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londonpunter1 - There is an alternative different approach which seems to work for me but maybe because of what i do with SB's. I am not a "sex meet" guy - i like to do things with my SB's (social, sports, active, weekends away and even trips abroad etc etc - as well as having some great sex with them) so I don't talk money at all before meeting for a M&G - and i never suggest going to a hotel afterwards.

At the M&G and at the subsequent dinner (i usually do a M&G followed by a separate dinner date) i sell the overall concept of what i am about and the type of arrangement we will have. It becomes clear (i hope) that i am not just about the sex and the lady shouldn't be in it just for the money but for the experiences and memories we will create together.

Obviously it doesn't work for all ladies and it is getting harder to find "my type", both in looks and the type of arrangement but with both time and a lot of effort, it pays off for me  - being single and therefore able to host helps a lot.
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Offline paul_tall_

londonpunter1 - There is an alternative different approach which seems to work for me but maybe because of what i do with SB's. I am not a "sex meet" guy - i like to do things with my SB's (social, sports, active, weekends away and even trips abroad etc etc - as well as having some great sex with them) so I don't talk money at all before meeting for a M&G - and i never suggest going to a hotel afterwards.

At the M&G and at the subsequent dinner (i usually do a M&G followed by a separate dinner date) i sell the overall concept of what i am about and the type of arrangement we will have. It becomes clear (i hope) that i am not just about the sex and the lady shouldn't be in it just for the money but for the experiences and memories we will create together.

Obviously it doesn't work for all ladies and it is getting harder to find "my type", both in looks and the type of arrangement but with both time and a lot of effort, it pays off for me  - being single and therefore able to host helps a lot.
Having read your posts with interest re seeking and obviously your approach has worked for you. With the proliferation of accounts on seeking post Covid looking to sell content, upfront travel costs/deposit or online first approaches and accounts that are created and only logged in for a day or so before seemingly abandoned what in a profile identifies them as someone that would be open for your initial conversation ? Lets face it profile text on some of the newer profiles is limited to say the least. Being based on the south coast are you managing to tap an area that is lacking sd's ? This last time since renewing I have had a handful of older women approach me mentioning that they are quite open to travel up to Surrey etc for meetings from the South Coast and South West and I have mainly never explored that as wary when they have mentioned even for a M&G drink and they are potentially 1 to 2 hours drive away.
I saw earlier on a release that Brandon and his Wife (22 years old) are now back running the site and providing direction and appear to be rebranding to Hypergamy whilst improving the security of the site to make it harder for Scammers and Spammers to join. Based on profile messages I still get on a daily basis for Ukraine, Asia, South America thats long over due and not working if its been implemented, there seems to be more profiles set up based in London when they are overseas.

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I saw earlier on a release that Brandon and his Wife (22 years old) are now back running the site and providing direction and appear to be rebranding to Hypergamy whilst improving the security of the site to make it harder for Scammers and Spammers to join. Based on profile messages I still get on a daily basis for Ukraine, Asia, South America thats long over due and not working if its been implemented, there seems to be more profiles set up based in London when they are overseas.

I got an email about this, as we all probably did. Seems a management company had it while he was away, possibly just kept it ticking over and played it safe, which came with the nosedive in value for some. Great to see someone competant is back and hope he gives it the right marketing push to popularise the site (with stunners) again, and take it in a direction that makes it worthwhile to a diverse user base. With Match Groups recent struggles, will be interesting to see what they choose to do.

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As atrueyorkie said, we all have our preference on when/how.
Some will be before meeting (usually my go to), some at the meet and greet, some after.
I qualify allowance / ppm before, I find a lot have expectations above my budget so it saves time.
It’s also useful bc if they quote an hourly rate you may have a pro/ semi pro.

Your last Review was in 2016 and I don’t see a lot of SB intel being posted here.

Online southcoastpunter

what in a profile identifies them as someone that would be open for your initial conversation?

Good question - i just get a feel for what the lady might be after - sometimes it is that she is just about money (the "treat me like the princess i am" type) or they say in their profile things like "i am not into ONS" or "I am not an Escort" which may imply they are not into PPM's etc.  As always, its a lot of hard work and my messages are always personalised to them and their profile. I don't do what some guys seems to do that say "its a numbers game". I am selective in who i approach.

