Does punting = being unfaithful?

[The_Don]

Difficult to generalise - you might be bored with sex at home and have a civvy fuck buddy with little emotional attachment. Equally you might not be feeling loved at home and end up getting EAS for an escort.

Your partner might say that they think an affair is worse than seeing an escort or vice versa but I suspect in the cold light of day they would take a dim view of either.

Indeed

Depends on the people involved 

[spkmstr48]

Unfaithful. However if your wife is not putting out she is being unfaithful as well. Maybe not in the sense of sleeping with someone else but she is not looking after your needs. Lets be honest - men get into relationships for sex and women have sex to secure relationships. When the woman is no longer holding up her end of the deal - you withdraw the relationship intensity until sex is back on the agenda.

Personally I think life is too short. This is why I choose never to get married. I do not want one woman having the control of my sexual adventures.

Where were you on my wedding day? Great advice, too late, doh!

 

[smiths]

I'm sure this has been raised before but the search box didn't throw anything up. Question being: if you punt inside a relationship, does it count as being unfaithful? The punter in me says it's just assisted masturbation, but I doubt I'd be so laissez-faire on learning that a partner had paid for sex.

Of course it does, its clearly cheating on a partner. How you think its assisted masturbation is beyond my comprehension. Once the decision has been made to punt it then becomes a case of not getting caught, I have spent my adult lifetime cheating on partners so I do the best I can do to not get caught and always put my own selfish needs without guilt first, which for ME is the best way of thinking as guilt can spoil a punt as I recall from my very early days when I did feel guilty, I threw that emotion away many years ago.

[PatrickCarnes]

Obviously it's being unfaithful.

[Jimmyredcab]

It's not cheating if you pay for it...

Try saying that in the divorce court.     

[ciscokid]

IMO it is being unfaithful without a doubt and the courts and the OH etc would see it the same way and, in my case, anyway I'd lose everything as my OH would definitely sack me. I do it because of boredom and she isn't as up for it as she used to be since having the kids. She is still gorgeous and I still fancy the pants off her but I just need something more these days and now I've started I'm struggling to stop so on that note.......I'm looking for good birds with big tits in the Notts/Derby area - 30 plus 

[Happylad]

Some of these replies remind me of President Clinton`s excuses about the blowjobs he was getting, and which he claimed weren`t `sex`.

Of course it`s unfaithful - it`s adultery, and it`s a breach of your marriage vows (remember the `forsaking all others` bit).  It`s entirely up to each individual whether he wishes to do it, and what excuses he makes to himself to justify it, and whether he is prepared to take the risks, and the conse

[Happylad]

pressed the wrong key again!!!!!

- consequences if her indoors finds out.

[MancSean]

The fact that if its an affair. You may have more feeling for that person than a W/G ?   

Depends first time I had an affair it was about the sex only. I eventually left my wife but never got together with the lass I was shagging although we are still friends. She is now married I  am single and she wants an affair with me but I am not interested. 
Affairs don't always cost more than seeing wgs in fact for me it was the opposite. But they are more risky as 3 people can get hurt instead of 2 if you see a hooker.

[MancSean]

Interesting if you look it another way though and can be honest bout your feelings. Let's say you other half was working as a whore behind your back.  Then you found out and she said it wasn't cheating as she was getting paid for it and the sex meant nothing it's just a job. 
How many blokes would say yes dear you are right and the extra cash is really great. It happened to me and it was a lot more hurtful painful than if she would have had a fling or even an affair.
I think most women I know would prefer it was a one night stand then a full blown affair or seeing WG's.
An affair can mean you are in love with someone else and most civvy women would be horrified if you were seeing wgs coz of the humiliation factor.  A one night stand can be blamed on drink drugs or an argument and whilst it might make things shit for a while there's a goid chance you will be forgiven in the end might take years though  and if she's normal she will go for a revenge shag at some point

[mrhaddock]

After being caught out by my Mrs I can tell you she definitely thought I was being unfaithful by seeing a working girl!

[Daffodil]

I would much rather see and Escort than have a full affair.

Definitely. So much less risk. I also find affairs become pretty dull after a while, like having two wives. Even less time for punting!

And yes, fucking prostitutes is cheating