How many UKP members would say they are Manthers?

[simon07]

I was browsing the web and trying to understand why a mid 60s guy like me prefer gals aged 20-29 years. There is a term and it called being a Manther. A female equivalent is a cougar.

It is highly unlikely that a relationship between a guy and a gal 40 years younger would work out, though one wonders looking at older guys with their young Thai wives.

I wonder if gals are interested because we are more mature, have more money too? Also young gals are less opinionated at this age with less conflicts. On the other hand, gals look fresher, have firmer boobs which hang right and their bodies are more appealing. I have had the odd 40 year old gal and they are more fun, I do have to pick them cartefullly.

Are you men or manthers?

[Stevelondon]

I’ve never heard the term.
But I guess I would go along with me being an older manther.   
Older guy here and definitely prefer my women to be 30ish.

[tynetunnel]

I’m a manther then! I think for myself it’s about firm bodies, firm boobies, a sexy little bum, youthful energy and generally having some time with an attractive younger female that outside of the paid environment probably wouldn’t give me a glance. Enjoying something which traditionally would be unattainable for a guy of my age.

My interactions as a punter or sugar daddy are almost exclusively with 18-30 age girls. I have many happy memories to last me until the end of my days. Hopefully more to come. I regret nothing

[alabama1]

I was browsing the web and trying to understand why a mid 60s guy like me prefer gals aged 20-29 years. There is a term and it called being a Manther. A female equivalent is a cougar.

It is highly unlikely that a relationship between a guy and a gal 40 years younger would work out, though one wonders looking at older guys with their young Thai wives.

I wonder if gals are interested because we are more mature, have more money too? Also young gals are less opinionated at this age with less conflicts. On the other hand, gals look fresher, have firmer boobs which hang right and their bodies are more appealing. I have had the odd 40 year old gal and they are more fun, I do have to pick them cartefullly.

Are you men or manthers?

I am assuming you are talking punting and not civvies, as this is a punting website, in which case age is irrelevant as its  a business transaction, not a relationship.

[standardpostage]

I suppose "manthers" have always been around.

But now they have a name for it.

(Canadian / US slang).

Sometimes men have been called "tigers" and "stallions" 

[shed]

I am assuming you are talking punting and not civvies, as this is a punting website, in which case age is irrelevant as its  a business transaction, not a relationship.

Have to agree. With respect to the OP I don't see the purpose of the post 

[dunhill]

Also young gals are less opinionated at this age with less conflicts.

Well yes, of course, they have less life experience and confidence.  Older women are less likely to put up with bullshit.  Ageing is so damn liberating in this respect!

On the other hand, gals look fresher, have firmer boobs which hang right and their bodies are more appealing.

Well that's a sweeping statement and a half.  I think the word you're missing is some - some gals look fresher, have firmer boobs which hang right and their bodies are more appealing.

I think there are many reviews on here that are testament to the fact that not all younger women are any of the above.  And, on the other side of the coin, many women older women are in fantastic shape.  Also, some women are naturally blessed with wonderfully shaped natural breasts, many others are not.  That's more to do with genetics and luck, rather than age. 
 
As for manther, what a ridiculous term.  I have never understood this need to constantly categorise people.

[willie loman]

no chance of this term catching on, cougar caught on as it was considered abnormal behaviour, men have always preferred younger partners.

[alabama1]

no chance of this term catching on, cougar caught on as it was considered abnormal behaviour, men have always preferred younger partners.

Exactly this ! (99% anyway)

[contentguy]

As for manther, what a ridiculous term.  I have never understood this need to constantly categorise people.

Some make a profession out of it, check out DSM5

[Al R]

Don’t like the term and wouldn’t use it but suppose I currently am one seeing as the SB I’m seeing regularly is 25 & I’m 62

[alabama1]

Don’t like the term and wouldn’t use it but suppose I currently am one seeing as the SB I’m seeing regularly is 25 & I’m 62

I am pretty sure that the term only applies in civvy land. In the world of punt, as long as it's legal, nobody is judged or labelled.

[LLPunting]

Well yes, of course, they have less life experience and confidence.  Older women are less likely to put up with bullshit.  Ageing is so damn liberating in this respect!

