I spend the first five minutes of an hour punt chatting over a quick coffee
Then plenty of kissing and fondling on the sofa
Then to bed, probably about 15-20 minutes in
More kissing till naked, let her show me her OWO technique then I like to spend 15-30 minutes exploring and getting her all revved up and ready to go with oral, fingering, rimming etc before lying on my back for some more OWO then pulling her up to ride me in cowgirl to a finish. Always five minutes chatting and kissing, sometimes going over time if she's Game for some more oral.
I always offer the WG a shower and another coffee before she heads
I would do a 30 minute punt usually as an incall. If it's outcall I'd skip the coffee, straight to the kissing and bed section! Curtail the oral on her to around ten minutes. Then lie back and enjoy the fun. 30 minute incall, I just want to offload so am happy to just have a good five minutes kissing, taste her pussy and then let her fuck me after a bit of oral.
I do prefer the one hour outcall to my place though. And I've got a couple of regulars who now come for two hours for the price of one, deliberately, so we can do the coffee, chat, teasing nice and slow. And they both LOVE receiving oral and get extremely aroused by it. No point in rushing that aspect of things! We usually have a snog and a chat about next time, then shower and coffee.
Long story short, OP, build some reverse oral into your meets!
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