Older Men who enjoy FBSM

[69Punter]

Hi, before I joined UKP I did enjoy  a full service with lots of ladies. Since I have got older I don't book them as  obviously things tend not to work as well. I switched to FBSM as I love the female touch etc. Have you older guys (60 plus) found that you can have better fun with a regular or with one offs? For me, I still want to visit lots, but I do have a regular who seems to be the only one to manage to raise it every time. Have any of you found it the same?

[B4bcock]

Have you tried viagra or similar?

[Stevelondon]

Hi, before I joined UKP I did enjoy  a full service with lots of ladies. Since I have got older I don't book them as  obviously things tend not to work as well. I switched to FBSM as I love the female touch etc. Have you older guys (60 plus) found that you can have better fun with a regular or with one offs? For me, I still want to visit lots, but I do have a regular who seems to be the only one to manage to raise it every time. Have any of you found it the same?

Older guy here.
When I was younger it was all about the FS....after all. Is'nt that what sex is all about. 

As I grew older I developed a thing for a bit of kink as well as the massage services. Penetrative sex just did'nt have to be the all important thing it once was.
Still tried the LiL Blue Pill of course. Just when I fancied a shag. (Doctors Help)
But to be honest. I had headaches, sinus issues and thought why bother.
I've done my fair share of shagging. I don't need too prove anything and certainly not to myself.
Funnily enough. Just lately I have been mish position enjoying a bit of penetrative sex and its surprised me somewhat.
But I certainly don't need to want it anymore.
A lovely edging sesh with HE is OK by me. Or if an SP fancies wrapping her lips around my tip.....OK too. 

I just enjoy......or at least hope too.

[nigel4498]

I’m 76 and this year for the first time have had a few FBSM, some with HE and some OWO.
A year or so back I would have always had sex.
I have a regular usually with FS but last visit ended with CIM which she dribbled down her tits.
I suppose it’s all part and parcel as we age that we become less inclined to be a super stud porn star and settle for a more gentle outcome.

[signy]

As I have aged, I have become less and less interested in penetrative sex, although I still manage this in most sessions. I am not a great fan of massage, but get my enjoyment in the experience as a whole within my own interests. Process not outcome.

[Thephoenix]

Ah yes!...The ages of punting!

Springtime....Young and randy, full of spunk, able to shoot bucket loads as often as required condom or not, erection on demand, FS as often as possible.

Summer....Middle years, still got it, more experienced and confident, experimenting with different services, still FS but take a bit longer, sometimes need Viagra to make sure, occasional condom wilt, probably the best years.

Autumn.....higher doses of Viagra, can't use condoms, can't always climax, preferring owo & CIM, maybe still experimenting with other services or kinks to keep the spark going, tending to favour fbsm.

Winter...ED meds not working or reacting with other meds, performance problems of ED and climaxing, etc etc etc....Hey Ho!, A woman's gentle and intimate touch is still enjoyable, a lifetime of memories and enjoying the sexploits of fellow punters. 

[IAmNotFamous]

Ah yes!...The ages of punting!

Springtime....Young and randy, full of spunk, able to shoot bucket loads as often as required condom or not, erection on demand, FS as often as possible.

Summer....Middle years, still got it, more experienced and confident, experimenting with different services, still FS but take a bit longer, sometimes need Viagra to make sure, occasional condom wilt, probably the best years.

Autumn.....higher doses of Viagra, can't use condoms, can't always climax, preferring owo & CIM, maybe still experimenting with other services or kinks to keep the spark going, tending to favour fbsm.

Winter...ED meds not working or reacting with other meds, performance problems of ED and climaxing, etc etc etc....Hey Ho!, A woman's gentle and intimate touch is still enjoyable, a lifetime of memories and enjoying the sexploits of fellow punters. 

Yikes is that what I’ve got to look forward to (I’m summer right now)

[Colston36]

I am constantly baffled by or ignorant of these initialisms. But also have been too damned idle or busy to try this. I must do so as my powers wane.

[Hobbit]

As I got older I have started to prefer just to have massages with lots of edging. Like you, I enjoy being touched, and having no pressure of having to do anything else with any expectation is much more relaxing than sex.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

I think .. that most of the UKP contents .. have one foot en la grave;!!!

[poundstock]

As I have aged, I have become less and less interested in penetrative sex, although I still manage this in most sessions. I am not a great fan of massage, but get my enjoyment in the experience as a whole within my own interests. Process not outcome.

This is me. A close physical engagement but penetrative sex is not essential. Personally I prefer to deliver the massage rather than receive it.

