Has Anyone gone from Client to Lover of a Working Girl

[whydoidothis]

If so what has been your experience.
Good or Bad.
Is it a fantasy?
Would you like to if you had the opportunity?
Personally I have has a relationship with a WG for about 15 years, we meet up every month, maybe twice in a month and we are the same with each other as when we first met. I consider myself very lucky plus we have had holidays together.
LET'S HEAR YOUR EXPERIENCES?

[Moby Dick]

If so what has been your experience.
Good or Bad.
Is it a fantasy?
Would you like to if you had the opportunity?
Personally I have has a relationship with a WG for about 15 years, we meet up every month, maybe twice in a month and we are the same with each other as when we first met. I consider myself very lucky plus we have had holidays together.
LET'S HEAR YOUR EXPERIENCES?

So still paying her the same rate after 15years

[whydoidothis]

No money changes hands - it's free

[Rochelle]

So still paying her the same rate after 15years

To be fair, if it's the same rate then she hasn't increased her rates for him in fifteen years.
He's still special.

[scutty brown]

EAS over 15 years? Some kind of record?

[Jonestown]

Meeting someone twice a month for sex constitutes a relationship does it ?

[John Johnson]

Meeting someone twice a month for sex constitutes a relationship does it ?

I'd be inclined to say possibly an ideal relationship. 

[wylie anchor]

Personally I have has a relationship with a WG for about 15 years, we meet up every month, maybe twice in a month and we are the same with each other as when we first met. I consider myself very lucky plus we have had holidays together.
LET'S HEAR YOUR EXPERIENCES?

Care to share a link? Just to prove it's not EAS.

[Fuzzyduck]

Meeting someone twice a month for sex constitutes a relationship does it ?

Sounds like a good marriage.

[Fuzzyduck]

No money changes hands - it's free

So she pays her own way, right? Buys you presents and meals, pays her share of the holidays?

[ulstersubbie]

No money changes hands - it's free

No freebies in this life pal, especially not when it involves women.   

[simpleton69]

If so what has been your experience.
Good or Bad.
Is it a fantasy?
Would you like to if you had the opportunity?
Personally I have has a relationship with a WG for about 15 years, we meet up every month, maybe twice in a month and we are the same with each other as when we first met. I consider myself very lucky plus we have had holidays together.
LET'S HEAR YOUR EXPERIENCES?

Is the lady still escorting?

[datwabbit]

No money changes hands - it's free

It's not a punter and escort thing then.

[stevedave]

Not a lover no, but I bumped into a lass I'd met a couple of times who had left the game probably a year, 18 months previously. Turned out we worked in a similar field, and we hooked up a few times. Nowt came of it, but it was fun.

Not sure I could be, or would want to be in a relationship with a current or ex WG. I would imagine there would always be an element of mistrust, on both sides.

[yobbra]

several times way back when i was younger and punted a lot more than now.   Think it is a lot more common than people think tbh if you are reasonably close age wise to the WG and get on well.  No reason why it shouldn't happen any more than if you are a customer of a business and start dating the owner/barmaid/sales rep.   Business and pleasure cross over all the time in every day life if it suits both parties.

[blend57]

Never happened to me. WGs have always treated me professionally. Nearest thing would be the one time after a punt the WG asked me what I was going to do for the afternoon and I said I was going to find some lunch. She decided to tag along.

I paid for the lunch. So a typical civie date situation.   

But you do hear about it happening from time to time. The first time I heard about it was when cute sexy Melanie ran off with her rich American client. Caused quite a bit of upset on the forum (not this one) at the time. I was only mildly annoyed: I had not managed to arrange a punt with her and I really quite fancied her.

[mradventures]

i did partly hook up with a chinese massage girl on my france holiday. took her to dinner a few times
its a odd feeling, you want them to be busy and successful in their job... but in that job it means her wanking off a bunch of guys, which i think would niggle at me long term

[RogerBoner]

I have found it traumatic waiting in the living room whilst "my ho of the mo" services a customer in the next room. It's even worse that I've seen several customers and can't get it out of my mind. I noticed that when the freebies start that the sex becomes less wild.

I wouldn't use the word "lover" casually. More like a short term BF for mutual convenience and friendship.

[Jeremy]

It's even worse that I've seen several customers and can't get it out of my mind.

How do you mean exactly?

