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Online Socrates50

Hi,
I can’t believe I’m the first to have this ‘brilliant idea’, so there may be another thread on this, but I couldn’t find it.
If before you hand over the cash and get down to business would mentioning that you would review them on here be a good way of improving their service level ?

It sounds like a good idea to me but it also sounds like something that may  have unintended / unforeseen consequences ?
Or is it somehow unethical or simply not good form ?

Thanks for any thoughts / advice

Offline hendrix

I really, really hope that no punter here is doing this.

Disgraceful behaviour imo and has been used as a tactic by scum punters (here and elsewhere over the years) to push boundaries.  :thumbsdown:

Online alabama1

You make Baldrick look like a nuclear physicist OP  :crazy: :thumbsdown:

Offline hunkybc

My advice don't even mention this forum in conversation. Most of them hate it!

Offline contentguy

There are plenty of examples on here of this behaviour.

And the protagonists when identified tend to get banned.

Check King Tarzan’s posts / reviews and search for other examples.

It’s coercive (pretty nasty) behaviour.

Offline RandomGuy99

Sounds like a good way to get kicked out the door stark bollock naked and your clothes thrown at you out the window  :wacko: :wacko: :wacko: :wacko: :wacko: :wacko: :wacko:

SPs tolerate this site. None of them are big fans.
« Last Edit: March 19, 2024, 09:42:15 pm by RandomGuy99 »

Offline PepeMAGA

The reviews will probably read like touts so get you banned.
Particularly if everyone else that reviews them says the service is shit

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Hi,
I can’t believe I’m the first to have this ‘brilliant idea’, so there may be another thread on this, but I couldn’t find it.
If before you hand over the cash and get down to business would mentioning that you would review them on here be a good way of improving their service level ?

It sounds like a good idea to me but it also sounds like something that may  have unintended / unforeseen consequences ?
Or is it somehow unethical or simply not good form ?

Thanks for any thoughts / advice
There isn't another thread on this 'brilliant idea' because using or attempting to use this site to gain any sort of favours will get you banned and don't think we don't find out, we do.

Then there's the escorts who hate this site and will fuck you off for even suggesting it and even if they go through with the booking you'll end up listed on ClientEye and blacklisted.

Now unfortunately you have cast a doubt over how genuine your reviews are.

Online alabama1

I think that the OP is a little unwilling to put his head above the parapet at the moment.  :rolleyes: To be fair to him, in previous posts , he has described himself as 'a fool', and 'a bit of a twit'  :D
« Last Edit: March 19, 2024, 10:12:42 pm by alabama1 »

Online webpunter

You make Baldrick look like a nuclear physicist OP  :crazy: :thumbsdown:

If ever asked by an SP about UKP there should be the same response every time

If thinking about telling an SP about UKP isn't bad enuf, posting it on here as a 'brilliant idea' is beyond comprehension

IMO its on the way to bringing UKP into disrepute 

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Online Socrates50

I did only ask a question !
The quotes around ‘brilliant idea’ were meant to indicate that I suspected it wasn’t ’brilliant’ (I obviously failed there).
My gut made me suspect it was not the right thing to do, hence the question !
I wasn’t ever suggesting I’d review inaccurately here … just thought it could spur them on to make a good job of it .. thereby earning a good review.
So I’m surprised by how morally bankrupt I must be to have even thought it !
Rest assured I shall not employ this Baldrick-esk ‘cunning plan’.
Thanks for the feedback ! Really … I did ask for it 😁

Online webpunter

I did only ask a question !
The quotes around ‘brilliant idea’ were meant to indicate that I suspected it wasn’t ’brilliant’ (I obviously failed there).
My gut made me suspect it was not the right thing to do, hence the question !
I wasn’t ever suggesting I’d review inaccurately here … just thought it could spur them on to make a good job of it .. thereby earning a good review.
So I’m surprised by how morally bankrupt I must be to have even thought it !
Rest assured I shall not employ this Baldrick-esk ‘cunning plan’.
Thanks for the feedback ! Really … I did ask for it 😁

Keep digging
Now why does Wankchester spring to mind ?

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If I get questioned about here, my general response is “what’s a UKP?”
It won’t gain you any favours I can guarantee matey
Lesson learnt, you asked, and now you know  :lol:  :drinks:

Offline badsin

You make Baldrick look like a nuclear physicist OP  :crazy: :thumbsdown:

Is it a cunning plan?