Being based on the south coast are you managing to tap an area that is lacking sd's ? This last time since renewing I have had a handful of older women approach me mentioning that they are quite open to travel up to Surrey etc for meetings from the South Coast and South West and I have mainly never explored that as wary when they have mentioned even for a M&G drink and they are potentially 1 to 2 hours drive away.

No, i don't think the area lacks SD's - indeed i am told by ladies i chat to that they get loads of messages, especially new ladies (eg 50-60+ in the first 48 hours or so). But the issue in non large town/city areas is discretion. Even in towns like Southampton and Bournemouth, many young ladies won't meet or go out in their town with a SD as the "go to" places / lively places are limited in number and the risk of being seen is significant. Go further west to rural Dorset, Devon, Somerset etc and the towns get smaller with the risk of being seen even greater. So SB's often do one of two things (and sometimes both) - either put their location as somewhere else or are open to travel for an hour or so.
I have two SB's on the go - one is from a small rural town and travels by train for just over an hour to see me. The other comes from one of the larger towns i mentioned above and we can't go out in that town!

So i wouldn't just dismiss a lady that says she will travel an hour or so to see you. Many will.

I saw earlier on a release that Brandon and his Wife (22 years old) are now back running the site and providing direction

wasn't it Brandon that initiated the move away from Seeking Arrangements to make it more like a normal dating site because "he found true love through it with his wife"!! So i am not so sure he will move it back to what it used to be!!!

 have just rejoined Seeking after a break of 7 or 8 months and it is noticeable much worse than it used to be from my perspective. Especially in new ladies joining - within 20 miles of me, there were only 7 ladies aged 18-35 with athletic/slim/average/curvy bodies who were still active within the last 2 weeks. So i think the problem area is lack of new ladies coming onto Seeking and staying on! How he tackles that issue will be interesting. I am still a big fan of Seeking but i think its best days are behind it!

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wasn't it Brandon that initiated the move away from Seeking Arrangements to make it more like a normal dating site because "he found true love through it with his wife"!! So i am not so sure he will move it back to what it used to be!!!

 have just rejoined Seeking after a break of 7 or 8 months and it is noticeable much worse than it used to be from my perspective. Especially in new ladies joining - within 20 miles of me, there were only 7 ladies aged 18-35 with athletic/slim/average/curvy bodies who were still active within the last 2 weeks. So i think the problem area is lack of new ladies coming onto Seeking and staying on! How he tackles that issue will be interesting. I am still a big fan of Seeking but i think its best days are behind it!

This was the email/reason given for leaving. Guess we have to wait & see, my big issue is also lack of new joiners and poor retention.

Dear Seeking Member,

I am back as CEO!

As some of you may know, I met my soulmate, Dana, on Seeking.com in late 2020 and we married in 2022. I retired after our wedding to focus on our love, handing Seeking.com to the care of a management team.  After spending over 18 months traveling the world with Dana, we are back with a deeper understanding of love and with a clearer vision for where Seeking.com needs to go.

Since I returned to lead Seeking.com earlier this year, I have been working on fixing issues with our service, on rebranding, and on a new direction for the business.  I am lucky to have my wife, a 23 year old Gen-Zer, who will be adding the feminine touch.  She is currently being mentored by me, and we will soon announce her appointment as co-CEO of Seeking.com.

There is so much we are excited for!  To give you guys a preview, here are some of what’s to come (as well as what’s already here):

Experience Hypergamy™:  First and foremost, Seeking.com is going through the second phase of our multi-year rebranding process.  It started two years ago with “Just Date Up”.  This year, we will be launching “Experience Hypergamy™” to highlight what sets Seeking.com apart from other Dating platforms.  We are the platform uniquely designed to help men and women in their pursuit of romantic relationships that not only complements but elevates their status – socially, economically and emotionally.

Back to the Basics:  Next, we are going back to the basics!  We are fixing our product by making it harder for scammers and spammers to join.  As you may have noticed, we recently introduced passwordless login in an effort to make your account safe from hackers.  We are also raising standards requiring members to upload more photos. We have also rolled out multiple ways for members to verify themselves through social media, background checks, ID verification as well as liveliness tests.  Over the rest of this year, we will be working hard on dramatically raising the standards of our community.