[RogerBoner]

Just glimpsed  a few by accident through  a slightly open door as the girl entered the room and the guy is leaving. Nothing sinister. It has put me off wanting sex on that day. Another would describe the day's customers and that was a bit much too. Walking through town I have imagined that every guy has had sex with her. It wouldn't be good to fall in love  with a prοssie and be lovers in that sense. Some of the tourers want a boyfriend for a couple of months but can become possessive. I just go along with it for a trip.

[Colston36]

I have had five relationships with ladies of the night over more than 60 years, and I'm not sure to what degree they all qualify.

When I was very young and good looking a girl asked me to live with her - be a ponce or pimp, I guess. I only spent one night with her and decided I would be too cowardly to do the job. I suspect I would have been jealous, too.

The second was many years ago with a very successful girl who had been fitted up by the police and forced to retire. Bizarrely enough she was one of the most jealous women I ever met, but the relationship lasted over two years. I was excited by her past, and amused that one of our clients had been someone famous whom I knew.

The third was far more recent with someone I saw twice who then asked me to come and stay with her for the weekend. She has now retired. We exchange messages every day and she has invited me to come and stay with her when her husband is away (I have met him).

The fourth is quite recent; it was her idea, we remain very good friends and she knew I had no intention of moving in, but the sex got less interesting anyhow.

I am currently seeing someone else who after two meetings suggested I stay with her over the weekend, no charge. As I like her I shall also take her away - again no charge.

I am pretty sure my attitudes have totally changed since I was young, when I think I was naturally jealous. I actually am excited by the idea of someone who sees clients, especially if they are very kinky, which she certainly is.

I don't think of it as getting sex free when I usually pay. In fact I don't mind giving her money, and do without being asked as I see her as a friend. When I think of what my marriages have cost me it seems a smidgeon.

[Cellular40]

If so what has been your experience.
Good or Bad.
Is it a fantasy?
Would you like to if you had the opportunity?
Personally I have has a relationship with a WG for about 15 years, we meet up every month, maybe twice in a month and we are the same with each other as when we first met. I consider myself very lucky plus we have had holidays together.
LET'S HEAR YOUR EXPERIENCES?

Did you make this post to have some sort of brag or look at me moment?

There’s likely quite a few client/escort relationships that turned into more.

So what? How many people in the world have got into relationships with a colleague at work, or someone they did business with? Likely a lot of us.

[LLPunting]

Did you make this post to have some sort of brag or look at me moment?

There’s likely quite a few client/escort relationships that turned into more.

So what? How many people in the world have got into relationships with a colleague at work, or someone they did business with? Likely a lot of us.

He neglected to mention that he also sees his mum, his aunt and his gran once or twice a month.

[Daffodil]

Did you make this post to have some sort of brag or look at me moment?

There’s likely quite a few client/escort relationships that turned into more.

So what? How many people in the world have got into relationships with a colleague at work, or someone they did business with? Likely a lot of us.

Why so sensitive? Why not just take at face value he wants to hear others’ experience of something that interests him?

For my part I would never say that I’ve had anything approaching a relationship with a Sex Worker (and wouldn’t  ) but I have sent the odd text message after meeting one or two and have subsequently gone on a couple of “dates”, often leading to unpaid sex (although yes, I did pay for dinner/drinks  ). It’s usually when I’m in a different city and I get the feeling she is too, ie. neither of us have much else to do other than punting/work.

One memorable example was when I was in a particular city for a week for work, met the Sex Worker for a punt on the first or second day, and then caught up for dinner that night. Met a few times that week and then never again/didn’t even keep in touch. A “holiday romance” of sorts.

[Cellular40]

He neglected to mention that he also sees his mum, his aunt and his gran once or twice a month.

 

[Cellular40]

Why so sensitive? Why not just take at face value he wants to hear others’ experience of something that interests him?

For my part I would never say that I’ve had anything approaching a relationship with a Sex Worker (and wouldn’t  ) but I have sent the odd text message after meeting one or two and have subsequently gone on a couple of “dates”, often leading to unpaid sex (although yes, I did pay for dinner/drinks  ). It’s usually when I’m in a different city and I get the feeling she is too, ie. neither of us have much else to do other than punting/work.

One memorable example was when I was in a particular city for a week for work, met the Sex Worker for a punt on the first or second day, and then caught up for dinner that night. Met a few times that week and then never again/didn’t even keep in touch. A “holiday romance” of sorts.

Maybe he does want to hear others experiences, however the latter part of his posts suggests otherwise in my opinion.

I have been on several dates with a WG, a very interesting woman, it never intended to be more than a business transaction but we got on like a house on fire.