Sexual liberation, emancipation, equality, the Internet, activism, feminism, peer pressure, media manipulation, cultural exploitation etc; all these factors as applied to the evolution of women's identity, rights and voice have led to women of younger and younger age being more militant about how they behave.  Plenty of youngsters behave more cocky and debauched than previous generations, perhaps through bravado, rebellion, confusion about their genuine identity or insecurity rather than perhaps from deliberation and wisdom which older women might be shaped by.  So women of all ages may well outwardly display similar sexual behaviour attracting men who are discerning about what they want from a partner as opposed to men who take little interest in the substance of a woman and simply want to fuck something young(er) with a pulse.

Plenty of older women who choose to or have yet to become more picky about the cock they'll lie with or get involved with.

Ageing is indeed a great opportunity to develop wisdom, identity and self-assurance but it's not a guaranteed maturation of every person, irrespective of gender (expression).


Well that's a sweeping statement and a half.  I think the word you're missing is some - some gals look fresher, have firmer boobs which hang right and their bodies are more appealing.

I think there are many reviews on here that are testament to the fact that not all younger women are any of the above.  And, on the other side of the coin, many women older women are in fantastic shape.  Also, some women are naturally blessed with wonderfully shaped natural breasts, many others are not.  That's more to do with genetics and luck, rather than age. 

^^^ Totally agree. 

 
As for manther, what a ridiculous term.  I have never understood this need to constantly categorise people.

Also another example of male supremacy BS (hiding gender insecurity) that they have to coin a term that is a contraction of "man panther" but women only get to be called an animal "cougar" rather than "fougar" or "wougar".  Where's an infertilising, crippling virus targeting misogynist behaviour gene factors when you need it?

[PhelTGrik]

I thought the term for the more mature and discerning gent was 'silver fox' or from the perspective of the younger woman "DILF"

Your basic Evo pysch reading will tell you that men regardless of age will home in around the 25-30 age range as most desirable between reproductive fitness and youthful energy.

Unless they're a consistent maker of terrible choices, women in that age bracket tend to have less baggage than 35+.

[Thephoenix]

I'm just a dirty old man.
I fancy women of all ages, and I bet I'm not the only one, so what should I be called?

[alabama1]

I'm just a dirty old man.
I fancy women of all ages, and I bet I'm not the only one, so what should I be called?

Normal ! 

[lillythesavage]

Normal ! 

Normal does not apply to humans anymore, you must have a label thought up by someone else  .

[webpunter]

KT ? 

I'm just a dirty old man.
I fancy women of all ages, and I bet I'm not the only one, so what should I be called?

[MissWolf]

KT ? 

God no he only likes young hotties  anyone over 30 is way past it in his mind

[dunhill]

I'm just a dirty old man.
I fancy women of all ages, and I bet I'm not the only one, so what should I be called?

an equal opportunist!

[alabama1]

God no he only likes young hotties  anyone over 30 is way past it in his mind

Don't scoff. Meeting a girl several years younger than himself is like arranging a Virgin Red letter day. This is the reason most of us punt, including me.

[MissWolf]

Don't scoff. Meeting a girl several years younger than himself is like arranging a Virgin Red letter day. This is the reason most of us punt, including me.

Not scoffing at all just the absolute wrong person to compare Thephoenix to with his broad punting taste 

[webpunter]

Can you imagine their faces when he rocks up, 'you must be f*****g joking' 

God no he only likes young hotties  anyone over 30 is way past it in his mind

[alabama1]

Not scoffing at all just the absolute wrong person to compare Thephoenix to with his broad punting taste 

Please remember that this is primarily a site to benefit  punters, not WG's. 

[MissWolf]

Please remember that this is primarily a site to benefit  punters, not WG's. 

It's OK dear I do know my place 

[finn5555]

I hate labels 

Saying all that the younger fitter prossies will always be in higher demand as most punters are paying for a fantasy 

[LLPunting]

an equal opportunist!

An opportunistic egalitarian.

[dunhill]

An opportunistic egalitarian.

An egalitarian libertine.

[Bonker]

An indiscriminating fucker.

With respect to my honourable friend. I am of the same persuasion.

[getsbettereverytime]

I was browsing the web and trying to understand why a mid 60s guy like me prefer gals aged 20-29 years. There is a term and it called being a Manther. A female equivalent is a cougar.

It is highly unlikely that a relationship between a guy and a gal 40 years younger would work out, though one wonders looking at older guys with their young Thai wives.

