice. A word of warning though, once you start, it's very difficult to stop!

tcm

Offline LanceVance

polite, pay as soon as you arrive, clean, well groomed, fuck brains out, leave

+1

Also, as this is your first time, I would suggest seeing a WG who is in your age range (18-21). It will feel less like a punt and more like you and a girl having sex but it just so happens that money is involved. I also find that younger girls make less of a fuss about being with a younger guy. It isn't a hard and fast rule, but it is something I have observed personally.

Another thing is to have fun exploring sex with WGs, but don't shut yourself off completely to civvies just yet. I am sure that you will find a girl who isn't a complete psycho (I hear they do exist) who will make you happy and will appreciate what you have learned from seeing WGs (so long as you don't tell her that's how you developed  :rolleyes:). 


Offline Trevor12

Have you read this thread on the girl you linked?:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=44094.0
Relpy #5 would put me off seeing her if I was in your position.

My advice would be to pick a girl in your area with multiple positive reviews. It would give you a better idea of what the girl is like, and also if the services on her enjoys list really are on offer.

Advice for the meet itself- Be polite, clean and well groomed as StPunt has said. Act confident, even if you're shitting yourself. Most importantly, enjoy it.

Offline reddevil93

Have you read this thread on the girl you linked?:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=44094.0
Relpy #5 would put me off seeing her if I was in your position.

My advice would be to pick a girl in your area with multiple positive reviews. It would give you a better idea of what the girl is like, and also if the services on her enjoys list really are on offer.

Advice for the meet itself- Be polite, clean and well groomed as StPunt has said. Act confident, even if you're shitting yourself. Most importantly, enjoy it.

The link you have posted redirects me to this (my own) thread. Could you repost again ?

Offline reddevil93

Been there done her ,works from a large hotel on the roundabout j31 m6 , very mechanical , pics have been photoshopped to hell (or we're taken by David Bailey several years ago ) , age nearer 40 dress size 12 in a vacuum !
At best I would give her a neutral , Preston is shit for talent ATM but I certainly wouldn't revisit.
Bb

I believe you were thinking about tbis   :rolleyes: However I prefer older women and even if her age is a lie it won't be a big deal for me. In that very same thread you can see that there is a positive review as well.


Thanks for your advice guys and I really appreciate it. Are there any caution steps I can take after a meeting in terms of my medical health ? Mouthwash etc


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Thanks for your advice guys and I really appreciate it. Are there any caution steps I can take after a meeting in terms of my medical health ? Mouthwash etc

It's called Hygiene. Just make sure you're squeaky clean. It's not difficult.

Don't expect to learn much from prostitutes. They are not teachers, they just get you off that's all. And they won't tell you whether they think you're any good etc either. If anything they flatter you to get you to return.

Offline reddevil93

It's called Hygiene. Just make sure you're squeaky clean. It's not difficult.

Don't expect to learn much from prostitutes. They are not teachers, they just get you off that's all. And they won't tell you whether they think you're any good etc either. If anything they flatter you to get you to returne.

I know what hygiene is sir. I meant 'post' meeting procedures in order to look after my sexual health. In terms of what I will get out of this... I will certainly benefit more than from wanking in front of my computer.

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I believe you were thinking about tbis   :rolleyes: However I prefer older women and even if her age is a lie it won't be a big deal for me. In that very same thread you can see that there is a positive review as well.


Thanks for your advice guys and I really appreciate it. Are there any caution steps I can take after a meeting in terms of my medical health ? Mouthwash etc
Personally I would avoid based on that one negative review. Mechanical is not a quality you want in a WG you are losing your cherry to. It took me only a few mistakes to learn that it's just not worth taking a punt on someone with negative reviews here.  At least and unless they have an overwhelming weight of positive reviews to counter.

Consider the reviews here like the odds in gambling.  1 good review and 1 bad = your odds of a good punt are only 50/50! I wouldn't bet on that for such a big deal as your cherry. Might put you off sex for life!   :scare:

Better to take a bit more time and find someone more consistent IMHO.

Apart from that treat it like an important date - be scrupulously clean, trim or shave your pubes (at least 1 day before to avoid having any open cuts), clean your teeth thoroughly but at least 2-3 hrs before to avoid any bleeding gums. Make sure you leave plenty of time from your last meal and have done no 2's. Last thing you want is in your nervousness to have your bowels decide to loosen.
Other than that relax and enjoy! ;)

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I know what hygiene is sir. I meant 'post' meeting procedures in order to look after my sexual health. In terms of what I will get out of this... I will certainly benefit more than from wanking in front of my computer.