The Attention Economy:  The dating game, whether it is played by Humans or animals, is all about attracting the attention of the right romantic partner.  Expect to see further simplification of our platform, and the launch of new features designed to give you more effective ways of attracting the attention of those you want attention from.  A new gifting feature, as well as prompts, will give you more ways to flex and to stand out from the crowd.

New Discretion Features:  We understand that not everyone is ready for a long term relationship, and as such may be dating more casually.  For those of you requiring discretion, we will soon be rolling out features to make it easier for you to get verified by Seeking.com.  This will allow you to demonstrate your trustworthiness, while maintaining your anonymity.

The AskBrandonWade Podcast:  Moving forward, Dana and I will be more active on our social media channels – @removed and @removed on Instagram and TikTok.  Our goal is to give you greater access into how we run our business, and how we live our lives.  Along with social media, we will also be launching the “AskBrandonWade” podcast, a bi-weekly podcast where we will share advice and insights on how you can also achieve all that you desire in life, namely, money, sex, power, happiness and love!
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Offline paul_tall_


 have just rejoined Seeking after a break of 7 or 8 months and it is noticeable much worse than it used to be from my perspective. Especially in new ladies joining - within 20 miles of me, there were only 7 ladies aged 18-35 with athletic/slim/average/curvy bodies who were still active within the last 2 weeks. So i think the problem area is lack of new ladies coming onto Seeking and staying on! How he tackles that issue will be interesting. I am still a big fan of Seeking but i think its best days are behind it!
Similar stats really around me in Surrey 20km radius, 18 joined in last month all ages say half under 35, about 6 active in last week

Offline londonpunter1

londonpunter1 - There is an alternative different approach which seems to work for me but maybe because of what i do with SB's. I am not a "sex meet" guy - i like to do things with my SB's (social, sports, active, weekends away and even trips abroad etc etc - as well as having some great sex with them) so I don't talk money at all before meeting for a M&G - and i never suggest going to a hotel afterwards.

At the M&G and at the subsequent dinner (i usually do a M&G followed by a separate dinner date) i sell the overall concept of what i am about and the type of arrangement we will have. It becomes clear (i hope) that i am not just about the sex and the lady shouldn't be in it just for the money but for the experiences and memories we will create together.

Obviously it doesn't work for all ladies and it is getting harder to find "my type", both in looks and the type of arrangement but with both time and a lot of effort, it pays off for me  - being single and therefore able to host helps a lot.
So I took your advice, southcoast punter as I'm kind of looking for something similar to what you describe. I did a M&G, things went well and I'm happy to go ahead. I said I'd prefer ppm to start with. She is now asking me what amount I have in mind. Where do I start? I don't want to go in too high, but I don't want her laugh by going in too low. I was expecting her to quote a figure first! We didn't discuss money at the meet, I wish I'd asked the question first!

Offline Jumping Jack Flash

So I took your advice, southcoast punter as I'm kind of looking for something similar to what you describe. I did a M&G, things went well and I'm happy to go ahead. I said I'd prefer ppm to start with. She is now asking me what amount I have in mind. Where do I start? I don't want to go in too high, but I don't want her laugh by going in too low. I was expecting her to quote a figure first! We didn't discuss money at the meet, I wish I'd asked the question first!

Only you know your budget, it’s a negotiation. Start with a low-ish but sensible offer to test the water and if that’s rejected then increase it. You really do need to work out for yourself what your budget is and what you think she’s worth and how long you will spend together. You’re in control here.

Offline stampjones

So I took your advice, southcoast punter as I'm kind of looking for something similar to what you describe. I did a M&G, things went well and I'm happy to go ahead. I said I'd prefer ppm to start with. She is now asking me what amount I have in mind. Where do I start? I don't want to go in too high, but I don't want her laugh by going in too low. I was expecting her to quote a figure first! We didn't discuss money at the meet, I wish I'd asked the question first!
I had one like that. We really got on and I didnt want to fuck it up so I offered the max I was prepared to pay. Turned out I could probably have offered a bit less but it was worth it for me.