I wonder if gals are interested because we are more mature, have more money too? Also young gals are less opinionated at this age with less conflicts. On the other hand, gals look fresher, have firmer boobs which hang right and their bodies are more appealing. I have had the odd 40 year old gal and they are more fun, I do have to pick them cartefullly.

Are you men or manthers?

Never heard of a manther but you do sound like an old
Pervert.

[Moby Dick]

OP ask yourself  - How many punters start punting in their late teens, early 20s?

When I was that age I preferred SPs between 25 to 35 years old.
Now 30years later I prefer Milfy 30 to 40 year olds, but I still know a few fitties my age.
I don’t agree that younger are necessarily fitter. There can be some fat lazy slappers in it just for the money at any age.
Men are at their sexual peak at 19, women don’t get there sexually until there 30s. There is plenty of shagging to be had for men in their 20s. At that age I only punted specifics that I couldn’t get easy access to - ie group fun, duos, anal,  black women.
Whilst more commonly it’s the older guys 45 plus, with decent salaries, paid up mortgages , disposable income, grown up kids that can afford to punt, and obviously that will be with someone younger.
It ain’t rocket science.

What the fuck is a “manther”. Never heard of it. Never want to hear it again.

[LLPunting]

An opportunistic egalitarian.

= An opegal - pronounced Oh-Pigalle

An egalitarian libertine.

= An egalib

An indiscriminating fucker.

With respect to my honourable friend. I am of the same persuasion.

= An indifuck

I think Bonker has the winner...

[B4bcock]

When I visit young escorts I like to think I am playing a small part in helping to break down the gender gap and encroachment of ageism which have been creeping into our society.    Nothing more. 

[Thephoenix]

An indiscriminating fucker.

With respect to my honourable friend. I am of the same persuasion.

Thanks for the compliment Bonkers.

Actually, just fucker will do.

.....But normal?...... I've never been so insulted in my life!

I'll happily slip into the 'Mad old fucker' category. = Moffer?

[Thephoenix]

Please remember that this is primarily a site to benefit  punters, not WG's. 

Leave the girl alone mate!

It's not often I get mentioned in dispatches.

[akauya]

Thanks for the compliment Bonkers.

Actually, just fucker will do.

.....But normal?...... I've never been so insulted in my life!

I'll happily slip into the 'Mad old fucker' category. = Moffer?

Moffer!!   Love it   

[jimbobted]

Men usually prefer women of that age because we are genetically preprogrammed to do so. Remember it's all about planting your seed in a woman of child-bearing age who and this produce offspring.
I'm in my mid-40s and 20-35 is my preferred age range. I don't expect that to ever change, though I will "accept" up to my own age, but I think by 45 that'll become a permanent ceiling.

[stampjones]

I’m a manther then! I think for myself it’s about firm bodies, firm boobies, a sexy little bum, youthful energy and generally having some time with an attractive younger female that outside of the paid environment probably wouldn’t give me a glance. Enjoying something which traditionally would be unattainable for a guy of my age.

My interactions as a punter or sugar daddy are almost exclusively with 18-30 age girls. I have many happy memories to last me until the end of my days. Hopefully more to come. I regret nothing

+1

I actually get on with these girls better. I was with my SA reg the other week and we were just chatting and suddenly 3 hours had vanished and we hadnt even done anything. Im late 50s, she’s 21. Most women closer to my age I cant bear talking to for more than a few minutes. And as for fucking them- no thanks!

[lillythesavage]

+1

I actually get on with these girls better. I was with my SA reg the other week and we were just chatting and suddenly 3 hours had vanished and we hadnt even done anything. Im late 50s, she’s 21. Most women closer to my age I cant bear talking to for more than a few minutes. And as for fucking them- no thanks!

I have to admit the seeking thread on here recently got me into the going out thing, not comfortable with real young though, did so last Friday with the youngest yet, 28, and know exactly where you are coming from, more than 7 hours flew by, friends my age would have bored me long before.

[stampjones]

I have to admit the seeking thread on here recently got me into the going out thing, not comfortable with real young though, did so last Friday with the youngest yet, 28, and know exactly where you are coming from, more than 7 hours flew by, friends my age would have bored me long before.

