Is the thrill of cheating one of the main reasons to punt

[MancSean]

I know there have been other threads on reasons why people punt. However, I have just read the perfume or no perfume thread and it made me think how many punters actually punt because of the thrill of cheating on their partner.
I have been single now for 18 months and have not had a punt since last July and at the moment have no inclination to change that, although have had a few civvy shags in the last couple of months.

However, when I was in my last relationship and in fact previous ones prior to that I would punt quite frequently. I think my last ex was bi polar and had a terrible temper. About 5 years ago I caught her cheating on me. I was foolish though and didn't kick her out, instead I found my solace in AW and started getting my revenge by cheating on her with WG's. I didn't want to get involved with another woman and found that shagging WG's enabled me to get revenge on my ex and satisfy my sexual desires at the same time. Me and my ex would have terrible arguments normally started by her and then after I would go and punt to make myself 'feel' better.  I even got into the habit of saying things that would trigger an argument so she would go ballistic and I could storm out and arrange to see a WG.
I think she got suspicious sometimes but this made the whole thing more appealing to me. However I never wanted to get caught red handed so tried to be careful. I always took my own shower gel that I hid in the boot of my car to a punt.
Funny thing was in the end we split up because she was sure I was having an affair with my best mate who is female which wasn't true.
Since we split tho as I mentioned earlier I have rarely punted. In fact in the 18 months since she left I have only punted on 4 occasions.
Maybe I am less horny now I am single but I think the thrill of not cheating and sneaking around has led to the decline on my need to punt. What about the rest of you? Do any of you have similar tendencies? 

[smiths]

I know there have been other threads on reasons why people punt. However, I have just read the perfume or no perfume thread and it made me think how many punters actually punt because of the thrill of cheating on their partner.
I have been single now for 18 months and have not had a punt since last July and at the moment have no inclination to change that, although have had a few civvy shags in the last couple of months.

However, when I was in my last relationship and in fact previous ones prior to that I would punt quite frequently. I think my last ex was bi polar and had a terrible temper. About 5 years ago I caught her cheating on me. I was foolish though and didn't kick her out, instead I found my solace in AW and started getting my revenge by cheating on her with WG's. I didn't want to get involved with another woman and found that shagging WG's enabled me to get revenge on my ex and satisfy my sexual desires at the same time. Me and my ex would have terrible arguments normally started by her and then after I would go and punt to make myself 'feel' better.  I even got into the habit of saying things that would trigger an argument so she would go ballistic and I could storm out and arrange to see a WG.
I think she got suspicious sometimes but this made the whole thing more appealing to me. However I never wanted to get caught red handed so tried to be careful. I always took my own shower gel that I hid in the boot of my car to a punt.
Funny thing was in the end we split up because she was sure I was having an affair with my best mate who is female which wasn't true.
Since we split tho as I mentioned earlier I have rarely punted. In fact in the 18 months since she left I have only punted on 4 occasions.
Maybe I am less horny now I am single but I think the thrill of not cheating and sneaking around has led to the decline on my need to punt. What about the rest of you? Do any of you have similar tendencies?

No i dont get a thrill by cheating and punting but nor do i feel guilty. I punt because its the easiest way to get the sex i require and desire from a variety of women. All i need is the money to pay for it, no emotions involved in theory and thus no strings.

[MancSean]

No i dont get a thrill by cheating and punting but nor do i feel guilty. I punt because its the easiest way to get the sex i require and desire from a variety of women. All i need is the money to pay for it, no emotions involved in theory and thus no strings.

Thanks for the reply pal. Do you think you would feel guilty if you were having an affair or are you able to rise above guilt in general?

[smiths]

Thanks for the reply pal. Do you think you would feel guilty if you were having an affair or are you able to rise above guilt in general?

When i had an affair it was the closest i have ever come to bringing my world crashing down around me, the woman was a bunny boiler as i discovered, emotions make some people go mad. Never again, although i am happy to shag civvies if i get the opportunity. Punting in comparison to an affair is very low risk of being caught out for me.

I have been cheating and lying all my adult life, over 30 years and found feeling gulity spoilt my fun so i very long ago threw that thinking away. I punt for sex but sex isnt all i desire, i also want to love and be loved so i want my cake and to eat it.

[MancSean]

I understand that 100% pal. I think I just got to the point in my life where I prefer lasses as mates and prefer to be single. I like to date guess it's the thrill of the chase but get bored once I have captured my prey. Hopefully this will change but I have become very fussy and most civvies don't like the things you can do with a WG like facials etc

[SirFrank]

As above really. I do it because I love sex but don't want the complications of an affair. I've done that and it nearly always end in tears. If my wife got in the grove as often as she did when we first met I'm not even sure I'd punt

[Taggart]

I think a lot of us punt because we dont get the sex we crave at home, and nothing like the freqency.  In my case that's the main reason.  Plus I can pay to have a young, pretty fuckbunny for usually the same price as a 40-something with stretchmarks and everything else heading  south. Cruel maybe, buy I am a paying customer.

