How close is too close

[Bluesocks69]

If shes a 10/10 i dont care if shes next door. Hard to find gems on adultwork right now

[unclepokey]

I too have found no woman remotely adjacent to Pokeyacres that I would pay to fuck.
Were there otherwise, the excitement, the danger even of the matter would enhance the experience.
Uncle Pokey

[Danmanchester]

Theres a girl ive been wanting to see for a while so sent her a message on AW, turns out she punts from a flat literally 30 seconds walk from my house, dont want to say the area but it is in London... Mentioned this to her and she has no problem with it, even mentioning that she frequents my local pub often!
Is it worth the risk? She says she is discreet but i'm naturally a bit of a worrier and i'm just picturing her shouting me from across the bar next time i go for a pint!

[Mr Sinister]

Maybe this should be in the general punting sub?

I see WGs in my area all the time, I even see them from time to time about doing errands like everyday people, I don't pay any attention to them say hello or anything. Imo you shouldn't have told the WG personal details about yourself or engaged with her in that way.

Like see her then get on with your life

[Devilsown10]

Theres a girl ive been wanting to see for a while so sent her a message on AW, turns out she punts from a flat literally 30 seconds walk from my house, dont want to say the area but it is in London... Mentioned this to her and she has no problem with it, even mentioning that she frequents my local pub often!
Is it worth the risk? She says she is discreet but i'm naturally a bit of a worrier and i'm just picturing her shouting me from across the bar next time i go for a pint!

I doubt she would ever do that and I think they
Don’t want that public visibility in that manner . I’ve had the opposite .. I’ve been on a flight and bumped into one . She recognised as it was only from a week
Back but she got awkward and clearly didn’t want to engage in a conversation of any sort . And by default I also backed away pretty quick ..

So I don’t think you need worry , just tell her of we
See each other on the road ..
Let’s not draw attention

[Spurt]

Yes always a worry she is unlikely to buy you a pint or ask if you are having your usual.
The issue more likely to run into others in your locale and figuring out what the place is.
I ran into some work colleagues exiting a flat post punt which I explained away by saying I was looking over paperwork for a car I was considering buying.

[Jonestown]

This was discussed on the main board a short while ago

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=374162.0

[Spurt]

Thanks for that cheers

[Fuzzyduck]

Theres a girl ive been wanting to see for a while so sent her a message on AW, turns out she punts from a flat literally 30 seconds walk from my house, dont want to say the area but it is in London... Mentioned this to her and she has no problem with it, even mentioning that she frequents my local pub often!
Is it worth the risk? She says she is discreet but i'm naturally a bit of a worrier and i'm just picturing her shouting me from across the bar next time i go for a pint!

Only you can answer that. Some guys wouldn't give a fuck. I can only assume you don't live with anyone or have a partner or you wouldn't have asked this question. If you're a worrier, you should consider what information you share about yourself. If she's got her head screwed on, then it shouldn't be a problem but, if she's remotely unhinged and sees you as a walking ATM then she could be a pain in the ass, particularly if she (or her pimp) finds out where you live.

[Momodan38]

Only you can answer that. Some guys wouldn't give a fuck. I can only assume you don't live with anyone or have a partner or you wouldn't have asked this question. If you're a worrier, you should consider what information you share about yourself. If she's got her head screwed on, then it shouldn't be a problem but, if she's remotely unhinged and sees you as a walking ATM then she could be a pain in the ass, particularly if she (or her pimp) finds out where you live.

Exactly. It’s an individual choice, we all have our own risk assessment.

I’ve had SP’s quiet close to home but never booked them. They usually mislead with the location in the add, placing themselves at a more nearby fancier place  😂

You only find out once they give you their postcode. I just politely cancel and move on.

[Jonestown]

Does the girl in question live 30 seconds from your drum or does she only work from there ?

There is a big difference in terms of how vital anonymity is to her.

[southcoastpunter]

Maybe this should be in the general punting sub?

maybe the question shouldn't be asked at all. Op - are you really going to do what a load of random guys that you have never met say? And you can bet there will be some who say "i have never had any problems doing it" and others who say "don't shit on your own doorstep" and a third group who say "only you can answer that for you".

and the third group are right - no one else can answer that for you. only you know your personal circumstances, only you know if you are well know in the area etc. etc.

sorry but a pointless question imo. 

[yubin]

punted about 600 metres from my home (and will do again if schedules align)

also in a "luxury modern apartment" which turned out to be a flat 70 metres from my place of work

[Atrueyorkie]

OP, like mentioned it’s an individual choice. But you’re hesitant, your post shows it

Therefore I’d say trust your gut and say no.