Im not sure why it works like that tbh. I guess we’ve just heard everything we can say to each other with women closer to our own age. Or maybe in my case Im just regressing mentally faster than I thought 😂

There is the thing about getting looks I guess when you’re with someone much younger, but fuck them. I actually like it in a weird way.

At the end of the day you like who you like and as long as its legal and everyone is making free decisions, it’s fuck all to do with anyone else.

[lillythesavage]

Im not sure why it works like that tbh. I guess we’ve just heard everything we can say to each other with women closer to our own age. Or maybe in my case Im just regressing mentally faster than I thought 😂

There is the thing about getting looks I guess when you’re with someone much younger, but fuck them. I actually like it in a weird way.

At the end of the day you like who you like and as long as its legal and everyone is making free decisions, it’s fuck all to do with anyone else.

The what others thought was what bothered me, I could not get my head around it and was on edge doing it for the first time, but that soon went away, quicker than I expected.

On Friday I noticed something else, we were in a busy pub, and nearly every time one of us left the table, a guy would chance their arm and it did not bother me at all, not in the slightest, and I was not looking around or even thinking what others looks and thoughts were as I had previously.

It was a first time meeting, I knew nothing was going to happen at the end of it, it was supposed to be a couple of hours after work and she had an early work start the next day, and ended up on the last train out of town  . Different ones sadly.

Sold on it now

[sim0256]

When I started punting in my mid sixties all I wanted was some sex mad SP about mid twenties.  For convenience  my first was 38 and second the same. I went on what I wanted in first place and soon discovered the young did not have the experience of the 30+. While it is fantastic to feel a young one under you the older girls defo have the experience needed for the job.

My reg is about to turn 40 and I joke about her getting old but she looks and acts much younger so I will stick there , with the occasional young thing to boost my ego!

[southcoastpunter]

There is the thing about getting looks I guess when you’re with someone much younger, but fuck them. I actually like it in a weird way.

At the end of the day you like who you like and as long as its legal and everyone is making free decisions, it’s fuck all to do with anyone else.

100% yes!

 i am a big fan of seeking and had a range of ages from 19 to 40 - mainly early 20's and i too have noticed some looks from others but i don't mind at all and some have thought and referred to her as "your daughter." We just look at each other and try not to laugh out loud!!

[lillythesavage]

100% yes!

 i am a big fan of seeking and had a range of ages from 19 to 40 - mainly early 20's and i too have noticed some looks from others but i don't mind at all and some have thought and referred to her as "your daughter." We just look at each other and try not to laugh out loud!!

I posted more than once that my ego could not stretch to doing this, but I stuck with the threads for a while, had a few discussions about it, I did say I was there to learn  , and I did.

I have learned it is nothing to do with my ego, I do not even think about what others are looking at or thinking now, just enjoy the company I am with.

[Al R]

My only concern going out and about with someone over 35 years my junior was how she felt about it. It’s pretty obvious she’s not bothered in the slightest, and therefore neither am I. Couldn’t give less of a fuck about what others think and can’t say I’ve noticed any looks - apart from the one bitch of a hotel receptionist mentioned in the seeking thread.

[nwluvit]

If women are cougars why are men Manthers.
Surely we should be panthers or women would be mougars!!

[big-al93]

If women are cougars why are men Manthers.
Surely we should be panthers or women would be mougars!!

Why would women be mougars? Surely they would be wougars or womougars or some other such nonsense?

[Colston36]

I suppose "manthers" have always been around.

But now they have a name for it.

(Canadian / US slang).

Sometimes men have been called "tigers" and "stallions" 

And sometimes sad or desperate. Or in my case "is he still alive?"

[king tarzan]

I’m a manther then! I think for myself it’s about firm bodies, firm boobies, a sexy little bum, youthful energy and generally having some time with an attractive younger female that outside of the paid environment probably wouldn’t give me a glance. Enjoying something which traditionally would be unattainable for a guy of my age.

My interactions as a punter or sugar daddy are almost exclusively with 18-30 age girls. I have many happy memories to last me until the end of my days. Hopefully more to come. I regret nothing

I fully agree I like solid fresh hotties
Not the sugar daddy getting ripped off shit..I'm not that generous

[nwluvit]

Why would women be mougars? Surely they would be wougars or womougars or some other such nonsense?

You are right. Can't think what I was thinking of. Unless confusing Mother I'd like to fuck with Cougar. No excuse really. I will climb back into bed and contemplate my stupidity!