No James I don't think so. When we were together I asked her like I do to all the girls that I see, what is allowed and what is not. Some girls don't mind their arse hole played with or fingers in snatch some do. I like to establish ground rules before I begin.
She said "Kissing OK, fingering OK, arse play OK, OWO OK and then said no condom no sex".
That's a verbatim quote of what she said. I replied I wanted OW and sex. I never bareback so it was of little interest to me.