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Offline Sleepmaster1

Ok lads, bit of embarrassing situation here, broke up with other half a year ago, so have been seeing the occasional wg for massages and extras. However I have a serious issue with premature ejaculation. It's so bad a couple of stokes and I have blown my load. The situation is so bad that if I have booked a session I'm normally done within 5 mins, yes that includes undressing and then dressing. Most of the wg want you out as soon as your done.
So can anyone recommend anything I could take to help with this issue.
I did buy something called cialis from an online store, aside from giving me a headache they don't seem to do anything else.
 

Online JontyR

Give up seeing WGs and start up on the cam girls. If you finish in two minutes there you'll have saved yourself a fortune.

Offline Wood2017

Give up seeing WGs and start up on the cam girls. If you finish in two minutes there you'll have saved yourself a fortune.

Made me laugh but you're probably onto something here  ;) :D

OP if your premature ejaculation problems have only come since your break-up then it's probably psychological, speak to your doctor about PE as he/she will be more helpful and knowledgable than 90% of us on here lol.

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but speak to your GP first

and try a thicker condom









Offline robsmith149

Have a wank an hour before you go.

Offline teddyking

What OP said above , have a wank a few hours before your meet
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Offline Lewis

Have a wank an hour before you go.

As said on the film "there's something about Mary" (I think)

Never go on a date with a loaded gun.

Offline bonham

Have a wank an hour before you go.
Is this realy eny good if Ive cum already I don't realy need to see someone.i go for a punt or massage because I need a release.
And feels so much better if you have a good few days build up that's me maybe others different  :D

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Offline bonham

Yep, have a wank prior
Isn't that the same has cuming two or three times in a punt you've still got to cum again in the punt so why waste the first one which is the best one :D
« Last Edit: February 11, 2021, 09:44:04 am by bonham »

Offline temptation

Go for massages instead at least you get a slow build up.

Offline Kerosene

This is more of a tricky one, but set your frame of mind if you can. I'm in the club that doesn't take a lot to set me off the first time, but when it does, I focus on how I'm feeling. I'm not there to prove myself as the world's greatest shag but for me to have the best time I can.

Give a bit of guidance if you can, ask her to slow up or try something else. Faster doesn't have to mean better.

Offline Freddybigstuff1983

Lay off the ED pills, they wont stop an early unload.  They will just get you hard faster afterwards.

As others have said, have a wank before you go
Or
Book an hour and ensure its a 2 pop meet, get the first one out the way in 5 mins then relax and enjoy
AND
Bang more providers.  They more and the hotter, the more desensitised you will get to haveing an amazing looking naked girl infront of you

Did you have this issue with your ex ?  Or is it purely a prossy issue ?

Offline markeewould

Have a wank an hour before you go.


when im seeing a real stunner and know the excitement may just be a little too much for me .... ive been known to quickly knock one out in the car before I go in to see the WG.... as long as you do it somewhere discrete there are no real issues .... im obviously not suggesting you do it in broad daylight while sitting outside the wg's house but .... up a quiet corner of a car park nearby may sort the isssue.... if you fail to rise to the occasion immediately then once inside with the wg - the wg will usually put this down to her technique and you tend to get more of hand job in the run up from the wg that way to get you hard again....  works for me ...! :wacko:

Offline bonham

But isn't that the reason your going for a punt because you feel horny so having a wank outside defeating the object I'd just drive home and not go in after that :lol:
« Last Edit: February 11, 2021, 10:54:56 am by bonham »

Offline Hugger-Mugger

However I have a serious issue with premature ejaculation.
Go see an ugly munter.  :crazy:

Or, more seriously, tell the girl that she's to try to make you come without touching your cock until the last 5 minutes of the session.
« Last Edit: February 11, 2021, 11:46:25 am by Hugger-Mugger »

Offline temptation

But isn't that the reason your going for a punt because you feel horny so having a wank outside defeating the object I'd just drive home and not go in after that :lol:
Saved myself a fortune over the years having a wank then cancelling a meet.

Offline TrampZ

Ok lads, bit of embarrassing situation here, broke up with other half a year ago, so have been seeing the occasional wg for massages and extras. However I have a serious issue with premature ejaculation. It's so bad a couple of stokes and I have blown my load. The situation is so bad that if I have booked a session I'm normally done within 5 mins, yes that includes undressing and then dressing. Most of the wg want you out as soon as your done.
So can anyone recommend anything I could take to help with this issue.
I did buy something called cialis from an online store, aside from giving me a headache they don't seem to do anything else.
 

Have you thought about seeing an Hypnotherapist regarding your issue.  I am sure they will be able to help.

Offline Roadster

There's loads about this online.  Sounds obvious but have you used google to read around the subject?  There is plenty of help out there.  Good luck.

