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Offline lewisjones23

Has punting changed you and your general mentality?

Personally speaking it has for me - I dont have any value on ' normal ' relationships with women. I couldnt think of anything worse than spending the day with a partner etc.

I much prefer to suit myself, quick punt in the morning then set about my daily business

I also refuse to buy into this nonsense about women using sex as a tool. When you can get your rocks off for £60 then you hold the aces really

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

Yes. Yes it has. I'm poorer than what I might have been.

That goes for 99.99% of the board here so thread closed;-)..

Offline Cuntminion

Yes I used to be normal , polite reserved

Now I walk around town dressed like
Hidden Image/Members Only

Demanding everyone call me Mr biggles

Currently banned from all London tescos because I assumed everyone had a price  :unknown:

Offline herbie007

No way of knowing really, but glad I’m not a miserable old fart like some of my mates who I don’t think punt, they have nothing to look forward to apart from their annual holidays or what they've got for dinner.

Where as I’ve got a duo to look forward to later with Dee and Sophie, a booking with Adele tomorrow, Katie on Thursday and Ameera later in the week.

So yea I reckon it’s changed me and saved me from living a boring life.  :drinks:

« Last Edit: September 28, 2015, 02:21:24 pm by herbie007 »

Online lostandfound

I've been punting so long I can't remember what I was like before!

unclesweetheart

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I don't think it's changed me. There's a direct line linking the tall pile of Mayfairs and Knaves in my adolescent bedroom (c1976) to my current hotlist. It's been great to meet women who are both very attractive and blatently sexual. For example, I'd never watched porn with a woman till I did with a WG. Making fantastic women cum has given me more sexual self-confidence (and hopefully, skill) even though on my best days I look like Tom Baker after a night on the town. Would still like a relationship, though: but it'd have to be with someone who was excited/fascinated by the last year and half of my life, rather than disapproving (obviously). I sense that's going to be some task.

Offline stevedave

It's made me much more proficient at licking pussy, to the point where civvy partners have asked how I learnt to do it...I don't think I'm especially good at it, just very committed  :D

vw

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I've been punting so long I can't remember what I was like before!
Thats right who would I have been anyway ?

Offline S.X. MacHine

Having come to it late in life and with three years of solid punting behind me, I can honestly say 'no regrets'.
I've able to fulfil what were formerly only fantasies; mostly BDSM based. Every week in life, I have a meeting to look forward to. Disappointments are rare; surprises are generally good. I have met many delightful and interesting young ladies, without having been taken advantage of...
The only downside; I think it would be almost impossible to give if I were even minded to do so.
Indeed, life changing. But in a good way.

Offline Stupidpunt

It's changed me for the better. I was quite bitter before I started punting about how few hot women I'd managed to pork, now I'm much more at peace with that side of my life.

Offline sticko

Swings and roundabouts for me.  The sex is great, the WGs I've seen have been great, I don't objectify women any more than I used to, and I've had some memorable experiences along the way, with more to follow I hope.  So no change for me and a lot of positives.

Also, as Herbie says, it's a million times better than sinking into middle age and getting overly excited by what lawnmower to buy.

The flip side though?  Fuck me it's distracting.  Particularly since I started spending time on UKP.  I'm starting a business at the minute, and I often find myself staring into space either reliving past experiences or thinking about what's to come, when I should be devoting all my energy to finding and landing clients.  This happened only this morning, thinking about a bucket list punt on Friday.

Wouldn't change any of it for the world though :)

Online RedKettle

it has kept my marriage going - now that is ironic!!

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

Swings and roundabouts for me.  The sex is great, the WGs I've seen have been great, I don't objectify women any more than I used to, and I've had some memorable experiences along the way, with more to follow I hope.  So no change for me and a lot of positives.

Also, as Herbie says, it's a million times better than sinking into middle age and getting overly excited by what lawnmower to buy.

The flip side though?  Fuck me it's distracting.  Particularly since I started spending time on UKP.  I'm starting a business at the minute, and I often find myself staring into space either reliving past experiences or thinking about what's to come, when I should be devoting all my energy to finding and landing clients.  This happened only this morning, thinking about a bucket list punt on Friday.