A 21 year old using language as above with a little arrogance included, what was your last nic young man  ;)

Offline reddevil93

A 21 year old using language as above with a little arrogance included, what was your last nic young man  ;)

English is my second language hence why it sounds the way it sounds I suppose.

James999

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I am 21 now and after experiencing how cruel girls can be these days

Tell us about the cruelty  :hi:

cockneybstrd

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Question to OP

Have you cried in a alley in Soho near the nandos ?

yorkshire123

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A 21 year old using language as above with a little arrogance included, what was your last nic young man  ;)

You don't have to justify yourself to me but I don't believe that I have ever read a "I'm a virgin" thread on UKP that didn't turn out to be a load of bollocks?
If your genuine then good luck in your quest & I for one would be happy to be proved wrong  :hi:

Offline reddevil93

You don't have to justify yourself to me but I don't believe that I have ever read a "I'm a virgin" thread on UKP that didn't turn out to be a load of bollocks?
If your genuine then good luck in your quest & I for one would be happy to be proved wrong  :hi:

Don't see the point in bullsh***ng you to be fair. I needed some advice and that's exactly why I started this thread. I have received some decent replies which I'm grateful for. Hopefully I will be able to submit my first review after Thursday night so fingers crossed.  :drinks:

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your a virgin at 21, so what!
I'm going to digress for a minute but,at your age, I was banging everything the moved. I had the one thing you don't have at the moment: the awareness to know who "fancied" me. I found that for instance I might have had 30% of the fit as fucks,60% of the "alrights" and 80% of the hounds.
Because of this gift I was able to home in on the quality and have a good success rate with real quality for many years (sadly I've allowed myself to become fat and jaded and those days are but a memory).
The real point is that this is a skill (gift) that has to be used to be improved. Paying to have a bash on a girl just to lose your cherry will do NOTHING for your self esteem and could well haunt you for ever. Most of the women (i'm guessing/ projecting whatever) that you like and think are out of reach are often anything but. You might be a bit of a lad or some dreadfully geeky little knob, either way spend your £'s on things that will boost your self belief  (even these idiot inspirational speakers maybe a better bet for you) not a working girl that's thinking of anythng but you (to get her through her day) whilst you bang away

Offline reddevil93

your a virgin at 21, so what!
I'm going to digress for a minute but,at your age, I was banging everything the moved. I had the one thing you don't have at the moment: the awareness to know who "fancied" me. I found that for instance I might have had 30% of the fit as fucks,60% of the "alrights" and 80% of the hounds.
Because of this gift I was able to home in on the quality and have a good success rate with real quality for many years (sadly I've allowed myself to become fat and jaded and those days are but a memory).
The real point is that this is a skill (gift) that has to be used to be improved. Paying to have a bash on a girl just to lose your cherry will do NOTHING for your self esteem and could well haunt you for ever. Most of the women (i'm guessing/ projecting whatever) that you like and think are out of reach are often anything but. You might be a bit of a lad or some dreadfully geeky little knob, either way spend your £'s on things that will boost your self belief  (even these idiot inspirational speakers maybe a better bet for you) not a working girl that's thinking of anythng but you (to get her through her day) whilst you bang away

And now I'm having a second thoughts  :timeout:

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StPunt

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i've punted since i was 19 and it never did me any harm...

...brb, just got some more cats to shoot from my parents basement window.

James999

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Any advice you can give me

Yeah, Fuck off and spout your bullshit on another site  :hi:

StPunt

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And now I'm having a second thoughts  :timeout:

just get in there and enjoy yourself, no need to dramatise things in your mind. you won't regret it.