Offline Bikerboy

Liv,24, Milton Keynes-no show

Good Comms up to a few hours before the drinks meet.
Was a no show.
Seeking profile disappeared a few hours before the meet, has since re-appeared with different details.
Did she get cold feet or was it time wasting?
Anyway it may help someone on here to be wary or avoid.
Sorry I don’t know how to link the seeking user number, I’ve attached profile pic.

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Offline YorkshireLad

Seeing as there has been a change in management I’ve sent a grovelling email asking if I could have my banned account reinstated, let’s see what they say…

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I had one like that. We really got on and I didnt want to fuck it up so I offered the max I was prepared to pay. Turned out I could probably have offered a bit less but it was worth it for me.
I ended up reversing the question back to her, saying I was new to this and asking what were her expectations were. She came up with a figure I was happy with, and in all honesty, would have been ballpark what I would have offered if pushed,  so all is good.

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Liv,24, Milton Keynes-no show

Good Comms up to a few hours before the drinks meet.
Was a no show.
Seeking profile disappeared a few hours before the meet, has since re-appeared with different details.
Did she get cold feet or was it time wasting?
Anyway it may help someone on here to be wary or avoid.
Sorry I don’t know how to link the seeking user number, I’ve attached profile pic.

Hidden Image/Members Only
External Link/Members Only  :hi:

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Blonde and British then has The St George Cross  :rolleyes:

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Seeing as there has been a change in management I’ve sent a grovelling email asking if I could have my banned account reinstated, let’s see what they say…

I did manage to get back on with a very grovelling email last year after a couple of years in the sin bin. So it is possible. I was extremely paranoid for the first couple of weeks and if any girl so much as mentioned PPM, however tasty, I blocked them. Similarly blocked anyone who wouldn't go to WhatsApp to discuss details.

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I did manage to get back on with a very grovelling email last year after a couple of years in the sin bin. So it is possible. I was extremely paranoid for the first couple of weeks and if any girl so much as mentioned PPM, however tasty, I blocked them. Similarly blocked anyone who wouldn't go to WhatsApp to discuss details.

Same here, took me 4 months and watching a few videos to get my account back open.. so now very careful as to what I say.... get them on Whats app asap is my motto (not Telegram - as they never materialise into meets from Telegram!)

Offline paul_tall_

Following on from a post in the London seeking section re profiles with same text . The following two profiles have same text different sections seems to be taken from a linkedin profile for a fashion designer

External Link/Members Only Lucie - 38 - London
External Link/Members Only Petra - 37 - Saint Johns

"My passion for fashion design began when I was still in kindergarten. As a child, my world was a fascinating playground of imagination and creativity. I clearly remember when my obsession with fashion began to take root, setting the stage for my lifelong journey as a fashion designer. In the attic of my grandmother's house, I discovered a treasure trove of vintage garments, each one telling the story of an era. The musty smell of old fabrics and the soft touch of delicate lace transported me to a world of timeless elegance. As I explored the details of these garments, I felt a spark of inspiration burning within me.
Later, I continued my fashion journey at IED, one of the best fashion schools in the Czech Republic. I had the opportunity to learn from professionals and industry experts who generously shared their knowledge and experience. The lectures were not only academic programmes but also immersive experiences that fuelled my curiosity and ignited my imagination. The combination of theoretical insights and practical applications gave me a deeper understanding of the fashion world. Through my studies, I have developed a keen interest in handmade decorative items such as embroidery, beading and weaving. I am also passionate about dressmaking, machine sewing and everything related to the infinite world of fashion."

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Offline stampjones

I just signed up for a subscription. As usual I didnt upload any photos. Seeking’s fantastic new site design now tells me constantly that because of this my profile is incomplete and is unsearchable and I cant be seen by girls. Strange tgen that I still get a ton of unsolicited messages and likes. Makes you wonder how those girls are finding me 😂

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Decided to have another go after a successful run last year but things seem a lot different now. There's been no new profiles in 2-3 weeks in my area. The girls are a lot older too most in their 30/40's. Gone are the student days it would seem (I'm young myself so prefer 20's). It's so dry in my town I'm having to look an hour and half away in London and factor in a hotel cost in the capital just for access to fresher profiles.

