Getting too close...

[Cuntminion]

First post, probably my last - new to punting, previously more into the FBSM side. Didn't want to publicly mention my situation (Had PM'd both NF and the OP) but I have / had been seeing a regular for the last four months - getting more and more familiar - talk of family, work, life - actual names. Over time 2 hr bookings extended to over running by 4 - 6 hrs - stuff done that's not on the likes list ... sound familiar - culminating this weekend to me spending the night - no additional charge but paying the 2 hr rate.

Realized that EAS was too thick - esp after reading these threads, i thought should i just run the course or take action - went for the latter - msged to say that i couldn't see her any more, liked her too much ... thought maybe i'd at least get a reply to say i'd be missed. You know what .. nothing - I still a day later check my punting phone to see if i've missed something but nothing. Shes on AW - working yesterday, working today .. find it hard not to look at her profile as i used to punt with her exclusively ... finding the going really hard.

Part of me wishes i had run the course and seen where it could have gone ?? but in all honesty probably best to take the  hurt on now ... everyone around me is asking what is wrong and i can't say anything, this forum appears to be my only outlet - my 2 cents ... maybe i need to look for a real relationship again ... its easy to say see 3 different punts before repeating but its hard when you get on so well with a regular ... not looking for sympathy or comfort - perhaps getting it out in text will give me some closure - im not sure, i miss her, keep checking my phone.

Given i've said i cant see her any more i hope i don't lapse, but don't know if she would take a booking - i did think about just not seeing her but the temptation was always too great to just call ... this way at least i've removed that option ... sigh ... i know im not the 1st / won't be the last - thanks for listening all ... every journey starts with a first step ... step.

we are just clients - you just need to realise that fact ... but we learn lessons, sometimes, the hard way.

Wow dude did you never experience elements of this in civvy life? And maybe for a second think about carrying lessons learnt to other parts of your life?

Why can't people draw from experience is beyond me

[claretandblue]

not over it - probably not - sent the text yesterday - the overnight (reality check) was Saturday she has no idea who I am on this site - its my first few posts.

As i said I'm a client and if she cared (I've realized) she would have at least acknowledged my message.

My posts are just to get it out of my system - nothing more , nothing less , can't speak to those at home !! or mates !! At least this site is an outlet.

Yes it is an outlet, hopefully you are not a previously banned poster returning or that outlet maybe closed sooner than you think 

[squeezebox]

I can't help but think of Ava from Sin City 2 in these instances.

+1

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 Ava Lord: I knew I could count on you. Sex always made you stupid, ready to believe anything.
[chuckles]
Ava Lord: You've just made me a very rich woman.

[LoneWolf2020]

Crying sob story started. It's over. I'm foolish.

link to the girl please? shes a potential scammer so you need to warn your fellow punters

[Cuntminion]

Crying sob story started. It's over. I'm foolish.

1/100 odds that was

[daveev]

it would be nice to have a link, but really a lot of escorts can be just the same, lead us on get what they can and just move on not a care in the world, but there is still alot that are fine and work just to give us our fun and take the hourly rate

[webpunter]

If all is true then the OP just needs to pick his next punt carefully.  Do some research.  And maybe pay a bit more than usual.  Then a good time should be had & his 'ex-AW-GF' will fade from the memory.  OP could contact her in say 6 months for some ex-sex.  Nothing better in the civvy world !

[SWLondon]

If all is true then the OP just needs to pick his next punt carefully.  Do some research.  And maybe pay a bit more than usual.  Then a good time should be had & his 'ex-AW-GF' will fade from the memory.  OP could contact her in say 6 months for some ex-sex.  Nothing better in the civvy world !

Did the opposite. Got drunk went to a well known brothel in tooting for a line up 3 girls. didn't fancy any of them so decided to do a quick 20 mins with each of them. 3 punts, £40 each, and an hour of fun. I'm back on the horse (probably was never off to be honest). 

Still miss the attention of the girl in the first post. For what it's worth I actually believe her situation is real, and she maybe is desperate, but I'm not the person to help her out of it.

[webpunter]

Did the opposite. Got drunk went to a well known brothel in tooting for a line up 3 girls. didn't fancy any of them so decided to do a quick 20 mins with each of them. 3 punts, £40 each, and an hour of fun. I'm back on the horse (probably was never off to be honest). 

That's one solution.  Top-end or bargain basement.  Brings to mind the Ah-ha song - Hunting High & Low  External Link/Members Only     At about about 1min2secs the lyrics are:

To find her again
Upon this my dreams are depending
Through the dark
I sense the pounding of her heart
Next to mine
She's the sweetest love I could find
So I guess I'll be hunting high and low

Am artistic video - nicely shot in black & white.  Watch it when you are missing the said WG.  Then remember "WG', snap out of it & get real
BTW - i've had the scenario:  extra time & add-ons not charged.  Was good for a while but then it fizzled out
And despite the M&S ad there are plenty more fish in the sea - well in the AW one at least ..