Offline bonham

 :thumbsup:
Saved myself a fortune over the years having a wank then cancelling a meet.
Exactly that's the only thing wanking is for to save you money not to wank and still spend your money  :lol:

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when im seeing a real stunner and know the excitement may just be a little too much for me .... ive been known to quickly knock one out in the car before I go in to see the WG.... as long as you do it somewhere discrete there are no real issues .... im obviously not suggesting you do it in broad daylight while sitting outside the wg's house but .... up a quiet corner of a car park nearby may sort the isssue...

Gotta be the funniest answer to any post ever lol
Cracking one off in a car park prior to a meet,  :lol: :lol: :lol:

Offline Hugger-Mugger

Gotta be the funniest answer to any post ever lol
Cracking one off in a car park prior to a meet,  :lol: :lol: :lol:
Doesn't everybody :)

Offline SpaceRaiderDave

Lay off the ED pills, they wont stop an early unload.  They will just get you hard faster afterwards.


That's not true. It's a known side effect for some that ED medication does make cumming more dificult.

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Online Generalstockinghead

You need a 2 pop session mate, get the hair trigger out the way early on then go for it. If it was the same with the ex missus then concentrate on finding decent lasses who understand and let you get your breath back

Offline redliner69

My wife once gave me a wank having just put some Vick vapour rub under a pillow of one of the kids.

She assured me she had washed it off, but once she oiled me up, I could feel a slight warming up.

Took ages to make me come.
No idea if it acted like a desensitiser??  :unknown:

Offline joninbristol

My wife once gave me a wank having just put some Vick vapour rub under a pillow of one of the kids.

She assured me she had washed it off, but once she oiled me up, I could feel a slight warming up.

Took ages to make me come.
No idea if it acted like a desensitiser??  :unknown:
My wife has that desensitising effect on me too, but she manages to do it without the Vicks ! :lol:


Offline Little Joe

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Here you go. This totty specialises in curing premature ejaculation issues.....if you can cum within two hours you get your money back
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Offline Little Joe


when im seeing a real stunner and know the excitement may just be a little too much for me .... ive been known to quickly knock one out in the car before I go in to see the WG.... as long as you do it somewhere discrete there are no real issues .... im obviously not suggesting you do it in broad daylight while sitting outside the wg's house but .... up a quiet corner of a car park nearby may sort the isssue.... if you fail to rise to the occasion immediately then once inside with the wg - the wg will usually put this down to her technique and you tend to get more of hand job in the run up from the wg that way to get you hard again....  works for me ...! :wacko:
Why wouldn’t you just have two/three pops with the escort rather than bang one out and risk jizz all over your trousers
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Offline SpaceRaiderDave

My wife once gave me a wank having just put some Vick vapour rub under a pillow of one of the kids.

She assured me she had washed it off, but once she oiled me up, I could feel a slight warming up.

Took ages to make me come.
No idea if it acted like a desensitiser??  :unknown:

Yes it probably did. I don't reccomend Vicks Vapour rub but toothpaste is often suggested to be used as it will have same effect.
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Offline pbrown355

Visit for a lot of 15min punts. You will gradually overcome the psychological issue causing your premature unload.
My first punt (a long time ago now) was with a red hot Oriental lady and I came during the warm up. Real wate of money and not very fulfilling. If you are only getting 5 mins at least reduce the cost by 15 min appointments. Don't let it bug you and it will get better.

Offline Freddybigstuff1983

That's not true. It's a known side effect for some that ED medication does make cumming more dificult.

To be fair I've only ever tried tadalafil and sildenafil bit have never experienced that as a side effect.

Headaches and congestion yes but blow my load as fast as usual

Offline Sleepmaster1

With regards to knocking one out before the meet, as someone has mentioned Ed the first hit is the best.
I just can't seem to figure out why I'm performing so badly.
Do agree with the post suggesting that I book longer, however as this ripe old age I dnt think I have the capability of being ready for a second go.
I'm going to try and book an hour session to 2moro and pray for the best.

Offline andyitc

You can buy desensitising condoms. I tried them a few years ago and it really helped. Eventually you will get to an age where the opposite happens and it takes longer to get going and takes a lot longer to come. I recently went for a massage and really struggled to get to the finish line with the HE. The poor girl looked exhausted at the end

Offline Little Joe

With regards to knocking one out before the meet, as someone has mentioned Ed the first hit is the best.
I just can't seem to figure out why I'm performing so badly.
Do agree with the post suggesting that I book longer, however as this ripe old age I dnt think I have the capability of being ready for a second go.
I'm going to try and book an hour session to 2moro and pray for the best.
When your about to pop think of something really gross like getting down to some oral with Diane Abbott  :vomit:
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Offline 0ralist

That's not true. It's a known side effect for some that ED medication does make cumming more dificult.

I also read somewhere that ED medication delays ejaculation.  :thumbsup:
So may be get a small pack (2-4 tablet pack) or like some one else suggested buy some thick Jonnie's.  :cool:

Or go for broke and pop one out before the meet, take the little blue pill and get thick Jonnie's so you're properly restricted.  :drinks:
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Offline Mr_Rist

I wouldnt worry about it at all. I always shoot my juice within 5 minutes of seeing a ladyboy - its just how i`m wired.

