Which is harder ...

[Home Alone]

... at the moment?

Is it harder to be a single punter, especially for those of us are in areas where there's a severe lockdown, who feels that he's in solitary confinement? And who can't afford to be going out every day for a crafty little punt, if he wanted to risk it - I don't, as it happens - just to break the monotony?

Or is it harder to be stuck at home with an OH who you can't easily escape from to nip out for a crafty little punt, if you want to risk it?

I'm in the former group, obviously; but would be interested to read others' opinions.

[SimonSays2108]

Obviously depends on your circumstance - i'm in the latter camp and (finally) have an opportunity to punt tomorrow with a decent cover and can't find any options that are appealing (any Canary Wharf recommendations appreciated - driving and don't want to venture into the tube so limited on options.) - i basically have tomorrow and one day next week before my ability to have cover disappears till the new year - as my OH also WFH there are fewer and fewer opportunities for even porn related releases ... my 2 cents to your Q HA.

[bhudda]

I expect those in one camp may envy those in the other and vice versa. Ideally we could alternate between bot h camps on a weekly basis.

[RedKettle]

I think the answer depends on whether you have a decent sex life with your OH.  I went through lock down with no sex whatsoever and it was not great - although obviously many people had much worse issues to deal with!  At that point I would have quite liked the freedom of being single.

Very recently our sex life has restarted and at the moment I much prefer being locked in with her.

[A Decent Fist]

Obviously depends on your circumstance - i'm in the latter camp and (finally) have an opportunity to punt tomorrow with a decent cover and can't find any options that are appealing (any Canary Wharf recommendations appreciated - driving and don't want to venture into the tube so limited on options.) - i basically have tomorrow and one day next week before my ability to have cover disappears till the new year - as my OH also WFH there are fewer and fewer opportunities for even porn related releases ... my 2 cents to your Q HA.

Don't have any personal recommendations of girls currently working near the Wharf but if I was in your shoes I would be considering these options from my hotlist:

Gorgeous Georgia: 45 UKP positives with a few neutrals and negatives. Currently no phone number so you have to message her: External Link/Members Only

Adreena Winters: Five UKP positives but no phone number... and she wants £350 an hour: External Link/Members Only

Katy Sex Kitten: 17 UKP positives and a phone number currently showing. No pics on her profile right now but there are some on the review linked just below: External Link/Members Only

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=273892.0

Suzy the Kitten: been around for years and has a present UKP tally of 6 positive, 4 neutral and 5 negative. She used to have a brilliant reputation as Suzy Lapdancer but reportedly got jaded. Last two reviews were positive but they go back at bit. Phone number currently showing: External Link/Members Only

There are others on my list in places like Bow, Whitechapel and Mile End but I've stuck to those that say Canary Wharf or Tower Hamlets.

[cotton]

Yeh crucial factor is how you get on with your OH.
On a related subject whats with all these married guys in sexless relationships who feel they have to account for every moment they are out of the house - personally id just set a precedent from day one leaving the house whenever i want with no explantion necessary , its like some guys on the forum are married to concentratoon camp guards and live in constant fear of any little slip up , i can understand being careful and prudent about getting up to wrong doing but feeling you have to justify your every move to someone that cant be a good position to allow to happen 

[notcalledchris]

Very recently our sex life has restarted and at the moment I much prefer being locked in with her.

maybe she was previously getting it elsewhere and has turned her attention back to you now she no longer can?

[standardpostage]

Harder stuck at home with OH / partner 

Example of conversation;
 
what are you doing ?
where are you going ?
where have you been ?
what have you got ?
what are you reading ?
what are you watching (on television) ?
what are you listening to ( earphones on, connected to mobile phone) ?
what have you been doing ?
whats that in your hand ?
What are you writing ?
who was that on the telephone ?
what do you want for tea / evening meal ?
what are you doing in the garage ?