[willbred]

First post, probably my last - new to punting, previously more into the FBSM side. Didn't want to publicly mention my situation (Had PM'd both NF and the OP) but I have / had been seeing a regular for the last four months - getting more and more familiar - talk of family, work, life - actual names. Over time 2 hr bookings extended to over running by 4 - 6 hrs - stuff done that's not on the likes list ... sound familiar - culminating this weekend to me spending the night - no additional charge but paying the 2 hr rate.

Realized that EAS was too thick - esp after reading these threads, i thought should i just run the course or take action - went for the latter - msged to say that i couldn't see her any more, liked her too much ... thought maybe i'd at least get a reply to say i'd be missed. You know what .. nothing - I still a day later check my punting phone to see if i've missed something but nothing. Shes on AW - working yesterday, working today .. find it hard not to look at her profile as i used to punt with her exclusively ... finding the going really hard.

Part of me wishes i had run the course and seen where it could have gone ?? but in all honesty probably best to take the  hurt on now ... everyone around me is asking what is wrong and i can't say anything, this forum appears to be my only outlet - my 2 cents ... maybe i need to look for a real relationship again ... its easy to say see 3 different punts before repeating but its hard when you get on so well with a regular ... not looking for sympathy or comfort - perhaps getting it out in text will give me some closure - im not sure, i miss her, keep checking my phone.
Don't know if she would take a booking - i did think about just not seeing her but the temptation was always too great to just call ... this way at least i've removed that option ... sigh ... i know im not the 1st / won't be the last - thanks for listening all ... every journey starts with a first step ... step.

we are just clients - you just need to realise that fact ... but we learn lessons, sometimes, the hard way.

Don't make this your last post. I've PM'd you....you are not alone 

[cueball]

My posts are just to get it out of my system - nothing more , nothing less , can't speak to those at home !! or mates !! At least this site is an outlet.

Best thing to do Tom is to keep posting on here, it'll work it's way or of your system whilst you enjoy the forum.
 She's probably realised you were getting too deep, she's actually doing you a favour ignoring you, she don't want some love sick stalker on her doorstep (I'm not saying that's you by the way).

Stay on here, get your head straight and have another go with a completely different lass, nothing gets rid of eas better than a new pussy to lick.

[claretandblue]

Don't make this your last post. I've PM'd you....you are not alone 

I think Mr thumb is currently busy consoling mcfly /columbo 

[YorkshirePunt16]

Ok

Long time lurker, first (or second time poster).

Currently in a similar situation; would probably take me hours of soul searching etc to write everything that should be written.

I know everybodies advice (some of it overly harsh, sorry just my opinion) is right.  But I just can't shake it off; I've tried and tried, and just can't.  Is punting for me ????? I think with what I am experiencing at the moment, it probably isn't.  This is the first time it's happened to me either punting or in civvy life; I KNOW it is a business transaction.  I KNOW that is just acting.  I KNOW that said lady probably says the same thing to every person.

But I just can't get over it !

[DG]

Ok

Long time lurker, first (or second time poster).

Currently in a similar situation; would probably take me hours of soul searching etc to write everything that should be written.

I know everybodies advice (some of it overly harsh, sorry just my opinion) is right.  But I just can't shake it off; I've tried and tried, and just can't.  Is punting for me ????? I think with what I am experiencing at the moment, it probably isn't.  This is the first time it's happened to me either punting or in civvy life; I KNOW it is a business transaction.  I KNOW that is just acting.  I KNOW that said lady probably says the same thing to every person.

But I just can't get over it !

Don't beat yourself up over this. In most cases everything said in this thread is right, but there are always exceptions to the rule. If your girl is seeing 3 or more guys every day and has loads of FB on AW, then I'd guess it is all an act. If however she is a low volume, maybe part time WG, then her motivation may well be different and personal affection can creep in. But never lose sight of the fact that she's in it for the money, whether it be primary source of income or to top up the holiday fund. Yeah you might get a few perks from a regular, but that's all it is. I'm not a fan of the "ask for a freebie" advice often given, but I have to agree it is a cast iron way of finding out where you stand. If you're happy with your set up with this girl, don't do anything to upset it, but don't expect too much. 

[HappyandLucky]

It's an easy trap to fall into. Been there, bought the T shirt and had a relationship with a WG.  As you would expect it ended in a train crash, but still some great fun before we derailed and hit the buffers. 

Hindsight is a wonderful thing, so punt, pay, and move on. It keeps life simple and you are the one in control, after all you hold the wallet 

[TomThumb]

So I'm still messing up my walking away, I contacted her and we exchanged some messages last week and agreed to meet, the date didn't work out so I left it to her to let me know .. That was Friday and nothing so far ... If I can make it to the weekend I should be ok (thanks for all the PM of support) as the realisation that she could have contacted me and didn't will take hold.