Offline seeker

IF your genuine  :unknown:
Get yourself a Girlfriend and practice together .It's a lot more fun,and enjoyable
than banging a wg.
Build up your self confidence .
I only started seeing wg at 47 as I couldn't be bothered
Chasing civvies anymore  and the one I fancied
20 to 30 years old  with size 6 to 8 bods And out of my league now
Would not be interested in me ..
so I pay as I go . :cool:

Offline reddevil93

IF your genuine  :unknown:
Get yourself a Girlfriend and practice together .It's a lot more fun,and enjoyable
than banging a wg.
Build up your self confidence .
I only started seeing wg at 47 as I couldn't be bothered
Chasing civvies anymore  and the one I fancied
20 to 30 years old  with size 6 to 8 bods And out of my league now
Would not be interested in me ..
so I pay as I go . :cool:

It's easier said than done I suppouse. At the moment I don't have any spare time for dating etc never mind spending time with potential gf. I just want to get what I'm paying for and when it's done just get back to my daily routine.

I will go once and see if it floats my boat then I will just take it from there. Thanks for all the positive replies  :hi:

Offline Thepacifist

I lost my virginity at 18 in Amsterdam. I don't regret it. 8 years on I'm still punting. All be it a lot more selectively these days. As has been said, it is very addictive. I wouldn't recommend you see that girl, photo-shopped pics and a bad review. You'll remember your first time forever. I still remember the girl begging for my 'sperma.' never heard it before and never heard it again..

My advice is to book one of the forum favs such as Platinum Cindy, Michelle Independent or Adele. I haven't seen any (yet) but there are good reasons why they are as well reviewed as they are.

Offline seeker

Reddevil  :diablo:
You still haven't said what area you are from  :unknown:
How is anyone on here going to recommend a good wg in your area IF
that's the route you want to take ..
I'm thinking this is a BOGUS thread. :thumbsdown:

Offline reddevil93

Reddevil  :diablo:
You still haven't said what area you are from  :unknown:
How is anyone on here going to recommend a good wg in your area IF
that's the route you want to take ..
I'm thinking this is a BOGUS thread. :thumbsdown:

I'm from Lancaster, North West. I'm looking for someone in Manchester or Preston. At the moment I'm in the process of arranging a meeting with External Link/Members Only

She has some decent reviews on this site and she's Polish which is something that I would fancy for my first encounter.   :diablo:

Offline threechilliman

I'm from Lancaster, North West. I'm looking for someone in Manchester or Preston. At the moment I'm in the process of arranging a meeting with External Link/Members Only

She has some decent reviews on this site and she's Polish which is something that I would fancy for my first encounter.   :diablo:

Why do you want a polish bird? Plenty in Manchester if you give us an idea of age, services etc.

tcm

yorkshire123

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I'm from Lancaster, North West. I'm looking for someone in Manchester or Preston. At the moment I'm in the process of arranging a meeting with External Link/Members Only

She has some decent reviews on this site and she's Polish which is something that I would fancy for my first encounter.   :diablo:

So your at Lancaster Uni, I'm not having a dig (honestly) but the last time I visited there it was like a pick & mix pussy playground, But there again I'm at an age when most Uni students (girls) look fuckable but it may not feel the same looking through a 21 y/o's eyes?
It looks by your selections that you fancy popping your cherry with an older woman, If so may I suggest a trip north to Kendal to see Ruth  External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only I'm sure she will happily turn you to the dark side  ;)

Personally I think this thread should be moved to the NW section

Offline CBPaul

Back in the day, many years ago now, university was filled with pussy, why bother with the whole dating thing when there is bound to be plenty after the same no-strings thrills as you OP. Some time off from uni work spent in the bar will probably do you the world of good.

If you do go down the route of loosing your cherry to a prossie then as it happens you seem to have made a decent enough choice. My only bits of advice would be to choose an older prossie (not early 20's) but don't expect to get a master class in having sex that will enable you to go a pull all the uni babes.


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I disagree. The first WGs I saw were older because I heard that because they're more experienced they would be better. The first time was a rip off, a lot of talking fuck all action, the second escort I saw was better. When I saw someone around my age at the time it was better still as they were on my level. It's for the OP to say, but I would be surprised if he wants to fuck someone old enough to be his mother.

Offline seeker

As your new to this pick someone who speaks good English.
But uni's are usually full of young nubile honeys looking for a no strings attached fun.
Like someone said "get yer self down to the bar "
And rattle a few . :thumbsup:

Offline reddevil93

So your at Lancaster Uni, I'm not having a dig (honestly) but the last time I visited there it was like a pick & mix pussy playground, But there again I'm at an age when most Uni students (girls) look fuckable but it may not feel the same looking through a 21 y/o's eyes?
It looks by your selections that you fancy popping your cherry with an older woman, If so may I suggest a trip north to Kendal to see Ruth  External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only I'm sure she will happily turn you to the dark side  ;)

Personally I think this thread should be moved to the NW section

I'm at UCLan (University of Central Lancashire) which in fact is in Preston  :P

I definately prefer mature women but not older than 34-36. That WG from Kendal which you have recommended would have to pay me to fu**k her as shes not my type I'm afraid.