I’ve been in a similar situation and ultimately said it’s not worth the risk.

You’re not thinking with your right brain.

Momentary pleasure for potentially a long term headache isn’t worth it. Although they harp on about discretion etc that small part of things going pear shape or accidentally waving to you or saying something isn’t worth it.

There will be better options out there that’s further away

[jamiekinkxxx]

punted about 600 metres from my home (and will do again if schedules align)

also in a "luxury modern apartment" which turned out to be a flat 70 metres from my place of work

Punt near my house? I punt in it 

[Stevelondon]

Punt near my house? I punt in it 

 

[MajorPayne]

Theres a girl ive been wanting to see for a while so sent her a message on AW, turns out she punts from a flat literally 30 seconds walk from my house, dont want to say the area but it is in London... Mentioned this to her and she has no problem with it, even mentioning that she frequents my local pub often!
Is it worth the risk? She says she is discreet but i'm naturally a bit of a worrier and i'm just picturing her shouting me from across the bar next time i go for a pint!

Too close to home and too risky for me to try it.

[theeaglekid]

Has to completely off the area.

Ideally central London is best placed for me.

But local area, or ex-partners area, work area is a no-go for me personally.

[v54]

Put yourself in her shoes. If she outs you she is putting the tenancy of where she lives at risk: Landlords often turn a blind eye to what goes on in their place, but if it becomes well known then he has a good reason to evict her.  She also has - potentially - fears over things like benefits fraud.

If she owns her place, you would think discretion would be her top priority.

The thing to establish therefore is: does she work on her own account, or is she run by a pimp? By the sounds of it, she is independent.

The remaining risk then is being seen going in or coming out of her place by people you know.  This is where the stock phrase "only you can answer that question" comes in.  I'm sure you can be creative with things like the postman mis-delivered a package and she invited you in for a cup of tea. 

[VladtheImpaleHer]

Not a big deal for me. I've seen 4 escorts within a 10 minute walk from where I live. One of them still escorts but in a different area now. I remember I walked past her the following day after seeing her and she was in her civvy outfit carrying some shopping bags. We obviously recognised each other and said hello.

I didn't see this girl, but i know Roxy Ravishing must have been close to where i live.

[Captainhowdy666]

I went to a massage parlour less than a mile away.
I also dared to fuck an escort in the belief that I may actually know her on civvie street as there were no facial pics but the body looked the same.
Also if my next door neighbour popped up on AW I’d be round there in a heartbeat.

[Thephoenix]

I went to a massage parlour less than a mile away.
I also dared to fuck an escort in the belief that I may actually know her on civvie street as there were no facial pics but the body looked the same.
Also if my next door neighbour popped up on AW I’d be round there in a heartbeat.

You little 😈

[GreyDave]

I went to a massage parlour less than a mile away.
I also dared to fuck an escort in the belief that I may actually know her on civvie street as there were no facial pics but the body looked the same.
Also if my next door neighbour popped up on AW I’d be round there in a heartbeat.

Ive been close like that    I did a Brazlian house girl then her flat mates 3 streets away ( 3mins walk ) then    she ended up renting a room to live in not work in ...in the HMO next door to me for a few months ... I saw her at her place of work and only exchanged a nod and good morning ect when I saw her . The HMO was run unregistered by a slimball of a landlord who I am pretty sure was involved with the numerous flats and houses used in my town by WG`s

[sesalovdarlo]

Ive been close like that    I did a Brazlian house girl then her flat mates 3 streets away ( 3mins walk ) then    she ended up renting a room to live in not work in ...in the HMO next door to me for a few months ... I saw her at her place of work and only exchanged a nod and good morning ect when I saw her . The HMO was run unregistered by a slimball of a landlord who I am pretty sure was involved with the numerous flats and houses used in my town by WG`s

I can relate to that. I rent a place to an agent who basically does contractor lets and airbnb (rent to rent). I was doing some maintenance when guest checked out then 3 ladies turned up early to check in. I asked where they were from they said Brazil. Straight away my spidy sense was tingling.  not until the next day I noticed a few new viva street profiles for Brazilian ladies. Didnt recognise any of the photos but thought id test the water and text the numbers for info, one replied “Yes Baby, i am working at (Street name)” which was my rental, couldn't believe it 

[myothernameis]

“Yes Baby, i am working at (Street name)” which was my rental, couldn't believe it 

You should make a booking, and see how they deal with this, maybe they offer your a big discount