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just thought it could spur them on to make a good job of it .. thereby earning a good review.
They won't have earned the review though, they will have been more or less blackmailed with the threat of a negative if they don't do well enough.

Any service given because of an incentive would not be the normal service they provide so any review would not accurately reflect the usual level of service.

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They won't have earned the review though, they will have been more or less blackmailed with the threat of a negative if they don't do well enough.

Any service given because of an incentive would not be the normal service they provide so any review would not accurately reflect the usual level of service.

Exactly that, it's a form of bribery, or worse, coercion.

Would you go in to a (enter business type here) and tell them that you are going to post a review on (name a popular review site) and give them a review?

If I was the proprietor I would ask you to take your business elsewhere.

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Gotta say I saw the title of this thread and thought  :scare: :scare: :scare: I then opened it with one eye closed

Offline Kool Keef

Hi,
I can’t believe I’m the first to have this ‘brilliant idea’, so there may be another thread on this, but I couldn’t find it.
If before you hand over the cash and get down to business would mentioning that you would review them on here be a good way of improving their service level ?

It sounds like a good idea to me but it also sounds like something that may  have unintended / unforeseen consequences ?
Or is it somehow unethical or simply not good form ?

Thanks for any thoughts / advice

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Offline lewisjones23

Anytime the forum is brought up by a WG in a booking, I pretend I have no idea what it is.

If I then plan on seeing them again and I think my review will identify me, I hold off on posting it until I have had my fill.

Any negative reviews are posted asap, usually with as few identifiable details as possible

Offline scutty brown

Hi,
I can’t believe I’m the first to have this ‘brilliant idea’, so there may be another thread on this, but I couldn’t find it.
If before you hand over the cash and get down to business would mentioning that you would review them on here be a good way of improving their service level ?

It sounds like a good idea to me but it also sounds like something that may  have unintended / unforeseen consequences ?
Or is it somehow unethical or simply not good form ?

Thanks for any thoughts / advice

It is unethical
If you are caught doing it you'll probably get banned. We've lost several members that way

Offline nightbot

I really, really hope that no punter here is doing this.

Disgraceful behaviour imo and has been used as a tactic by scum punters (here and elsewhere over the years) to push boundaries.  :thumbsdown:
Yep I think it's a very scummy thing to do, especially when done to an already well reviewed SP.

I know atleast one SP who has mentioned this to me when someone did this to her and boasted about how he's a seasoned punter with many reviews, and that person was also constantly messaging her, sending her pictures of his erection and while she wasn't pissed or anything, she didn't feel comfortable with it or to tell him to stop messaging her all day as if she's his girlfriend as she was scared that it'd leave to a negative.
« Last Edit: March 19, 2024, 11:56:17 pm by nightbot »

Online SonofAJohn

Lot's of punters do this loool
Also, loads of escorts ask to be reviewed as well.

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Lot's of punters do this loool
Also, loads of escorts ask to be reviewed as well.
Who?  :unknown:
Even if an escort asks to be reviewed there's no need for any punter to mention anything about this site and they shouldn't know you're a member anyway.

Have to say you're making yourself look quite dodgy.

Online SonofAJohn

Who?  :unknown:
Even if an escort asks to be reviewed there's no need for any punter to mention anything about this site and they shouldn't know you're a member anyway.

Have to say you're making yourself look quite dodgy.
Escorts have asked me to review them loads of time but could mean AW reviews but I ignore them. UKP has never come up in conversation.

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In the end those who perform better and exceed become regulars

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Escorts have asked me to review them loads of time but could mean AW reviews but I ignore them. UKP has never come up in conversation.
Who are the punters you claim are telling escorts they will review them on here.

Online SonofAJohn

Who are the punters you claim are telling escorts they will review them on here.
I have had escorts tell me guys have said they will review them and I have seen it mentioned on old reviews on the forum. From what I have been told, it is common conversation
« Last Edit: March 20, 2024, 12:23:10 am by SonofAJohn »

Offline DastardlyDick

UKP has never come up in conversation.

That's certainly my experience.
This forum is not exactly at the forefront of my mind while getting serviced by an Escort/Masseuse!

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I have had escorts tell me guys have said they will review them and I have seen it mentioned on old reviews on the forum. From what I have been told, it is common conversation
Can you link to the reviews or are you just making it up as you go along? Why would escorts be talking to you about other punters or why would you be talking to escorts about other punters.   :unknown:

Online SonofAJohn

Can you link to the reviews or are you just making it up as you go along? Why would escorts be talking to you about other punters or why would you be talking to escorts about other punters.   :unknown:
Perhaps they feel comfortable telling me some of their grievances with other punters? Not that I ask for it

Online SonofAJohn

@daviemac, seems like you want me to grass up other punters who try to exchange reviews for favours with escorts. That information is readily available on here, saafe and other review sites if you look for it. It is common practice. I haven't unearthed a new phenomenon.