[Thephoenix]

Yikes is that what I’ve got to look forward to (I’m summer right now)

Make hay while the sun shines!

[IAmNotFamous]

Make hay while the sun shines!

Wise words. That’s why I love this place. I’m always learning 👍🏼

[mr.bluesky]

As I got older I have started to prefer just to have massages with lots of edging. Like you, I enjoy being touched, and having no pressure of having to do anything else with any expectation is much more relaxing than sex.

100 % agree

[londonroad]

Ah yes!...The ages of punting!

Springtime....Young and randy, full of spunk, able to shoot bucket loads as often as required condom or not, erection on demand, FS as often as possible.

Summer....Middle years, still got it, more experienced and confident, experimenting with different services, still FS but take a bit longer, sometimes need Viagra to make sure, occasional condom wilt, probably the best years.

Autumn.....higher doses of Viagra, can't use condoms, can't always climax, preferring owo & CIM, maybe still experimenting with other services or kinks to keep the spark going, tending to favour fbsm.

Winter...ED meds not working or reacting with other meds, performance problems of ED and climaxing, etc etc etc....Hey Ho!, A woman's gentle and intimate touch is still enjoyable, a lifetime of memories and enjoying the sexploits of fellow punters. 

So very true!

[toetally]

I didn't start punting until my late 50s, when the other half lost interest so sought another outlet. Started with FBSM and stuck with it. Massage shops are easy access and pretty anonymous as a walk-in needs no punting phone or comms trail to be discovered etc.
If you know the right places you can still get OWO and FS if you want it, and there's plenty of variety with girls changing every week or so. Lately though I've tended to see a regular and built up a rapport which gets me great service (including FS if I fancy it - maybe every tenth visit?) but an hour's pampering and a happy ending is fine with me.
I actually think that the best massage girls provide a valuable service for us older guys: unless you're rich and famous young attractive civvy girls wouldn't look twice at a dirty old man like me!

[Stevelondon]

I didn't start punting until my late 50s, when the other half lost interest so sought another outlet. Started with FBSM and stuck with it. Massage shops are easy access and pretty anonymous as a walk-in needs no punting phone or comms trail to be discovered etc.
If you know the right places you can still get OWO and FS if you want it, and there's plenty of variety with girls changing every week or so. Lately though I've tended to see a regular and built up a rapport which gets me great service (including FS if I fancy it - maybe every tenth visit?) but an hour's pampering and a happy ending is fine with me.
I actually think that the best massage girls provide a valuable service for us older guys: unless you're rich and famous young attractive civvy girls wouldn't look twice at a dirty old man like me!

Oh I think you will find they probably do.
Just with a look of disgust on their faces. 

[DastardlyDick]

As someone between Autumn and Winter in the above post, due to a combo of both age and type 2, I had started going for massage with HE, then Covid hit! It does take away the  "need" to  "perform", which I like.

[69Punter]

Thankyou all for your very interesting comments

[David1970]

Thankyou all for your very interesting comments

I am not over 60 but I had a small heart attack 6 months ago, I have not had full sex since with my friend with benefits or a WG.
I have been for massages with HE which I enjoy, the reason is I shit that I have a heart attack while fucking a WG.

[shed]

I am not over 60 but I had a small heart attack 6 months ago, I have not had full sex since with my friend with benefits or a WG.
I have been for massages with HE which I enjoy, the reason is I shit that I have a heart attack while fucking a WG.

Great way to go 

[webpunter]

In the summer tho wish i was still before the summer solstice 
When summer comes to a close will keep fit & hopefully an indian summer before autumn

Lots of reasons to enjoy FBSM IMO

- sessions which are much more likely to be to the time purchased, rather than FS SPs who can want you to shoot & shoot
- cheaper pro rata so for the same spends more sessions
- fittie massage burds without staggering pricing
- generally nicer SPs in terms of attitude & approach
- a leisurely effortless session lie back & enjoy
- i nearly forgot to mention my three faves:  edging edging & edging [FS SPs are usually crap at this whereas some massage burds can be very skilled]
- when suffering from the hangover horn FS can be too much effort, a medicinal R&T is a perfect cure
- getting xtras onto the menu can be a WSWS type challenge & its aint always necessary to get the folding out

When i joined UKP massage stuff was periodically derided like "whats the point"
Usually by UKP'ers who died out like the dinosaurs when off topic was binned
Back then i wouldn't have envisaged a massage section & its popularity
Anyways everyone knows that HJs dont count so my conscience is clear when seeing the civvy 

[webpunter]

Indeed, you wouldnt know if you are cumming or going

Great way to go 

[daviemac]

I am not over 60 but I had a small heart attack 6 months ago, I have not had full sex since with my friend with benefits or a WG.
I have been for massages with HE which I enjoy, the reason is I shit that I have a heart attack while fucking a WG.