Wouldn't change any of it for the world though :)


Well be careful that the bizz doesn't fail that would look good in the receivers summing,

"main reason for failure too much time on UKP!".

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

it has kept my marriage going - now that is ironic!!

I bet it keeps a lot of marriages together!.
 
far more than we might think:)

Offline webpunter

When tapping the odd civvy then i have to remember not to ask "can you do this for a while .. ?".  And asking for a BJ without a condom would be dead give-away.  And no clock-watching coz it ain't on the meter  :lol:

Offline leatherlover

Now when I'm out, I play the WG or not game, and then try to work out how much I would pay for them to suck my cock.

Offline Turtle1


Iv learned that it cheaper to punt £100 for a lass then fork out £300 in a club trying to get your leg over with a slim success rate,

Machinegundummy

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Now when I'm out, I play the WG or not game, and then try to work out how much I would pay for them to suck my cock.

 :lol:
yes me too i love that game!

Timmy2

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:lol:
yes me too i love that game!
+1
absolutely......
Has it changed me...too right, I am a better fuck now then I have ever been (wish I could pound away like I used to, but age does catch up with you) Far more control of when I come.  I can piss about for 50 minutes giving and receiving (ORAL) fingering and generally have a good time and then come before the hour is up... My missus would be well pleased with me.  :cool: I do have to watch out that I maintain my inadequate performances at home, otherwise she would be suspicious  :scare:

Raddy

Offline Jamboney

Punting has changed my attitude to the world of dating, or trying to pull a civvy. I just can't be arsed with it anymore. When I realised it would cost me less to punt than it would dating or just trying to get a girl into bed that was it. If I keep this outlook up I'm probably going to die a lonely old man but at least I would have shagged loads of girls I more than likely wouldn't have been able to pull in real life.

Offline nike

Punting has changed my attitude to the world of dating, or trying to pull a civvy. I just can't be arsed with it anymore. When I realised it would cost me less to punt than it would dating or just trying to get a girl into bed that was it.

+1
punting keeps me married. If I hadn't got into punting, Iwould have had half a dozen wives and mistresses by know and god knows how much in divorce settlements that would have cost. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Offline howrude

I think I'm more into sex than I probably would be due to the fact that I've had a lot more than I otherwise would have. I originally started punting to get a little more sex than the very limited amount I'd experienced at that time. But once I discovered knew that life could have more in store for my dick than it otherwise would,there was no way I could resist. I was also very prudish and embarassed about sex when I was younger. But this has all been phased out now.

Offline Sonny Crockett

Punting has certainly consumed me at times, where it is the only thing I think about. A good punt certainly motivates me for the next few days.

However I also feel that punting has turned me into a Cynical Bastard after being messed around a few times this year.

Offline TeaAndCrumpets

First punt I was a nervous wreck. By getting over the nerves of a "first time" with a new WG - that seems to have developed into more confidence generally.

DoberManic

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For me it's been a welcome break from 5+ years of celibacy, due to working long hours and caring for a disabled relative.  I just didn't have the time to be messed around by civvy girls.

Now my situation has changed slightly, you can bet your ass I'll be making up for lost time!  :hi:

Offline rogercock00

I sometimes wish that I never punted, was never therefore unfaithful and then could consider myself as a better person as a result. I sometimes hate myself when I think of the seedy shit that I have experienced myself to.

Punting has assisted in my evolving into a randy feck who is often without feeling and survives on lust. I wish I was more normal sometimes.  :cry:

Expl1cit

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Positives
- More confident in the bedroom
- More confident with girls generally
- Many sexual fantasies ticked off the list
- Done all shapes, sizes, colours and cultures

Negatives
- Less money in my bank
- Less respect towards women (subconciously)
- Impatience with civvies building up to sex
- Psycological damage regarding real relationships
- Less value for money, everyting is now measurednin punting terms.


Overall, negatives far outweigh the positives but its irreversible damage so might as well enjoy the ride now and maybe one day i'll grow up.