Quite often sex only happens when the OH wants it to happen, which for Mrs T is very rare. In her young days, she'd swallow, but I am not allowed to even CIM now, which with the right WG is satisfying. If fact getting a BJ from Mrs T is as frequent as a lunar eclipse in this country. Neither does Mrs T like to wear nice lingerie before a session, whereas WGs tend to, as I like to unwrap the package as part of the foreplay.

Give us what we want and there's no need to stray.



 

[SirFrank]

I think a lot of us punt because we dont get the sex we crave at home, and nothing like the freqency.  In my case that's the main reason.  Plus I can pay to have a young, pretty fuckbunny for usually the same price as a 40-something with stretchmarks and everything else heading  south. Cruel maybe, buy I am a paying customer.

Quite often sex only happens when the OH wants it to happen, which for Mrs T is very rare. In her young days, she'd swallow, but I am not allowed to even CIM now, which with the right WG is satisfying. If fact getting a BJ from Mrs T is as frequent as a lunar eclipse in this country. Neither does Mrs T like to wear nice lingerie before a session, whereas WGs tend to, as I like to unwrap the package as part of the foreplay.

Give us what we want and there's no need to stray.

My mates wife won't let him CIM as it's the mouth she now kisses the kids with! Seriously wtf. He's fucking everyone left right and centre and he punts

[starman]

Over the years, my wife has become less-interested in sex, so the drop in frequency to below what I consider a minimum threshold is what aroused my curiosity for visiting escorts.  I have never considered a regular affair because I think there is a risk of it interfering with an otherwise good and happy marriage. There are also some things my wife won't do, and which I had never experienced, so visiting escorts has allowed me to try these things...... If I didn't, I might end up in later life regretting not experimenting.  For instance, before last year I had never bonked a non-British woman, nor had I ever tried A-levels, but these are now ticked off my list.  I don't get a thrill from "cheating" as such, though I do get a buzz from each new experience.

[CoolTiger]

My mates wife won't let him CIM as it's the mouth she now kisses the kids with! Seriously wtf. He's fucking everyone left right and centre and he punts

Reminds me of the scene in "Analyse This" 

[Shy-boy]

I have never, literally never had a punt when I've been single. Quite why that is I don't know, and until reading this discussion id never even thought about it.

[Toshiba]

I get no thrill at all about cheating, i do it because i suddenly found that this was an easy way to fuck fit young women whod suck my cock like a pornstar and lick my cum etc

Thats all really, however as ive said before i worry to death about std's hence ive not punted since august, im getting a strong urge to again though, im never complacent but its easy to get away with, done the affairs in my last marraige

[valdishere]

Quote from smiths post;
I have been cheating and lying all my adult life, over 30 years and found feeling gulity spoilt my fun so i very long ago threw that thinking away. I punt for sex but sex isnt all i desire, i also want to love and be loved so i want my cake and to eat it.

My thoughts too.

[CBPaul]

I don't get any sort of thrill out of cheating and don't feel guilty either.

I had no need to punt in the early days of marriage but in the end the only reason Mrs CBP parted her legs was to permit the conception of offspring number 3. That's all it was too... get home from work, tell offspring 1 & 2 a bedtime story, have a quickie because she's got some sixth sense that fertility has increased, pray that the little buggers are strong swimmers and one has hit the jackpot this time, have dinner and watch the telly. Underwhelming to say the least.
Since then her legs have been closed tighter than a ducks arse most of the time.

Hence I punt. 
That and the fact that punting allows me to continue humping a varied selection of girls in their 20's with firm, tight bodies, a willingness to drink my cum and the energy levels to bounce on my nob for a decent amount of time. 

[MancSean]

Seems like a familiar theme running through this thread - a lot of blokes out there not getting what they once did from their other halves. This is a sad fact as for me my ex was insatiable but once the mental connection had gone I didn't want her anymore. Her aggression and violence out weighed her sex drive hence my satisfaction on cheating on her with women that weren't as good looking or adventurous as her in the sack   

[circusbizarre]

not the thrill of cheating for me, its the addiction to punting and asian women

[myothernameis]

I have been single now for 18 months and have not had a punt since last July and at the moment have no inclination to change that,

Maybe I am less horny now I am single but I think the thrill of not cheating and sneaking around has led to the decline on my need to punt. What about the rest of you? Do any of you have similar tendencies?

Kind of the same with me, always have been single, and up till my early 40 was mad for sex, but now, the feeling not there, might punt 1-2 times per year, think as Im getting older, my sex drive is slowing down

[the pussy man]

for me the thrill of it all is one of the big reasons...  sneaking out, meeting some young woman for sex, and then coming back home...  hard to beat

same reason people have affairs i guess