If they've found and treated the cause of the heart attack and you follow the guidelines in 'the heart manual' they give you, you shouldn't have a problem.

BTW it says in the manual that sex can be beneficial in your recovery.

[contentguy]

Anyways everyone knows that HJs dont count so my conscience is clear when seeing the civvy 

Love most of your reasons but this one is key!

 

[Stevelondon]

If they've found and treated the cause of the heart attack and you follow the guidelines in 'the heart manual' they give you, you shouldn't have a problem.

BTW it says in the manual that sex can be beneficial in your recovery.

Correct....any kind of exercise really.
If he is all that worried...then go cowgirl.

[webpunter]

  

Love most of your reasons but this one is key!

 

[Home Alone]

Correct....any kind of exercise really.
If he is all that worried...then go cowgirl.

I'll never forget what a still-working SP in the NW said when I explained that my disabilities restricted me to Cowgirl, "Ah, the lazy man's position!"

Despite trying on a number of other times subsequently, she's never accepted another booking request from me!

[daviemac]

Correct....any kind of exercise really.
If he is all that worried...then go cowgirl.

All the info is in the 171 page manual, plus any concerns can be discussed at the cardiac rehabilitation exercise sessions which last for about 2 hours a time and run for 10-12 weeks.

You aren't just left to get on with it after a heart attack.

[Brompton]

Hi, before I joined UKP I did enjoy  a full service with lots of ladies. Since I have got older I don't book them as  obviously things tend not to work as well. I switched to FBSM as I love the female touch etc. Have you older guys (60 plus) found that you can have better fun with a regular or with one offs? For me, I still want to visit lots, but I do have a regular who seems to be the only one to manage to raise it every time. Have any of you found it the same?

I’m an old git & have a regular, I say regular I mean when I have the cash available 

I find that as much as I enjoy FS the actual smiley face that greets me, the chatting about life & any old rubbish over a drink, no rushing, that leads to the touching, kissing, hugs, me massaging her etc which I get a kick out of, yes my tastes have changed as I’ve aged.

My word reading back what I’ve written I realise what a sad lonely old git I’ve become 

[latecomer]

As I got older I have started to prefer just to have massages with lots of edging. Like you, I enjoy being touched, and having no pressure of having to do anything else with any expectation is much more relaxing than sex.

Yes I'm another one who finds this is just what I enjoy too as I get older.  Of course some girls are a lot better at this than others so, if I found a regular that was really good, I guess I'd probably be happy to stick with her.

[IAmNotFamous]

I’m an old git & have a regular, I say regular I mean when I have the cash available 

I find that as much as I enjoy FS the actual smiley face that greets me, the chatting about life & any old rubbish over a drink, no rushing, that leads to the touching, kissing, hugs, me massaging her etc which I get a kick out of, yes my tastes have changed as I’ve aged.

My word reading back what I’ve written I realise what a sad lonely old git I’ve become 

You’re not a sad lonely git. You’re normal. What you describe is the lives of most of us (in some way).

A sad lonely git is someone who sits on a couch, in the dark, doesn’t eat, doesn’t bathe, twenty four hours a day seven days a week.

[Stevelondon]

You’re not a sad lonely git. You’re normal. What you describe is the lives of most of us (in some way).

A sad lonely git is someone who sits on a couch, in the dark, doesn’t eat, doesn’t bathe, twenty four hours a day seven days a week.

Bloody hell. What have I become 😂😂😂

[webpunter]

You're into

• post punt pubs 
• pub urinals
• gravestone rubbing - i like rubbing one out, but not in a graveyard 

Bloody hell. What have I become 😂😂😂

[mr.bluesky]

You're into

• post punt pubs 
• pub urinals
• gravestone rubbing - i like rubbing one out, but not in a graveyard 

Could be worse, he could be a train spotter and real ale drinker   

[Brompton]

You’re not a sad lonely git. You’re normal. What you describe is the lives of most of us (in some way).

A sad lonely git is someone who sits on a couch, in the dark, doesn’t eat, doesn’t bathe, twenty four hours a day seven days a week.

Good shout mate!