I think I have managed to find one in my personally acceptable price range so hopefully she doesn't flake by next week.

Otherwise I've had one girl say she gets £800 upfront a month AND an additional £200 per meet and she said this one doesn't even sleep with her for that lol. Another wanted 1K for intimacy or £500 for platonic  :lol: Imagine having that much money and being that brain dead.

Because the scary thing is there probably is deluded rich lonely men out there paying this. For that kind of money they could be seeing multiple top class hookers per week. Mental.
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Decided to have another go after a successful run last year but things seem a lot different now. There's been no new profiles in 2-3 weeks in my area. The girls are a lot older too most in their 30/40's. Gone are the student days it would seem (I'm young myself so prefer 20's). It's so dry in my town I'm having to look an hour and half away in London and factor in a hotel cost in the capital just for access to fresher profiles.

I think I have managed to find one in my personally acceptable price range so hopefully she doesn't flake by next week.

Otherwise I've had one girl say she gets £800 upfront a month AND an additional £200 per meet and she said this one doesn't even sleep with her for that lol. Another wanted 1K for intimacy or £500 for platonic  :lol: Imagine having that much money and being that brain dead.

Because the scary thing is there probably is deluded rich lonely men out there paying this. For that kind of money they could be seeing multiple top class hookers per week. Mental.

It’s nearly 4 years since you posted a Review. You’ll soon lose your seat here.

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It’s nearly 4 years since you posted a Review. You’ll soon lose your seat here.

I've not met anyone besides a seeking arrangement. Didn't realise there was a quota I had to abide by.
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I've not met anyone besides a seeking arrangement. Didn't realise there was a quota I had to abide by.

Suggest you read the rules. Link at bottom of page.

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Anyway to get back if recently banned?

Can you copy me the groveling apology?

I got caught as i opened a new acc

Worked fine then three days later when i added an old profile photo it triggered and banned me

Banned for multiple accounts on seeking

They refunded but wouldnt reinstate
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Offline YorkshireLad

Anyway to get back if recently banned?

Can you copy me the groveling apology?

I got caught as i opened a new acc

Worked fine then three days later when i added an old profile photo it triggered and banned me

Banned for multiple accounts on seeking

They refunded but wouldnt reinstate

I said something like ‘I’ve matured & now looking for a serious relationship rather than just fun with multiple girls & could I be given another chance’ my account had been banned for years so not sure that would work if you had been recently banned.
Your other option is what I did before I got my account back…Use Revolut to buy the subscription & put a fake address in your account settings & don’t use any of your old photos.

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Suggest you read the rules. Link at bottom of page.

Your rules LITERALLY state “there is no formal quota”.

Anyway….. back on topic (which you took it off for no reason).
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Your rules LITERALLY state “there is no formal quota”.

Anyway….. back on topic (which you took it off for no reason).

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Rule 27 Lurking / Dormant Accounts
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I have contributed reviews though. And there is no quota so maybe update the rules if you want people to follow them? Granted you're a mod but says you have zero reviews yourself. I was only contributing to this thread, and not a dormant lurking account. When I next visit an escort I would leave a review. 
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I have contributed reviews though. And there is no quota so maybe update the rules if you want people to follow them? Granted you're a mod but says you have zero reviews yourself. I was only contributing to this thread, and not a dormant lurking account. When I next visit an escort I would leave a review.
Some people are just born stupid i guess  :dash:

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I posted a comment in London Agencies  - No price limits as this is a pricey option, and a forum member suggested sharing it, This was the sugarsociety originally but has been rebranded PPMdates and has a SB/SD meeting part (seeking style) of the site being added. I know its not live as yet. Host is quite open about plans for the site and he turns up with his SB.

TL;DR I appreciate this is only going to be of interested to those who aren’t limited by budget but for me its worked / working
So those with a limited budget may want to skip this post

Ive attended a couple of these now

Site: External Link/Members Only
Price: £1750 (yes I know but I’m not restrained by budget and its worked for me)
Location: Been to both Birmingham and London events
Happened within last few months

Events:

Meet 1:
Quick overview:

1st event was introduced to a Brummie, blonde, 25, toned body, a little bit of chav in her I would say but overall very nice personality and a sex drive like i've never experienced before.

