Ever Been Stuck Seeing One WG?

[Bassman]

So I’ve been seeing a WG regular like twice a month sometimes more for the last year.

I’ve had other pints but since the end of last year until now it’s been just her. Her price point is great, does everything but doesn’t snog at all. And location wise it’s quite convenient. Don’t have to deal with public transport.

Feel like immmissing out. I contact others I see in the areas I’m willing to travel too but everything’s extra and pics seem suspect.

So I just carry on with the same one.

Anyone been stuck like this? Is the punting game just drying up? Am I getting lazy?

[mr.bluesky]

Some like a lot of variety,  others stick to one or two regulars, what ever makes you happy .

[JontyR]

Others may have more direct advice regarding an unwanted regular but one thing I'd advise anyone who enjoys a reg...

Always be auditioning for your next reg, as your main one may leave at any point.

[madmania]

So I’ve been seeing a WG regular like twice a month sometimes more for the last year.

I’ve had other pints but since the end of last year until now it’s been just her. Her price point is great, does everything but doesn’t snog at all. And location wise it’s quite convenient. Don’t have to deal with public transport.

Feel like immmissing out. I contact others I see in the areas I’m willing to travel too but everything’s extra and pics seem suspect.

So I just carry on with the same one.

Anyone been stuck like this? Is the punting game just drying up? Am I getting lazy?

Ever considered Seeking?

If you’re the sort to commit to one girl for a while, I’ve tend to find the rapport you build with a good seeking girl from regular meetings beats anything you can have with an escort. Also tends to be cheaper in the long run and open to more stuff than escorts are.

[Stevelondon]

There’s no hard and fast rules regarding this hobby.
I don’t understand why there’s any difficulties at all in fact. Why the need to ask advise about a problem when there isn’t one.

If you want to a see one SP regularly so be it. If not. Look elsewhere.

Go with the flow bruv 😂

[Bassman]

Ever considered Seeking?

If you’re the sort to commit to one girl for a while, I’ve tend to find the rapport you build with a good seeking girl from regular meetings beats anything you can have with an escort. Also tends to be cheaper in the long run and open to more stuff than escorts are.

I always thought that was for the super rich. I’m ok but not about funding a woman’s life. Making assumptions but I always got that kinda vibe when reading about it.

[Southernbloke]

It sounds to me that you need to get out of your area and try another SP completely different to your regular. The thing to remember is that your regular could decide to stop working and seeing you tomorrow without a thought of you.
I guess what I’m saying is there may come a time when she has left the industry and you would be grateful for the opportunity to have a regular again.
It can be difficult at times to have a good time

[Bassman]

There’s no hard and fast rules regarding this hobby.
I don’t understand why there’s any difficulties at all in fact. Why the need to ask advise about a problem when there isn’t one.

If you want to a see one SP regularly so be it. If not. Look elsewhere.

Go with the flow bruv 😂

It’s like being stuck in a rut. The one I see is great. But could be better but the convenience is great lol. So rather than risk wasting time and money on any number of others I just hang with her lol

[Bassman]

It sounds to me that you need to get out of your area and try another SP completely different to your regular. The thing to remember is that your regular could decide to stop working and seeing you tomorrow without a thought of you.
I guess what I’m saying is there may come a time when she has left the industry and you would be grateful for the opportunity to have a regular again.
It can be difficult at times to have a good time

I hear you. I’m under no illusions. Whilst she’s about it’s super convenient.

[madmania]

I always thought that was for the super rich. I’m ok but not about funding a woman’s life. Making assumptions but I always got that kinda vibe when reading about it.

Sure there are some guy's sending stupid money, and some girls with fairy tale expectations - but there are some proper down to earth gems in there. The issue is finding them - you can't treat seeking like adult work if you want the best results.

In terms of cost though I'm in Bristol which is about middle for the country and 150-250 per meet for multiple hours (2-4+) is common, and overnights perhaps a little more.

Should say that it can be very good value for money if you enjoy longer meets, but you shouldn't really use it as a h/h pump and dump service. But considering 150 for an hour with an escort is common these days, for my money Seeking is well worth it. But of course ymmv and you have to be able to treat girls like people rather than hookers which some guys struggle with 

[versace]

2-3 bookings max with the same girl it doesn’t matter how hot or how good the service is etc. It just gets boring otherwise, well for me anyways.

