Taking gifts for WG's

[Jimmyredcab]

Nothing to do with opinion pal, if they liked shagging so much they'd do it for free. They offer a service and we pay for it. They will find the majority of punters vile and lay there thinking of the cash. It's not tinder, they offer a service, you pay for it then you go.

You come across as someone who despises prostitutes, maybe you are spending too much money on them, ever thought of counselling.   

[Donbe]

You come across as someone who despises prostitutes, maybe you are spending too much money on them, ever thought of counselling.   

Nope I very rarely punt and have no ill feelings towards them.

If you like to give them gifts and pay for the privilege, "ever thought of counselling.    "

[Jimmyredcab]

Nope I very rarely punt and have no ill feelings towards them.

So how did you end up with 68 reviews, that’s only the punts we know about. 

[dubs]

A popular WG I was friendly with named a specific perfume on her profile and told me she got about 3-4 bottles a week of it.  She showed me about 30 new wrapped bottles and said she had quite a sideline on ebay selling the stuff.

I've sometimes taken a sub £10 bottle of prossecco but made sure I had half of it myself.

[Donbe]

So how did you end up with 68 reviews, that’s only the punts we know about. 

So this has turned into a debate about my review count whilst deflecting from your own spending issues?

Given the amount of posts you have you should be helping newer members, reiterating it's a fantasy, ensuring they don't get EAS and go fluffy. 

Anyway I'm getting back to work so I can pay for punt no.69 and ensure I have enough cash to buy her wine, perfume, chocolates and a pony. 

[Flunt]

This subject has been posted before from memory and it always has a complete divide in opinions.

dont think there is a right or wrong answer .

I can't believe I'm quoting a pro$$ie and agreeing with her!

It does amuse me that one punter can tell another punter how and with whom he should punt? Some take pleasure in shagging fat old birds, others will fuck a bloke with tits?

Each to their own 

[Horizontal pleasures]

I call it enlightened self interest.

Yes we pay for a service but it is a very personal service. So if we can make it more effective and soften up the lady it will help us get a better service. That has been my experience. My gifts are a token, not an expensive gift like a sugar daddy may bring to 'impress' or buy the lady. Just some attractive fruits or modest dark chocolate to loosen up the encounter.

I do it because ot works.

[JonasG]

Think it's massively tragic tbh.

The thought has never even entered my head.

[Danger!WillRobinson]

Think it's massively tragic tbh.

The thought has never even entered my head.

Box of chocs, bottle of plonk (emphasis on "plonk") or sex toy for use in the session is hardly tragic, nor does it a fluffy make. Particularly in comparison to what some people appear to be spending on/giving girls on SA or SugarDaddies.com, with no guarantee of any action. I get where people are coming from in terms of why make an already (potentially) expensive hobby even more expensive, but I'm already shelling out an extra £3-7 a punt if you take ED tablets into account, so where's the harm (if you've got the cash) in being nice?

I'd also think that if you were a regular who turned up with the odd gift now and again, you'd possibly get preferential booking.

Just out of curiosity, is this an age thing? I just get the impression it's us punters who are 50 plus who seem to do this more. Could of course be completely wrong.

[mr.bluesky]

Cash and your cock that's all you'll need 

[Jimmyredcab]

I call it enlightened self interest.

Yes we pay for a service but it is a very personal service. So if we can make it more effective and soften up the lady it will help us get a better service. That has been my experience. My gifts are a token, not an expensive gift like a sugar daddy may bring to 'impress' or buy the lady. Just some attractive fruits or modest dark chocolate to loosen up the encounter.

I do it because it works.

Good post -------------- even though your taste in women is the opposite to mine.   

[JonasG]

Being polite, chatty, friendly etc is all you need to get a good service tbh.

[threechilliman]

Being polite, chatty, friendly etc is all you need to get a good service tbh.

+1

[OakTree]

Being polite, chatty, friendly etc is all you need to get a good service tbh.

I don’t think those that give (substantial) gifts do it for better service, I suspect it’s deeper than that.

[cash2spare]

The garages maybe, not the mechanics.   

If BMW have a large garage with a posh reception area and a posh girl working there it all has to be paid for.

The posh girl will probably be a SP after work hours lol

Giving wgs a gift ffs man up fella's we are being fleeced already with silly prices for very average shags.

[Chorley]

I seriously think some punters think they're going on a date. It's paid sex; nothing more, nothing less.
A  WG will get nothing more from me than their fee, politeness and good personal hygiene.