Was introduced via Whatsapp a week before the event. We met as a small group 4 SDs / 4 SBs in a bar in the Mailbox, Bham. Had initial drinks and went on for Tapas where we stayed and chatted amongst us all. Age range of guys I would say was mid 30s to mid 50s. Girls mid 20s to one who was 38 (looked a tidy milf and quite fancied her too)

We then went on to Colmore row and continued a few drinks in bars around there and then all went back to the hotel bar. Had drinks and we all made our excuses and disappeared over the next hour to the rooms that had been booked for us.

My SB disappeared to the bathroom and returned in red lingerie. Started with OWO with no prompting whatsoever and then on to protected sex in several positions. Had a chat and went into round two. Im a one pop to 2 pop man at best usually but for the next few hours literally had the life sucked and fucked out of me. I thought we were done and I certainly was and then she tried to initiate yet another round but I was way more than finished. She then left so no overnight but we had already agreed that. Thank god for blue pills

Included in Cost:
Introduction a week before to an SB that I really enjoyed that build up with and the night with
Hotel room & breakfast included
Food included
Initial drinks included. After food I paid my own drinks and hers
SB got a fee and she didn’t tell me how much
I searched AW and no sign of her so have no doubt genuine and she said as such she’d had 3 SD’s before but nothing long term. Have seen once more 1:1 and keeps herself in good shape (size 8 to 10 IMO). Paid £400 that time to meet then of course my own costs so wasn’t a lot of difference I found overall in costs.

Meet 2:
Quick overview:


Met with a 22 year old nurse
I initially thought perhaps a little young for me but its so true women mature quicker than men and she was really good conversation.

Format same as above pretty much. Introduced a week before to build connection. She rocked up in a LBD, size 10 to 12 and petite. Thought to myself can’t believe ill be fucking that. Follows the same format of drinks, food (this time 3 courses in a very nice restaurant) onto bars and again like I say same sketch as we went to hotel bar and disappeared
Action - OWO, a couple of rounds of sex, a lot more kinky and liked to snowball and she sat on my face and encouraged me to tongue her ass which she loved.  Welcomed a facial with no holding back. She’s sent me a few nice sexy videos since and will repeat but quite enjoying the social aspect of this

Im going to do the group sex event next time but these are with escorts and not SBs so ill be able to post a review with links to escorts attending once ive done this.


Pros:
Saved me time trawling SB sites and endless WhatsApp chats to try and find a genuine SB
All parts of the night included in cost
Met other SD’s and chatted with other SBs which was something I really enjoyed


Cons:
Not a cheap option
Had to pay upfront (all of it)

For comparison, my SB dates of past have ended up costing me £1k to £1500 with SB fee, hotel, meal and drinks so this is on the higher end with the main benefit for me being the time saving part and its panned out well for me but YMMV

Offline jofrenchy69

I posted a comment in London Agencies  - No price limits as this is a pricey option, and a forum member suggested sharing it, This was the sugarsociety originally but has been rebranded PPMdates and has a SB/SD meeting part (seeking style) of the site being added. I know its not live as yet. Host is quite open about plans for the site and he turns up with his SB.

TL;DR I appreciate this is only going to be of interested to those who aren’t limited by budget but for me its worked / working
So those with a limited budget may want to skip this post

Ive attended a couple of these now



Site: External Link/Members Only
Price: £1750 (yes I know but I’m not restrained by budget and its worked for me)
Location: Been to both Birmingham and London events
Happened within last few months

Events:

Meet 1:
Quick overview:

1st event was introduced to a Brummie, blonde, 25, toned body, a little bit of chav in her I would say but overall very nice personality and a sex drive like i've never experienced before.

Was introduced via Whatsapp a week before the event. We met as a small group 4 SDs / 4 SBs in a bar in the Mailbox, Bham. Had initial drinks and went on for Tapas where we stayed and chatted amongst us all. Age range of guys I would say was mid 30s to mid 50s. Girls mid 20s to one who was 38 (looked a tidy milf and quite fancied her too)

We then went on to Colmore row and continued a few drinks in bars around there and then all went back to the hotel bar. Had drinks and we all made our excuses and disappeared over the next hour to the rooms that had been booked for us.

