Taking gifts for WG's

[norwichfunseeker]

Afternoon all.

Having recently gone over time with a girl, as a small token of appreciation I took a box of chocolates to my further booking with the girl, which was gratefully received. The 2nd punt was just as enjoyable as the first.

My question to the more seasoned punters out there, is if you have taken gifts to a girl do you feel it has improved the punt?
Also what have you taken.

[bearcat69]

I'd always feel worried that I'd get something that would offend her, so have never done this.

Like for instance, chocolates, bird might take offense thinking being given chocolates is gonna make her fat.

This being said, I don't have the best history with giving girls gifts. I remember I once had horrible fight with an ex GF because I got her perfume on her birthday, thinking it was her favourite perfume because I thought she had said it was when we were in a perfume shop together once. Turns out she hated it and was apparently talking about a friend not herself.

So I just try to avoid that whole mindfield now with women, let alone with prossies, and I just give them money instead, which usually works out better for me.

[Littlefoot]

I have only done so once a long time ago. I doubt very much if I would do it again. I was looking on aw as you do for a punt the following day. Found one I liked the look of, and booked her for the following day. I happen to clock her age was 20. Anyway gets up next morning, checked her aw profile and I saw her age had gone up to 21. So on the punt day I came to the conclusion it was her birthday!

So makes my way into Birmingham central, but I arrived a hour early. So I thought I'd have a browse around the markets. I came to a stall selling flowers and plants. I saw these shitty looking little pot plants/flowers, and with her birthday in mind I bought one, for a few reasons really, 1) it was her birthday 2) I thought I may get a better service and 3) it was only £1.

She seemed pleased at my gift, or was a good actress. I don't think I did get a better service! It was just about a positive. But I haven't bought any more presents since, and certainly have no plans to! 

[Jonestown]

It can’t be hard to find something better to do with your hard earned money than to spend it on a gift for a working girl that you are already paying a hamdsome fee to for her services - can it ?

[Horizontal pleasures]

I do it all the time and it usually melts their hearts a little way and often opens their mouths to a great first kiss and a big smile.

I bring chocolate that does not make them fat, Green & Black or Divine brand 85%. It is also handy to tuck the money into the wrapper so that just a teeny bit peeks out.

I often bring a few fruits in season, especially strawberries or cherries which sometimes they share after the main course is over.

These gifts are not expensive, I buy the stuff at a local Turkish shop so the fruit is in a paper bag, not the ubiquitous nasty plastic punnet from Tesco.

[EnglishRebecca121]

I do like it when they read my interview and bring along my fav drink ( green tea about 75p)  or vegan chocolates but its not expected and they get treated the same as any other client.

I do have a soft spot for clients that bring cat treats though!

[Health and Fitness]

No I never have and never will, why would you want to after spending a load of cash on their services, it's just not necessary.

Prostitutes are not your friends or your family, they are strangers you meet for a duration of time, have some fun and then go on your way. Why complicate matters by going down the gift giving path, things like that tend to develop into cases of fluffy, EAS which never end well.

However if you really insist on gift giving, offer some of your time to help a WG with her CV so she can go out and find better employment opportunities.

[EnglishRebecca121]

However if you really insist on gift giving, offer some of your time to help a WG with her CV so she can go out and find better employment opportunities.

wow just wow

[threechilliman]

wow just wow

You've found the help you need eh?

[EnglishRebecca121]

You've found the help you need eh?

I never needed help not all of us whore full time 

[Moresomes]

not all of us whore full time 

Dusty phone?

[hungrypunt]

However if you really insist on gift giving, offer some of your time to help a WG with her CV so she can go out and find better employment opportunities.

What and take a pay cut, ?



Im all for it, I always takes gifts to service providers.
Big Norm was made up with the chocolates i bought him for sorting that big end out on the motor after I took my car in for a service last week,

[TTGR]

Interesting psychology to this. I think it is a number of possible reasons punter may gift e.g. :

A. Believe SP will be more favorable for services and repeat bookings
B. Help punter feel better about punting for sex relief
C. Help SP feel better as said punter feels they might be a bit down about whoring themselves
D. Punter is just a lovely guy, ‘treat him well’

Etc. Etc.

