I’ve never gone above 200, with that I’ve bagged 8’s and 9’s, freebies and a random overnight.
My red flags does not mean you have to conform to them or adopt them, I’m sure I mentioned in the previous statement that it was my own “personal” red flag and my “own” experience etc.
What works for me may not work for you, ymmv etc. same with the way you want to operate.
The ones “I have seen”, have never had an issue with getting it at the end. Mainly because there’s already a trust built beforehand. I just don’t turn up and whip out my dick. I tend to meet beforehand have a human conversation etc.
I always make sure that it’s handed to them at the end, no funny business.
People have had experiences, yes, on this same page being one of them, I make it clear from the beginning what I expect from the arrangement and how I would typically conduct myself in one, typically all spelled out in a meet and greet or a phone conversation, either or. If they are not interested after that then we’d wouldn’t start an arrangement.
I find the way I operate has allowed me stress free meets and meet some genuinely cool ass people on the seeking journey.