[bhudda]

Whats with all these unmarried guys thinking they know better than married ones how to be married? Reminds me of all the childless people telling us what to do to make raising our kids easier ... couldnt understand why sometimes its not easy.

[bhudda]

Harder stuck at home with OH / partner 

Example of conversation;
 
what are you doing ?
where are you going ?
where have you been ?
what have you got ?
what are you reading ?
what are you watching (on television) ?
what are you listening to ( earphones on, connected to mobile phone) ?
what have you been doing ?
whats that in your hand ?
What are you writing ?
who was that on the telephone ?
what do you want for tea / evening meal ?
what are you doing in the garage ?

I have no problem with the penultimate question.

[blend57]

I would say being married or living with someone would be easier. Even if there is no sex at least you have someone to talk to and socialise with.  I have friends and family but I live a fair distance from them and the most I could manage was email and phone calls. I was really looking forward to the pubs opening until I found that I could not drink at the bar and talk to the bar staff and other drinkers. Instead you have to sit at a table and mind your business. It really is not the same.

As for the sex side of things: It would depend on where you live. I would imagine living near a big city would make things easier.

[myothernameis]

... at the moment?

Is it harder to be a single punter, especially for those of us are in areas where there's a severe lockdown, who feels that he's in solitary confinement?

I'm a single punter, but the hardest thing for me right now, if punting its trying to find the money for a punt.  I'm active and working, on my days of go out cycling for 3-4 hours, most of my shifts are back shifts, and always find something to occupy my time with

But since last year not had a punt, would like one, so try to save up some funds, but just leaves finding the right escort, especially in these times of covid-19

[mace-window]

... at the moment?

Is it harder to be a single punter, especially for those of us are in areas where there's a severe lockdown, who feels that he's in solitary confinement? And who can't afford to be going out every day for a crafty little punt, if he wanted to risk it - I don't, as it happens - just to break the monotony?

Or is it harder to be stuck at home with an OH who you can't easily escape from to nip out for a crafty little punt, if you want to risk it?

I'm in the former group, obviously; but would be interested to read others' opinions.

Depends on the person really. I never been married so my opinion could be bias a little.

I think it's better to be a single punter than married punter at this time. Being single I am free do things I want without having a nagging wife complaining about something. I have also been saving lots of money due to me not seeing escorts during these strange times. That and if I had a wife, she probably tell her me something in the house needs to be done even though that thing is ok and don't need anything sorted out.

I do miss the sex but they are many things that need to be done thanks to the free time. And from reading from other members experience during this time, I don't think I will be blessed with a wife that would be up for regular sex in that parallel universe.


That said this pandemic has screwed some of my plans this year which I had to adapt. So sex with escorts (or women) are the least of my worries. If I was horny, I can always go and watch some porn to get my kicks off. But like I said before, it all depends on the person. Some people in my position would be in hell right now while others with wife will be happy thanks to regular sex (if you have that rare type of wife).

[Bum Lovin Criminal]

Like everyone says, it does depend on the persons involved to a degree.

But in these weird and not so wonderful times of C19 lockdowns,  the singletons among us have it way harder than the one's with someone else indoors,

(assuming the sex tap hasn't been turned off).

I'm a single bloke and in normal times there's nothing better, but when lockdown hits it can be like serving a sentence where everything is cut off to a point, the

emotional links, the physical links, the verbal/chitchat/banter,etc. 

So even if your missus happens to look like Nora Batty, at least you can close your eyes have a laugh, lots of wine (till she looks more like Nora Fatehi) and let your

imagination soar..

[standardpostage]

I have no problem with the penultimate question.

[Bonker]

I don't know.
I'm not in both situations simultaneously.

[king tarzan]

... at the moment?

Is it harder to be a single punter, especially for those of us are in areas where there's a severe lockdown, who feels that he's in solitary confinement? And who can't afford to be going out every day for a crafty little punt, if he wanted to risk it - I don't, as it happens - just to break the monotony?