Offline Tony_Red

I agree with the 2 posters above me (the negative bits) and feel completely the opposite to the OP.

The worst thing about punting for me - it's very hard to stop. I don't plan on seeing any more WGs this year (perhaps 1, but that's it). I have a few reviews to write, but not tonight as It's been a shitty, stressful day.

I need to go into 2016 with a CLEAR head and try to enjoy the punt and not let anxiety take over. As dirct as it sounds, I may have to see WGs as mere service providers than anything else, and this may help ease the anxiety.

Apart from 1 or 2  good/great punts this year, if I could go back to most of my punts and be the guy about to ring the WGs doorbell, I would tell myself to walk away.

Positive changes: There aren't any major ones, but I've managed to scrape out two:
1. I've hardly watched any porn since I have come back to punting. lol.
2. I exercise more to keep my mind occupied and away from punting. BUT, in between sets I end up checking UKP!

Sorry for the outpouring; it's been a shit day.

« Last Edit: November 10, 2015, 10:19:19 pm by Tony_Red »

Offline uutarn

No negatives for me so far (but relatively new to the "scene") and doubt there will be as i'm a fairly balanced, grounded individual... famous last words though! ;)
Oh yea the bank balance FUCK, and yea i now measure everything financially with the cost of a punt, so i guess thats a negative. :mad:

Positives are:
---> More confidence, with not only women but in general.
---> More happier.
---> Have more energy, due to me now going to the gym. (suppose thats a secondary positive)
---> Not watching porn anymore. (dunno if thats a positive or not...)

Offline Nagilum

Yes and as I suspect with most it has.

It's given me confidence in moving forward after a bad marriage.

Now I can't imagine anything worse than commitment.


np500

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A year ago I had gone about five years without sex due to the oh's medical situation and attitude ! had to watch porn every night to knock one out or I'd not sleep till 2,3 in the morning , marriage did not have long to run, both miserable fuckers at each other's throats most of the time so to speak. Anyway only ever meant to do it the once as just needed to have sex . But 12 months on 30 odd punts, 3k odd down, it feels sometimes as if punting is my real life and reality is my secret life ? Marriage is fine and happy now as I'm not wanting the sex that my wife can't provide, so the bitterness has gone , I don't watch hardly any porn and sleep like a baby, having  the best sex ever, I've never had this much fun ever,  own gym due to bad knees, lost 4 stone ( before 1st punt ) and fitter than ever, so yes punting has changed a lot in my life for the better and so pissed I did't start years ago ( in 50's ) first 3sum coming up, just keeps on getting better, enjoying it as before I know it I'll be dead or incapable of doing sex and I would be a very bitter man if I'd not done what I'm doing now.

Expl1cit

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A year ago I had gone about five years without sex due to the oh's medical situation and attitude ! had to watch porn every night to knock one out or I'd not sleep till 2,3 in the morning , marriage did not have long to run, both miserable fuckers at each other's throats most of the time so to speak. Anyway only ever meant to do it the once as just needed to have sex . But 12 months on 30 odd punts, 3k odd down, it feels sometimes as if punting is my real life and reality is my secret life ? Marriage is fine and happy now as I'm not wanting the sex that my wife can't provide, so the bitterness has gone , I don't watch hardly any porn and sleep like a baby, having  the best sex ever, I've never had this much fun ever,  own gym due to bad knees, lost 4 stone ( before 1st punt ) and fitter than ever, so yes punting has changed a lot in my life for the better and so pissed I did't start years ago ( in 50's ) first 3sum coming up, just keeps on getting better, enjoying it as before I know it I'll be dead or incapable of doing sex and I would be a very bitter man if I'd not done what I'm doing now.

30 punts, over 1000 posts and yet only 1 review  :thumbsdown:


np500

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she was so good I had to review her with my new phone, will do one for the 3sum ( my Xmas works do ) early punts were mainly average to crap and had not found ukp at that time, since  I found ukp I only see highly rated girls , hence all good punts with girls that have pleanty of good reviews so no real point in repeating what everyone else has already said but do discuss and give heads up etc on the Wales board.