Offline JustaPunter

Hi,
I can’t believe I’m the first to have this ‘brilliant idea’, so there may be another thread on this, but I couldn’t find it.
If before you hand over the cash and get down to business would mentioning that you would review them on here be a good way of improving their service level ?

It sounds like a good idea to me but it also sounds like something that may  have unintended / unforeseen consequences ?
Or is it somehow unethical or simply not good form ?

Thanks for any thoughts / advice

I really don’t think you have thought this through

What you are suggesting is very close to coercion by pretty much saying do what I want or you get a bad review
« Last Edit: March 20, 2024, 01:01:34 am by JustaPunter »

Offline JustaPunter

Lot's of punters do this loool
Also, loads of escorts ask to be reviewed as well.

No, they don’t.

But if you do then this is another post you have made that makes you appear to be a wrong un

Offline JustaPunter

Escorts have asked me to review them loads of time but could mean AW reviews but I ignore them. UKP has never come up in conversation.

That isn’t the same as what the OP was talking about though, is it?

One is using the threat of a bad review to pressure the escort

The other is an escort asking a client to review them, presumably after the deed is done

If when asked the punter then says I will only do a positive review if you give me free time or a service you don’t normally do then we are back to what the OP was talking about

Online Colston36

Anytime the forum is brought up by a WG in a booking, I pretend I have no idea what it is.

If I then plan on seeing them again and I think my review will identify me, I hold off on posting it until I have had my fill.

Any negative reviews are posted asap, usually with as few identifiable details as possible

I have never had any woman mention us. Nor have I mentioned us. It seems absurd to me..

Offline LLPunting

Yep I think it's a very scummy thing to do, especially when done to an already well reviewed SP.

I know atleast one SP who has mentioned this to me when someone did this to her and boasted about how he's a seasoned punter with many reviews, and that person was also constantly messaging her, sending her pictures of his erection and while she wasn't pissed or anything, she didn't feel comfortable with it or to tell him to stop messaging her all day as if she's his girlfriend as she was scared that it'd leave to a negative.

Is the harassing punter still active here?

Offline nightbot

Is the harassing punter still active here?
Most likely, but I won't be able to pinpoint who it is and don't wanna point to the wrong person. Only thing I can use to guess is when it happened and any reviews that may have happened around thst time. So not much to go on tbh.
« Last Edit: March 20, 2024, 04:08:59 am by nightbot »

Offline LLPunting

@daviemac, seems like you want me to grass up other punters who try to exchange reviews for favours with escorts. That information is readily available on here, saafe and other review sites if you look for it. It is common practice. I haven't unearthed a new phenomenon.

Why are you looking for such info on SP safety sites?

Your experience is not one that's been previously described by others here iirc, at least in London or UKP sections.  Several others have already said it doesn't resemble their punting experience.  In the years I've been here in London forum I've seen only a very few mentions of SPs asking for UKP reviews (low sub 1% of all reviews posted in region), a little more mention about SPs hating UKP reviews and similarly few mentions of punters trading UKP reviews for an enhanced service.

Which SPs have been asking you specifically to review them; veteran indies, newbie indies, agency girls, pimped ones?  How many SPs have you seen from AW?
My recent years punting with the aid of UKP I've had no more than a clutch of girls asking for reviews on AW (that hadn't been formally booked on AW) and none from indies or agencies.
Many moons ago when I had no inkling about UKP and was on the other, subsequently compromised review site, I had very few demands for or enquiries about reviews amongst many hundreds of punts.

I've been challenged about UKP perhaps twice and dead-ended the enquiry both times.  I've had less than half a dozen SPs ask how I'd heard about them and I told them their advertised profile appealed to me regardless if research here had emboldened me.

Offline Stevelondon


I’ll give the OP the benefit of the doubt with his rather naive wording.

Best advice would be to treat the topic of reviews with a SP and UKP especially, in much the same way as you should treat the subject of politics and religion in the pub.
Don’t !!!!

Online Milfman1112

Lot's of punters do this loool
Also, loads of escorts ask to be reviewed as well.

Oh dear
...
And you are digging a bigger hole the more you say.