[CurbMyEnthusiasm]

If you have some rare arrangement with a regular where you give her a £4 box of chocolates and she ALWAYS gives you an extra 30 mins and you fear if the gifts stop so does overtime then do your thing man. But doing it to butter them up or smooth them over LOL she doesn't give a damn about you or your gift I've seen regulars in the past and they give an extra 15-30mins, not because they want to spend more time with me but have me keep coming back. Some will respect you more, some will treat you differently if you are a regular but they sure as hell don't give two fucks about a guy who pays them for sex

[Donbe]

I seriously think some punters think they're going on a date. It's paid sex; nothing more, nothing less.
A  WG will get nothing more from me than their fee, politeness and good personal hygiene.

Common sense finally arrives in the thread!

[Danger!WillRobinson]

In the 30 years I've been punting, I'd never realised there was a list of punting "commandments" which included "Thou shalt not take WGs a gift".

I think the clue is in the word "politeness". Some punters think it polite/nice to take a small gift (mainly if it's a regular). So long as they exercise the much vaunted "common sense" and don't start taking Gucci handbags, diamond necklaces (pearl necklaces are an entirely different matter  ) and the like, then what's the problem? If you don't like it, don't do it. If people choose to do it, it's their money to do with as they please.

Besides, it doesn't mean you take a gift everytime. I saw one regular about once every 4/6weeks for 3 years. Think I probably took 5 gifts (ranging from £10-£25) in about 30 plus or so punts - hardly going to break my bank account. Sometimes I get a heavy punting itch, and have on occasion blown £500 in a week - mno gifts involved (thankfully that craziness is more or less past me) - that's far more likely to bankrupt me than a bottle of fizz to be shared as part of the punt.

I personally prefer an hour's session - I note that your reviews Donbe are mainly for 1/2 hour sessions; does that mean I should exercise "common sense" and just have a quick shag and get the fuck out of there because it's cheaper? Of course it doesn't, nor would I expect you to start booking hour long sessions, because you do what suits you. Different strokes for different folks and all that

[Donbe]

In the 30 years I've been punting, I'd never realised there was a list of punting "commandments" which included "Thou shalt not take WGs a gift".

I think the clue is in the word "politeness". Some punters think it polite/nice to take a small gift (mainly if it's a regular). So long as they exercise the much vaunted "common sense" and don't start taking Gucci handbags, diamond necklaces (pearl necklaces are an entirely different matter  ) and the like, then what's the problem? If you don't like it, don't do it. If people choose to do it, it's their money to do with as they please.

Besides, it doesn't mean you take a gift everytime. I saw one regular about once every 4/6weeks for 3 years. Think I probably took 5 gifts (ranging from £10-£25) in about 30 plus or so punts - hardly going to break my bank account. Sometimes I get a heavy punting itch, and have on occasion blown £500 in a week - mno gifts involved (thankfully that craziness is more or less past me) - that's far more likely to bankrupt me than a bottle of fizz to be shared as part of the punt.

I personally prefer an hour's session - I note that your reviews Donbe are mainly for 1/2 hour sessions; does that mean I should exercise "common sense" and just have a quick shag and get the fuck out of there because it's cheaper? Of course it doesn't, nor would I expect you to start booking hour long sessions, because you do what suits you. Different strokes for different folks and all that

I book 30 mins as if they are an dickhead I can leave earlier. If I like them I do a longer booking next time.

[RedKettle]

This topic always seems to get people worked up.

I have never given a gift, unless you include the free bottle of wine the hotel left in my room that I did not want and let the girl take with her, and my view is that as the customer it should be me receiving a gift from her!! 

However if a punter wants to take a small gift I cannot see the harm in that.  They may as some above think it improves the service or it could just be part of the experience. We are paying for the illusion that the girl wants us to shag them and if the giving of a gift helps create that illusion that is fine.  It is in a way part of the role play.

That said giving expensive gifts is just nuts.

[Danger!WillRobinson]

Fair enough, Donbe - that's *your* punting method/strategy and works for you. The gifts thing works for others/floats their boat. Like I say, different strokes for different folks.

[JonasG]

It just seems unnecessary and a waste of time.

Do you give your regular barber gifts? Yeah I know sex is different, but we're paying them anyway for a SERVICE.

[Danger!WillRobinson]

It just seems unnecessary and a waste of time.

Do you give your regular barber gifts? Yeah I know sex is different, but we're paying them anyway for a SERVICE.

With regard to the 1st part, surely it's just part of general human societal interaction? A little favour here and there may well reap dividends in the future - in all walks of life, not just punting. E.g. I've been using the same garage for servicing/MOTs for 20 years and have occasionally bought the guys who own it a bottle of booze - mainly because on occasion they've gone over and above the service I've paid for (i.e. booking a car in for an emergency a lot quicker than if I wasn't a "valued customer"). With taxi drivers, I'm also paying for a "service", but I'm more likely to tell them to keep the change if they deliver that service with a smile than if they are a miserable fucker.