It ceased when she moved abroad. I personally wouldn’t rule it out, equally as I wouldn’t rule out a relationship with a colleague or similar. Relationships can happen in some of the strangest and unfamiliar ways, I can see why many would steer clear from a punter/WG real relationship though, likely the trust would be an issue for some.

[MissWolf]

Yes.....  

[Daffodil]

Maybe he does want to hear others experiences, however the latter part of his posts suggests otherwise in my opinion.

I have been on several dates with a WG, a very interesting woman, it never intended to be more than a business transaction but we got on like a house on fire.

It ceased when she moved abroad. I personally wouldn’t rule it out, equally as I wouldn’t rule out a relationship with a colleague or similar. Relationships can happen in some of the strangest and unfamiliar ways, I can see why many would steer clear from a punter/WG real relationship though, likely the trust would be an issue for some.

Agree re. the trust, both ways. Would be one of the biggest factors in my choosing not to get into anything serious with a Sex Worker. And a totally valid reason they wouldn’t want me.  Also, and I realise this can be perceived as being hypocritical, I wouldn’t want to be with somebody who I feel has been fucked by all and sundry.

But who knows if cupid’s arrow strikes one day! 

[cunningman]

It’s usually when I’m in a different city and I get the feeling she is too, ie. neither of us have much else to do other than punting/work.

I suspect that a touring young WG is often awfully lonely.  At least some of the EE milfs can Skype/Zoom/Facetime their kids or partner.  And girls/milfs that work from home can at least have their own stuff around themselves.  But living out of a suitcase would do me in, even without fucking random fat old people.

And I guess that once the sex is out of the way, its easier to unwind and chat.  It was one of the things I found awkward about WYP: I like having dinner and chatting shit and hanging out - but its a lot less stressful when you've just been all the way and aren't being a prick trying to get there.  I'd much rather shag then have dinner than the other way around, and not because I want to bale on dinner.

[Daffodil]

I suspect that a touring young WG is often awfully lonely.  At least some of the EE milfs can Skype/Zoom/Facetime their kids or partner.  And girls/milfs that work from home can at least have their own stuff around themselves.  But living out of a suitcase would do me in, even without fucking random fat old people.

And I guess that once the sex is out of the way, its easier to unwind and chat.  It was one of the things I found awkward about WYP: I like having dinner and chatting shit and hanging out - but its a lot less stressful when you've just been all the way and aren't being a prick trying to get there.  I'd much rather shag then have dinner than the other way around, and not because I want to bale on dinner.

My thoughts exactly, on both counts.

I would though need to have some sort of interest in the dinner, which is probably stating the bloody obvious. Either a genuine interest in the girl or looking a little further down the line, like free sex another time. In the main I don’t have a lot in common with the girls I punt with, if even only due to their age.

[Cellular40]

Agree re. the trust, both ways. Would be one of the biggest factors in my choosing not to get into anything serious with a Sex Worker. And a totally valid reason they wouldn’t want me.  Also, and I realise this can be perceived as being hypocritical, I wouldn’t want to be with somebody who I feel has been fucked by all and sundry.

But who knows if cupid’s arrow strikes one day! 

I get what you’re saying.
We all have a little hypocrisy in us.

However there’s likely a lot of women (and men) who’ve been fucked by all and sundry and their partners or future partners won’t have a single clue. Just got to choose the best one out of the bunch. 

[Daffodil]

I get what you’re saying.
We all have a little hypocrisy in us.

However there’s likely a lot of women (and men) who’ve been fucked by all and sundry and their partners or future partners won’t have a single clue. Just got to choose the best one out of the bunch. 

What I don’t know, doesn’t hurt me 

[Brazilian Martian]

He neglected to mention that he also sees his mum, his aunt and his gran once or twice a month.

 

[zulu1964]

Saw a wg when first moved here about 12 years ago, we are fuck buddies and we swing together using Fab.

[Home Alone]

If so what has been your experience.
Good or Bad.
Is it a fantasy?
Would you like to if you had the opportunity?
Personally I have has a relationship with a WG for about 15 years, we meet up every month, maybe twice in a month and we are the same with each other as when we first met. I consider myself very lucky plus we have had holidays together.
LET'S HEAR YOUR EXPERIENCES?

As defined by the OP, nothing like this has happened to me; but I once lost one of my Regulars when she & another of her Regular clients decided to become an item. He left his wife & my Regular immediately retired.