Or is it harder to be stuck at home with an OH who you can't easily escape from to nip out for a crafty little punt, if you want to risk it?

I'm in the former group, obviously; but would be interested to read others' opinions.

look man your old, forget it at the moment... you catch it, it will be like a heavy medicine ball glued to on your chest!!!
don't even think about it, as temptation and false sense of security creeps in and clouds judgement..

[Home Alone]

Whats with all these unmarried guys thinking they know better than married ones how to be married?

Well I, for one, don't think that. That doesn't mean that some of us who don't presently have an OH haven't had one in our earlier lives, though.

For example, I've not been Home Alone all my life; my OH found someone who suited her better and pissed off with him. So I found punting to replace her!

[_Bender_]

I’m married and I don't care what anyone says, single punters have got it good, you should have no problems.

Shieett ... even if James Bond, Ethan Hawk or Jason Bourne were married they'd find it hard to punt, pandemic or no pandemic

[CanOfRedBull]

I’m very jealous of single punter lifestyle at the moment.

Lockdown has been a nightmare with my OH.  Her and the little ones at home all the time and last night she made me watch  ‘Super Nanny USA’    What the F*GK!!!!!!!! 

If you’re single you are living the DREAM

[WelshClipper]

I live in a real desert. So to go punting, even in non lock down times, required a hobby or other reason to justify a trip. So during lock down, the loss of reasons to travel was almost as bad as not being able to punt. Stuck at home with the OH required me to completely get out of my punting mindset and become a civvie again.

I picked up on old interests, plus the odd bit of porn and a wank, read a lot. Reminded me a lot of my life pre punter. It wasn't all bad, sort of like a comfortable old shoe.

I am not envious of single punters but I do suspect that they had a slightly easier time of it.

Now I sure am glad as hell that things have opened up again. Not sure if I will be able to say back to complete normal. We have to live with this for a while yet.

But it is fun again. 

[ulstersubbie]

I’m very jealous of single punter lifestyle at the moment.

Lockdown has been a nightmare with my OH.  Her and the little ones at home all the time and last night she made me watch  ‘Super Nanny USA’    What the F*GK!!!!!!!! 

If you’re single you are living the DREAM
[/q
Super Nanny you poor man, being single is a bonus after reading that.

[SimonSays2108]

Don't have any personal recommendations of girls currently working near the Wharf but if I was in your shoes I would be considering these options from my hotlist:

Gorgeous Georgia: 45 UKP positives with a few neutrals and negatives. Currently no phone number so you have to message her: External Link/Members Only

Adreena Winters: Five UKP positives but no phone number... and she wants £350 an hour: External Link/Members Only

Katy Sex Kitten: 17 UKP positives and a phone number currently showing. No pics on her profile right now but there are some on the review linked just below: External Link/Members Only

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=273892.0

Suzy the Kitten: been around for years and has a present UKP tally of 6 positive, 4 neutral and 5 negative. She used to have a brilliant reputation as Suzy Lapdancer but reportedly got jaded. Last two reviews were positive but they go back at bit. Phone number currently showing: External Link/Members Only

There are others on my list in places like Bow, Whitechapel and Mile End but I've stuck to those that say Canary Wharf or Tower Hamlets.

Thank you for the recommendations - Just back home and in the end i'll have a wank and go to the gym - I think lockdown has made me appreciate my spending on this hobby and the VFM on offer - before i would have had a punt just to have the punt (often going for women i didn't really fancy) and now i feel that i want to really see someone based on certain looks / services to make it worthwhile ... Back in the wharf next week so will keep an eye out again but feel that , currently, its slim pickings for value punts.

