how come the girls can mention it all the time and not get banned, the site is one sided
I think if a girl reports you then they check the message thread for any escort terminology and any mention of PPM, allowance, intimacy, sex you receive a ban. I've been banned twice and temp banned once. In my first few years on site I used PPM in messaged regularly. I received a warning and then slipped up a few months later and was banned.
Second time on site I was temp banned for asking if lady was looking for online(stunner from Uruguay), was interested to find out how arrangement would work. She must have reported me when I failed to follow up interest and I was temp banned for pursuing online!
I was banned a few months after that for using escort terminology - I mentioned that I was looking for intimacy in a few messages and again must have been reported.
Now that revolut exists, it makes it very easy to set up a new profile, I don't really care If I'm banned or not. That said I avoid the obvious phrases in messages.