Some years later, they tied the knot and, because the three of us  were friends - I quickly got myself another Regular - I was invited to the Evening Do following the wedding. They moved away from the North West but we usually meet up when they're back in the area visiting family. They certainly still seem as happy as they were, although I know there's no love lost between his grown-up tchildren and her.

As for me, I then developed EAS for the new Regular I mentioned above; but eventually, and with the support of my most recent - now-retired - Regular, 'escaped' from that situation. That most-recently retired Regular warned me she'd stop seeing me if she thought that I'd got EAS for her. So I made sure I never did and we two - she now in retirement from being a SP; me as an almost-retired punter - remain friends; nothing more, nothing less.

Over the years I've been on here, I've been aware of at least one other punter who'd been in relationships with SPs. Me; I've settled for my original mantra: "I go punting for a shag; not a relationship."

[Drekszter]

No, this hasn't happened to me either as I deliberately don't want to get my priorities and emotions tangled up and so I don't tend to instigate anything further after the clock tells me it's time to get dressed and leave.

But... there was one punt with a reg where it was getting late and she said she hasn't eaten yet and we should go out as I also told her I was probably going to grab some food on my way back home.

We went and she wanted to split the bill in the end and we just had some light banter, nothing too serious or prolonged which definitely felt very civvy-like. It hasn't happened again since so it was just probably just a one off - I certainly didn't expect her to pay for herself in the end so that's as close of a similar encounter I got if that counts.

[winkywanky]

Yes.....  

Any salient details you might want to share? This is a forum full of blokes, after all.

[MissWolf]

Any salient details you might want to share? This is a forum full of blokes, after all.

Just that as a SP or WG etc I have times when I want more than a client gives and less than a relationship brings.
We connected,  he makes my knees wobble and is the only one who gets access to my bed rather than my work room, it's a headspace thing I guess, a bit like a free meal tasting better than a paid for one.

I don't want to turn him into a partner and he doesn't either we are just very happy fb's 

[winkywanky]

Just that as a SP or WG etc I have times when I want more than a client gives and less than a relationship brings.
We connected,  he makes my knees wobble and is the only one who gets access to my bed rather than my work room, it's a headspace thing I guess, a bit like a free meal tasting better than a paid for one.

I don't want to turn him into a partner and he doesn't either we are just very happy fb's 

Aww, nice. Good that that works for both. Of course you'll both be aware of potential pitfalls, but really that goes for any personal relationship, just a little 'different' in this case.

When you're with him you're both scrumping really (stolen apples taste nicer than shop-bought). And it even conjures up images of the Garden of Eden, with the forbidden fruit! 

[Ali Katt]

several times way back when i was younger and punted a lot more than now.  Think it is a lot more common than people think tbh if you are reasonably close age wise to the WG and get on well.  No reason why it shouldn't happen any more than if you are a customer of a business and start dating the owner/barmaid/sales rep.   Business and pleasure cross over all the time in every day life if it suits both parties.

It's not. I've been on the job for about 11 or 12 years and I was given a number and the girl's real name to meet up for a drink, no thanks she was crazy. TBH If it is common I think it says more about me.

[winkywanky]

...are you saying only the crazy ones give you their number AK?

[Ali Katt]

...are you saying only the crazy ones give you their number AK?

It would appear so at the time she was also old enough to be my mother. I love seeing escorts older than myself, but if there is a 20 year gap it can only be business.

[winkywanky]

I reckon they're drawn to you by your calm and relaxing demeanour, hoping it'll rub off on them.

[Corky]

I've done it twice.

Both times they (predictably) turned out to be total cunts after the honeymoon period.

So no different to dating a civvy really...... 

[Horizontal pleasures]

 Has Anyone gone from Lover to Client of a Working Girl?

[winkywanky]

Ooer, that'd be a little bit messed up.

You mean you meet a girl and then find out she's on the game, and then pay to fuck her?

[Horizontal pleasures]

Why so few links to the ladies mentioned in this thread?

[Ali Katt]

I reckon they're drawn to you by your calm and relaxing demeanour, hoping it'll rub off on them.

Is that aimed at me? I love sarcasm.

[Horizontal pleasures]

Why so few links to the ladies mentioned in this thread?

You mean you meet a girl and then find out she's on the game, and then pay to fuck her?

yep
I just reversed the original question, as the repeated experiences with no links were becoming boring.

[winkywanky]

Is that aimed at me? I love sarcasm.

It was. I was joking with you, not at you  .