[luv2kiss54]

Yeh crucial factor is how you get on with your OH.
On a related subject whats with all these married guys in sexless relationships who feel they have to account for every moment they are out of the house - personally id just set a precedent from day one leaving the house whenever i want with no explantion necessary , its like some guys on the forum are married to concentratoon camp guards and live in constant fear of any little slip up , i can understand being careful and prudent about getting up to wrong doing but feeling you have to justify your every move to someone that cant be a good position to allow to happen 

I was thinking the same thoughts. Some of the married guys on here seriously need to grow a pair, living your life constantly looking over your shoulder (or the escort's shoulder for that matter !) cant be healthy and must be bloody miserable. If your OH has gone off or not interested in sex anymore, and you have tried everything to rekindle the intimate side but you still need sex to fulfill your life, then be honest with her. You only live once FFS. I actually love being single. Its certainly much better than living in a sexless relationship. If i did, i couldnt be sneaking around worried she might find out,f..k that. If you have a full and enjoyable sex life with your OH and you still punt thats a different ball game and shows disrespect in my view and my god you should feel guilty you greedy c..ts.

[bhudda]

Another "expert" on a subject he has absolutely no experience of ... the world seems to be full of them

[luv2kiss54]

Another "expert" on a subject he has absolutely no experience of ... the world seems to be full of them

Not an expert just expressing an opinion which i believe is allowed !

[winkywanky]

Not an expert just expressing an opinion which i believe is allowed !

There's having an opinion, and then there's calling guys who disagree with you greedy cunts.

[Home Alone]

You only live once FFS. I actually love being single. Its certainly much better than living in a sexless relationship.

You sound to be quite a lot younger than me, luv2. Time was when I could have agreed with at least this part of your post.

But the last few months have really got me down. I live in what is now - temporarily, I hope - one of the more severely locked down parts of the country and there seems to be little to my life at present than a Big Shop early on a Saturday morning and perhaps a couple of smaller shopping trips to top up stocks during the week.

Perhaps it's down to the way I was brought up by fairly strict parents in the post-War years but I'm one who's been made by the Court of PublIc Opinion to feel that it would be - almost - unpatriotic to go for a punt because by so doing, I could be spreading the virus. Which is why I now hardly go out and feel as miserable as I did in the dying days of my marriage. Which is why I  wrote the OP.

[notcalledchris]

There's having an opinion, and then there's calling guys who disagree with you greedy cunts.

I'm happy to accept that when it comes to cunts, I am a greedy cunt.

.....mm cunts, nice tight wet cunts on fit young women....

[Happylad]

I was thinking the same thoughts. Some of the married guys on here seriously need to grow a pair, living your life constantly looking over your shoulder (or the escort's shoulder for that matter !) cant be healthy and must be bloody miserable. If your OH has gone off or not interested in sex anymore, and you have tried everything to rekindle the intimate side but you still need sex to fulfill your life, then be honest with her.

And if she`s as uninterested in  the marriage as many husbands claim here, or as ready to go for the house and the cash, you would simply be handing her all she needed for a trip round to her solicitor to start divorce proceedings and take you to the cleaners.

[Mr Sinister]

And if she`s as uninterested in  the marriage as many husbands claim here, or as ready to go for the house and the cash, you would simply be handing her all she needed for a trip round to her solicitor to start divorce proceedings and take you to the cleaners.

Moral of the story don't ever get married.

[Private Parts]

Coming to a Government near you!
When they make their minds up, that is!
PP

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I take it that Theresa Tam prefers doggy!

[cotton]

There's having an opinion, and then there's calling guys who disagree with you greedy cunts.