With regard to the 2nd part, I'm a slaphead, so no...   

[EnglishRebecca121]

I do get brought things alot to be used during the meet like outfits underwear and toys .
last week someone brought me some lightbulbs for my hallway as they had remembered one of mine had blown i found that very sweet and practical.

Have recieved some random stuff like a spiraliser  , tin opener and a mouldy mango though haha

[Beanhead]

I always ask what wine they drink (red, white or rose) and if they don't drink, if they like any sweet treats e.g. Chocolate.

A bottle of wine is between £5-10 or a box of chocs is like less than a fiver. It's not expensive and it's not like I'm buying a £100 bottle of Champagne.

As said above I do it out of politeness and the fact I think it breaks the ice. I usually always drink with them or share the chocs.

I've never really been a 'pump and dump' punter nor have I ever had a punt below an hour. Saying that I always try my best to do my research like on here as to what type of punt its going to be.

Just think its polite and maybe it might just be me.

[JonasG]

But you be polite with your attitude lol. Gifts doesn't equal politeness.

When you walk in just talk to them, be friendly, smiley etc

Gifts are usually given for a reason. For an escort you've just paid for is defo not one of them.

[RedKettle]

Have recieved some random stuff like a spiraliser  , tin opener and a mouldy mango though haha

you mean you did not like that Mango carried all the way from the East Midlands... 

[mr.bluesky]

I do get brought things alot to be used during the meet like outfits underwear and toys .
last week someone brought me some lightbulbs for my hallway as they had remembered one of mine had blown i found that very sweet and practical.

Have recieved some random stuff like a spiraliser  , tin opener and a mouldy mango though haha

A tin opener !   You should seek new clients

[Horizontal pleasures]

A tin opener !   

handy for removing a condom maybe?

[Scarboroughdude]

I do get brought things alot to be used during the meet like outfits underwear and toys .
last week someone brought me some lightbulbs for my hallway as they had remembered one of mine had blown i found that very sweet and practical.

Have recieved some random stuff like a spiraliser  , tin opener and a mouldy mango though haha

Well I bought you a box of duracells and you seemed buzzing at getting them 

 oops I wondered where id left that mango

[snagz]

If I ever earn £100+ an hour I would consider stopping by an Esso to pick up some Maltesers

[Thecunninglinguist]

I do get brought things alot to be used during the meet like outfits underwear and toys .
last week someone brought me some lightbulbs for my hallway as they had remembered one of mine had blown i found that very sweet and practical.

Have recieved some random stuff like a spiraliser  , tin opener and a mouldy mango though haha

I thought it was the SP that should be offering HER mango to the client? Hopefully not mouldy   

[ManinBeds]

I've never considered it.
However intimate and enjoyable you may feel the punt was, it was a business transaction and one which you have paid generously for. If I regularly saw the same girl then I would possibly entertain the idea of giving a small token of appreciation.

[Phaedrus]

IMO the only WG’s worth taking a gift for are ROMS if you want to soften them and stand out from the crowd. A bar of chocolate will do nothing expensive required. Letting them know that you will tip them for good service at the start of the punt will usually pay dividends.

[WelshElise]

I do get brought things alot to be used during the meet like outfits underwear and toys .
last week someone brought me some lightbulbs for my hallway as they had remembered one of mine had blown i found that very sweet and practical.

Have recieved some random stuff like a spiraliser  , tin opener and a mouldy mango though haha

I dunno about you but I rather get tipped than get gifts throw me an extra 10er I can spend on a jar of my fave coffee pack of bickies and some milk I'm happy hahaxxx

[Chorley]

IMO the only WG’s worth taking a gift for are ROMS if you want to soften them and stand out from the crowd. A bar of chocolate will do nothing expensive required. Letting them know that you will tip them for good service at the start of the punt will usually pay dividends.

If a WG needs gifts and tips to soften her up and deliver a good service then she's not worth bothering with IMHO. 

[WelshElise]

If a WG needs gifts and tips to soften her up and deliver a good service then she's not worth bothering with IMHO. 

you woldnt tip your barber or cab driver b4 the service would you??

[workinallweek]

you woldnt tip your barber or cab driver b4 the service would you??

Must remember that when your in London

[adamza]

I bought a gift for a regular very recently. Before anyone calls it out - no I haven't developed EAS, however this girl is someone that I see almost as much for her company as for how good a shag she is.