Nothing beats the buzz of the unknown and that’s why I punt - for the buzz.

[Bassman]

Sure there are some guy's sending stupid money, and some girls with fairy tale expectations - but there are some proper down to earth gems in there. The issue is finding them - you can't treat seeking like adult work if you want the best results.

In terms of cost though I'm in Bristol which is about middle for the country and 150-250 per meet for multiple hours (2-4+) is common, and overnights perhaps a little more.

Should say that it can be very good value for money if you enjoy longer meets, but you shouldn't really use it as a h/h pump and dump service. But considering 150 for an hour with an escort is common these days, for my money Seeking is well worth it. But of course ymmv and you have to be able to treat girls like people rather than hookers which some guys struggle with 

I try and treat them all the same, I’m no arsehole lol. I can only imagine how some people treat WG’s.

Maybe I’ll look it up. £150 is about average now as you say. Being in London I’m not sure there’ll be many at that price tho.

[Bassman]

2-3 bookings max with the same girl it doesn’t matter how hot or how good the service is etc. It just gets boring otherwise, well for me anyways.

Nothing beats the buzz of the unknown and that’s why I punt - for the buzz.

I mix it up with roleplays and outfit requests. Keeps it fresh but I know exactly what you mean.

[Munter84]

Punting FOMO! It goes both ways, there are girls I wish I punted more before they retired, when instead I was running around far and wide seeking novelty.

At the end of the day, if it works for you and you enjoy it, why change things up? Although I do agree with the others saying have a fallback in mind in case one day your SP disappears.

[willie loman]

suppose it depends on how much money and energy you have, i have always had a regular on the go, but i dabble with others, personally i regret being too  loyal to regulars, as some girls are only on the scene for a short period, and you have enjoy them before they vanish.

[Punterperson1971]

I see my regular as often as I can I’ve known her for years and everything is so relaxed we get on well and she helps me explore a kinkier side of me
ie: anal(her idea)
filming (her idea)
threesome(her idea)
seeing a mate of hers(her idea)
strap on my idea
Fucking her in front of her hubby(turned up unexpected)
Fucking her in front of a slave or slaves and being filmed at same time.
great fun can be had with the right regular and if she’s up for most things it makes it more exciting
Everything I’ve listed barring threesome and shagging her mate(same woman in threesome but met as a single meet) were all free no extra charge at all.
But I do like to see others occasionally.
And some of my other regulars I’ve filmed with £50 extra
And another fucked her over her bannister at top of her stairs and then cum on her tits.

[Fuzzyduck]

It’s like being stuck in a rut. The one I see is great. But could be better but the convenience is great lol. So rather than risk wasting time and money on any number of others I just hang with her lol

Mate! A lot of guys see SPs because they are stuck in a rut, in a relationship to which they are tied in some way (emotionally, financially etc...) You're just bored.
Take a break from punting, see some others or save up a couple of months off punting and splurge on some hottie outside of your normal budget. Remember you're in charge of your destiny here (unless you get EAS of course). Personally I would take a break, save some cash and re-assess in a few months.

[Punterperson1971]

Mate! A lot of guys see SPs because they are stuck in a rut, in a relationship to which they are tied in some way (emotionally, financially etc...) You're just bored.
Take a break from punting, see some others or save up a couple of months of punting and splurge on some hottie outside of your normal budget. Remember you're in charge of your destiny here (unless you get EAS of course). Personally I would take a break, save some cash and re-assess in a few months.

Good advice
Experiment and explore sides you didn’t know was in you ask her if she’s up for other stuff

[cunningman]

I always thought that was for the super rich. I’m ok but not about funding a woman’s life. Making assumptions but I always got that kinda vibe when reading about it.

Avoid the greedy ones and make it clear that you don't expect to be their only provider?

Some are very entitled but I suspect they do badly on the whole.  Maybe some get very lucky, for a little while.

[PawgJit]

Ever considered Seeking?

If you’re the sort to commit to one girl for a while, I’ve tend to find the rapport you build with a good seeking girl from regular meetings beats anything you can have with an escort. Also tends to be cheaper in the long run and open to more stuff than escorts are.

Please if you be so kind, can you give me your run down on seeking as I don’t get the aspect of it at all..