Personally, no gift buying and hiding time, plus already shoving high enough levels of dosh their way. 

[Chorley]

Why would you provide valuable gift to a worker who earns far in excess of the average hourly rate of pay? 
The cheeky cows should be  funding it themselves and not leeching off of punters.

[BRB22]

Wouldn't know what gift to get the wg.

[Jimmyredcab]

In the past quite a few times, normally a cheap bottle of wine around £6, hardly life changing.

[albedo39]

No fucking chance! - it would be like me thanking a supplier for allowing me to be their customer. From a marketing POV it's no different to any other business proposition - IMHO they should give the punters a thank-you gift to encourage return business. (I quite like Dunhill Icon aftershave if any WG's are reading?). 

[Jimmyredcab]

No fucking chance! - it would be like me thanking a supplier for allowing me to be their customer.

I also tip my taxi mechanics, that guarantees me a good service next time I need them. 

[Chorley]

I also tip my taxi mechanics, that guarantees me a good service next time I need them. 

Does your mechanic charge £150 p/HR?   

[magnetico]

Does your mechanic charge £150 p/HR?   

This is what the mechanics for any luxury brand will charge... 

[Chorley]

This is what the mechanics for any luxury brand will charge... 

I don't think a London cab is a luxury brand tough, is it? 

[Jimmyredcab]

This is what the mechanics for any luxury brand will charge... 

The garages maybe, not the mechanics.   

If BMW have a large garage with a posh reception area and a posh girl working there it all has to be paid for.

[Jimmyredcab]

I don't think a London cab is a luxury brand tough, is it? 

Maybe not but a new one costs over £55,000.     

[Chorley]

Maybe not but a new one costs over £55,000.     

'Kin ell!!!  £55000

[Johny Stone]

Once flowers, couple of times a box of chocolates.
Lately just the half hour fee, I`m running short of money at the moment 

[Donbe]

There's little wonder some of the fluff and EAS exists here.

You're paying for sex so you really don't need to give gifts. You could buy them a fucking pony and they will still shudder the instant you walk out the door.

[Jimmyredcab]

You're paying for sex so you really don't need to give gifts.

I fail to see the problem with buying a £6 bottle of wine if you like the pro$$ie ------------- as long as it doesn't lead to buying her a Porsche.   

[Jimmyredcab]

There's little wonder some of the fluff and EAS exists here.

You're paying for sex so you really don't need to give gifts. You could buy them a fucking pony and they will still shudder the instant you walk out the door.

You paid £140 for this fat lump of lard.     

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[Fabaceous]

I have regularly taken wine to drink during the punt. Has always gone down well apart from one who said I don't drink but still put it in the fridge!
You will gather from my reviews that I'm a fluffy fucker sometimes - and have been known to take chocolates.
One that always gets a giggle is getting their pictures off their profile and printing them on a sheet of A4 and wrapping the dosh in that!
I'll get my coat:-)Fab

[lewisjones23]

I have regularly taken wine to drink during the punt. Has always gone down well apart from one who said I don't drink but still put it in the fridge!
You will gather from my reviews that I'm a fluffy fucker sometimes - and have been known to take chocolates.
One that always gets a giggle is getting their pictures off their profile and printing them on a sheet of A4 and wrapping the dosh in that!
I'll get my coat:-)Fab

yeah probably a nervous uncomfortable laugh

[Health and Fitness]

Seriously Nigel4498 you report my post because I have "issues".

I certainly do not thank you very much, I only gave my thoughts on the topic of discussion.

[Donbe]

You paid £140 for this fat lump of lard.     

Fail to see the relevance there pal. I paid for a service (a shit one albeit) you pay for a service AND spend money you don't need to to gift someone who likely is repulsed by you. 