Offline Andywb

Hi,
I can’t believe I’m the first to have this ‘brilliant idea’,

Thanks for any thoughts / advice

Socrates - great choice of name by the way.  But you didn't think this one through  :D :D

Online alabama1

@daviemac, seems like you want me to grass up other punters who try to exchange reviews for favours with escorts. That information is readily available on here, saafe and other review sites if you look for it. It is common practice. I haven't unearthed a new phenomenon.
Basically i would say yes, if you have proof, but i doubt that you have. Much of what you say is based on assumptions

Online mr.bluesky

Socrates - great choice of name by the way.  But you didn't think this one through  :D :D

More likely named after the Brazilian footballer rather  than the philosopher  :D

Offline jesse4585

Ethics aside, I'd expect the tactic to backfire in most cases, and especially if you want a natural GFE type experience. Few perform better when they're expecting to be judged, especially young people. I guess only about 1 in 10 come across better at an interview compared with how they are in regular interactions.

At least for GFE punters, if you're looking to get the best out of the lass, starting by giving her a 10 min massage consistently works great in my experience - if you don't have massage skills, you'd need to read up / watch a few videos first. And then be domineering, but in a benevolent, low key & non rough way.  It took me a few years to perfect & doesnt work every time,  but recently I've been having the best sex of my life  - in some cases WGs getting more physically turned on & putting much more effort into pleasing me than the few civvies I pulled back in my 20s & 30s, when I was in much better shape than now.

As for lasses asking for a review, about 1 in 4 do that with me.  Mostly Diva lasses who I think always meant a Diva review, but also 1x brothel (HoD) lass & 1x AW girl. Always at the end of the punt though.

Offline David1970

I have had escorts tell me guys have said they will review them and I have seen it mentioned on old reviews on the forum. From what I have been told, it is common conversation

Why are you even discussing this site with a SP, how is it brought up in the conversation?
Do they ask you if you are a member, never happened to me?
Do you say that you are a member?

Offline Southernbloke

I had to read this post several times before I realised that the OP was being serious. I then checked that the date wasn’t 1st April.
I really wish he was joking!!!!

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Perhaps they feel comfortable telling me some of their grievances with other punters? Not that I ask for it
As the general consensus of opinion from members with a great deal of punting experience and multiple reviews on here is that that sort of thing rarely happens I don't believe you, I think it is you who brings the subject up.

@daviemac, seems like you want me to grass up other punters who try to exchange reviews for favours with escorts. That information is readily available on here, saafe and other review sites if you look for it. It is common practice. I haven't unearthed a new phenomenon.
I've asked you once to link to the reviews that give that information and I am now asking you again, you are making a statement and making accusation against other members so you need to back it up with facts. Link to the reviews that you got that information from.

'Grass other punters up' are you for real? so you think fake or coerced reviews benefit the site? I've got news for you, they don't, they give a false impression of the standard of service which in turn leads to others wasting their money.

As a reminder, this site is designed to benefit all members by the posting of honest reviews that are a true reflection of what happened during a booking, people like you who condone coercing escorts seem to think it's here to be used as a tool to benefit the individual.

The more you post the more you come across as a wrongun.

Online SonofAJohn

As the general consensus of opinion from members with a great deal of punting experience and multiple reviews on here is that that sort of thing rarely happens I don't believe you, I think it is you who brings the subject up.

Now you're just making assumptions.

Online PilotMan

I have been asked once before prior to a booking with an SP if I am a member of UKP. She was a serious hater of the site, and that was well documented on here. I feigned ignorance, but never managed to secure a booking.

I have recently been identified by an SP after posting an overall complimentary but, ultimately neutral review. This happened fairly recently and the SP sent a barrage of insulting texts to my punting phone, followed by coming on here to complain that I gave her a neutral.

Even after receiving a positive review (not just from me) SP's aren't always happy. Often the review will contain explicit sexual details that they aren't comfortable with being available to read on a public forum.

I have also been identified by SP's after giving a really positive review, and they mentioned to me during a subsequent punt with them that they know about my review and who I am. Only once have I had a booking declined.

The bottom line is, writing a review can have both positive and negative consequences, you can never be sure of which, so best err on the side of caution.

Offline akauya

I had to read this post several times before I realised that the OP was being serious. I then checked that the date wasn’t 1st April.

Yeah, me too.

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Rule 1: Outside UKP, you don’t talk about UKP.
Rule 2: If in doubt look at Rule 1.
Rule 3: If you're really thick, keep looking at Rule 1 until you get it.