It doesn't matter where she's from (unless she's Romanian), I'm originally from Poland and I know how attractive Polish women can get. Also they don't tend to charge that much as back in Poland they would get paid at least five times less. For example to spend an hour with top of the range escort (I mean proper high class) it costs £80. Average price for midd class escort is £30, so you get the message.

In terms of shagging Uni girls... Yes maybe it will happen sooner or later maybe it won't. But why not do both ?

Offline peter_bungee

My first time was with a girl at uni and it was a quick fumble, my second time with an escort so technically i wasnt a virgin but it felt like it!

It depends on your outlook of sex, for some it is a sacred thing with someone you love and therefore visiting an escort could scar you for life.  For others like me its just a physical act and the girl i saw was lovely, slow and sensual and my age (24 at the time).  Older woman iv since seen have been much more mechanical due to being hardened, even thougj they have more experience

Dont rush into it, i spent yrs deciding it was right for me and ask yourself do you want a gf or a quick lay 30-1hr with a girl who wont rememebr your name after? As others have said it is addictive and v costly, do you have a good job or have had to save for this?  While i dont regret it, i did leave thinking "is that it" and it had no effect on my life/sexual experience.   If you want advice/tips the girl will give it but u have to tell her and build a trust so she is comfortable being honest with you without thinking she will offend you, this takes many many visits.
« Last Edit: December 08, 2014, 03:39:21 pm by peter_bungee »

StPunt

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when the booking is confirmed dont go out, lock all your doors and stay in because you will pull a bird without trying, its sods law and then you will lose the enthusiasm to punt.

you can sit asking for advice all day long on wg's and each one of us will have a different opinion. Just browse adultwork, see who takes your fancy and make contact.

You can explain your situation if you like regards being young and a virgin ect but dont bug them too much about it because some of them (not all) just see pound signs and if you go on about it too much then they will just cancel and block. 

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I'm at UCLan (University of Central Lancashire) which in fact is in Preston  :P

I definately prefer mature women but not older than 34-36. That WG from Kendal which you have recommended would have to pay me to fu**k her as shes not my type I'm afraid.

It doesn't matter where she's from (unless she's Romanian), I'm originally from Poland and I know how attractive Polish women can get. Also they don't tend to charge that much as back in Poland they would get paid at least five times less. For example to spend an hour with top of the range escort (I mean proper high class) it costs £80. Average price for midd class escort is £30, so you get the message.

In terms of shagging Uni girls... Yes maybe it will happen sooner or later maybe it won't. But why not do both ?

Your money, your choice but no need to act like billy big bollocks.
If your attitude in real life is anything like your developing online persona then I understand why your not getting your fill.
Hopefully other members will help you out but for me you've had as much as I'm willing to give.

Offline reddevil93

Your money, your choice but no need to act like billy big bollocks.
If your attitude in real life is anything like your developing online persona then I understand why your not getting your fill.
Hopefully other members will help you out but for me you've had as much as I'm willing to give.

 :lol: Had a better look at her photos and I have to say she's not to shabby. I dropped her an email and I'll see what she says. Thanks  :drinks:

Offline CBPaul


It doesn't matter where she's from (unless she's Romanian), I'm originally from Poland and I know how attractive Polish women can get. Also they don't tend to charge that much as back in Poland they would get paid at least five times less. For example to spend an hour with top of the range escort (I mean proper high class) it costs £80. Average price for midd class escort is £30, so you get the message.


Got the message loud and clear, and what a fucking depressing one it is. I have developed a liking for Polish girls and indeed they can be very attractive. £120 to bang them though. Perhaps I need to think about visiting Poland.

I can understand your pick now, hopefully you won't get taken for a ride - well, not a ride you don't want  :D

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In terms of shagging Uni girls... Yes maybe it will happen sooner or later maybe it won't. But why not do both ?
The problem is punting makes you lazy, if you know you can get sex when you want, why bother jumping through the hoops that comes with a relationship?