The last posters comment has really hit home - you hold the wallet - it's made me consider this in a different way and has helped me a lot. The funny thing is, last week I was so fragile that a simple call would have had me running back - a weekend of reflection later I feel less inclined.

I tried to arrange another punt but was let down by the wg (review to follow) so am getting there.

So let's see - she's away for a while soon too so if nothing comes through by the weekend I should be ok ... If she does message ... Well .. That's another story but hopefully one I can deal with better with hindsight and forum advice.

[vw]

So I'm still messing up my walking away, I contacted her and we exchanged some messages last week and agreed to meet, the date didn't work out so I left it to her to let me know .. That was Friday and nothing so far ... If I can make it to the weekend I should be ok (thanks for all the PM of support) as the realisation that she could have contacted me and didn't will take hold.

The last posters comment has really hit home - you hold the wallet - it's made me consider this in a different way and has helped me a lot. The funny thing is, last week I was so fragile that a simple call would have had me running back - a weekend of reflection later I feel less inclined.

I tried to arrange another punt but was let down by the wg (review to follow) so am getting there.

So let's see - she's away for a while soon too so if nothing comes through by the weekend I should be ok ... If she does message ... Well .. That's another story but hopefully one I can deal with better with hindsight and forum advice.

Do you use a punting phone ?  If so would suggest take control and put the sim into a candle and burn.

[Cuntminion]

So I'm still messing up my walking away, I contacted her and we exchanged some messages last week and agreed to meet, the date didn't work out so I left it to her to let me know .. That was Friday and nothing so far ... If I can make it to the weekend I should be ok (thanks for all the PM of support) as the realisation that she could have contacted me and didn't will take hold.

The last posters comment has really hit home - you hold the wallet - it's made me consider this in a different way and has helped me a lot. The funny thing is, last week I was so fragile that a simple call would have had me running back - a weekend of reflection later I feel less inclined.

I tried to arrange another punt but was let down by the wg (review to follow) so am getting there.

So let's see - she's away for a while soon too so if nothing comes through by the weekend I should be ok ... If she does message ... Well .. That's another story but hopefully one I can deal with better with hindsight and forum advice.

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[TomThumb]

Is it wrong that I want to see how this plays out?

Perhaps change my sim at the end of the week ....

It's no longer as emotional after the weekend - just want the non response so I can get the reality check that I'm just a client and move on - funny as I was thinking about the 'honesty' we shared I realised how many half truths I was still sharing so it again is all based on lies.

Clarity has really started to take hold - it's a bitter pill and maybe punting isn't for me but this has taught me a lot.

Any suggestions for a 2hr punt around £200 that could help me get over this - London area - I like blondes / brunettes - boobs are a.plus but I'm a bum man? pure gfe to show me how good it can be .. Busty Sophie 1986 looks the part - any other suggestions?

[vw]

Is it wrong that I want to see how this plays out?

Perhaps change my sim at the end of the week ....

Only you can decide, if your the type that wonders it may drive you mad not knowing but once you know at and of week try these.

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[Cuntminion]

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 this has taught me a lot.

Good I was really worrying for a moment there

[webpunter]

Best thing to do Tom is to keep posting on here, it'll work it's way or of your system whilst you enjoy the forum.
 She's probably realised you were getting too deep, she's actually doing you a favour ignoring you, she don't want some love sick stalker on her doorstep (I'm not saying that's you by the way).

Stay on here, get your head straight and have another go with a completely different lass, nothing gets rid of eas better than a new pussy to lick.

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[JEH7376]

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Haha well played mate

[jimbobwood]

I love these EAS threads!

Here's the cure: Go punting cold turkey for 2 months, book a well reviewed prossie from here to refresh your punting appetite.

In the meantime, post a link so we can all tuck in and write all about her performance on here. Read all the filthy reviews of her, lie down and do the following until it's out of your system.
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[webpunter]

In the meantime, post a link so we can all tuck in and write all about her performance on here

Her getting it 'large'        [PS - never suffered from EAS.  However have occasionally asked myself the question - am i getting special treatment ?  The answer {to myself} could have been 'yes'.  To make sure i made return visit(s).  Which has a tendency to work a couple of times.  Soon saw the light & it's time to move on & find another fish in the AW pond]

[a_test_person]

On my first ever punt (4hr out) one of the most highly respected and professional and consistent girls revered on ukp, I had an odd experience as she got dressed.

She was sat on the end of the bed and said: "do you think you can find love doing this job?"

I'm a man of few words so I said, "I don't know".

Several things ran through my head:

* not in a million years
* she must really fancy me (ego talking)
* is it a clever psychological trick to keep my mind on her?
* I could never bring home a girl to my mother with massive fake breasts!