Technically the "greedy cunts" comment wasnt directed at people who disagreed perse , it was directed  , as i understood it in a jocular way , at guys who "have a full and enjoyable sex life with your OH and you still punt" the implication being that they punt secretively given that the context of this is about guys who are fearful of arousing the slightest suspicion in their wife or OH. 
To casual observers like myself its a subject for jocular observation but i can see why it would piss off guys living on the sharp end of angry jealous spouses and having single happy go lucky guys passing comment on why the fuck they allow themselves to exist in such a situation.  Its quite understandable that a guy living in a sexless relationship wouidnt want to do anything to cause more rankour in his relationship irrespective of the lack of sex aspect but what is more puzzling is when guys suggest being unable to leave the house , like because they dont have a legitimate reason and they have to have a legitimate reason to be absent.  The obvious answer is to get used to lying and try to normalise a pattern of behaviour wherby you leave the house for various reasons whenever you want to.
You need to get good at lying and deception so the shit dosnt hit the fan and peoples feelings dont get hurt.
Either that or if the risk is too much simply dont do it, its just blaming being unable to get out the house that i find hard to fathom.
The situation must be as follows.  Husband and wife now in a sexless relationship but still very much together and living out of each others pockets and so familiar with each others every move that if hubby were to say he was going out for drinks with a bunch of mates the wife would immediately know it was BS and he was really going to see a hooker.  If thats the situation then i dont know what to suggest , i agree that would be a tricky one because its like whatever you say your wife immediately knows what your up to , its all lies and your really just plotting to see a hooker..

[WelshClipper]

A blatant lie to get out of the house is not, in my view, the best route. You need to be able to discuss the days events in a plausible manner. So my punts are screened behind legitimate activities. Maybe I go for a 3 hour game of golf stopping at the Halfway on the way home. All highly plausible except maybe taking a hour longer than it should. 

Its a tactic I have used for a long time and to date all good, obviously may not work for others.

[mace-window]

You sound to be quite a lot younger than me, luv2. Time was when I could have agreed with at least this part of your post.

But the last few months have really got me down. I live in what is now - temporarily, I hope - one of the more severely locked down parts of the country and there seems to be little to my life at present than a Big Shop early on a Saturday morning and perhaps a couple of smaller shopping trips to top up stocks during the week.

Perhaps it's down to the way I was brought up by fairly strict parents in the post-War years but I'm one who's been made by the Court of PublIc Opinion to feel that it would be - almost - unpatriotic to go for a punt because by so doing, I could be spreading the virus. Which is why I now hardly go out and feel as miserable as I did in the dying days of my marriage. Which is why I  wrote the OP.

I think luv2 is as young as me but likely not talked to older gents of their experience's with sexless marriages. If you ask me, he is very naive.

I was thinking the same thoughts. Some of the married guys on here seriously need to grow a pair, living your life constantly looking over your shoulder (or the escort's shoulder for that matter !) cant be healthy and must be bloody miserable. If your OH has gone off or not interested in sex anymore, and you have tried everything to rekindle the intimate side but you still need sex to fulfill your life, then be honest with her. You only live once FFS. I actually love being single. Its certainly much better than living in a sexless relationship. If i did, i couldnt be sneaking around worried she might find out,f..k that. If you have a full and enjoyable sex life with your OH and you still punt thats a different ball game and shows disrespect in my view and my god you should feel guilty you greedy c..ts.

If only it was that simple. I don't think you know luv2kiss that most divorces favor women 9/10 times. The woman will likely take half of your earnings and kids. In some parts of the world (California) the wife can get a life time of alimony. And while I disagree with cheating with escorts and I find it unmoral, I understand why married men see escorts. I just don't understand why OH are ok with this and then get the nerve to be angry at the husband/OH when they find out their husband is seeing someone else to get his sexual needs. Yet women will be happy to have that power and only have sex with the husband or OH to get him to do something or buy something she wants instead of having sex due to loving him. That and she is likely seeing someone a lot hotter than the husband (and not as rich as the husband) get her sexual needs meet and go back to the husband for security.

Moral of the story don't ever get married.

And I have to agree with Mr Sinister with this. Marriage is unfavorable to men in today's society.

[cotton]

A blatant lie to get out of the house is not, in my view, the best route. You need to be able to discuss the days events in a plausible manner. So my punts are screened behind legitimate activities. Maybe I go for a 3 hour game of golf stopping at the Halfway on the way home. All highly plausible except maybe taking a hour longer than it should. 