[Atrueyorkie]

If it’s not broke don’t fix it.

You’re happy then it’s all good.

There will always be a hotter girl. A fatter Arse.

Right now your regular is good enough for you, embrace it.

Your current sp ticks all the boxes so don’t worry.

Now if the regular goes to new horizons etc then go for that new search and see then if you missed out.

[madmania]

Please if you be so kind, can you give me your run down on seeking as I don’t get the aspect of it at all..

I could write a whole essay on this, but in a very short and possibly over simplified summary is that Seeking is more akin to paid dating than punting. You and the girl will both have profiles like a dating site, and there’s no such thing as a likes list or their rates. You message each other and go from there - it’s NOT a case of a hooker supermarket where you pick the girl you fancy and book her for an hour.

Whilst there are a range of girls on the platform, the best ones are those who are not pro sex workers but real girls with lives and jobs who are after a little something extra in life. Whether it’s to experience a bit of luxury they couldn’t otherwise afford,, to connect with a successful guy they’d never otherwise meet or just to have a little extra spending money to ease their problems. Because they aren’t pros, they tend to see far fewer men than an escort, you get to know each other much better and if all is well form a bit of a connection.

Personally I like knowing a little more about the girl I’m sleeping with, and I find the better the connection invariably the better the sex. Also sex tends to be more adventurous - subjectively I think a girl who’s willing to have a sugar arrangement is going to be more sexually assertive and open to stuff than a pure civvie. And there’s really no such thing as extras, they’ll have things they like and don’t like but by and large pretty much everything tends to be on the table.

I don’t want to make it sound like it’s all sunshine and rainbows - there’s an absolute fuck load of scammers, time wasters, delusional idiots and hidden escorts using the site. It’s a massive time investment to set up your profile, message the girls, organise meets etc. But for me it’s well worth it - if you can be bothered to wade through the shit there are definitely gems to be found. Best of luck 

[Bassman]

If it’s not broke don’t fix it.

You’re happy then it’s all good.

There will always be a hotter girl. A fatter Arse.

Right now your regular is good enough for you, embrace it.

Your current sp ticks all the boxes so don’t worry.

Now if the regular goes to new horizons etc then go for that new search and see then if you missed out.

It isn’t broken for sure lol. I enjoy myself thoroughly. But a couple of things I wouldn’t mind having like a snog. It’s something I’m wanting more and more but I guess I feel that since I’m having a good time at a decent price point, why bother with anyone else or a risk of having a shit punt with another. I could pay more and see a couple of others who I know I’d get what I want but they’d cost more for less time and I’d have to travel a fair amount longer. I guess I am being lazy 

[Slow grinder]

Others may have more direct advice regarding an unwanted regular but one thing I'd advise anyone who enjoys a reg...

Always be auditioning for your next reg, as your main one may leave at any point.

Absolutely!!

[PawgJit]

I could write a whole essay on this, but in a very short and possibly over simplified summary is that Seeking is more akin to paid dating than punting. You and the girl will both have profiles like a dating site, and there’s no such thing as a likes list or their rates. You message each other and go from there - it’s NOT a case of a hooker supermarket where you pick the girl you fancy and book her for an hour.

Whilst there are a range of girls on the platform, the best ones are those who are not pro sex workers but real girls with lives and jobs who are after a little something extra in life. Whether it’s to experience a bit of luxury they couldn’t otherwise afford,, to connect with a successful guy they’d never otherwise meet or just to have a little extra spending money to ease their problems. Because they aren’t pros, they tend to see far fewer men than an escort, you get to know each other much better and if all is well form a bit of a connection.

Personally I like knowing a little more about the girl I’m sleeping with, and I find the better the connection invariably the better the sex. Also sex tends to be more adventurous - subjectively I think a girl who’s willing to have a sugar arrangement is going to be more sexually assertive and open to stuff than a pure civvie. And there’s really no such thing as extras, they’ll have things they like and don’t like but by and large pretty much everything tends to be on the table.