[Jonestown]

Taking along a cheap bottle of plonk to a punt, and then probably consuming the greater portion yourself during the punt hardly counts as bringing a gift, something which, under normal understanding, would be left behind, intact, when you departed.

[lewisjones23]

I never needed help not all of us whore full time 

We know that, you just attention seek the rest of yours

[Kev40ish]

Only things I have taken have been for my own pleasure.

Fox tail butt plug I didn’t really want it back afterwards.

Remote control pantie vibrator to make her wear it in the pub before the meet.

Champagne to drink off her body, same with strawberries and cream

[Liverpool Discerning]

Well I am "fluffy" so have done a few presents but usually only with those that are regulars. As mine are mostly outcalls, then bottle of wine, odd box of choccies and once a bottle of Chanel no 5, but only because I didn't have to pay for it. That one paid dividends over time as several meetings and a few months later, she still mentions it.

Yes I know I am paying a lot of money and yes I know this is a financial arrangements but even so, sometimes politeness and courtesy go a long way.

<ducks>

[Jimmyredcab]

Fail to see the relevance there pal. I paid for a service (a shit one albeit) you pay for a service AND spend money you don't need to to gift someone who likely is repulsed by you. 

For someone who is obviously a serial punter (68 reviews) you have a very low opinion of pro$$ies.

[Everhard115]

Would not mind if its a long booking but dont see the point for shorter bookings. No harm unless the gifts are too pricey! Small token gift is fine in my opinion.

[OakTree]

I’ve taken a bottle of plonk on rare occasions I’ve used public transport. On late evening punts I’ve been offered a glass or two.

I wouldn’t go down the route of actual thought out gifts though. It’s very rare for me to see a girl more than twice anyway so I’d never be familiar enough to start bringing gifts.

[milkman10]

You paid £140 for this fat lump of lard.     

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the only present id take her is a diet sheet 

[Danger!WillRobinson]

Have previously bought a specific lingerie set for a regular (reasonably priced high street/department store stuff, not overpriced Rigby & Peller or Agent Provocateur), but that's as much for my pleasure (even though, granted she will use it with other punters - then again, she has bought herself specific outfits at my suggestion - again, I'm sure other punters will appreciate them). It added to my experience, and it's not like I make a habit of it.

If I'm seeing someone who's got a flat near a supermarket that charges for parking (£5 for 3 hours), then I don't see the harm in picking up a box of chocs/reasonable bottle of wine. Don't do it all the time, but basically, you catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar, so I don't see the overall harm, as long as you keep a sense of perspective.

[HarryZZ]

It's a personal service, perhaps the most personal service any of us will ever receive, so small token is hardly out of the way, as a society (whether it's right or wrong) we do tip people where the service is quite personal, a taxi driver who's car you share or a hairdresser or waiter rather than the bloke you bought some cheap trainers off the internet from, you wouldn't think of tipping them. The only issue is you may decide to withold your tip if the food is cold, you've had a chunk of your ear cut off or been scared senseless in a red light running taxi, so any small gift should be kept while the session is over.

[Donbe]

For someone who is obviously a serial punter (68 reviews) you have a very low opinion of pro$$ies.

Nothing to do with opinion pal, if they liked shagging so much they'd do it for free. They offer a service and we pay for it. They will find the majority of punters vile and lay there thinking of the cash. It's not tinder, they offer a service, you pay for it then you go.

Do you buy gifts for the guy who fixes your boiler, mow your grass etc.. prossies are service people not potential belles that might one day jack it all in and fall deeply in love with you.

[Donbe]

It's a personal service, perhaps the most personal service any of us will ever receive, so small token is hardly out of the way, as a society (whether it's right or wrong) we do tip people where the service is quite personal, a taxi driver who's car you share or a hairdresser or waiter rather than the bloke you bought some cheap trainers off the internet from, you wouldn't think of tipping them. The only issue is you may decide to withold your tip if the food is cold, you've had a chunk of your ear cut off or been scared senseless in a red light running taxi, so any small gift should be kept while the session is over.