She mentioned to me that she is on a strict diet but allows herself chocolate occasionally as a treat. So the next time I saw her I brought some (albeit "fancy") chocolates which I presented to her halfway through the punt after round 1. She seemed genuinely made up with them. In the end the booking went 15 minutes over and she actually offered me a small discount (which I politely declined) because she felt bad that I'd bought her a gift on top of the fee.

Now I'm not saying a small box of chocolates is going to lead to free extra time or a discount on every punt, however it definitely doesn't seem like it will have done any harm to our punting arrangements 

[Horizontal pleasures]

I bought a gift for a regular very recently. Before anyone calls it out - no I haven't developed EAS, however this girl is someone that I see almost as much for her company as for how good a shag she is.

She mentioned to me that she is on a strict diet but allows herself chocolate occasionally as a treat. So the next time I saw her I brought some (albeit "fancy") chocolates which I presented to her halfway through the punt after round 1. She seemed genuinely made up with them. In the end the booking went 15 minutes over and she actually offered me a small discount (which I politely declined) because she felt bad that I'd bought her a gift on top of the fee.

Now I'm not saying a small box of chocolates is going to lead to free extra time or a discount on every punt, however it definitely doesn't seem like it will have done any harm to our punting arrangements 

nice one
go for Green & Black or Divine 85% next time, less of a problem for weight.

[Fuzzyduck]

It's really interesting to see the different views on this. My tuppence.

Don't confuse gifts with tips. They are different. Tips are to reward good service whether it's a social norm for the service or not. I'd expect a tip to be monetary and be given after the event. I've done it very occasionally and I don't think it made an iota of difference to the service the next time I saw them.

I buy a very small sniff of the argument that a gift will lead to a better experience but I think it makes more of a difference in the mind of the punter. As long as you're polite and clean (as many have pointed out) that is probably the biggest thing you can do. I have no real experience of gifting (I don't do it) but have had extras (time, services) in the past from girls that I just get on with.

The occasional chocolates or something to drink is a nice touch I think, for people you know or even if you don't. I took a pricey bottle of bubbly once to a 2-girl and had a great laugh. I don't count that as a gift.

There is a line somewhere though that once crossed signifies some emotional attachment and dangerous waters. Flowers? Umm... Perfume? Umm... It's not a question of the sum spent, it's the often sub-conscious intent behind it. That said, there must be guys who spend vast lumps of cash (Gucci bags, Louboutins etc) in order to win over (in their minds own) the SP, but have zero emotional attachment. It's just a transaction.

Oh, and anyone who complains about paying too much or being fleeced by a SP can fuck off. No-one has a gun a to your head, it's not like paying taxes. You have a choice. If you don't like the deal on the table, don't do it. The fact that you keep on paying it means the price will stay high. If you have sex addiction, seek help.

[adamza]

nice one
go for Green & Black or Divine 85% next time, less of a problem for weight.

I wanted to have a bit myself though and dark chocolate tastes like shit 

[Horizontal pleasures]

If you have sex addiction, seek help.

yep, I seek help from a lady every week or three and it almost always always works, especially if I bring some fruits or chocolate along, and if I made a good choice of lady.

[adamza]

yep, I seek help from a lady every week or three and it almost always always works, especially if I bring some fruits or chocolate along, and if I made a good choice of lady.

+1 

[workinallweek]

I dunno about you but I rather get tipped than get gifts throw me an extra 10er I can spend on a jar of my fave coffee pack of bickies and some milk I'm happy hahaxxx

whats your favourite coffe if your ever in London

[greg101]

I have never done that, I don't even tip.  I am polite, clean and treat the girl with respect, thank her for her time afterwards etc.  I know a guy who fell head over heels in love with a working girl, she rinsed him for a lot of money, stringing him along.  He got £1000's into debt because of this girl, his wife left him, when he had no more money the working girl let him alone as well.  It should always be a business transacction, nothing more nothing less.

[pingug]

giving gifts just makes you think of delusional old men, your not on a date, there is no romance, maybe if it's  a girl you see very regularly but when I read it I put it in the same bracket as the guys who write reviews and are always convinced they have made the girl cum with their magic tongue, all women are different and the chances of making one cum on a first visit when you don't know what works on them is pretty slim

[Fisherman]

This is not a social arrangement it's a business transaction. If you think you have had an exceptional time for the price then give a tip. Anything else is fluffy

[hullad]

I pay them and for a tip I may give them a good report on AW and/or on here.

I do take a very nice bottle of red round to a regular lady every month, she is the exception and the wine is for exceptional service.