My SB disappeared to the bathroom and returned in red lingerie. Started with OWO with no prompting whatsoever and then on to protected sex in several positions. Had a chat and went into round two. Im a one pop to 2 pop man at best usually but for the next few hours literally had the life sucked and fucked out of me. I thought we were done and I certainly was and then she tried to initiate yet another round but I was way more than finished. She then left so no overnight but we had already agreed that. Thank god for blue pills

Included in Cost:
Introduction a week before to an SB that I really enjoyed that build up with and the night with
Hotel room & breakfast included
Food included
Initial drinks included. After food I paid my own drinks and hers
SB got a fee and she didn’t tell me how much
I searched AW and no sign of her so have no doubt genuine and she said as such she’d had 3 SD’s before but nothing long term. Have seen once more 1:1 and keeps herself in good shape (size 8 to 10 IMO). Paid £400 that time to meet then of course my own costs so wasn’t a lot of difference I found overall in costs.

Meet 2:
Quick overview:


Met with a 22 year old nurse
I initially thought perhaps a little young for me but its so true women mature quicker than men and she was really good conversation.

Format same as above pretty much. Introduced a week before to build connection. She rocked up in a LBD, size 10 to 12 and petite. Thought to myself can’t believe ill be fucking that. Follows the same format of drinks, food (this time 3 courses in a very nice restaurant) onto bars and again like I say same sketch as we went to hotel bar and disappeared
Action - OWO, a couple of rounds of sex, a lot more kinky and liked to snowball and she sat on my face and encouraged me to tongue her ass which she loved.  Welcomed a facial with no holding back. She’s sent me a few nice sexy videos since and will repeat but quite enjoying the social aspect of this

Im going to do the group sex event next time but these are with escorts and not SBs so ill be able to post a review with links to escorts attending once ive done this.


Pros:
Saved me time trawling SB sites and endless WhatsApp chats to try and find a genuine SB
All parts of the night included in cost
Met other SD’s and chatted with other SBs which was something I really enjoyed


Cons:
Not a cheap option
Had to pay upfront (all of it)

For comparison, my SB dates of past have ended up costing me £1k to £1500 with SB fee, hotel, meal and drinks so this is on the higher end with the main benefit for me being the time saving part and its panned out well for me but YMMV

Really interesting, thanks for sharing the website,  "the wolf of wallstreet" party sound good, I've sent an email to query if we can choose specific types of ladies
« Last Edit: July 07, 2024, 09:50:38 pm by jofrenchy69 »

Offline AffAlchemist

Really interesting, thanks for sharing the website,  "the wolf of wallstreet" party sound good, I've sent an email to query if we can choose specific types of ladies

You're welcome
I requested an escort who does pegging as tried it without success before and im thinking if im going to be fucking a few I may as well ask for something a bit different

I would also use the form on the parties page instead of email as I get quicker replies that way :drinks:

Offline paul_tall_

External Link/Members Only IamNancy - Mexico (?)
Received a message from this profile offering me "beautiful models in London"
Replied to see what they meant, they sent a list of photos of about 5/6 girls stating to choose and the rate was £1500 for 2 hours
No money upfront !


Online peter_bungee

I used seeking last year but never met anyone as had to go abroad.  But most hot london girls would start at £500 for 2-3 hour meet, but almost all willing to accept £120-200 for a first meet.  I’m sure 80% you can get for under £200. 

Online southcoastpunter

I used seeking last year but never met anyone as had to go abroad.  But most hot london girls would start at £500 for 2-3 hour meet, but almost all willing to accept £120-200 for a first meet.  I’m sure 80% you can get for under £200.

when you say "first meet" do you mean an intimate meet or a M&G? if you mean "intimate", i am not sure that the majority of London guys would agree with you - unless you are maybe in your 30's, good looking and drive a Porche!


Offline Punting2022

Talking to a girl on whatsapp. She doesnt want allowance. Just company. She has not seen my pic yet.
I get a message yesterday asking for 25 quid. She says if you cant send dw. Shes still interested in meeting.
Do you think this is one of those who will meet but have some dodgy backup thugs when at a hotel etc

Online peter_bungee

when you say "first meet" do you mean an intimate meet or a M&G? if you mean "intimate", i am not sure that the majority of London guys would agree with you - unless you are maybe in your 30's, good looking and drive a Porche!