Its a tactic I have used for a long time and to date all good, obviously may not work for others.

Yeh a plausible deception is the obvious strategy.  Altho this would obviously be harder if youd been caught cheating previously so your wife was always on high alert and her default position was "whats this lying fucker up to now".
But otherwise with a clean slate id have thought it should be possible to come up with a convincing lie.

[Happylad]

A long deceased former colleague of mine developed the perfect alibi for his extra-marital activities;  he managed to get his hands on a Freemason`s Apron and a few other bits of regalia from the widow of a Freemason friend, and took them home and told his missus he`d been elected.  There was no way that his wife could find otherwise, and he simply put his regalia in a little bag once a week and told her he was "off to the Lodge Meeting".  Any enquiries he got were answered with "Sorry dear.  You know I`m not allowed to discussed anything to do with the Masons."

He knew that even if she were able to contact any real Masons they would not discuss it with her.

[Home Alone]

Now that, Happylad, is superb in its simplicity and, for his OH, its impenetrability! A simply brilliant idea, imo!

[Happylad]

But I`m beginning to wonder whether I should have mentioned it.........

 I can see the second hand value of Masons` Regalia suddenly increasing dramatically as the fictitious membership steadily rises

[badsin]

But I`m beginning to wonder whether I should have mentioned it.........

 I can see the second hand value of Masons` Regalia suddenly increasing dramatically as the fictitious membership steadily rises

Being a Lewis, I have my dad's aprons and other appendages. However I'm single so don't need the excuses.
For me, I'd like to punt but the ladies I've wanted still haven't returned.
I've therefore rejoined SA a week or so ago, and am harvesting numbers. I've also got back in contact with a previous SA conquest who's coming to mine Sunday evening.
Although I've worked through 95%+ of the lock down, being single I have got surprisingly lonely, more from the fact that I've been WFH without any human interaction for some considerable lengths of time.
Each to their own, I suppose you can be lonely in an unloving relationship

[RedKettle]

A long deceased former colleague of mine developed the perfect alibi for his extra-marital activities;  he managed to get his hands on a Freemason`s Apron and a few other bits of regalia from the widow of a Freemason friend, and took them home and told his missus he`d been elected.  There was no way that his wife could find otherwise, and he simply put his regalia in a little bag once a week and told her he was "off to the Lodge Meeting".  Any enquiries he got were answered with "Sorry dear.  You know I`m not allowed to discussed anything to do with the Masons."

He knew that even if she were able to contact any real Masons they would not discuss it with her.

 Brilliant, absolutely brilliant.  Would not work for me as I have made my views on the Masons extremely clear over the years! However can still admire the eloquence of that cover story.

[Bum Lovin Criminal]

A long deceased former colleague of mine developed the perfect alibi for his extra-marital activities;  he managed to get his hands on a Freemason`s Apron and a few other bits of regalia from the widow of a Freemason friend, and took them home and told his missus he`d been elected.  There was no way that his wife could find otherwise, and he simply put his regalia in a little bag once a week and told her he was "off to the Lodge Meeting".  Any enquiries he got were answered with "Sorry dear.  You know I`m not allowed to discussed anything to do with the Masons."

He knew that even if she were able to contact any real Masons they would not discuss it with her.

Brilliant, simply brilliant, got to be the best advice on here so far..  Simple, foolproof and unravelable,  just hope the 'Mumsnet' spies don't cotton on to it.

For all you married blokes finding alibis harder and harder to concoct....this is a good one.

[luv2kiss54]

There's having an opinion, and then there's calling guys who disagree with you greedy cunts.

Just for the record i was not calling people who disagreed with me greedy c...s,... you need to read my post again.

[luv2kiss54]

You sound to be quite a lot younger than me, luv2. Time was when I could have agreed with at least this part of your post.