I don’t want to make it sound like it’s all sunshine and rainbows - there’s an absolute fuck load of scammers, time wasters, delusional idiots and hidden escorts using the site. It’s a massive time investment to set up your profile, message the girls, organise meets etc. But for me it’s well worth it - if you can be bothered to wade through the shit there are definitely gems to be found. Best of luck 

Thank you kind sir, really appreciate your intake and has made it so much clearer

[Southernbloke]

Thank you madmania for the summary of seeking. I have wondered about it and been put off by thinking it would be like your description and now there’s a confirmation of my doubts

[Stevelondon]

Thank you for that madmania. You’ve certainly summarised why I personally just wouldn’t be arsed to wade through the shit as you put it. 😂

But each to their own and I get it if others do.

As long as we can all get it that paying for sex (one way or another) is fun. Then alls good 👍🏻

[Atrueyorkie]

Absolutely!!

+1 this is prevalent even on the seeking scene

[Al R]

Variety has never bothered me so when I’ve found good regs I tended to stick with them. It is good to have a backup but currently I’m just seeing the one girl off SA who I’ve known for over 2 years. Seeking can be a pain but if you find someone decent it can work out a lot less money than seeing wg’s looking at some current hourly rates

[PawgJit]

So from the replies it seems that seeking is really worth it if it works out.. but whoever has an arrangement from seeking, don’t you guys get bored? And when/if that happens what happens thereafter how does the arrangement get annulled?

[deg_dilemma]

I'm always a 'regular' kinda guy. I'm gutted my favourite SP went back home to Hungary a couple of years ago, and I haven't found a replacement regular.

I'd love to try Seeking and I'm sure I would enjoy the girls so much more than seeing escorts.... BUT it seems so much harder and riskier for those of us who are married.

I actually have the time and can spare a bit of £ for Seeking meets.  I get hesitant to try it because I wouldn't want a girl to cause problems in my personal life, if things go downhill and I'm held to ransom 

Maybe I'm over-thinking it.

At least with a SP it's transactional, wham bam and go home.

[Al R]

So from the replies it seems that seeking is really worth it if it works out.. but whoever has an arrangement from seeking, don’t you guys get bored? And when/if that happens what happens thereafter how does the arrangement get annulled?

The girls I saw were happy with ppm so with the ones i stopped seeing I just didn’t make contact. A couple of them carried on messaging for a short time but stopped when I didn’t arrange a meet. I see the current reg approx twice a month and usually just give her the 2 meets worth in one go sometimes before, sometimes after our meets. It’s pretty chilled in that way as there’s a bit of trust developed over time.

We both know one or the other of us will stop at some point, it’s inevitable

[ik8133]

I always thought that was for the super rich. I’m ok but not about funding a woman’s life. Making assumptions but I always got that kinda vibe when reading about it.

I wouldn't say that you are funding a woman's life, there are girls on Seeking for different reasons, just as there are guys on there for different reasons.  I'm not sure what you are paying your WG per month for a couple of visits, but you might manage to secure a girl for about the same.  Girls aren't always exclusive to one guy, they might have a few Daddies, as they may do this round a normal job, so more of a hobby than a profession.  They also tend to be more into the sex more as they want to get something from it themselves and are not seeing multiple guys on one day.  Give Seeking a go, if it turns out that it's not for you, you can always go back to seeing your WG.     

[Hobbit]

I'm always a 'regular' kinda guy. I'm gutted my favourite SP went back home to Hungary a couple of years ago, and I haven't found a replacement regular.

I'd love to try Seeking and I'm sure I would enjoy the girls so much more than seeing escorts.... BUT it seems so much harder and riskier for those of us who are married.

I actually have the time and can spare a bit of £ for Seeking meets.  I get hesitant to try it because I wouldn't want a girl to cause problems in my personal life, if things go downhill and I'm held to ransom 

Maybe I'm over-thinking it.

At least with a SP it's transactional, wham bam and go home.

Seeking can be more expensive than seeing a SP. There is also more of a risk of attachment bonding on both ends and if you're married then you are playing with fire.

[RandomGuy99]

You should never feel stuck. It sounds like your one is doing a decent job and keeps you coming back. Sometimes I can't be bothered with the hassle of finding a new one, so I prefer to go with ones I've seen before who I know do what I like and do it well.  I still see the odd new one, but they are usually tourers.

[andyw1969]

The way I see it, there’s nothing wrong having a regular ( whatever the term regular means as it could mean different to some , every fortnight, every month, every 2 months and so on) as long as you follow some basic “rules”

If she gives you a good service and you get on and enjoy seeing her. ( after all no mater how much research you could do on here most of us have had a bad experience with a escort at some point. )

The moment you have any emotional feels get the fuck out straight away.