Yes intimate.  I am 39 in good shape but i dont think thats only it, if there is some good chat/attraction you can get them for that price.  Id be curious if guys negotiate properly when she starts at £500.  I used to say, sorry im not just looking for p2p but a long term arrangement with 2/3x a month and a connection.

Online Natwest

Talking to a girl on whatsapp. She doesnt want allowance. Just company. She has not seen my pic yet.
I get a message yesterday asking for 25 quid. She says if you cant send dw. Shes still interested in meeting.
Do you think this is one of those who will meet but have some dodgy backup thugs when at a hotel etc

That I think is quite common. Certainly happened to me a few times and always with the 'dw' caveat. I have always seen it as a red flag and immediately blocked on Seeking and WhatsApp.

Offline paul_tall_

Talking to a girl on whatsapp. She doesnt want allowance. Just company. She has not seen my pic yet.
I get a message yesterday asking for 25 quid. She says if you cant send dw. Shes still interested in meeting.
Do you think this is one of those who will meet but have some dodgy backup thugs when at a hotel etc
She wont ever meet. She/they have asked for quite a low amount in the hope you will just send and the dw is to make you think she will be grateful if you do.
Have you yourself done any research into who she says she is ?

Offline bigden40

Talking to a girl on whatsapp. She doesnt want allowance. Just company. She has not seen my pic yet.
I get a message yesterday asking for 25 quid. She says if you cant send dw. Shes still interested in meeting.
Do you think this is one of those who will meet but have some dodgy backup thugs when at a hotel etc

You will be blocked the second you send the money

Offline PumpDump

Talking to a girl on whatsapp. She doesnt want allowance. Just company. She has not seen my pic yet.
I get a message yesterday asking for 25 quid. She says if you cant send dw. Shes still interested in meeting.
Do you think this is one of those who will meet but have some dodgy backup thugs when at a hotel etc
If you send you will never see her or your £25 again  :D

Offline Profgent81

Is the closed off seeking forum still a thing? I was on it a while back, but probably kicked off after not seeking for a while. But going to give it another go

Online SoapyTW

Is the closed off seeking forum still a thing? I was on it a while back, but probably kicked off after not seeking for a while. But going to give it another go

Assuming you mean the private thread on here, I believe it was stopped and all discussions moved over to this public one.

Offline Jumping Jack Flash

Is the closed off seeking forum still a thing? I was on it a while back, but probably kicked off after not seeking for a while. But going to give it another go

It was locked a while ago and most of the shared intel is on this thread and in the regional Seeking threads.

Offline aspe21

Thanks to all for sharing this info, I think I've been overpaying on seeking based on what I've read.

Like others here, I try to use it more for casual dating and to include social activities rather than just sex in isolation


What's the general mood when it comes to overnighters?

Online southcoastpunter

Thanks to all for sharing this info, I think I've been overpaying on seeking based on what I've read.

Like others here, I try to use it more for casual dating and to include social activities rather than just sex in isolation


What's the general mood when it comes to overnighters?

to get an idea of the general rate for your region, i suggest you look in the Seeking thread in your regional discussion (most regions have a Seeking thread) as "prices" can vary significantly from region to region - and of course from person to person (a good looking guy in say his late 30's / early 40's may get much better offers than a guy in his late 50's or 60's).

Sorry, not sure what you mean by "whats the mood when it comes to overnighters" ?

Offline Punting2022

Any cheap girls. Looking for a 200 per meet. Doesnt have to be very attractive. Gnd and slim ideally

Offline thundercrackerxx

I just signed up for a subscription. As usual I didnt upload any photos. Seeking’s fantastic new site design now tells me constantly that because of this my profile is incomplete and is unsearchable and I cant be seen by girls. Strange tgen that I still get a ton of unsolicited messages and likes. Makes you wonder how those girls are finding me 😂

I had the same thing. Made me wonder if the profiles viewing and messaging me were even real or just bot accounts to keep me interested in using the site.