But the last few months have really got me down. I live in what is now - temporarily, I hope - one of the more severely locked down parts of the country and there seems to be little to my life at present than a Big Shop early on a Saturday morning and perhaps a couple of smaller shopping trips to top up stocks during the week.

Perhaps it's down to the way I was brought up by fairly strict parents in the post-War years but I'm one who's been made by the Court of PublIc Opinion to feel that it would be - almost - unpatriotic to go for a punt because by so doing, I could be spreading the virus. Which is why I now hardly go out and feel as miserable as I did in the dying days of my marriage. Which is why I  wrote the OP.

Thanks for your comments and for raising this interesting topic Home Alone, you sound a man of principles and like you im not punting at the moment. I really hope your local situation improves soon as i remember how awful it was in the early days of the national lockdown.

[luv2kiss54]

I think luv2 is as young as me but likely not talked to older gents of their experience's with sexless marriages. If you ask me, he is very naive.

If only it was that simple. I don't think you know luv2kiss that most divorces favor women 9/10 times. The woman will likely take half of your earnings and kids. In some parts of the world (California) the wife can get a life time of alimony. And while I disagree with cheating with escorts and I find it unmoral, I understand why married men see escorts. I just don't understand why OH are ok with this and then get the nerve to be angry at the husband/OH when they find out their husband is seeing someone else to get his sexual needs. Yet women will be happy to have that power and only have sex with the husband or OH to get him to do something or buy something she wants instead of having sex due to loving him. That and she is likely seeing someone a lot hotter than the husband (and not as rich as the husband) get her sexual needs meet and go back to the husband for security.

And I have to agree with Mr Sinister with this. Marriage is unfavorable to men in today's society.

Fair enough i take the naive comment on the chin you may have a point. I was just expressing my views as a single person and thats whats good about this forum we all have different view points. Just glad i dont have the complications the married men on here clearly have.

[Home Alone]

But I`m beginning to wonder whether I should have mentioned it.........

 I can see the second hand value of Masons` Regalia suddenly increasing dramatically as the fictitious membership steadily rises

No; I'm sure your secret's safe with us, Happylad!

[Home Alone]

Thanks for your comments and for raising this interesting topic Home Alone, you sound a man of principles and like you im not punting at the moment. I really hope your local situation improves soon as i remember how awful it was in the early days of the national lockdown.

Thanks for your kind words, luv2.

Me; I'm beginning to 'weaken'; I've missed the physical contact with another human being so I spent a fair bit of time this afternoon trawling through the names of some of the Northwest's MILFs and GILFs ahead of making contact next week with one lass from the short list I drew up. Not sure which one it'll be yet; but I'll post a Review in due course.

[winkywanky]

Just for the record i was not calling people who disagreed with me greedy c...s,... you need to read my post again.

What's this then, Scotch Mist?...

If you have a full and enjoyable sex life with your OH and you still punt thats a different ball game and shows disrespect in my view and my god you should feel guilty you greedy c..ts.

[Mansell]

Thanks for your kind words, luv2.

Me; I'm beginning to 'weaken'; I've missed the physical contact with another human being so I spent a fair bit of time this afternoon trawling through the names of some of the Northwest's MILFs and GILFs ahead of making contact next week with one lass from the short list I drew up. Not sure which one it'll be yet; but I'll post a Review in due course.

In answer to your original question whilst in camp 2 and at home with OH (zero sex) the companionship has been good and I'd say we have become closer. Mind still plotting my first punt and I do have reasons not to be around,  so easy to "escape" 

[A Decent Fist]

If you have a full and enjoyable sex life with your OH and you still punt thats a different ball game and shows disrespect in my view and my god you should feel guilty you greedy c..ts.

I'm in that position and funnily enough, I agree with you. My conduct would only be defensible if I told the other half about it and she said go ahead.

That's never going to happen in this universe. But my urge to punt and in particular my urge to have all kinds of unusual sex with different kinds of people is far stronger than my feelings of guilt.