Now in my older years I have discovered ED medications, so at least i`m partly hard.

Just go with it, and find whats right for you.

Offline Fac51

When your about to pop think of something really gross like getting down to some oral with Diane Abbott  :vomit:

That has made me feel sick  :vomit:  Funny though  :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

Offline hairymonster

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I cant vouch for the site, its just where I found them today. I fucked up and bought a pack of these years back and had a great time. I went like a train for a whole hour, cock like an iron bar, the poor wg had to go the extra mile to get me off  :D
 
I almost left a tip as she was wrung out. Tempted to get some more, but I would be dejected if I went an hour and still didnt get an unload.

Quick look on the net and there are loads of products with just the anti prem drugs. Give them a whirl.

Offline SpaceRaiderDave

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I cant vouch for the site, its just where I found them today. I fucked up and bought a pack of these years back and had a great time. I went like a train for a whole hour, cock like an iron bar, the poor wg had to go the extra mile to get me off  :D
 
I almost left a tip as she was wrung out. Tempted to get some more, but I would be dejected if I went an hour and still didnt get an unload.

Quick look on the net and there are loads of products with just the anti prem drugs. Give them a whirl.

200mg is a very high doseage. Anyone considering this combo I strongly suggest you split the tabs and start much lower and work your way up if required
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Offline Little Joe

With regards to knocking one out before the meet, as someone has mentioned Ed the first hit is the best.
I just can't seem to figure out why I'm performing so badly.
Do agree with the post suggesting that I book longer, however as this ripe old age I dnt think I have the capability of being ready for a second go.
I'm going to try and book an hour session to 2moro and pray for the best.
.....take a stop watch with you and then report back 👍👍
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Offline supercookie

I'm surprised no-one seems to have mentioned the use of delay sprays. I use one occasionally if I'm super horny. You use a little on your most sensitive cock spot and 15 mins later you're good to go. Lasts up to an hour before it starts to wear off.
Word of warning though...the first time I used it I sprayed loads all over the head.....result was I couldn't feel a fucking thing ! Not even it slipping inside  her pussy ! I get away now by spraying a little of the liquid on a hard surface then put a couple of dabs on using my finger. With practice you can get it down to a fine art.  :cool:
« Last Edit: February 12, 2021, 02:26:30 pm by supercookie »

Offline Kerosene

I'm surprised no-one seems to have mentioned the use of delay sprays. I use one occasionally if I'm super horny. You use a little on your most sensitive cock spot and 15 mins later you're good to go. Lasts up to an hour before it starts to wear off.
Word of warning though...the first time I used it I sprayed loads all over the head.....result was I couldn't feel a fucking thing ! Not even it slipping inside  her pussy ! I get away now by spraying a little of the liquid on a hard surface then put a couple of dabs on using my finger. With practice you can get it down to a fine art.  :cool:
Let the WG you've got the spray on if you're looking for OWO. If it tastes shit you won't get a thank you.

Offline supercookie

Let the WG you've got the spray on if you're looking for OWO. If it tastes shit you won't get a thank you.

Never been a problem cos I always insist on a shower or a quick tackle wash and that would remove any 'residue'. In any case most delay sprays evaporate. :)

Offline winkywanky

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Here you go. This totty specialises in curing premature ejaculation issues.....if you can cum within two hours you get your money back


 :lol:

Offline Little Joe

Anyone ever experience a situation where you are about to cum a tad early in the punt and try stop the girl but a little to late. You are at the point when you then experience what I describe as a non spurting sort of muffled orgasm and then find you can’t cum properly later. So fucking frustrating.
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Offline winkywanky

Yes it probably did. I don't reccomend Vicks Vapour rub but toothpaste is often suggested to be used as it will have same effect.


Toothpaste contains a mild abrasive, DO NOT rub that on your bellend. You bellend.

Offline supercookie

  Muffled orgasm...yes...and its bloody infuriating  :mad:
« Last Edit: February 12, 2021, 06:14:36 pm by supercookie »

Offline vindici

I'm surprised no-one seems to have mentioned the use of delay sprays...

Using any such product or creams is a huge no no for me. I always want OWO, and using shite that make the SP's mouth go numb and ban me forever as a client, is just not on the cards.

Those solutions are for covered sex only, anything else is gonna get you blacklisted.

Offline winkywanky

Anyone ever experience a situation where you are about to cum a tad early in the punt and try stop the girl but a little to late. You are at the point when you then experience what I describe as a non spurting sort of muffled orgasm and then find you can’t cum properly later. So fucking frustrating.


Yes. I think it's common.

But like anything else, when you become experienced you can adopt a coping strategy. Either decide you're going to cum twice in whatever length booking you have and simply enjoy the first cum fully, or make sure you see yourself cumming...if you get my drift, and take evasive action. Perhaps retract and change positions to take yourself off the boil, or even take a short break by going down on her for example.