Life in the old dog yet, suppose for most of us we crave the touch of the right responsive woman, seems to have become more important with age even if they are play acting but sometimes you can click & it makes the ‘world of punting’ enjoyable, life eh?

[dynatron]

yes tend to agree ref FBSM as ive got older this is where ive gone realy though its difficult to find a decent one near my area

[donnybob]

As a gentleman a lot  nearer 70 than 60 I only look for FBSM and have done for a few years.

I suppose i've been lucky to find a few who were really into it and obviously enjoyed what they did, or were just good actresses.

The only one I wanted to see and missed out on was Eusie in Doncaster and I now live near Peterborough so that's not going to happen.

I loved my last meet in Peterborough, who I reviewed and a longer meet at one hour is already planned as a pre xmas treat to myself

[Watts.E.Dunn]

As a gentleman a lot  nearer 70 than 60 I only look for FBSM and have done for a few years.

I suppose i've been lucky to find a few who were really into it and obviously enjoyed what they did, or were just good actresses.

The only one I wanted to see and missed out on was Eusie in Doncaster and I now live near Peterborough so that's not going to happen.

I loved my last meet in Peterborough, who I reviewed and a longer meet at one hour is already planned as a pre xmas treat to myself

Peter bro eh;?.

Some lovelry ladies to ride up there!, not that many at the moment but if you've ever driven/riden a Deltic with 3300 hp under the handle you'll never ever forget her:-)..


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[Slow grinder]

Could be worse, he could be a train spotter and real ale drinker   

or as I met the other week when I went to Wembley..a coach spotter.

[standardpostage]

FBSM are very, very, very popular.

That is why there are so many "massage parlours" ! ! !

Their revenue stream, is most probably, from the "grey pound" ? ? ?

You know what they say "an orgasm a day, keeps the doctor away" 

[snaitram99]

FBSM are very, very, very popular.

That is why there are so many "massage parlours" ! ! !

Their revenue stream, is most probably, from the "grey pound" ? ? ?

You know what they say "an orgasm a day, keeps the doctor away" 

For anybody who wants a genuine massage, whether with extras or not, somewhere calling itself a massage parlour is probably not the best place to go. Traditionally a euphemism for brothel, at least in the UK, and fairly rare to get a proper massage there.

Most FBSM providers tend to be Chinese or Thai and generally refer to their places as shops. Usually a decent massage, sometimes legit, more often with extras.

[snoopy]

I'll never forget what a still-working SP in the NW said when I explained that my disabilities restricted me to Cowgirl, "Ah, the lazy man's position!"

Despite trying on a number of other times subsequently, she's never accepted another booking request from me!

She's a lazy cow girl

[Redpunter]

I have at 69 had my share of FS but I have been lucky enough to find myself a middle aged Thai lady who to be honest looks mid twenties.

I have had a fair share of many nationalities in my time but none respect the older man as much as the Thais. This lady not only gives a superb massage followed by a fantastic HE but also gives an excellent pedicure and also removal of any unwanted body hair.

Her attention to detail in every department is more than enough to satisfy any man but especially a man of my age. I count myself very lucky indeed.

[watsey]

Anyways everyone knows that HJs don't count so my conscience is clear when seeing the civvy 

Absolutely!
Some medical people believe that regular ejaculation is good for your health, so if you can't manage it with anybody at home its almost essential to visit somebody who is qualified and skilled to help you. 

[Thephoenix]

Absolutely!
Some medical people believe that regular ejaculation is good for your health, so if you can't manage it with anybody at home its almost essential to visit somebody who is qualified and skilled to help you. 

Indeed!
It should be available free to pensioners on The NHS.




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[Thecunninglinguist]

Indeed!
It should be available free to pensioners on The NHS.




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Yes and you could probably get the local district nurse to pop round as an outcall? 

[donnybob]

I have at 69 had my share of FS but I have been lucky enough to find myself a middle aged Thai lady who to be honest looks mid twenties.

I have had a fair share of many nationalities in my time but none respect the older man as much as the Thais. This lady not only gives a superb massage followed by a fantastic HE but also gives an excellent pedicure and also removal of any unwanted body hair.

Her attention to detail in every department is more than enough to satisfy any man but especially a man of my age. I count myself very lucky indeed.

just reading that it reminded me that I had a massage from an SP once ( many many moons ago ) and during the massage she insisted on pressing some spots on my back, weirdly it was quite satisfying

[Thephoenix]

Did she use Superglue or Blu Tack?

[Brompton]

Indeed!
It should be available free to pensioners on The NHS.




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What a great idea, if any political party puts this in their manifesto they’ve got my vote