If the service she provides drops then get rid.

Be always prepared that she could quit at any time.

We are all different and some prefer seeing the same women, some different each time and some a combination of both.

[Bassman]

You should never feel stuck. It sounds like your one is doing a decent job and keeps you coming back. Sometimes I can't be bothered with the hassle of finding a new one, so I prefer to go with ones I've seen before who I know do what I like and do it well.  I still see the odd new one, but they are usually tourers.

She’s doing a decent job, that’s for sure. And she’s hot as hell IMO. But like I said, a couple of things like proper kissing I’m missing. But the rest is so good I’m making myself think fuck it it’s good enough lol.

[Bassman]

The way I see it, there’s nothing wrong having a regular ( whatever the term regular means as it could mean different to some , every fortnight, every month, every 2 months and so on) as long as you follow some basic “rules”

If she gives you a good service and you get on and enjoy seeing her. ( after all no mater how much research you could do on here most of us have had a bad experience with a escort at some point. )

The moment you have any emotional feels get the fuck out straight away.

If the service she provides drops then get rid.

Be always prepared that she could quit at any time.

We are all different and some prefer seeing the same women, some different each time and some a combination of both.

Well up until recently everything was ok. But recently when seeing others reviews I started comparing them to my own experiences (there’s been many) with her. And if someone gets a different performance I started wondering why…. Which I’m not sure why or what that means,  but it can’t be good. Everyone has their type but the best WG’s give everyone their all no matter what.

So I think it maybe time for a break.

[alabama1]

Who is she ?

[PawgJit]

Who is she ?

    Subtle

[PawgJit]

I used to see a regular of mine too but it’s like these girls they think you have all the time in the world. They wanna see you every week and it’s like it doesn’t occur to them that they’re not a priority whatsoever and cause my availability is to their liking it fizzles out. Once a month should suffice but in my experience once a month is never enough ffs. This hobby is funny, I’d love to know how to give it up tbh

[JonasG]

No WG is that good you stick to one.

Always good to have like 5-10 regular WGs on rotation. Who have different things they're good at.

[alabama1]

No WG is that good you stick to one.

Always good to have like 5-10 regular WGs on rotation. Who have different things they're good at.

If i had 10 regs, it would take me 8 months to see them in turn. Not very regular for me. 

[SonofAJohn]

I have seen the same WG twice in 48 hours but continuously seeing the same one... Never.
@Bassman, I thought you was a active gym-goer, you sounding kind of lazy sticking to one prozzi when there is a fountain.

You making yourself look a bit funny under the lights.

[Thepacifist]

So I’ve been seeing a WG regular like twice a month sometimes more for the last year.

I’ve had other pints but since the end of last year until now it’s been just her. Her price point is great, does everything but doesn’t snog at all. And location wise it’s quite convenient. Don’t have to deal with public transport.

Feel like immmissing out. I contact others I see in the areas I’m willing to travel too but everything’s extra and pics seem suspect.

So I just carry on with the same one.

Anyone been stuck like this? Is the punting game just drying up? Am I getting lazy?

I mainly just see my regular these days. I pay a price I’m happy with and I get to film with her.

[SonofAJohn]

I mainly just see my regular these days. I pay a price I’m happy with and I get to film with her.

OP, isn't even getting a snog from his recently geographical restricted regular!

[Bonker]

I get stuck up all of them, me.

[Dylanbob]

I think my longest run of seeing one girl without seeing another is 4 punts.

The point of this hobby is variety IMO with the one off return visit. They always diminish in return.

[Bassman]

I have seen the same WG twice in 48 hours but continuously seeing the same one... Never.
@Bassman, I thought you was a active gym-goer, you sounding kind of lazy sticking to one prozzi when there is a fountain.

You making yourself look a bit funny under the lights.

I hit the gym daily. In fact I’m up now to hit it before work lol. But otherwise yeah I’ve become lazy, time is precious to me so convenience is a big factor these days.

[Maak]

My regular is boring & vanilla, but for £50 h/h, massive tits, big arse, accomadates me any time (even at 2am, literally anytime)I need a shag, she is a bargain.

She is convenient, but more better & costly WGs.