The difference there is with waiters and hairdressers there is a social expectation on tipping them. Typically you don't tip other services or feel the need to in the same way. If a plumber comes and unblocks your bog do you tip? Given tipping is a social pressure I'm sure given the whole secrecy around punting then there's no social rule.

[OakTree]

Do you buy gifts for the guy who fixes your boiler, mow your grass etc.. prossies are service people not potential belles that might one day jack it all in and fall deeply in love with you.

Comparing a paid sex encounter with the guy that fixes your boiler is ridiculous. I don’t choose or enjoy calling out the boiler man.

Fucking a prostitute is an indulgent pleasure. It’s a fantasy. It’s an hour (that’s how long I normally book) of being someone I’m not in the real world, of fucking someone I’d never get near in the real world. Now I personally don’t give them gifts or tips apart from the occasional bottle of plonk to be drunk by both of us but I can fully understand some guys wanting to. If that’s what enhances their pleasure time then who am I to say you’re wrong and bang out of order.

As for what they think when I walk out the door? Who cares and who knows. It’s probably a lot less worse than what my missus thinks of me.

[EnglishRebecca121]

This subject has been posted before from memory and it always has a complete divide in opinions.

dont think there is a right or wrong answer .

[Danger!WillRobinson]

Nothing to do with opinion pal, if they liked shagging so much they'd do it for free. They offer a service and we pay for it.

As we surely all know by now, "the big difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money usually costs a lot less." 

[maybe]

Cost and money spent has nothing to do with whether you take a gift or not. if it makes that person happy and if it makes you happy then there is nothing else to it.

Common sense needs to be exercised, i didn't want her to creep out that i was pursuing her or anything, but being nice to ppl doesn't cost anything or in this case, much.

Recently i asked a regular how was easter and she said no one bought her any eggs and buying one for her self was pointless. So i simply bought her one and arrived with one which was very happily recieved

There wasn't any positive karma to be gained as service is and continuted to be good. I just felt like someone need to buy her an easter egg. So i did

[bearcat69]

Comparing a paid sex encounter with the guy that fixes your boiler is ridiculous. I don’t choose or enjoy calling out the boiler man.

Fucking a prostitute is an indulgent pleasure. It’s a fantasy. It’s an hour (that’s how long I normally book) of being someone I’m not in the real world, of fucking someone I’d never get near in the real world. Now I personally don’t give them gifts or tips apart from the occasional bottle of plonk to be drunk by both of us but I can fully understand some guys wanting to. If that’s what enhances their pleasure time then who am I to say you’re wrong and bang out of order.

As for what they think when I walk out the door? Who cares and who knows. It’s probably a lot less worse than what my missus thinks of me.

I agree with you in principal, but I do think it's somewhat important to point out that for some the lines between fantasy and reality with an escort can become blurred. A £6 bottle of plonk or an easter egg is hardly overstepping boundaries, but when I read about some of the things some punters give to prossies, and all the obvious thought that's been put into it, I do get a bit creeped out. It's just not a thought path I go down when thinking about a prossie, my overwhelming thoughts are just, I want to have sex with her, and she's gonna let me if I pay her and am clean and respectful to her. Does that mean I hate prossies or don't view them as people? I'd like to think it's not like that. They serve a purpose to me, a purpose that I get a hell of lot of enjoyment out of, and am very thankful for most of the time. I'm just not naturally somebody who's gonna think about giving a prossie a gift, that doesn't mean for me that I automatically judge somebody who does, but I would judge somebody who lets a prossie take the piss out of him as naive about. Just saying, that when you start 'gifting' a prossie a £1000 loan for a down payment on a flat, it's maybe time to think about if you're letting the piss get taken out of you, not that I see anybody doing that in this thread.

[workinallweek]

2 caburys cream eggs to my last punt and a bottle of wine
one egg licked from my cock  the other inserted into her and destroyed when she came